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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Spanking...

On a meet, when should spanking happen?

When kissing and she's crawled over you on the sofa?

Foreplay when going down on them from behind (my favourite I know you wondered )

During doggy?

Or all?

And special question - how HARD should a spank be for you?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

If it's not been discussed beforehand not at all anytime.

If it has then whenever it feels right I guess.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as he gets through the door. Spin him round, bend him over and smack his arse

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"If it's not been discussed beforehand not at all anytime.

If it has then whenever it feels right I guess.

Mrs "

Curious as to your thoughts on like a super light spank or slap (no marks or pain) without previous discussion on it Mrs Knight?

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"As soon as he gets through the door. Spin him round, bend him over and smack his arse "

Good luck catching me I'm already in the pool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As soon as he gets through the door. Spin him round, bend him over and smack his arse

Good luck catching me I'm already in the pool "

Slippery when wet

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Never

I find it quite naff

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"As soon as he gets through the door. Spin him round, bend him over and smack his arse "

OK

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Spanking...

On a meet, when should spanking happen?

When kissing and she's crawled over you on the sofa?

Foreplay when going down on them from behind (my favourite I know you wondered )

During doggy?

Or all?

And special question - how HARD should a spank be for you?"

Only ever with permission... boundaries such as how hard should be discussed beforehand...so to speak

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I like being spanked.

I’d love to get spanked some time to get slightly bruised but I am scared of pain and my sweet fwbs are scared of hurting me bless

But yeah, I’d like that someday.

I like being spanked while I am riding as ut is well documented in my gallery.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

After she's said it's ok, unless you want to risk being slapped yourself

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"If it's not been discussed beforehand not at all anytime.

If it has then whenever it feels right I guess.

Mrs

Curious as to your thoughts on like a super light spank or slap (no marks or pain) without previous discussion on it Mrs Knight?"

It would result in a not so nice response from me, some people have triggers and without discussion 1st I'd probably retaliate.

Mrs

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Spanking should/can only be done with prior consent and discussion obviously.

But when you do, do it properly, none of this limp wristed shit is acceptable

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Must I've found this thread very amusing funny enough as much as I find a red bottom appealing

I'd rather acheave it through other means than the hand .but certainly love carrressing the bottom after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With consent, any damn time!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Spanking should/can only be done with prior consent and discussion obviously.

But when you do, do it properly, none of this limp wristed shit is acceptable "

Swing from the elbow at least

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World


"Spanking should/can only be done with prior consent and discussion obviously.

But when you do, do it properly, none of this limp wristed shit is acceptable

Swing from the elbow at least "

He knows!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never on a first meet in fact all first times and stuff should be vinnila sex for safty

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington

Always with prior consent. Don't just decide to do it.

As for how hard...again...some prior discussion. Always better to start light and build up so you can learn the levels and judge body language.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"If it's not been discussed beforehand not at all anytime.

If it has then whenever it feels right I guess.

Mrs "

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Love a good spanking! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it especially during deep kissing. When you're all over him and he's grabbing your squishy ass and can't help himself and has to a firm hard smack.

I like it too during doggy, laying on my front etc but nothing like it during a rampant snog sesh.

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I love it especially during deep kissing. When you're all over him and he's grabbing your squishy ass and can't help himself and has to a firm hard smack.

I like it too during doggy, laying on my front etc but nothing like it during a rampant snog sesh. "

I think we match

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never on a first meet in fact all first times and stuff should be vinnila sex for safty

"

I think first meets are more about exploring what each other and how each responds to various things and can be a bit naff in the process at times.

Considering a lot of women post on here saying they may not achieve the big O on a first time I think the focus should be on being relaxed with each other.

Spanking is something to be added in after the initial learning each other first meet in my opinion. So I agree with you.

Always a conversation and consent first

And how hard to do it? Did you really ask that question Bruce?....I think the answer when you get to that stage is pretty obvious. People's pain thresholds differ for a start so you need to find theirs. And the pain threshold changes with a woman's cycle too so you need that communication too. Plus other factors.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Spanking should/can only be done with prior consent and discussion obviously.

But when you do, do it properly, none of this limp wristed shit is acceptable

Swing from the elbow at least "

Or just use a paddle to save getting a sore hand lol

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I love it especially during deep kissing. When you're all over him and he's grabbing your squishy ass and can't help himself and has to a firm hard smack.

I like it too during doggy, laying on my front etc but nothing like it during a rampant snog sesh. "

OMG Lemon, get in my bed already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spanking...

On a meet, when should spanking happen?

When kissing and she's crawled over you on the sofa?

Foreplay when going down on them from behind (my favourite I know you wondered )

During doggy?

Or all?

And special question - how HARD should a spank be for you?"

I'm not 'advocating' this; but the best spank I ever had (and which made me spunk all over the guys's knee) was one in which he did it against my wishes and wouldn't stop when I asked him too. That dom knew more about me than I did.

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Never on a first meet in fact all first times and stuff should be vinnila sex for safty

I think first meets are more about exploring what each other and how each responds to various things and can be a bit naff in the process at times.

Considering a lot of women post on here saying they may not achieve the big O on a first time I think the focus should be on being relaxed with each other.

Spanking is something to be added in after the initial learning each other first meet in my opinion. So I agree with you.

Always a conversation and consent first

And how hard to do it? Did you really ask that question Bruce?....I think the answer when you get to that stage is pretty obvious. People's pain thresholds differ for a start so you need to find theirs. And the pain threshold changes with a woman's cycle too so you need that communication too. Plus other factors.

"

Everyone's different PW, it's a forum to discuss our interests not to learn for myself - I know what I like and how good I am

Wait wheres that fingernail emoji...

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"If it's not been discussed beforehand not at all anytime.

If it has then whenever it feels right I guess.

Mrs "

Exactly this!

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Definitely not in the queue for McDonald’s (if that’s where you're meeting for a social)!

Someone once gave me a thwack on the way upstairs

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Definitely not in the queue for McDonald’s (if that’s where you're meeting for a social)!

Someone once gave me a thwack on the way upstairs "

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Definitely not in the queue for McDonald’s (if that’s where you're meeting for a social)!

Someone once gave me a thwack on the way upstairs "

What about Burger King?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Definitely not in the queue for McDonald’s (if that’s where you're meeting for a social)!

Someone once gave me a thwack on the way upstairs

What about Burger King? "

That's fingering only

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Definitely not in the queue for McDonald’s (if that’s where you're meeting for a social)!

Someone once gave me a thwack on the way upstairs "

Bloody hell, think I'd have pushed them down the stairs!

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By *isterPepperMan
over a year ago

Central Swindon

Always remember to spank the monkey first

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"Definitely not in the queue for McDonald’s (if that’s where you're meeting for a social)!

Someone once gave me a thwack on the way upstairs

What about Burger King? "

Make it a Wimpy!!

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"Definitely not in the queue for McDonald’s (if that’s where you're meeting for a social)!

Someone once gave me a thwack on the way upstairs

What about Burger King?

That's fingering only "

Half a job

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Definitely not in the queue for McDonald’s (if that’s where you're meeting for a social)!

Someone once gave me a thwack on the way upstairs

What about Burger King?

That's fingering only

Half a job "

You haven't had my fingering

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Definitely not in the queue for McDonald’s (if that’s where you're meeting for a social)!

Someone once gave me a thwack on the way upstairs "

Yes the dream team are back!

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"Definitely not in the queue for McDonald’s (if that’s where you're meeting for a social)!

Someone once gave me a thwack on the way upstairs

Bloody hell, think I'd have pushed them down the stairs!"

For clarity, I wasn’t thwacked on the staircase in McDonald’s it was during a meet !! I’m well out of practice with this forum stuff !!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Definitely not in the queue for McDonald’s (if that’s where you're meeting for a social)!

Someone once gave me a thwack on the way upstairs

Bloody hell, think I'd have pushed them down the stairs!

For clarity, I wasn’t thwacked on the staircase in McDonald’s it was during a meet !! I’m well out of practice with this forum stuff !!"

Well thank you for the delayed clarification

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"Definitely not in the queue for McDonald’s (if that’s where you're meeting for a social)!

Someone once gave me a thwack on the way upstairs

What about Burger King?

That's fingering only

Half a job

You haven't had my fingering "

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Definitely not in the queue for McDonald’s (if that’s where you're meeting for a social)!

Someone once gave me a thwack on the way upstairs

Bloody hell, think I'd have pushed them down the stairs!

For clarity, I wasn’t thwacked on the staircase in McDonald’s it was during a meet !! I’m well out of practice with this forum stuff !!"

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Definitely not in the queue for McDonald’s (if that’s where you're meeting for a social)!

Someone once gave me a thwack on the way upstairs

Bloody hell, think I'd have pushed them down the stairs!

For clarity, I wasn’t thwacked on the staircase in McDonald’s it was during a meet !! I’m well out of practice with this forum stuff !!"

McDonald's on a meet?

I don't know where people get their self respect from sometimes! My first meets always in an underpass to a derelict shopping centre which people use to piss in

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"Definitely not in the queue for McDonald’s (if that’s where you're meeting for a social)!

Someone once gave me a thwack on the way upstairs

Yes the dream team are back!"

it’s been a long time!!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think I’ve only spanked (& fisted) on a first meet once and it was meant to be a social.

Generally it would be 2-3 meets in and normally I would ask first , unless she’s little and really naughty looking , then I might just give her a playful little spark and see what her face does, while being ready to block

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"Definitely not in the queue for McDonald’s (if that’s where you're meeting for a social)!

Someone once gave me a thwack on the way upstairs

Bloody hell, think I'd have pushed them down the stairs!

For clarity, I wasn’t thwacked on the staircase in McDonald’s it was during a meet !! I’m well out of practice with this forum stuff !!

McDonald's on a meet?

I don't know where people get their self respect from sometimes! My first meets always in an underpass to a derelict shopping centre which people use to piss in"

Now that’s romantic!! Nice if there’s a busker to serenade too!

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Definitely not in the queue for McDonald’s (if that’s where you're meeting for a social)!

Someone once gave me a thwack on the way upstairs

Bloody hell, think I'd have pushed them down the stairs!

For clarity, I wasn’t thwacked on the staircase in McDonald’s it was during a meet !! I’m well out of practice with this forum stuff !!

McDonald's on a meet?

I don't know where people get their self respect from sometimes! My first meets always in an underpass to a derelict shopping centre which people use to piss in

Now that’s romantic!! Nice if there’s a busker to serenade too! "

The buskers don't go down there...not even the homeless ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spanking should/can only be done with prior consent and discussion obviously.

But when you do, do it properly, none of this limp wristed shit is acceptable "

Yeah I agree as I've had a meet before and she didn't want to leave with a mark on her as much as she wanted to.

But yeah if it's been agreed and I know she likes to be spanked properly, bruised hand prints usually follow.

I find it best when you are edging her, just when she is going to cum, pull out followed by pushing her head down into the pillow and with the other hand dispense a few good, hard spanks, before going back to properly grabbing them arse cheeks and going back to taking her from behind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anytime it feels appropriate after it’s been discussed prior.

I think it’s better to start off light and gauge how they react to it rather than going all in right away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never on a first meet in fact all first times and stuff should be vinnila sex for safty

I think first meets are more about exploring what each other and how each responds to various things and can be a bit naff in the process at times.

Considering a lot of women post on here saying they may not achieve the big O on a first time I think the focus should be on being relaxed with each other.

Spanking is something to be added in after the initial learning each other first meet in my opinion. So I agree with you.

Always a conversation and consent first

And how hard to do it? Did you really ask that question Bruce?....I think the answer when you get to that stage is pretty obvious. People's pain thresholds differ for a start so you need to find theirs. And the pain threshold changes with a woman's cycle too so you need that communication too. Plus other factors.

"

Couldn’t have sed it better definitely put in to what I was saying in context

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Anytime it feels appropriate after it’s been discussed prior.

I think it’s better to start off light and gauge how they react to it rather than going all in right away. "

That's it, I have definitely done it SUPER lightly before without asking, I'm talking like when you slap your thigh to get up off the sofa levels though

If they then say spank me or harder, well then I obey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dream of the day I can spank you and DF whilst you're in collars and crawling infront of me like little pussys you both are

Oh wait.. Uhm, ahem.. It needs to be spoken about beforehand really.

F

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I dream of the day I can spank you and DF whilst you're in collars and crawling infront of me like little pussys you both are

Oh wait.. Uhm, ahem.. It needs to be spoken about beforehand really.

F"

If that happened and we broke free you would get absolutely ruined...

With consent obviously

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"If it's not been discussed beforehand not at all anytime.

If it has then whenever it feels right I guess.

Mrs

Curious as to your thoughts on like a super light spank or slap (no marks or pain) without previous discussion on it Mrs Knight?"

If not discussed/agreed prior and someone spanked me, I might punch them back. It's a hard no. I enjoy being spanked but only in the right context and with someone I trust. No prior agreement, no spanking. Not even a "super light" one. Maybe review the idea of consent because this is the second thread of yours I've read where you seem a bit hazy on it. No pussy grabbing, no spanking, unless that what has been discussed and consented to prior.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"I dream of the day I can spank you and DF whilst you're in collars and crawling infront of me like little pussys you both are

Oh wait.. Uhm, ahem.. It needs to be spoken about beforehand really.

F

If that happened and we broke free you would get absolutely ruined...

With consent obviously "

DF is too lazy to bother ruining anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dream of the day I can spank you and DF whilst you're in collars and crawling infront of me like little pussys you both are

Oh wait.. Uhm, ahem.. It needs to be spoken about beforehand really.

F

If that happened and we broke free you would get absolutely ruined...

With consent obviously "

Is that a promise?

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Spanking...

On a meet, when should spanking happen?

"

9pm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just grab any opportunity. LITERALLY. Grab it. and proceed. Works for Miles

T

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I dream of the day I can spank you and DF whilst you're in collars and crawling infront of me like little pussys you both are

Oh wait.. Uhm, ahem.. It needs to be spoken about beforehand really.

F

If that happened and we broke free you would get absolutely ruined...

With consent obviously

Is that a promise?

F"

Apparently DFs lazy so you may have to get a new guy but yes, from me, yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bruise like a peach so really anything more than something playful in the moment is a no from me

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