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By *abyblues2023 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Everywhere and Nowhere baby thats where im at

I've been told by the look in my eyes I'm sub and by the vibes I give off over messages

Can you really tell just by looking

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Maybe they're just picking it up from your profile

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I remember once hearing someone describe me as the girl with the "Come and abuse me" eyes.

Some people will infer the obvious. Some people will infer the things further below the surface. And some people will infer whatever little fantasy suits their current wants.

Don't take it to heart

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By *abyblues2023 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Everywhere and Nowhere baby thats where im at

I never thought of that one

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I've been told by the look in my eyes I'm sub and by the vibes I give off over messages

Can you really tell just by looking "

To me they look like - get ya kit off eyes.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Could have done with a sub today...it rained a lot.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't know. I think people just try it on tbh.

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By *ilthyParamedicMan
over a year ago

Lancaster

Think it's more about body language too. I have a thing for nice eyes and can see the very subtle changes in them when something excites them.

So, when I see them react positively to comments that start to probe a little, it's easy to go "I'm getting the sense you're a sub at heart etc."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know. I think people just try it on tbh."

Men try it on? Get away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people give off a certain vibe but just looking at their eyes, no I don’t think so.

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By *abyblues2023 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Everywhere and Nowhere baby thats where im at


"I don't know. I think people just try it on tbh."

That's what I'm thinking

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

People who have had socials with me have told that it's hard to say I am a sub from social interactions. From my experience, usually men/women in position if power tend to be submissive behind the scenes. Not everyone of course. But I have definitely seen some correlation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By looking in the eyes? I don’t know about that but it’s possible from the “vibes” in your messages or even Forum posting.

Miles

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

A majority of the time able to suss out by their eyes, but a swob helps just to clarify

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Cold reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends if people give off that vibe but if they don’t then you wouldn’t know

For instance normal me and natalie are two very different people

Ie if someone meet normal me and didn’t know off natalie they would never pick up the vibe off natalie

So no you can never tell just by a look or what ever

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

No. I got told my pictures looked submissive. I could potentially understand it if I was bound and looking up at the camera on my knees but there's nothing like that on my profile. I think people just try their luck.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"No. I got told my pictures looked submissive. I could potentially understand it if I was bound and looking up at the camera on my knees but there's nothing like that on my profile. I think people just try their luck. "

I got told my pics gave off ‘dom vibes’. And that’s not really me at all, so I took down the ones of me holding a leather belt …

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