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By *lue dolphin OP   Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

55 years old appears to be the max age for most womens wants on this site. Which is a shame as I'm 56 and can perform as good as 21 year old. What's your thoughts on this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some say they want older, but they haven’t found me yet……

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Lots of women and couples will still meet men over 55 op ,you just need to find and concentrate on them.

If you do the advanced search ,you can tick I match the age they're looking for too .

We all have our preferences,even you I imagine.

Miss

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Lower your age like most others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, I don't think most women on here are looking for 21 year olds either. And it is what it is, you can't change people's preferences because it would suit you. A lot of women have their minimum age set to 30+ but you don't see me saying "But I'm way more mature that those 40 year olds". It doesn't make a difference.

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

I don't want someone who performs like 21 year old. If I wanted someone to perform I going to the theatre.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"55 years old appears to be the max age for most womens wants on this site. Which is a shame as I'm 56 and can perform as good as 21 year old. What's your thoughts on this."

Yeah news flash... Time waits for no man, its a nice thought that at 55 you can be as physical as you can at 21...but you can't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think you being 56 is the issue.

With no veris, photos or info women can't judge whether they'd like to adjust their age limits up.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Nope..wife likes older men. Over 70 is best for her.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

My thoughts are that people have their own preferences and are perfectly entitled to draw the lines where they like, regardless of what you think about what they should prefer

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By *UFSWoman
over a year ago

belfast


" What's your thoughts on this."

I think if you concentrate your efforts more on those looking your age and less on those that dont,you will enjoy your time here more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also I'd say that women might doubt that you can perform like a 21yo. Age has impact on sexual stamina and "reload" time. We are all aware of this.

An older man has lots to offer sexually but not in the same vein as a 21yo.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

My age limit is low but it’s not the 21 year old’s performance I’m looking for. What I’m also not looking for though is trying to convince someone they should give me a chance despite me being outside of their age range. I respect their preferences and so should everyone else.

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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago

Central France dept 36


"55 years old appears to be the max age for most womens wants on this site. Which is a shame as I'm 56 and can perform as good as 21 year old. What's your thoughts on this."

Not true at all but never mind eh!!!!

T

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Older men are my kryptonite. I don’t reflect that on my “looking for” as I’m not actively looking to meet currently and it keeps messages down, but yeah. I like me a man with weathered wrinkles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair, I don't think most women on here are looking for 21 year olds either. And it is what it is, you can't change people's preferences because it would suit you. A lot of women have their minimum age set to 30+ but you don't see me saying "But I'm way more mature that those 40 year olds". It doesn't make a difference."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my age preferences higher initially. I'm early 50's so someone a little older is no big deal. But I'm afraid because of the amount of men who lie, and pretend to be younger, I've had to adjust my limits on fab accordingly. I assume other fems are also doingthe same!

Sorry OP but I'm afraid you have that hurdle to also deal with on here!

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"55 years old appears to be the max age for most womens wants on this site. Which is a shame as I'm 56 and can perform as good as 21 year old. What's your thoughts on this."

55 years Fab old is very often 65 in real life, and that’s not men only. I’ve seen it all! Gotta be realistic.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"55 years old appears to be the max age for most womens wants on this site. Which is a shame as I'm 56 and can perform as good as 21 year old. What's your thoughts on this.

55 years Fab old is very often 65 in real life, and that’s not men only. I’ve seen it all! Gotta be realistic.

"

Fab years can be like dog years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you want to perform like a 21yr old?

I know this is only my experience so I know.....not all men but, I'm just not attracted to men in my own age group because the most of them have gone 'beige'...let themselves go, have archaic attitudes towards women, forgotten how to have a laugh and again, it's my experience only, the majority of disrespectful/abusive messages I get here are from over 50's. I dont know why this is.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Mines to 65

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"55 years old appears to be the max age for most womens wants on this site. Which is a shame as I'm 56 and can perform as good as 21 year old. What's your thoughts on this.

55 years Fab old is very often 65 in real life, and that’s not men only. I’ve seen it all! Gotta be realistic.

"

Dee said it better!

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Last couple I met (2 months ago) where in their early to mid forties... I'm 62 this year so OP whilst there aren't many on here looking for older guys like me they are out there, be patient and keep looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you want to perform like a 21yr old?

I know this is only my experience so I know.....not all men but, I'm just not attracted to men in my own age group because the most of them have gone 'beige'...let themselves go, have archaic attitudes towards women, forgotten how to have a laugh and again, it's my experience only, the majority of disrespectful/abusive messages I get here are from over 50's. I dont know why this is."

We’re not all that bad x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet the people that want to meet you and don’t worry about the rest of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thoughts are that's your opinion, meet those that want to meet older guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you want to perform like a 21yr old?

I know this is only my experience so I know.....not all men but, I'm just not attracted to men in my own age group because the most of them have gone 'beige'...let themselves go, have archaic attitudes towards women, forgotten how to have a laugh and again, it's my experience only, the majority of disrespectful/abusive messages I get here are from over 50's. I dont know why this is.

We’re not all that bad x"

Now then...I did say it was my experience. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer guys around my age

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Why would you want to perform like a 21yr old?

I know this is only my experience so I know.....not all men but, I'm just not attracted to men in my own age group because the most of them have gone 'beige'...let themselves go, have archaic attitudes towards women, forgotten how to have a laugh and again, it's my experience only, the majority of disrespectful/abusive messages I get here are from over 50's. I dont know why this is."

We know more swear words?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Nah, 50 is the cut off point. Personally I wouldn't go any older than me these days. My preference is much younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you want to perform like a 21yr old?

I know this is only my experience so I know.....not all men but, I'm just not attracted to men in my own age group because the most of them have gone 'beige'...let themselves go, have archaic attitudes towards women, forgotten how to have a laugh and again, it's my experience only, the majority of disrespectful/abusive messages I get here are from over 50's. I dont know why this is.

We know more swear words? "

Lol maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I would prefer guys my own age and a bit older

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By *udosMan
over a year ago

hull

First time I've been too young for someone! Lol....thanks makes me feel a little better ??

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

wait till you get 63

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"55 years old appears to be the max age for most womens wants on this site. Which is a shame as I'm 56 and can perform as good as 21 year old. What's your thoughts on this.

Yeah news flash... Time waits for no man, its a nice thought that at 55 you can be as physical as you can at 21...but you can't. "

Perhaps not in terms of how long you stay hard or how quick you repeat or how much cum you produce but potentially you are far far more fun sexually at 55 than 21 as you know what you are doing, have years of experience and technique, know which buttons to press physically and emotionally, perhaps have experience of kind aspects etc.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"55 years old appears to be the max age for most womens wants on this site. Which is a shame as I'm 56 and can perform as good as 21 year old. What's your thoughts on this.

Yeah news flash... Time waits for no man, its a nice thought that at 55 you can be as physical as you can at 21...but you can't.

Perhaps not in terms of how long you stay hard or how quick you repeat or how much cum you produce but potentially you are far far more fun sexually at 55 than 21 as you know what you are doing, have years of experience and technique, know which buttons to press physically and emotionally, perhaps have experience of kind aspects etc. "

PS at 21 I was still a virgin and first time still makes me cringe. I'm a bit better now

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By *hristov9999Man
over a year ago

liverpool south

At 60 i am better now than at 21- i can still give ladies the best two and a half minutes of their life inc fourplay!!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"55 years old appears to be the max age for most womens wants on this site. Which is a shame as I'm 56 and can perform as good as 21 year old. What's your thoughts on this."
You don't get the chances if you don't have a great profile and pics I'm afraid, stop worrying about what you can't have and concentrate on what you can have

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"I don't think you being 56 is the issue.

With no veris, photos or info women can't judge whether they'd like to adjust their age limits up. "

This!

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Self awareness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a feeling it may not be your age that's the issue here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"55 years old appears to be the max age for most womens wants on this site. Which is a shame as I'm 56 and can perform as good as 21 year old. What's your thoughts on this.

Yeah news flash... Time waits for no man, its a nice thought that at 55 you can be as physical as you can at 21...but you can't.

Perhaps not in terms of how long you stay hard or how quick you repeat or how much cum you produce but potentially you are far far more fun sexually at 55 than 21 as you know what you are doing, have years of experience and technique, know which buttons to press physically and emotionally, perhaps have experience of kind aspects etc. "

Loads of 55 year old men have little sexual experience or technique.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"55 years old appears to be the max age for most womens wants on this site. Which is a shame as I'm 56 and can perform as good as 21 year old. What's your thoughts on this."

Respect that they do not want to have sex with you.

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough / Kettering

When I hit 50 the number of messages I received dropped dramatically. Unfortunately it's life

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"55 years old appears to be the max age for most womens wants on this site. Which is a shame as I'm 56 and can perform as good as 21 year old. What's your thoughts on this.

Yeah news flash... Time waits for no man, its a nice thought that at 55 you can be as physical as you can at 21...but you can't.

Perhaps not in terms of how long you stay hard or how quick you repeat or how much cum you produce but potentially you are far far more fun sexually at 55 than 21 as you know what you are doing, have years of experience and technique, know which buttons to press physically and emotionally, perhaps have experience of kind aspects etc.

Loads of 55 year old men have little sexual experience or technique. "

On the job training is needed

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough / Kettering


"When I hit 50 the number of messages I received dropped dramatically. Unfortunately it's life "

Mind you, I've had more sex in the last 2 years than the previous 30 years

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By *uckMan
over a year ago

Scunthorpe DN15


"I don't want someone who performs like 21 year old. If I wanted someone to perform I going to the theatre."

Beautifully put...

An orchestra in the pits. The stage set with a scenic back-drop. Anticipation waiting the wings. With a buzz and murmur in the front circle.

Let the show begin!

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"I don't want someone who performs like 21 year old. If I wanted someone to perform I going to the theatre.

Beautifully put...

An orchestra in the pits. The stage set with a scenic back-drop. Anticipation waiting the wings. With a buzz and murmur in the front circle.

Let the show begin! "

All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"55 years old appears to be the max age for most womens wants on this site. Which is a shame as I'm 56 and can perform as good as 21 year old. What's your thoughts on this.

Yeah news flash... Time waits for no man, its a nice thought that at 55 you can be as physical as you can at 21...but you can't.

Perhaps not in terms of how long you stay hard or how quick you repeat or how much cum you produce but potentially you are far far more fun sexually at 55 than 21 as you know what you are doing, have years of experience and technique, know which buttons to press physically and emotionally, perhaps have experience of kind aspects etc.

Loads of 55 year old men have little sexual experience or technique.

On the job training is needed"

Not from me

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"55 years old appears to be the max age for most womens wants on this site. Which is a shame as I'm 56 and can perform as good as 21 year old. What's your thoughts on this.

Yeah news flash... Time waits for no man, its a nice thought that at 55 you can be as physical as you can at 21...but you can't. "

I disagree I’m early fifties and far fitter and stronger than 21. At 50 I was benching 115kg and running 5km in 21:13

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"55 years old appears to be the max age for most womens wants on this site. Which is a shame as I'm 56 and can perform as good as 21 year old. What's your thoughts on this.

Yeah news flash... Time waits for no man, its a nice thought that at 55 you can be as physical as you can at 21...but you can't.

Perhaps not in terms of how long you stay hard or how quick you repeat or how much cum you produce but potentially you are far far more fun sexually at 55 than 21 as you know what you are doing, have years of experience and technique, know which buttons to press physically and emotionally, perhaps have experience of kind aspects etc.

Loads of 55 year old men have little sexual experience or technique.

On the job training is needed

Not from me "

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

My thoughts are that not wanting men over 50 doesn't mean I'm having sex with 21 Yr old virgins.

In saying that, one of my nicest sexual experiences was with a 20 year old.

No finger-banging, no trying to perform, just enjoying my body.

It was a memorable evening that I've never had with an over 50s man. I'm not saying it couldn't happen, of course.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

It's also the mind set for me.

Older people tend to be world-weary, and those who aren't don't want an old woman like me

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

As our ages have gone up , things have slowed down

But weve become more discerning in our meets , so in reality we haven't seen much of a change

We tend to meet people a bit younger than us , in the forlorn hope that they can keep up with us !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"55 years old appears to be the max age for most womens wants on this site. Which is a shame as I'm 56 and can perform as good as 21 year old. What's your thoughts on this."

Well that means there is little point in us being here then.. best nip down the coffee and cake afternoon with renditions of Roll out the barrel.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"55 years old appears to be the max age for most womens wants on this site. Which is a shame as I'm 56 and can perform as good as 21 year old. What's your thoughts on this.

Well that means there is little point in us being here then.. best nip down the coffee and cake afternoon with renditions of Roll out the barrel.

"

Ooh....check the pictures

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By *uietguy689Man
over a year ago

Abingdon

Everyone has their own preferences which I totaly get, be that age or certain physical traits. As a 54 year old with his true age listed, this thread is rather a depressing read knowing people lower their limits to mitigate agaist all the liars though. Hardly discourages the liars who are making it worse for the honest folks

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Our age is our age

No changing birthdays

No filters on any pics

You take us as we are and try to keep up !

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