FabSwingers.com forum: What is girl next door anyway?!

By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

When people talk about they're a 'girl next door' type - what does that mean?

Bonus Q (as I always ask) - what do you prefer, innocent looking people, cute...or the ones who look like TROUBLE, heavy make up etc...

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I think it means... not lots of make up. Kind of cutesy. Approachable, the sort of girl you'd see out and about but doesn't "scream" sex. It's hard to explain.

I get told I have that vibe. I don't quite see it as a compliment though.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Is it Taylor Swift in You Belong With Me video?

I may need a few moments alone

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

"When people talk about they're a 'girl next door' type - what does that mean?

Bonus Q (as I always ask) - what do you prefer, innocent looking people, cute...or the ones who look like TROUBLE, heavy make up etc...

I think it says plain ordinary inconspicuous. Actually when you say it like that it doesn’t sound so good.

I think in terms of personality it may be reference to them not being premadonna drama lamas but down to earth ‘normal’ (fill in your own definition of this) everyday person who isn’t up their own arse.

In terms of preference, some women go well with the war paint look, others not so, it’s a case by case appraisal.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think it means the type you could introduce to your mum, knows how to cook, will remain faithful but won't mind you fucking around and wants sex all the time. Oh, and lives next door

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Cute, sweet, innocent, those sort of things I think. Someone you could introduce to an uptight middle class mother.

For me, the people I'm drawn to vary wildly. Sometimes it's a tiny angry dykey look. Sometimes it's another 6 ft gothic amazon. Sometimes it's just something so irrelevant to their looks that I don't even register the aesthetic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those effortlessly beautiful people that don’t need a lot of makeup, really nice and approachable, probably likes cats, wears pretty dresses and her farts smell like roses

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Girl next door = Inconspicuous. Studious. Well turned out. Well mannered. Does everything right. You'd never in a million years think she thought of sex. Sort of the traditional image of a housewifey type. Old fashioned , undemanding etc etc

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Come to think of it ...... just like me.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"When people talk about they're a 'girl next door' type - what does that mean?

Bonus Q (as I always ask) - what do you prefer, innocent looking people, cute...or the ones who look like TROUBLE, heavy make up etc...

Where we live, it means someone who is a pensioner.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I have been called this

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Girl next door = Inconspicuous. Studious. Well turned out. Well mannered. Does everything right. You'd never in a million years think she thought of sex. Sort of the traditional image of a housewifey type. Old fashioned , undemanding etc etc "

That's me!

Not when I'm posting on here of course

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"I have been called this

Welcome back

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"I have been called this

Welcome back

Thank you

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

Repeating what others have said. Attractive but not sexy. Easy going, not high maintenance. Friendly and approachable. Your parents would like her.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Those effortlessly beautiful people that don’t need a lot of makeup, really nice and approachable, probably likes cats, wears pretty dresses and her farts smell like roses

I like cats, am I boy next door

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I have been called this

Who are you?! Everyone knows you and loves your bust but I can't see damn it!

I can't see...

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"I have been called this

Who are you?! Everyone knows you and loves your bust but I can't see damn it!

I can't see...

Loves my bust

ok I will let you see

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

The ones that don't have to attention seek 24/7 and go over the top just to get noticed.

Don't need the revealing clothes/tons of make up.

Come across as cute when really they're filthy minded!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been called this

Bloody hell. I wish you lived next door to me!……

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one next door to me

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands

Definitely the Mrs

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Definitely the Mrs

Just stop you two! Stop!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those effortlessly beautiful people that don’t need a lot of makeup, really nice and approachable, probably likes cats, wears pretty dresses and her farts smell like roses

I like cats, am I boy next door

Yeahhhh……

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"I have been called this

Bloody hell. I wish you lived next door to me!……

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"I think it means the type you could introduce to your mum, knows how to cook, will remain faithful but won't mind you fucking around and wants sex all the time. Oh, and lives next door"

Know you of such a girl?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

When I was at university, I lived on a Narrowboat and started dating a girl next door.

Eventually...we drifted apart.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I have been called this

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Not all girls next door are the same... Mine... Selfish, loud, unpleasant...

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

"The ones that don't have to attention seek 24/7 and go over the top just to get noticed.

Don't need the revealing clothes/tons of make up.

Come across as cute when really they're filthy minded! "

This describes perfectly the girl who sits at the next desk to me at work. No make up, looks sweet and innocent, wickedly filthy sense of humour.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

By rights, it should mean 'too close for comfort'.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

This thread has earwormed me with one of my favourite songs.

Girl Next Door - Brandy Clark.

“If you want the girl next door, then *go* next door.”

Brandy Clark’s lyrics just drip with sass …

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

How I see it, it’s that one particular neighbour who lives next door, always kind and polite and quite boring but behind closed doors she’s an utter filth and sex goddess.

( hint hint)

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"When people talk about they're a 'girl next door' type - what does that mean?

Bonus Q (as I always ask) - what do you prefer, innocent looking people, cute...or the ones who look like TROUBLE, heavy make up etc...

In my case its 93 year old that lives next to me but she makes good cakes and I'm the end bungerlow.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I thought it was a term most often used by men who are only able to think of women via stereotypes

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"How I see it, it’s that one particular neighbour who lives next door, always kind and polite and quite boring but behind closed doors she’s an utter filth and sex goddess.

( hint hint)

Can't believe I have to ask again but...

FC?

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"How I see it, it’s that one particular neighbour who lives next door, always kind and polite and quite boring but behind closed doors she’s an utter filth and sex goddess.

( hint hint)

Can't believe I have to ask again but...

FC?"

Make it three and I’ll pm you my post code.

(Ground floor, left corridor, fifth door to the right).

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"How I see it, it’s that one particular neighbour who lives next door, always kind and polite and quite boring but behind closed doors she’s an utter filth and sex goddess.

( hint hint)

Can't believe I have to ask again but...

FC?

Make it three and I’ll pm you my post code.

(Ground floor, left corridor, fifth door to the right)."

.....fc?

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

"The ones that don't have to attention seek 24/7 and go over the top just to get noticed.

Don't need the revealing clothes/tons of make up.

Come across as cute when really they're filthy minded!

This describes perfectly the girl who sits at the next desk to me at work. No make up, looks sweet and innocent, wickedly filthy sense of humour."

The best kind of woman, trust me!.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"How I see it, it’s that one particular neighbour who lives next door, always kind and polite and quite boring but behind closed doors she’s an utter filth and sex goddess.

( hint hint)

Can't believe I have to ask again but...

FC?

Make it three and I’ll pm you my post code.

(Ground floor, left corridor, fifth door to the right).

.....fc?"

PM sent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's me.

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"It's me. "

bloody well is

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"It's me."

"bloody well is"

Yep. That checks out. Dammit. We have a winner.

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By *hiny-SinnersCouple
over a year ago

Vale of Glamorgan

Probably not me

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"When people talk about they're a 'girl next door' type - what does that mean?

Bonus Q (as I always ask) - what do you prefer, innocent looking people, cute...or the ones who look like TROUBLE, heavy make up etc...

Id say my mrs is a girl next door type. She does not need makeup and wears very little even when we go out for the evening. I think the saying "girl next door" means naturally pretty and not requiring tons of make up to look nice ect. John.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"When people talk about they're a 'girl next door' type - what does that mean?

Bonus Q (as I always ask) - what do you prefer, innocent looking people, cute...or the ones who look like TROUBLE, heavy make up etc...

I think it says plain ordinary inconspicuous. Actually when you say it like that it doesn’t sound so good.

In terms of preference, some women go well with the war paint look, others not so, it’s a case by case appraisal. "

Means quite the opposite. Girls who look naturally pretty without makeup are the girl next door type. Does not mean a plain Jane type. John

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

So what’s the male equivalent? Is there one?

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By *hiny-SinnersCouple
over a year ago

Vale of Glamorgan

"When people talk about they're a 'girl next door' type - what does that mean?

Bonus Q (as I always ask) - what do you prefer, innocent looking people, cute...or the ones who look like TROUBLE, heavy make up etc...

Ouch!

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"So what’s the male equivalent? Is there one?"
boy next door?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what’s the male equivalent? Is there one?"

The nice guy?!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"So what’s the male equivalent? Is there one?"

Alan

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"boy next door? "

It’s not the same though, is it? Has more serial killer vibes.

"The nice guy?!

Uh-oh. This isn’t going well.

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

whats your neighbour like?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Alan"

“Alan? Alan! ALAN! ALAN!”

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"So what’s the male equivalent? Is there one?"

Joseph Gordon Levitt had it

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"whats your neighbour like?"

I don’t have neighbours. Unless the wildlife counts. Or the cows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alan

“Alan? Alan! ALAN! ALAN!”"

I thought it was Clive

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I would say it's usually the sweet, innocent looking ones that are the real trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what’s the male equivalent? Is there one?

The nice guy?!

Aka the boring ones.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

According to Massive Attack

, it's:

https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=JwPOMB7oEO8&feature=share

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"It's me. "

You're everything I want to have next to me

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Penny.

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

"I would say it's usually the sweet, innocent looking ones that are the real trouble

From my experience, that's 100% true

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"When people talk about they're a 'girl next door' type - what does that mean?

Bonus Q (as I always ask) - what do you prefer, innocent looking people, cute...or the ones who look like TROUBLE, heavy make up etc...

Ouch!"

That was not ment to come across as harsh sorry. Some women prefer makeup and others don't. Sorry if it offended you. John.

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By *hiny-SinnersCouple
over a year ago

Vale of Glamorgan

"When people talk about they're a 'girl next door' type - what does that mean?

Bonus Q (as I always ask) - what do you prefer, innocent looking people, cute...or the ones who look like TROUBLE, heavy make up etc...

Ouch!

That was not ment to come across as harsh sorry. Some women prefer makeup and others don't. Sorry if it offended you. John. "

No worries John

. Ironically, in my civvies I am very much the plain Jane LOL

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Most women have "girl next door" vibes... And then they speak

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Most women have "girl next door" vibes... And then they speak "

To be fair the self proclaimed girl next door above has a girl next door voice I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me a girl next door is how I describe myself,average looks,charm& modesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Innocent looking. I was the girl down the street for a little while with a fella. Although, accurately I was probably jail bait

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Innocent looking. I was the girl down the street for a little while with a fella. Although, accurately I was probably jail bait

People have said this to me before so I sympathise but...sometimes you don't have to say things

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"It's me. "

Wish you lived next door Doris can keep cakes we shared garden

Feel free to sunbathe naked

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