FabSwingers.com forum: Erectile Dysfunction

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all. How much would this put women off on this site. I have this and get called pathetic but it is nerve damage rather than being unmanly. I have a very high sex drive and testosterone level it's just the mechanics.

I use a vacuum pump to make it work if you see my pics.

Surely there are people on here that wouldn't be turned off by that. Just want people's thoughts on it really.

I still can and do have sex.

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all. How much would this put women off on this site. I have this and get called pathetic but it is nerve damage rather than being unmanly. I have a very high sex drive and testosterone level it's just the mechanics.

I use a vacuum pump to make it work if you see my pics.

Surely there are people on here that wouldn't be turned off by that. Just want people's thoughts on it really.

I still can and do have sex.

Thanks. "

Really up to the woman's preference to be fair. I'm sure there's plenty on here that wouldn't be bothered by it

just gotta find the right connection

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

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I'm so sorry people have been mean about it. But carry on being honest. As long as the woman knows its not her then a lot of women will be fine with mouth and fingers.some might even prefer it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with catnip!

I also wondered about viagra or similar? My ex used it for every meet, despite not needing it. He said he liked the reassurance that he could perform. Just a thought. Good luck

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By *ubman50Man
over a year ago

chelmsford

Ive suffered for years now, viagra didnt work either for me, i have been searching on here to find a lady/couple that may be interested but not having much luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use a vacuum pump to make it work if you see my pics.

Surely there are people on here that wouldn't be turned off by that. Just want people's thoughts on it really.

I still can and do have sex.

Thanks. "

There will be women who are fine with it and some who love the idea (in a good way!).

However it's difficult for most men finding meets on here. So don't feel bad if you don't get replies, it's not necessarily because of the ED.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use a vacuum pump to make it work if you see my pics.

Surely there are people on here that wouldn't be turned off by that. Just want people's thoughts on it really.

I still can and do have sex.

Thanks.

There will be women who are fine with it and some who love the idea (in a good way!).

However it's difficult for most men finding meets on here. So don't feel bad if you don't get replies, it's not necessarily because of the ED.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I tried a sexual relationship with a guy with this, it became impossible. He tried viagra - it remained soft. He decided he would use his fingers - this bloody hurt - I stopped proceedings. He got pissy, asked a couple of days later "how was it", I said I'm not trying again. He got pissy again. It's a no from me for flacid, I like it hard and inside.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all.

Thanks for the replies.

Just to clarify I'm not unable to get an election but I have to take a mechanical step using a vacuum pump to make it work.

So in terms of sex it's not flaccid, it's reasonably big, girthy and stays hard using this method!! And for as long as necessary.

It also means I'm pretty experienced, gentle and erotic at foreplay.

I was wondering how people would feel with guys having to do this. In my mind anybody who judges is perhaps not the person to be with anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I agree with catnip!

I also wondered about viagra or similar? My ex used it for every meet, despite not needing it. He said he liked the reassurance that he could perform. Just a thought. Good luck "

Hi. Yeah I tried vuagra it doesn't work but the pump I use does, and very well, making me really hard for quite a long time too. So all is not lost really. I guess what I meant was that I have to take an extra mechanical step first but it can be included in foreplay, which I love and am pretty adept at!! Thank you for replying x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have the same problem myself. Viagra no longer works for me and I only get semi hard. I have had a couple of meets on here and another site with people who were happy with oral only.

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By *oveallMan
over a year ago

kells

You might have the condition hemochromatosis . to much iron in your blood , effects erection and causes join pain ...

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"You might have the condition hemochromatosis . to much iron in your blood , effects erection and causes join pain ... "

If you read his profile, it explains all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good sex doesn't just mean a hard penis, I think people can forget about all the other delicious things to be had when in intimate moments.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I think you are being honest chap and allowing people to make informed choices. Which is all you can do. You have a method to over your issue, which again you are honest about. But please don’t let it bother you if you aren’t getting a meet every week, that’s just fablife.

By being open and honest you expose yourself to judgement, that’s going to happen, but what you are also doing is strengthening yourself mentally, which can also impact ED. So keep it up (no pun intended).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all.

Thanks for the replies.

Just to clarify I'm not unable to get an election but I have to take a mechanical step using a vacuum pump to make it work.

So in terms of sex it's not flaccid, it's reasonably big, girthy and stays hard using this method!! And for as long as necessary.

It also means I'm pretty experienced, gentle and erotic at foreplay.

I was wondering how people would feel with guys having to do this. In my mind anybody who judges is perhaps not the person to be with anyway. "

People will always judge on something. If they don't like xyz you're just not compatible.

Does the pump hurt or is it a nice sensation? How long does it take to work? Do you need to be horny first?

Feel free to tell me to fuck off and don't be nosey. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi all.

Thanks for the replies.

Just to clarify I'm not unable to get an election but I have to take a mechanical step using a vacuum pump to make it work.

So in terms of sex it's not flaccid, it's reasonably big, girthy and stays hard using this method!! And for as long as necessary.

It also means I'm pretty experienced, gentle and erotic at foreplay.

I was wondering how people would feel with guys having to do this. In my mind anybody who judges is perhaps not the person to be with anyway.

People will always judge on something. If they don't like xyz you're just not compatible.

Does the pump hurt or is it a nice sensation? How long does it take to work? Do you need to be horny first?

Feel free to tell me to fuck off and don't be nosey. X"

Thank you. I really appreciate the reply. The pump takes just a minute or two. Its manual so can be done by me or by a partner (more fun that way). It's really nice to be hard that way though it can start off a bit sore but it soon eases off. And no need to be horny first which is amazing though def more fun when horny, which I seem to be quite alot haha.

Thank you for the questions!!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all.

Thanks for the replies.

Just to clarify I'm not unable to get an election but I have to take a mechanical step using a vacuum pump to make it work.

So in terms of sex it's not flaccid, it's reasonably big, girthy and stays hard using this method!! And for as long as necessary.

It also means I'm pretty experienced, gentle and erotic at foreplay.

I was wondering how people would feel with guys having to do this. In my mind anybody who judges is perhaps not the person to be with anyway.

People will always judge on something. If they don't like xyz you're just not compatible.

Does the pump hurt or is it a nice sensation? How long does it take to work? Do you need to be horny first?

Feel free to tell me to fuck off and don't be nosey. X

Thank you for the questions!!! X"

Thank you for the info.

Some women will find that a turn on, they might like roleplay or something like that. Something you both enjoy.

Hope you find someone nice. X

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

I too suffer from E D. three main reasons:

Old Age (83)

Low Testosterone Levels

Heart Condition, medication for which is not compatible with Viagra or Cialis.

I have clearly stated all this in my profile which should prevent any misunderstandings in the future.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

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Find a pillow princess

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Find a pillow princess"

if only. I actually think I'd surprise a few people with what I've learnt over the years!! Good luck to you!! X

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