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Breaking the Ice

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By *ACKEDandJUICY OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northstowe

When we have a guy round to join in, its someone we've never met before. So we get things warmed up by having Porn on the big screen while we chat for a while.

What's your goto ice breaker.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

A good playlist, if they react well to Busted I know it’ll be a great night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stick the walking dead on

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Ask them to do my ironing nothing breaks the ice like domestic chores

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By *unandadventureMan
over a year ago

Localish

I sit and sharpen all the kitchen knives

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I tend to have a conversation. I'd find porn a bit weird in context

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By *ACKEDandJUICY OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northstowe


"I tend to have a conversation. I'd find porn a bit weird in context "

For a single woman definitely would be.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Offer them a drink probably be the first thing

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"I sit and sharpen all the kitchen knives "

Alright Fred

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

A drink and a chat is always the best way to go because before playing there must a connection and a vibe tgere before any type of play commences

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

A simple drink and discuss our fantasies

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By *unandadventureMan
over a year ago

Localish


"I sit and sharpen all the kitchen knives

Alright Fred "

I put the Dexter box set on instead of porn lol.

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By *lay 4 your plessureMan
over a year ago

Wigan


"When we have a guy round to join in, its someone we've never met before. So we get things warmed up by having Porn on the big screen while we chat for a while.

What's your goto ice breaker."

To be honest, if I turned up to a meet with a couple where they have porn on in the background, it would make me worried that they are expecting porn style sex which isn't really all that fun in reality.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"I sit and sharpen all the kitchen knives

Alright Fred

I put the Dexter box set on instead of porn lol. "

Dahmer works better, with a barrel in the corner set the scene and all that....

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By *unandadventureMan
over a year ago

Localish


"I sit and sharpen all the kitchen knives

Alright Fred

I put the Dexter box set on instead of porn lol.

Dahmer works better, with a barrel in the corner set the scene and all that...."

Hahahaha

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By *KTim61Man
over a year ago

Tipton


"What's your goto ice breaker."

A good bashing with a Hammer normally does the trick for me

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

I no longer meet complete strangers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask for the payment first, usually gets a funny look then a laugh ??

Well until I get the card payment machine out

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

We like a good chat beforehand.

And then when we feel it’s time to get things a little more naughty I tend to pop to the bathroom.

This lets the guy relax a bit around Lily and I usually come back to find them kissing and starting to get things moving.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I go through their fridge to see if there's anything nice to eat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to have a conversation. I'd find porn a bit weird in context "

Eye contact convo flow. Lots of laughs,drink and eat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go through their fridge to see if there's anything nice to eat.

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Manners to take something to the visit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Ours is the Mrs bends over in her outfit to "tidy" the room while our guest are having a drink, we make the room messy on purpose so that she picks things off the floor.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I go through their fridge to see if there's anything nice to eat.

Manners to take something to the visit.

"

Me. They get me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Food

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

I show them my Cotton Eye Joe routine. Really gets the mood at the appropriate level.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"We like a good chat beforehand.

And then when we feel it’s time to get things a little more naughty I tend to pop to the bathroom.

This lets the guy relax a bit around Lily and I usually come back to find them kissing and starting to get things moving. "

That's nearly the same as us but I usually come back down to find P sucking his cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I show them my Cotton Eye Joe routine. Really gets the mood at the appropriate level."

Tell me what this is

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I tend to have a conversation. I'd find porn a bit weird in context "

As a single guy I prefer a conversation as well. I find porn on the TV is just a bit, well, crass.

It’s good to just have a chat and get to know them a bit better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also like porn on the television when I'm trying to break the ice with someone.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I also like porn on the television when I'm trying to break the ice with someone."

How did it go when you did it during the job interview?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also like porn on the television when I'm trying to break the ice with someone."

Even the new neighbours?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I tend to have a conversation. I'd find porn a bit weird in context

As a single guy I prefer a conversation as well. I find porn on the TV is just a bit, well, crass.

It’s good to just have a chat and get to know them a bit better."

In a club it's a good ice breaker but not in a sexy way. In a critiquing the acting and laughing at it way

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"I show them my Cotton Eye Joe routine. Really gets the mood at the appropriate level.

Tell me what this is "

You'll see it when the hose pipe bans over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I show them my Cotton Eye Joe routine. Really gets the mood at the appropriate level."

Fucks sake!

I mean, this would actually lighten the mood

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Bowl of Doritos. It seems to work for me. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A game of stop the bus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we have a guy round to join in, its someone we've never met before. So we get things warmed up by having Porn on the big screen while we chat for a while.

What's your goto ice breaker."

In a mmf. Toss a coin for who gets the vag first. No time for messing about

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Chat and flirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last guy we invited round for MFM walked in to Fwb tied up, blindfolded, earphones in and getting licked out. He threw his clothes off and joined in.

We had fun then had a break and started chatting.

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By *cotty_01ukMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Have a few drinks make sure you got some tunes on chat and make her laugh then it all falls into place

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

In the past when I could accommodate,use to just offer a drink then sit and chat with the TV on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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What's your goto ice breaker."

The weather. Everyone love talking about the weather.

“It’s wet today isn’t it?”

That type of thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was a hell of a lot younger and pulled a guy at a club he took me back to his ( wasn't really a one night stand type of girl but he was beautiful!) Anyway he put porn on and it put me off. Conversation is a much better icebreaker

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


" I tend to pop to the bathroom. . . I usually come back to find them kissing and starting to get things moving. "

Watching them kissing gets your bowels moving ?

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I just tend to smear myself in peanut butter and offer them a walnut whip. It was all going so well until the anaphylactic reaction to the nuts started….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we have a guy round to join in, its someone we've never met before. So we get things warmed up by having Porn on the big screen while we chat for a while.

What's your goto ice breaker."

Chances are it's not that guys 1st meeting so he's probably well used to all scenarios...who knows.. but l wouldn't think porn would put him off

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"I show them my Cotton Eye Joe routine. Really gets the mood at the appropriate level.

Fucks sake!

I mean, this would actually lighten the mood "

I mean you see what the hips can do that's for sure and if you're lucky to you get a t shirt lassoed (is that a word?) onto you!

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