FabSwingers.com forum: How many???

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How many arrangements you may have made on fab didn't happen?

Doesn't matter if it included sex or not, just how many didn't happen?

Me, 2.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made 3 arrangments, and 3 didnt happen

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be somthing i said lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *vilsluggMan
over a year ago

I’ve been lucky. I’ve meet all I’ve arranged to meet (all 4 of them) and I have another social arranged for Sunday. Fingers crossed it goes ahead.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

1. I wasn't sure if there was more than friendship there, and I was feeling a bit under the weather.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

"How many arrangements you may have made on fab didn't happen?

Doesn't matter if it included sex or not, just how many didn't happen?

Me, 2."

I haven’t made many arrangements, but only 1 didn’t and I was really looking forward to it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

So many... I've lost count.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

About 8 or 10 for different reasons rag weeks home emergencies both lasses falling outand so on but they arnt the ones that count anyway

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So many... I've lost count."

That's sounds awful.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Half dozen probably

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been here from 2011 so lots lost count by now

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Three or four

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

To many

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

1 that I can think of

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Lost count lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped counting after too many.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably 2 that we’re actually arranged and 5-10 where we had agreed to meet but hadn’t set a date or time.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the last year, 5.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Firm arrangements 0

Mooted ones several

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. It was my fault, it was a social but work over ran (I let her know), then horrendous traffic, couldn't find parking and she had waited twenty minutes in the cold so she let me know she was leaving (couldn't blame her). We still talk.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

All of them

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I've met everyone i arranged to meet

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 this week. And that's not even a personal best.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

I’ve made 1 with a couple, and they were surprised I turned up!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

Probably had as many cancellations as I've had arranged shags

Soft plans (only date&time of day, no strict time/place) tend to be the most likely to not actually happen.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There have been few.

So many no shows x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *antric_lover77Woman
over a year ago

south east

Lost count over the years over double figures

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *antric_lover77Woman
over a year ago

south east

"5 this week. And that's not even a personal best.

I know that feeling. My condolences

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Three I think

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *vilsluggMan
over a year ago

"In the last year, 5."

Lilith, wish I knew where you were. I’d invite you out for a drink and gossip.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss_Juicy79Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

The majority of them in the last 6 years

Before most of them turned up

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the last year, 5.

Lilith, wish I knew where you were. I’d invite you out for a drink and gossip."

I’ll send you her location. Take halloumi fries and prepare your best banter.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

This has happened far too many times to have actually kept count of all the no shows and or the ghosting some women and couples have done.

Ive had 2 no shows just in the past 7 days

If I was to choose a number, I'd say about 20-25 no shows in the past 6 years

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *vilsluggMan
over a year ago

"In the last year, 5.

Lilith, wish I knew where you were. I’d invite you out for a drink and gossip.

I’ll send you her location. Take halloumi fries and prepare your best banter."

I love halloumi. Squeaky cheese

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aretobareCouple
over a year ago

Central Portugal

3 in 8 years although some that did turn up were "Special" - we love fab - thanks to people like the moderators who keep it the best site despite us living in the middle of nowhere x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Far too many! Too many time wasters on here. Hence why I don’t meet anymore.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rincess-PeachWoman
over a year ago

irrelevant

Fucking loads so I stopped doing it. I think many like the idea of meeting , get excited, but have a wank and lose interest. I've had a couple of great meets though so if I wanted a private meet I will ask them.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

This thread really shows how many time wasters there are and it’s horrible to see how many have been let down

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *vilsluggMan
over a year ago

"Far too many! Too many time wasters on here. Hence why I don’t meet anymore. "

If there’s an emergency then that’s ok but other than that I don’t know why people don’t turn up. What’s the worst that’ll happen? If I say I’ll meet I will be there.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I got stood up twice in one day by the same person lol.... over a weekend 3 arrangements made, 0 happened.... many people are all mouth and no trousers lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *vilsluggMan
over a year ago

"Fucking loads so I stopped doing it. I think many like the idea of meeting , get excited, but have a wank and lose interest. I've had a couple of great meets though so if I wanted a private meet I will ask them. "

Why would anyone flake out of meeting you? Great profile and pics. I’d meet you even if it was just to hear some of your stories about meets and club play. Bet you have some good ones

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3. They all came up with some crappy excuse once a date was set. The last guy bailed after chasing me for a dinner date, he suggested the day, he chose & booked the restaurant and then cancelled on the day. Contacted me two weeks later to say he wasn't so busy now, he could meet me. I declined!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Can only think of one…hotel we were staying at, arranged to meet someone in the bar downstairs…

…got the ‘my niece has been rushed into hospital’ routine even though they were on FAB a lot during the next couple of hours

We were eating our lunch and having a drink there anyway, so there was no time wasted.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made 2 - 1 didn't happen (so far)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mine is two this week!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

27.

14 cancelled for various reasons, all the rest were no shows, or just messed me about.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"27.

14 cancelled for various reasons, all the rest were no shows, or just messed me about."

That is crazy. Wow.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss_Juicy79Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Best part of it most don't even message to let you know they thinkniys okay to ghost you

Wasted many a free flat because of this

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine is two this week!"

That's just crazy

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

3 one cancelled on me and I've cancelled on someone and another left the site before we got around to it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to blow Dave out last weekend coz I was exhausted

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had to blow Dave last weekend coz I was exhausted "

Lucky Dave. I usually get “not tonight pet”.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Recently, about 3…

Pre-pandemic- zero.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Occasionally people post up the most pathetic excuses for missing a meet. They make “I left my homework on the bus” look like a Noël Coward soliloquy

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly I don't get it, if you've been chatting on here and had enough connection to arrange a meet, why bail out (if no valid reason).

I love meeting socially, people are fascinating, and the chat, banter, experiences can be hilarious. Met some brilliant people for coffee, a pint, waffle, lunch and even a picnic. Would never dream of bailing out.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

1. She was very flakey

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"Honestly I don't get it, if you've been chatting on here and had enough connection to arrange a meet, why bail out (if no valid reason).

It comes down to insecurity again. People say stuff here which is obviously a lie (I can blow 4000 loads in a row) and think about their answers before they type and the reality of being in front of someone when they have to be themselves scares the shit out of them. Let alone sexy performance!

It's a more extreme version of why people cancel on dates these days. Scared and fearful of awkward rejecting or rejection. But here it's amplified by 'im gonna use my 9 incher to make you cum 20 times!'

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the 1

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disappointments but I get over it. Dwelling or saying it always happens which is over generalisation. I cannot think negative thoughts positive vibes only me and confidence.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0, I haven’t arranged any meets yet

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

I've had very few meets off here as a single, more as a couple...so actually zero. But then i tend to meet more away from here.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Lately all the fucking time

Bad run of luck lately

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only the 1 time, and that was my fault. I was on call that week and got called into work...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think of probably 200+ socials, dates, meets agreed over 8 years , only 1 didn’t happen,(and she still hasn’t apologised!) a handful got rescheduled.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Honestly I don't get it, if you've been chatting on here and had enough connection to arrange a meet, why bail out (if no valid reason).

Is that personal experience

I don’t get this , if anything I do the opposite , keep expectations low ish, at least physically. If someone wants to meet you after chatting , there’s a very high likelihood they want to have sex with you. Unless you’ve lied.

It’s quite said if guys feel like this, and for the women who get let down too.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

All of mine have happened, never had anyone cancel or stand me up, but that's only a yet

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Loads, but I do arrange lots of social cuppas, so it's to be expected

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Lately all the fucking time

Bad run of luck lately

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Lately all the fucking time

Bad run of luck lately

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"1."

I did say sorry

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

All of them. They either stop talking to me for no reason or fail to turn up.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting to pop my fab cherry as it where

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More ghost us than turn up. No idea how many that is.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had to blow Dave last weekend coz I was exhausted

Lucky Dave. I usually get “not tonight pet”."

Ffs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"I had to blow Dave last weekend coz I was exhausted

Lucky Dave. I usually get “not tonight pet”.

Ffs

Fluffy blew me off because of a hose pipe ban

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 for me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had to blow Dave last weekend coz I was exhausted

Lucky Dave. I usually get “not tonight pet”.

Ffs

Fluffy blew me off because of a hose pipe ban

Brucey I didn’t know you were serious

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"I had to blow Dave last weekend coz I was exhausted

Lucky Dave. I usually get “not tonight pet”.

Ffs

Daves are notoriously lucky

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rincess-PeachWoman
over a year ago

irrelevant

"I think of probably 200+ socials, dates, meets agreed over 8 years , only 1 didn’t happen,(and she still hasn’t apologised!) a handful got rescheduled."

Wow this is impressive

fair play to you

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Unfortunately Brucey managed to escape from the basement… so disappointed

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ornycouple7884Couple
over a year ago

Exeter

Also lost count. Used to be about 3 out of 4 didn't turn up/happen. These days we mostly stick to clubs or those we've met before so not dreamers. Still get let down due to miscommunication etc butused to it now.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"I had to blow Dave last weekend coz I was exhausted

Lucky Dave. I usually get “not tonight pet”.

Ffs

Fluffy blew me off because of a hose pipe ban

Brucey I didn’t know you were serious

that's the fun of me!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Lately all the fucking time

Bad run of luck lately

I'm so sad you replied twice

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"Unfortunately Brucey managed to escape from the basement… so disappointed

It was all the butt talk stuff. That really gets my fight or flight going you know

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"How many arrangements you may have made on fab didn't happen?

Doesn't matter if it included sex or not, just how many didn't happen?

Me, 2."

Years ago? 2.

Recent years? 1

Very recently? 1

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many arrangements you may have made on fab didn't happen?

Doesn't matter if it included sex or not, just how many didn't happen?

Me, 2."

0. Never had a no show. If I arrange to meet, I do and always have.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Only had 1 no show, and I knew that days before he was supposed to turn up, even though he messaged on the day to put the time back an hour.

I didn't bother getting out of my pyjamas.

I've had to postpone a few myself due to health problems or family emergencies.

It happens.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only had 1 no show, and I knew that days before he was supposed to turn up, even though he messaged on the day to put the time back an hour.

I didn't bother getting out of my pyjamas.

I've had to postpone a few myself due to health problems or family emergencies.

It happens. "

I've had postponed meets and cancelled before the day.

Agree re: pj's!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Only one from memory

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

2.....there loss

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lately all the fucking time

Bad run of luck lately

You and me both.

I'm now waving the white flag!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Lately all the fucking time

Bad run of luck lately

You and me both.

I'm now waving the white flag! "

White flag or knickers?

*asking for a friend obvs.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oitering-With-intentMan
over a year ago

city of Lodon

I don't bother arranging anything on here because it's a waste of time.

The site needs a serious update of the verification system and some way to match profile that meet the same want's.

It's easier to meet people at socials.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

50 over the years I guess

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oveallMan
over a year ago

kells

2/2 yesterday clicked

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None. When I've arranged meets thankfully people have always turned up.

It must be so frustrating to be let down.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

None so far

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

There’s a couple of people that I engaged with where it seemed to be on the cards which just fizzled out, mainly through distance or circumstances changing, I think sometimes I put people off after long protracted conversations or may be by being a little too honest

I’m still friendly with those folks (I think) and who knows? Maybe one day?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cancellations due to life, that subsequently rescheduled I don't count.

Actually being no showed, ghosted. 0.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I got a few cancelled socials which is fine but high ghost rate if that counts so I never get to the stage of arranging an actual meeting.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

"Lately all the fucking time

Bad run of luck lately

You and me both.

I'm now waving the white flag! "

Believe in yourself and it’s their loss….

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread