FabSwingers.com forum: He offered a massage.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

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I would massage you and keep it not sexual. It’s very sensual though

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I enjoy giving massages and they certainly don't need to be sexually motivated. Hopefully he will respect your boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

Brain picking again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy offered to slap his penis on me but keep it non sexual.

Men are awesome aren't they?

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

It will start off non sexual, then he'll start going in all your nooks and crannies and gauge your reaction. So you never know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

Depends on the person.

Giving one is very arousing though so there's a high possibility.

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By *ralextacyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I would admire his professionalism if he could resist you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It will start off non sexual, then he'll start going in all your nooks and crannies and gauge your reaction. So you never know!"

This

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

Take him by surprise and put him in a metal chastity cage

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

Take him by surprise and put him in a metal chastity cage

Ooh I like you're thinking!!!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

Take him by surprise and put him in a metal chastity cage

Ooh I like you're thinking!!!

Think about it

. My genius is flawless on this

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By *erotic_adventureMan
over a year ago

London, Scotland & The North,

If the offer came from someone here now reading this......the offer may be retracted

I would suggest that's for you and them to set any boundaries, speak to them if you've not already done so.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

He'll try to fuck you, I've given a few massages in my time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

I withdraw my offer

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

Brain picking again "

Who me???? Never!!

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By *avid_jones87Man
over a year ago

Ascot

He sounds like a principled chap, I reckon he will be able to be discliplined

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Never underestimate a fab “professional”.

If he said so, he will, he definitely will keep it non sexual.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

He'll be stabbing his sausage in you faster than you can say barbecue

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By *toobguyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Well he'll definitely want to fuck you, but if he's an honest guy he'll respect any boundaries you set.

Just getting hands all over your body is a reward in itself, maybe that will be enough for him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A guy offered to slap his penis on me but keep it non sexual.

Men are awesome aren't they?"

Will you STOP, sharing our private conversations please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A guy offered to slap his penis on me but keep it non sexual.

Men are awesome aren't they?

Will you STOP, sharing our private conversations please

So it's not just me? I always suspected that there were others

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

he should behave like a true pro,, like i would none sexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A guy offered to slap his penis on me but keep it non sexual.

Men are awesome aren't they?"

Did you take that offer up?

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Oldest trick in the book

Where do people even learn these ancient techniques .. who are the [women] who will let themselves be rummaged to fruition by an vigorous enthusiast ..and who is observing and writing out their certificate of participation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A guy offered to slap his penis on me but keep it non sexual.

Men are awesome aren't they?

Will you STOP, sharing our private conversations please

So it's not just me? I always suspected that there were others

Honestly, she's awful you tell her something in confidence and then it ends up on here! This is the last time I sleep with her though I won't be caught again

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"He'll be stabbing his sausage in you faster than you can say barbecue

Such beautiful imagery.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Some get off on the massage others it's just a prelude to a fuck. So set your boundaries and keep to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oldest trick in the book

I don't even like massages but.."rummaged to fruition" sounds quite beguiling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wheres the fun in that?

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

If he's human and moral,

He will politely ask after doing your butt massage if you're sure.

Then check again.

And again.

You really really sure?

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

He is a man you say? And he is on FAB? Assuming he has a penis he will most definitely try to insert it in an orifice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A guy offered to slap his penis on me but keep it non sexual.

Men are awesome aren't they?

Will you STOP, sharing our private conversations please

So it's not just me? I always suspected that there were others

Honestly, she's awful you tell her something in confidence and then it ends up on here! This is the last time I sleep with her though I won't be caught again

I am now shocked, I have always seen the OP as pure as the driven snow. Do not besmirch the love of my life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A guy offered to slap his penis on me but keep it non sexual.

Men are awesome aren't they?

Will you STOP, sharing our private conversations please

So it's not just me? I always suspected that there were others

Honestly, she's awful you tell her something in confidence and then it ends up on here! This is the last time I sleep with her though I won't be caught again

That's not what you said mid orgasm!

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

If you have set a boundary that it’s just massage that’s what it should be, what parts of the body are you getting massaged?

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

Depends on what you wear and what boundaries you have set…. If you have been flirtatious towards each other who knows….

The bigger question is do you want him to?

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.

Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?

That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.

Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?

That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected

Wise words,takes standing tall and firm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.

Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?

That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected

Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry.

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.

Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?

That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected

Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry."

But non consential sex is r-ape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A guy offered to slap his penis on me but keep it non sexual.

Men are awesome aren't they?

Will you STOP, sharing our private conversations please

So it's not just me? I always suspected that there were others

Honestly, she's awful you tell her something in confidence and then it ends up on here! This is the last time I sleep with her though I won't be caught again

That's not what you said mid orgasm!"

I know, but your as addictive as .... Well I can't accurately describe but you get the gist

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Last 8 who offered me that, all requested sex and declined to do a non penetrative sexual massage on me...they are rarer than hens teeth on here

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

He wants in about your fanny and is touting massage as his USP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.

Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?

That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected

Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry.

But non consential sex is r-ape

How to explain to you?

Woman goes over. He gives her massage. Gets a little more intimate than a massage should be. She reminds him he promised. He continues overstepping boundaries. She gets up and says she's going home. He is petulant. Points to his erection - "I was so turned on by your beautiful body". Blah blah. She leaves feeling uncomfortable, guilty and annoyed. And less trusting of men.

Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.

Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?

That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected

Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry.

But non consential sex is r-ape

How to explain to you?

Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know. "

This is why I don't let women massage me for free. I know they'd go for the butthole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.

Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?

That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected

Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry.

But non consential sex is r-ape

How to explain to you?

Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know.

This is why I don't let women massage me for free. I know they'd go for the butthole "

I've heard it's good

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

Depends if you want him to?!

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

I'm a trained, qualified masseur.

If they say non sexual then it should be that way.

Anything else should be discussed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it when I take someone up on the offer of a nice massage and all of a sudden they're reaching under to tickle my bollocks. Those knots aren't going to sort themselves out!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Meet a guy who will fuck you and you'd like him to, so you can have the massage and a fuck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.

Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?

That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected

Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry.

But non consential sex is r-ape

How to explain to you?

Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know. "

Exactly this.

And I pay for mine..they put their prices up but she's brutal and I love it. Worth paying for.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

You do know tgat a pro masseur will allow you to keep underwear on if you feel comfortable that way?

Towels should be covering areas not being worked on too if they know what they are doing.

You should feel safe and relaxed.

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.

Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?

That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected

Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry.

But non consential sex is r-ape

How to explain to you?

Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know. "

You seem like a sane, rational woman...you have no place here

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

Do you trust him?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’ve offered a few social massages only , no expectations, and I’ve always been the one seduced

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Meet a guy who will fuck you and you'd like him to, so you can have the massage and a fuck

Where do I find one of those?

Guy offers a massage, gets an erection seconds into massage, I like him so we start fucking, afterwards he's no longer in the mood to massage. Probably farted and rolled over

No massage

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.

Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?

That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected

Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry.

But non consential sex is r-ape

How to explain to you?

Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know. "

Exactly it’s like £30 - £40 for a massage and will be loads better than sone random. If two people off here agree to meet for massage , one or both are hoping for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?"

All the responses assuming the random unnamed guy is a closet r@pist makes our skin crawl.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.

Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?

That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected

Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry.

But non consential sex is r-ape

How to explain to you?

Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know.

Exactly it’s like £30 - £40 for a massage and will be loads better than sone random. If two people off here agree to meet for massage , one or both are hoping for sex. "

£30-£40.....where?

Where I go is £60!!! Struggle to get less than £50.

I'm too close to London clearly.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I don't know, maybe I'm a tad naive.

If someone says to me "Hey Meli, do you fancy a massage?", not only would I probably say yes to it (if I'd been talking to them and liked our conversations), I wouldn't think they're trying to have sex with me. It wouldn't cross my mind. Unless I know that's their modus operandi of course.

After a recent social I gave massages to two friends. I was wearing very little - a crop top and shorts. Nothing happened. I don't think either thought more would happen. Yes, they were both turned on, one evidently so. It didn't really matter because I was just enjoying the sensation of giving them a massage.

Maybe I'm weird.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

Highly unlikely

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.

Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?

That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected

Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry.

But non consential sex is r-ape

How to explain to you?

Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know.

Exactly it’s like £30 - £40 for a massage and will be loads better than sone random. If two people off here agree to meet for massage , one or both are hoping for sex.

£30-£40.....where?

Where I go is £60!!! Struggle to get less than £50.

I'm too close to London clearly."

My friend sports masseur in Herts about £40 for half/hr and travels to clients

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Offering massages that are 100% sexual haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have only asked for a massage and it's clear that's the only thing you want he should not try and veer off that agenda....however in reality, I think probability is that he will do something sexual to test your resolve!

I love giving massages whether it leads to more than just massage.

Is there any sexual tension, flirting beforehand? Do you find him attractive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.

Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?

That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected

Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry.

But non consential sex is r-ape

How to explain to you?

Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know.

You seem like a sane, rational woman...you have no place here

Totes agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

I'm a trained, qualified masseur.

If they say non sexual then it should be that way.

Anything else should be discussed."

You may be trained and qualified. Another random bloke on Fab is unlikely to be, don't cha think? And that's not me accusing every man who offers a massage as a closet r@pist. That's me being a pragmatic woman.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"Meet a guy who will fuck you and you'd like him to, so you can have the massage and a fuck

Where do I find one of those?

Guy offers a massage, gets an erection seconds into massage, I like him so we start fucking, afterwards he's no longer in the mood to massage. Probably farted and rolled over

No massage

A good guy will be able to edge himself and enjoy touching you knowing that once your whole body has been done, then he will hopefully be able to crawl over you...

How long you get on each body parts though if he's super horny is up for question. 3 seconds each arm?

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.

Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?

That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected

Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry.

But non consential sex is r-ape

How to explain to you?

Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know. "

Explained perfectly. You can't paint and tarnish all men with the same brush though. There are dickheads out there and there are also genuine men. Just saying x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.

Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?

That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected

Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry.

But non consential sex is r-ape

How to explain to you?

Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know.

Explained perfectly. You can't paint and tarnish all men with the same brush though. There are dickheads out there and there are also genuine men. Just saying x"

I wasn't saying all men. I was simply explaining why women are justifiably wary at times. I haven't encountered many genuine guys in the last year, but I still think there are some.

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By *ornyguyMan
over a year ago

Hillsborough, NI

I offered to give a woman a massage; we had met socially once before. She agree, but I think she knew she'd be getting sex though, and she was right, there was more sex than massage.

Fast forward 13 years, we're together and have a 9yo kid and moved country. So it ended up being a significant massage

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By *orny salesmanMan
over a year ago

Preston

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

I have often done proper massages without sex often though if it done right you might decide you want a fuck but l can resist l have even kept my clothes on and massaged a totally naked woman before with no sexual activity

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

He will try fuck you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Impossible

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

Absolutely impossible, you're horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's be honest, he wants to and you want him to.

Problem solved.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"Let's be honest, he wants to and you want him to.

Problem solved.

Fancy a massage

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve done it plenty of times.

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By *reasyMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

All I would say in reply is if I’ve offered a massage then that would be my only expectation at the meet.

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

I massage myself quite often but never penetrate if that’s any help…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let's be honest, he wants to and you want him to.

Problem solved.

Fancy a massage

As long as you promise to stick your penis in me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All I would say in reply is if I’ve offered a massage then that would be my only expectation at the meet. "

Understandable

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over a year ago

"All I would say in reply is if I’ve offered a massage then that would be my only expectation at the meet. "

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

At minimum a fingerbang

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It will start off non sexual, then he'll start going in all your nooks and crannies and gauge your reaction. So you never know!"

Yep I reckon the same! Ahh just let your body react and go with it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn’t a massage code for, I’m going to rub your back for 2 minutes before I get bored and try it on with you.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"Isn’t a massage code for, I’m going to rub your back for 2 minutes before I get bored and try it on with you. "

It is.

Also a perfect opportunity to use that coconut oil going stale in your kitchen.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"Let's be honest, he wants to and you want him to.

Problem solved.

Fancy a massage

As long as you promise to stick your penis in me. "

Oh where is my penis NOT gonna go?!

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"Isn’t a massage code for, I’m going to rub your back for 2 minutes before I get bored and try it on with you. "

No silly!

Back gets 30 seconds, back of thighs and butt gets 2 full minutes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn’t a massage code for, I’m going to rub your back for 30 seconds before I get bored and try it on with you. "

I've altered it for you, to provide a more accurate portrayal

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over a year ago

"Isn’t a massage code for, I’m going to rub your back for 2 minutes before I get bored and try it on with you.

No silly!

Back gets 30 seconds, back of thighs and butt gets 2 full minutes!"

Then, oh would you look at that! my finger seems to have slipped in by accident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn’t a massage code for, I’m going to rub your back for 30 seconds before I get bored and try it on with you.

I've altered it for you, to provide a more accurate portrayal

Can’t even wait the full 2 minutes?! Shocking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let's be honest, he wants to and you want him to.

Problem solved.

Fancy a massage

As long as you promise to stick your penis in me.

Oh where is my penis NOT gonna go?!

My ear.

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By *uzySuzyCouple
over a year ago

Lytham St Annes

Love massages talented masseurs get my attention and may take things further if they measure up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at your profile it would be hard not to fuck you.

If turned on could you hold out and not fuck him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a 'way in' in my experience - not that I've ever taken someone up on it. But if I wanted a massage I'd pay someone for it. On here, to me, it's very clearly a way of getting meets and getting their hands on your body. I'm not a fan of this approach and I definitely wouldn't trust that's what someone wanted from meeting on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know, maybe I'm a tad naive.

Maybe I'm weird.

Not weird, but ye gods I want a massage now

I can, and have, given sexual and non-sexual massages in the past. The non-sexual did involve some intimate massaging, but never led to sex...so does that still class as non-sexual?

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"Isn’t a massage code for, I’m going to rub your back for 2 minutes before I get bored and try it on with you.

No silly!

Back gets 30 seconds, back of thighs and butt gets 2 full minutes!

Then, oh would you look at that! my finger seems to have slipped in by accident

She gets it!

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"It's a 'way in' in my experience - not that I've ever taken someone up on it. But if I wanted a massage I'd pay someone for it. On here, to me, it's very clearly a way of getting meets and getting their hands on your body. I'm not a fan of this approach and I definitely wouldn't trust that's what someone wanted from meeting on here."

I know right? People fault the faf but at least it's the cards on the table!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.

Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?

That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected

Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry.

But non consential sex is r-ape

How to explain to you?

Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know.

Exactly it’s like £30 - £40 for a massage and will be loads better than sone random. If two people off here agree to meet for massage , one or both are hoping for sex.

£30-£40.....where?

Where I go is £60!!! Struggle to get less than £50.

I'm too close to London clearly."

Maybe I look on Gumtree & Facebook , I have a couple local to Nottingham charge £35 for one hour. Over here it’s it a cheaper 25-30. But if I go to a spa or hotel it’s £100, so I use the Just Life App to book massage, haircuts, manicures etc and they come to you

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I got offered one, he fucked me instead. Said he got distracted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking and reading your profile I’d get distracted giving your beautiful body a massage too. Drop me a DM. See you like kissing, I have a black belt in kissing. Xx ??

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know.

Exactly it’s like £30 - £40 for a massage and will be loads better than sone random. If two people off here agree to meet for massage , one or both are hoping for sex.

£30-£40.....where?

Where I go is £60!!! Struggle to get less than £50.

I'm too close to London clearly.

My friend sports masseur in Herts about £40 for half/hr and travels to clients "

I pay 30 for an hour, fully body massage and she comes to me.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"Looking and reading your profile I’d get distracted giving your beautiful body a massage too. Drop me a DM. See you like kissing, I have a black belt in kissing. Xx ?? "

Oh boy he wasn't lying about the charming!

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Tell me why a woman would sign up for that scenario? We can pay for massages, you know.

Exactly it’s like £30 - £40 for a massage and will be loads better than sone random. If two people off here agree to meet for massage , one or both are hoping for sex.

£30-£40.....where?

Where I go is £60!!! Struggle to get less than £50.

I'm too close to London clearly.

My friend sports masseur in Herts about £40 for half/hr and travels to clients

I pay 30 for an hour, fully body massage and she comes to me."

Plz send details x

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

What happened?

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

He's probably shit at it!! There's loads on here who sell themselves on giving a great massage but I know from experience they generally can't & yes, it will most likely turn sexual in about 3.5 minutes!

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By *hinstrapMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

It would defo be a test . I'd be massaging with a chub on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

I have offered nothing more than a Social and or a massage and no woman has ever taken me seriously.

Why would I want anything more if that's all I'm offering?

That's the thing I don't get when my offer gets rejected

Men lie about sex. Most women have encountered that, but you think they should believe a stranger online. Its not realistic, sorry."

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

He’ll try & sell you double glazing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It will start off non sexual, then he'll start going in all your nooks and crannies and gauge your reaction. So you never know!"

Yes I believe the same

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

His hypothalamus will kick in and he will go into either fight or flight mode.

Fight: He will fuck you to show dominance and that he has control of the massage.

Flight: He will feel threatened, and dig in trying to keep 3 points of contact with you. 2 hands and the third being his cock.He will fuck you.

You're welcome.

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By *orkshireBeef26Man
over a year ago

Kirkella

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

I give Sensual Massage without Sex,

Unless the Female in question asked for more than Massage..

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Looking and reading your profile I’d get distracted giving your beautiful body a massage too. Drop me a DM. See you like kissing, I have a black belt in kissing. Xx ?? "

Sorry you don't fit what I'm looking for.

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

This is interesting and would be very difficult not to want you. However if I was doing I would respect what you wanted to do and what you like or no. I always do that with all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must say, PW, this has been quite a revealing thread - don't you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looking and reading your profile I’d get distracted giving your beautiful body a massage too. Drop me a DM. See you like kissing, I have a black belt in kissing. Xx ??

Sorry you don't fit what I'm looking for.

No problem. Have fun anyways.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

"Looking and reading your profile I’d get distracted giving your beautiful body a massage too. Drop me a DM. See you like kissing, I have a black belt in kissing. Xx ??

Sorry you don't fit what I'm looking for.

What a polite blow out lol

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

I'm still trying to find out what happened? Did the op get the massage or a bit more!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I must say, PW, this has been quite a revealing thread - don't you think?

Yes ..I can't wait for my next 'he said/offered/wants' thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

Why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm still trying to find out what happened? Did the op get the massage or a bit more!!!"

No, I've been too busy with life to try booking him in!

Might take a couple of weeks.... that's if I even accept his offer.

Everyone's still waiting for the outcome of my he wants me to pee on his cock thread.

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By *c12Man
over a year ago

South East

i wish there were more opportunities like this on here, a one way/mutual massage is a perfect way to meet... if the chemistry is there then it will either wait until the next time or something will happen

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

So many men on here offer massage. Some of them are very good. Sometimes if they’re good at massage, the sex isn’t so great.

If I wanted a purely non sexual massage, I would pay a professional. In fact I have done!

I was horny afterwards though

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

Many years ago, when I ran a gym, a client had an injury that massage would help so I said she should get one.

She said I should do it. I went round her house and got a coffee and started working on her hamstring and an oedema in her quad.

We chatted and nothing untoward happened. I started on her shoulders (prone from the head end) and suddenly, out of the blue, she reached up and pulled my cock out of my shorts, pulled me closer and just started sucking me.

I was shocked but she was hot so a good time was had.

So PL, the question is, if he does stick to his word, will you ?

And how would it make you feel ?

As a point of order though, I would struggle with you

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

One would hope so, but I’ve heard so many horror stories start like this!

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By *r Massage For YouMan
over a year ago

Between Preston & Blackpool

If boundaries are set. I do hope he sticks to them.

I certainly would and do.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've had a few 'just massages' off here. A couple have tried it on, a couple have been as good as their word. I like skin contact and random people. The massages aren't usually that great though

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I've had a few 'just massages' off here. A couple have tried it on, a couple have been as good as their word. I like skin contact and random people. The massages aren't usually that great though

The massage might not have been the important part of that deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

I would be non sexual if that’s what you really wanted. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Update ....

He did it.

He didn't try to fuck me.

Mainly because he knew I'd squeal on this thread

I'm sure he's going to give me hell for that.

Bring it on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Update ....

He did it.

He didn't try to fuck me.

Mainly because he knew I'd squeal on this thread

I'm sure he's going to give me hell for that.

Bring it on!

Winner winner chicken dinner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to hear ALL about it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Update ....

He did it.

He didn't try to fuck me.

Mainly because he knew I'd squeal on this thread

I'm sure he's going to give me hell for that.

Bring it on!

So now the question is....did you want him to try it on, was the massage horny?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Update ....

He did it.

He didn't try to fuck me.

Mainly because he knew I'd squeal on this thread

I'm sure he's going to give me hell for that.

Bring it on!

So now the question is....did you want him to try it on, was the massage horny?

Oh I wanted to make sure he stuck to his word...I'm a bit of a cow like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But did it turn you on??

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

That man’s got will power….did he need to crack the code to get that close?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re getting nailed.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

If this is a genuine offer and your having to ask tells me you have doubts and in that case if that is a firm boundary with this person then I strongly advise you to reconsider his offer. Safety comes first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That man’s got will power….did he need to crack the code to get that close?"

No.

It amuses me so much that the guys think that cracking the code will get them a social or more with me.

Given the context of the profile and what it is exactly it just proves a massive sarcastic point.

Forget the code and the message in my profile is lost anyway because no one on here seems gets my sense of humour at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will if you want, won’t if you don’t. Can’t see your problem?

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

"That man’s got will power….did he need to crack the code to get that close?

No.

It amuses me so much that the guys think that cracking the code will get them a social or more with me.

Given the context of the profile and what it is exactly it just proves a massive sarcastic point.

Forget the code and the message in my profile is lost anyway because no one on here seems gets my sense of humour at all."

Maybe but maybe not….and if there was a code I’m a lazy fucker so wouldn’t be arsed unless it was to gain access to food…..

Also I did pester you with a message once I think about confusing the confused regarding your profile….

Finally do you actually get people contacting you attempting the impossible ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That man’s got will power…."

Petite has will power too! I'd cave if it was that good! Lol

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

"That man’s got will power….

Petite has will power too! I'd cave if it was that good! Lol"

Would you trust a stranger in the first place or would you need to know than a bit?

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

"It will start off non sexual, then he'll start going in all your nooks and crannies and gauge your reaction. So you never know!"

Have we met?

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

"Non sexual, do you think he can do it?

Or will he try to fuck me?

Depends on the guy I guess, he’s probably hoping you might want it to become sexual if he does a good enough job, but might just enjoy getting his hands all over your body anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That man’s got will power….

Petite has will power too! I'd cave if it was that good! Lol

Would you trust a stranger in the first place or would you need to know than a bit?"

I've been in that situation and it was horny as fuck. I'm a go with the flow type, so if it feels right, why not!

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

"That man’s got will power….

Petite has will power too! I'd cave if it was that good! Lol

Would you trust a stranger in the first place or would you need to know than a bit?

I've been in that situation and it was horny as fuck. I'm a go with the flow type, so if it feels right, why not!"

Would you expect him to try it on… would you feel pissed if he didn’t….would you feel kissed if he did..

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

"That man’s got will power….

Petite has will power too! I'd cave if it was that good! Lol

Would you trust a stranger in the first place or would you need to know than a bit?

I've been in that situation and it was horny as fuck. I'm a go with the flow type, so if it feels right, why not!

Would you expect him to try it on… would you feel pissed if he didn’t….would you feel kissed if he did.."

Pissed….

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By *uzySuzyCouple
over a year ago

Lytham St Annes

"I got offered one, he fucked me instead. Said he got distracted

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they all seem to get distracted lol

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By *B KINGSCouple (MM)
over a year ago

South

Oldest trick in the book LOL

Alongside ‘ can we meet and JUST cuddle ‘

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oldest trick in the book LOL

Alongside ‘ can we meet and JUST cuddle ‘

Hate that kind of thing...can I just give you pleasure then leave..etc!

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

"I got offered one, he fucked me instead. Said he got distracted

they all seem to get distracted lol

Not difficult with you!

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By *eacefulWizardMan
over a year ago

Valais, Switzerland

I am not a professional (as per working massagist)

Yet when I give a tantric massage or yoni massage there is no sex after it

The only exception was with my partner and we would connect to tantric sex which is another world of it's own. Of it tantric sex and not a tantric massage with clear communication defined.

Same goes when I do OMing (orgasmic meditation) where I am clothed and the process is all made to release what is needed, or open up worlds long lost... Emotions, sensations, and being able to express everything she feels, with absolutely no reciprocity.

Both are connecting to the intimate zone, tantra to the whole body OM only 1 inch area.

If it brought up desire in both, I would offer to meet on another occasion, and move from there, but this session... Is this session, and it's non reciprocal when defined as such.

If it's sensual, we define boundaries and as in all tantra... The yes, the no, the safe word, the agreement to further based in what was spoken before.

If not spoken, and no agreement word, it is very clear.

Consent and communication

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