FabSwingers.com forum: What was the worst decision you ever made

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Evening everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joining fab

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Oh wow, that's an impressive dumpster fire of red flags, I already have no will to live right now, let's see just how bad it can go!

Spoiler alert, real fucking bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Joining fab"

This, but unironically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How am I meant to pick one?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting married.

I'm not married anymore

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Getting married.

I'm not married anymore

Saaame

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

So many to pick from… so much time to make even worse ones

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By *apidaryMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not buying those Google shares when it first floated, deciding to dive into that shallow lake when pissed, spending some years in my twenties with a cold unfriendly heart, getting an indoor-only cat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Getting married.

I'm not married anymore

Saaame

You live and learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buying a new build.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Technically most of my weren't really my fault.

My career maybe?

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

"Joining fab"

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Picking up that first bag of heroin, ended up costing me more than money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol I’m not touching that

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Getting married.

I'm not married anymore

I did that one twice… just to make sure I fucked it up a second time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still trying to decide if almost giving into my demons or not going through with it is the worst

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Moving to Cornwall

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Moving to Cornwall "

Yeah Devon is the bomb!!

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

Nothing in particular springs to mind... maybe picking the Uni course that I did, for the reasons that I did. Or maybe agreeing to that "summer" job I took back in 2006 that I seem to still be doing to this day...

I like to think that my worst life decisions are still ahead of me!

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Not to start overpaying my mortgage when the slump started in 2008.

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"Moving to Cornwall "

Really? I love that place. Why? X

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By *lay 4 your plessureMan
over a year ago

Wigan

Can't really think of anything major, but I'm more of a everything happens for a reason sort of person anyway.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Not asking the girl I was in love with at school if she'd like to go out with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing my neighbour on the way home from the pub last week

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

Not paying a fine ending up on remand with the recommendation of borstal training..I ended up paying the fine when it came back to court..(I'd seen scum..I was certainly no Carlin but also I would have steered clear of any potting sheds. ..

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Chorley, Eng

Not getting help sooner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting married, not because of whom I'm married to, just because of the price of a piece of paper that means very little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not getting help sooner. "

Felt that one, when I was younger I felt too proud to admit that I had something like ADHD, I wish I sorted it right away instead of putting it off.

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By *issIrishCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Making friends

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By *uffolk_bigguyMan
over a year ago

Tractor Town

Probably quicker to ask what's the best decision I've ever made - would be a very short list....

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By *ongueGuyMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Getting married, cost to my health was greater than anything.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Me,suppress my D/s need

L, suppress her bi want

Both I suppose got in the way to create an Acacia avenue relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not walking out on my ex years earlier. I had bags packed in the car and everything!

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

I let the perfect woman go for an imperfect one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Managing my own mind……so far

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

late 90's, i turned down buying a relatives house for £35k, as i thought it needed too much work and didn't like the area. They rented it out for 3 years instead, did no work on it and then sold it for £90K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m probably sone one else’s worst decision ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Downloaded CandyCrush again

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Chorley, Eng

"Not getting help sooner.

Felt that one, when I was younger I felt too proud to admit that I had something like ADHD, I wish I sorted it right away instead of putting it off."

Yeah but it is never too late!

I am glad I found good help in my 30s and a diagnosis in my 40s. But I also know I am incredibly privileged to have been able to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not getting help sooner.

Felt that one, when I was younger I felt too proud to admit that I had something like ADHD, I wish I sorted it right away instead of putting it off.

Yeah but it is never too late!

I am glad I found good help in my 30s and a diagnosis in my 40s. But I also know I am incredibly privileged to have been able to.

It wasn't until I worked for myself that I realised how bad it was. 53 now and I'm not going to seek a diagnosis but I do seek advice & info which helps.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Choosing to hang up a curtain pole, rather than go to the GP with my wife the day she died. I never got to say goodbye.

That's my last conversation with her.

'Have you still got that headache? You need to go the docs'

'I am I made an appointment.'

'Want me to come with you?'

'No it's ok you finish that, I'll be fine.'

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Cheating on someone I cared about.huge mistake, I’ll never do that again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The worst one....I won't divulge that in here it's way too much for a forum post. Even typing it would traumatise me.

Otherwise ...it's quite possibly where I removed someone's hold or gun to my head on me to the point if possibly losing them forever.

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

The easy answer would be getting married… but then every decision I’ve made has led me to this point, and I’m pretty happy with where I am now…. So would I be better or worse of if I’d made a different choice back then?

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Worst decision not investing life savings into Eth in 2020

Best decision not investing life savings .......

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