FabSwingers.com forum: Replying to a status update?

By *uckmonkey OP Man
over a year ago

devon

Just a quick question…….

If you pop up a status update do you mind getting messages about it or is it as bad as an unsolicited cock pic….

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Depends if it is asking for a reply. Either way I'm not too fussed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind but I always feel a little mean deleting it after.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't mind, but it depends on the message - if it's your first thought, don't, because I've probably had a dozen of them already. (in the world where I get messages, which I don't)

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By *uckmonkey OP Man
over a year ago

devon

"I don't mind but I always feel a little mean deleting it after."

The update or the message?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I don't mind getting messages about it. Whether I open the message and reply is another matter entirely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who the message is from.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I rarely post statuses, so if I do I'm likely attention seeking. If my message filters are open I'm definitely attention seeking.

But everyone operates the site and it's functions in their own way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's actually relevant to the status I have no issue with it. If its someone trying to use it as a "way in" then I ignore it.

Often I post events in attending on my status. Sometimes people message to say their attending too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just nice to get a message now and then

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By *uckmonkey OP Man
over a year ago

devon

Do you post them expecting reply’s or is it just a thought you need to share? To all….

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

I get at least 20 off an update, I set song lyrics most days and people message with the answer. I don't mind at all.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Do you post them expecting reply’s or is it just a thought you need to share? To all…."

Bit of both

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Sometimes it’s a little cringey…I think it depends on the update.

Someone wrote a mills and boon type response on what they wanted to do to C’s breasts after our last update.

Was

What do you say to that??

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By *untimes wantedMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

The reason i would normally put a status update is i would normally be looking for a meet or something in particular.

So i would expect messages but would hope they had read my profile before messaging.

Only time it would annoy me is if it says not meeting or looking for anyone.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yes sometimes I do on my single profile.

If it's from the same people who wait and then send a message constantly when I've put an update on.

I often put a quote I like or a song lyric.I don't feel everything needs a comment ,unless I'm asking for one.

I recently put a status about a rugby match I was watching & this bloke put he was watching too & attached 6 cock pics in!!no need,I'd have happily chatted about the game.

So I guess it depends on the nature of the reply to it and if it's one of those pests who pounce on an update.

Miss

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By *uckmonkey OP Man
over a year ago

devon

Thanks for the responses fabbers, it’s just that I do this but sometimes feel they think I might be hitting on them and don’t want this to be the case….

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I think a status update is a good thing to message about, I've messaged people I've never spoken to about their status

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

"Depends who the message is from. "

This

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

I’ve probably met more people after messages about their status than through ‘cold calling’.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I don’t mind. But like with everything, it depends how it’s done.

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge

"I get at least 20 off an update, I set song lyrics most days and people message with the answer. I don't mind at all."

Your current status is very thoughtful. RIP Sinead xx

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

If mine is weird, it is usually due to a forum challenge.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Don't mind at all! Expect it in fact x

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

I hope it's ok...they lead to some of my best sent messages, even if others don't think so!

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I hope people don’t mind as that’s how a lot of my conversations start

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By *ddkkk91Man
over a year ago

fife

I do it sometimes..

I suppose it depends on a status and person

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