FabSwingers.com forum: Over friendly

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you're the friendly type, message anyone kinda thing, then that other person starts getting a lil frisky. How do you turn them down without coming across a total dick?

Do men turn women down???

Obviously this isn't for me, I don't talk to people.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Talking about my hairy toes usually does the trick

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

Turned you down didn't I

Never really had it happen with somebody I'm not really interested in anyway.

I just don't respond in any kind of frisky way. Just direct the convo back toward none frisky stuff.

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By *rincess-PeachWoman
over a year ago

irrelevant

I don't mind coming across as a dick tbh. I have no issues turning people down. Same as I get turned down myself and just shrug.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Tell them about your recent bowl moments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you trying to unfriend me Lilith

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m married so I don’t have this problem but if I did… I would just talk about an ex.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Tell them about your recent bowl moments "

Bowel movements even, unless you want to tell them about the life of your bowl but that's boring

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

“I’ll just check with the wife”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually mention that I'm off to see one of my harem and that often kills it dead. Most men what you to themselves.

If they seem ok with that I just leave them unread for a good week or two...actually I do that to everyone because I ignore my inbox a lot.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I am just brutally blunt

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Talking about my hairy toes usually does the trick

Some people like that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Talking about my hairy toes usually does the trick

I had to look didn't I.

So unless the photo of 11 October 2020 was following a shave, I assume that during lockdown your toe hair must have sprouted!

Now, if you really want to be turned off, let's start talking about nostril hair (No!No!) or ear hair (talking Vince Cable here)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Turned you down didn't I

Never really had it happen with somebody I'm not really interested in anyway.

I just don't respond in any kind of frisky way. Just direct the convo back toward none frisky stuff."

This explains why you keep changing the conversation to food

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Talking about my hairy toes usually does the trick

Some people like that...

Now hairy backs are quite repulsive - unless you need a rug in the winter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be straight with them just say look your not my type that way but penpals is totally fine my mail box’s is always open if you want to chat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't mind coming across as a dick tbh. I have no issues turning people down. Same as I get turned down myself and just shrug.

Me either, apparently some people struggle with it though. Embrace the bitchiness I say!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tell them about your recent bowl moments "

Again, some people are into this.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"Turned you down didn't I

Never really had it happen with somebody I'm not really interested in anyway.

I just don't respond in any kind of frisky way. Just direct the convo back toward none frisky stuff.

This explains why you keep changing the conversation to food

Remember that time I showed you my crumpets. A bit like that yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you trying to unfriend me Lilith

Trying to? Check your friends list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"“I’ll just check with the wife”"

Hang on, she says she's having fun. Is it alright if she comes back on Sunday?

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Generally not an issue, I do a good enough job of turning people off me in the first place. I'm like a walking red flag

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Do men turn women down???"

Yeah, we do. Well I do anyway. Can’t speak for my whole gender.

I don’t ghost any conversations, but I’ll steer them away from the filth if that’s not what I’m looking for. Or I’ll leave replying until the next morning, when the horn’s unlikely to still be there.

To be fair though, most times I welcome a bit of friskiness in my box. Just not *all* the time.

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

It’s normally the I only like you as a fab friend, no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you trying to unfriend me Lilith

Trying to? Check your friends list."

Rude.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Tell them about your recent bowl moments

Again, some people are into this."

I'm not judging but you're into some weird stuff

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Ib ask then to stop. If they don't they are blocked. I'm not interested in any guy who won't respect my boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is where my mother instilling politeness becomes an issue! It's hard to unleash the inner bitch! Lol.

Chat on fab is easier! Just ignore lol

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I tell them. My words depend on what they're saying.

I was recently contacted by someone I didn't meet from here who went quiet after I'd seen him a few times. He'd popped back up on the app I'd met him on.

He'd moved, got a new job, found and lost a girlfriend and saw me on the app so asked for my number.

I told him I'm not engaging in sex chat and when he started talking about the things we did I told him he's boring me, I don't want to that kind of conversation for him to wank over.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Turned you down didn't I

Never really had it happen with somebody I'm not really interested in anyway.

I just don't respond in any kind of frisky way. Just direct the convo back toward none frisky stuff.

This explains why you keep changing the conversation to food

Remember that time I showed you my crumpets. A bit like that yes. "

They were good crumpets though

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Simples.

Ignore the in box.

People mostly get the message… or not.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

If it is on here then I will probably realise that it _isn’t_ a couple or single lady that I am actually talking to and just block them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you trying to unfriend me Lilith

Trying to? Check your friends list.

Rude."

Simple though right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tell them about your recent bowl moments

Again, some people are into this.

I'm not judging but you're into some weird stuff

Weird is good though right??

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"If it is on here then I will probably realise that it _isn’t_ a couple or single lady that I am actually talking to and just block them.

3.33333% chance it is a woman! Some of them think nothing but filth 24/7

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"Turned you down didn't I

Never really had it happen with somebody I'm not really interested in anyway.

I just don't respond in any kind of frisky way. Just direct the convo back toward none frisky stuff.

This explains why you keep changing the conversation to food

Remember that time I showed you my crumpets. A bit like that yes.

They were good crumpets though"

They were good! No crumpets today though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you trying to unfriend me Lilith

Trying to? Check your friends list.

Rude.

Simple though right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to feel a bit bad because I wouldn't want them feeling bad about themselves if I told them I wasn't interested. I know we all have preferences and I'm entitled to them too, but it still doesn't feel good to let people down if they're being friendly and flirty with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to feel a bit bad because I wouldn't want them feeling bad about themselves if I told them I wasn't interested. I know we all have preferences and I'm entitled to them too, but it still doesn't feel good to let people down if they're being friendly and flirty with me

Take one for the team?

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"If you're the friendly type, message anyone kinda thing, then that other person starts getting a lil frisky. How do you turn them down without coming across a total dick?

Do men turn women down???

Obviously this isn't for me, I don't talk to people.

lol no men never turn down anyone. We will all shag anyone with a pulse of course.

I find online version of Just a Minute works well with Hesitation, Repetition and Deviation. Just keep asking about the weather a few times usually works.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Tell them about your recent bowl moments

Again, some people are into this.

I'm not judging but you're into some weird stuff

Weird is good though right??"

Well yes

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By *_J111Woman
over a year ago

home

To start with I would just not put multiple kisses or flirty emojis in my messages if I am not into them sexually and if they push it then I am just honest and tell them that I am happy to chat as friends but I am not interested in it being anything more than that.

MJ x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have turned woman down. If I don’t feel comfortable with the way a chat is going or I don’t feel that we are a good match then I will tell them.

Sometimes it can be that the written word doesn’t have sentiment but on the whole o think you just get a feeling.

I won’t meet people I don’t feel I would get along with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the conversation dries up and they have not asked to meet me then I take it as a "not interested". Its extremely rare that I fab or wink so if I do then that's my come on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take one for the team?"

Bruh...

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

" To start with I would just not put multiple kisses or flirty emojis in my messages if I am not into them sexually and if they push it then I am just honest and tell them that I am happy to chat as friends but I am not interested in it being anything more than that.

MJ x"

FAF

xxxxxxx

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

I think it's very different for women to men to be honest.

My general assumption is women are gonna give less of a shit if you've been flirty but don't progress because they will have 100 other men they could message and try again.

If a woman's flirted with a guy and then says no or stops my guess is most are gonna have a tantrum about it.

Long story short, I can't help. But telling them straight without being like now I've seen that face it's a no (brutal!) is the best way to go I think!

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By *_J111Woman
over a year ago

home

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By *_J111Woman
over a year ago

home

MJ x

FAF

xxxxxxx"

tell me when!

xxx

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Usually sending them my face picture results in a ghost/block to follow shortly.

Works for me so far.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

If it's someone I'm not interested in, I'll politely ignore it and focus on other parts of their message. And do that repeatedly until they get the idea. I love talking to people but it's very rare I get that grrr feeling until I've met them in person.

I don't mind a bit of friskiness but I do joke around a little bit if I feel it's becoming a bit too sexual if that makes sense?

I don't think I'm very flirty generally so I don't tend to give out mixed signals. In my mind anyway. :D

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

"Turned you down didn't I

Never really had it happen with somebody I'm not really interested in anyway.

I just don't respond in any kind of frisky way. Just direct the convo back toward none frisky stuff."

^ This.

Except I haven’t turned you down yet OP

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"Turned you down didn't I

Never really had it happen with somebody I'm not really interested in anyway.

I just don't respond in any kind of frisky way. Just direct the convo back toward none frisky stuff.

^ This.

Except I haven’t turned you down yet OP "

Oh you will

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

"Turned you down didn't I

Never really had it happen with somebody I'm not really interested in anyway.

I just don't respond in any kind of frisky way. Just direct the convo back toward none frisky stuff.

^ This.

Except I haven’t turned you down yet OP

Oh you will"

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Why would anyone on earth ever turn down OP?

(Enter the WHITE KNIGHT - ALL WOMEN ARE BEAUTIFUL HAVE YOU SEEN A FOOF?!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To turn a woman down would imply people come onto me….

I’m just friendly anyway, and can’t say no to a hot sexy woman … call me.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"If it's someone I'm not interested in, I'll politely ignore it and focus on other parts of their message. And do that repeatedly until they get the idea. I love talking to people but it's very rare I get that grrr feeling until I've met them in person.

I don't mind a bit of friskiness but I do joke around a little bit if I feel it's becoming a bit too sexual if that makes sense?

I don't think I'm very flirty generally so I don't tend to give out mixed signals. In my mind anyway. :D"

I also do the ignoring the sexual or flirting part of the message and respond to the rest.

Sometimes they get bored and wander off; sometimes they carry on chatting-which may result in a little flirting down the line.

It takes me quite some time to warm up to some people.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

Friend zone them - let them down easy though - something like - ‘ i love chatting but I don’t see us being intimate - you physically repulse me and i gag on my own vomit when I even think about you touching me in that way!!’

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

Oh and I have turned a couple of women down with varying levels of ‘how fucking dare you - you shallow prick!’ As a response … apparently some women handle q polite no thanks as badly as the men.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I don't mind a bit of friskiness but I do joke around a little bit if I feel it's becoming a bit too sexual if that makes sense?

I don't think I'm very flirty generally so I don't tend to give out mixed signals. In my mind anyway. :D

I also do the ignoring the sexual or flirting part of the message and respond to the rest.

Sometimes they get bored and wander off; sometimes they carry on chatting-which may result in a little flirting down the line.

It takes me quite some time to warm up to some people.

Yes, I'm exactly the same Nanna. I do enjoy flirting with some people but it takes me time to get to that point. I feel awkward if it's... almost unexpectedly thrust at me. Unless I'm ovulating and I really shouldn't respond to any messages.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Oh and I have turned a couple of women down with varying levels of ‘how fucking dare you - you shallow prick!’ As a response … apparently some women handle q polite no thanks as badly as the men.

Experienced this myself, and if you've seen what I'm working with externally, I can't afford to be shallow

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"If it is on here then I will probably realise that it _isn’t_ a couple or single lady that I am actually talking to and just block them.

3.33333% chance it is a woman! Some of them think nothing but filth 24/7"

Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some fannies stink though

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I knew there was a reason I don't read my messages...

I just assume everyone realises I'm not actually meeting anyone and if they steer the conversation to the saucy areas... I tend to say something like "that's nice dear". Apparently that ruins an erection

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

"I knew there was a reason I don't read my messages...

Ooooffft……ahhhhhhhhh - not always!!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"...How do you turn them down without coming across a total dick?

Do men turn women down???"

•

Yes they do. At least I do anyway. I'm going through a shortlist now and this will invariably require some letters of regret and disappointment.

I can always offer them to Rose Tinted Glasses as a form of recompense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would probably just friend zone it. ‘I’m so glad I’ve found a friend I can get on with so well! It’s like if I’d had a sister!’

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Start talking about another man, they generally don't like the competition or they want you all to themselves.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I knew there was a reason I don't read my messages...

Ooooffft……ahhhhhhhhh - not always!!

Aww man!

What about "ok, jolly nice to hear from you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Start talking about another man, they generally don't like the competition or they want you all to themselves. "

Unless he’s a cuck and then you’ve just turned him on even more.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"If you're the friendly type, message anyone kinda thing, then that other person starts getting a lil frisky. How do you turn them down without coming across a total dick?

Do men turn women down???

Obviously this isn't for me, I don't talk to people.

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just block them that normally does the trick

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

The responses (100s) I get range from 'thanks, but no thanks' to 'fuck off fatty'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’m quite good at deflecting the flirty comments and changing the subject in the hope that they eventually get the message.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"I think I’m quite good at deflecting the flirty comments and changing the subject in the hope that they eventually get the message. "

Now you have just admitted it and they will see it as a challenge now. Commence with the bombardment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm thick, it never occurs to me that they might be flirty. When I say I thought we were chatting as friends they disappear.

#wethole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just try and be polite and honest, expect the same when turned down. No need to be rude IMHO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I’m quite good at deflecting the flirty comments and changing the subject in the hope that they eventually get the message.

Now you have just admitted it and they will see it as a challenge now. Commence with the bombardment "

I’m pleased you think people like me enough to do that

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"I think I’m quite good at deflecting the flirty comments and changing the subject in the hope that they eventually get the message.

Now you have just admitted it and they will see it as a challenge now. Commence with the bombardment

I’m pleased you think people like me enough to do that

I do. I'm just lazy so won't be doing it.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"I think I’m quite good at deflecting the flirty comments and changing the subject in the hope that they eventually get the message. "

Don't I fucking know it

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I'm thick, it never occurs to me that they might be flirty. When I say I thought we were chatting as friends they disappear.

#wethole"

It could be the sexy face pics you send that get them all worked up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm thick, it never occurs to me that they might be flirty. When I say I thought we were chatting as friends they disappear.

#wethole

It could be the sexy face pics you send that get them all worked up.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

It’s not something I seem to have a problem with, so I guess I’m not the friendly, message anyone kinda type anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're the friendly type, message anyone kinda thing, then that other person starts getting a lil frisky. How do you turn them down without coming across a total dick?

Do men turn women down???

Obviously this isn't for me, I don't talk to people.

I turn people down if they query things more than once or go back on their word or seem fake

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"If you're the friendly type, message anyone kinda thing, then that other person starts getting a lil frisky. How do you turn them down without coming across a total dick?

Do men turn women down???

Obviously this isn't for me, I don't talk to people.

I turn people down if they query things more than once or go back on their word or seem fake

What did you say

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By *cLovin2Man
over a year ago

Reading

"If you're the friendly type, message anyone kinda thing, then that other person starts getting a lil frisky. How do you turn them down without coming across a total dick?

Do men turn women down???

Obviously this isn't for me, I don't talk to people.

speaking honestly I had to turn down a friend once whom I'd briefly seen previously, when I said its better we remain friends, she grabbed my erect penis! twice!

True story. A man actually turned down sex. There must be summat wrong with me

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

There are women I would turn down. Amazingly, there are women that I'm just not attracted to.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

There's a simple answer as in just own it:

'I don't feel that way about you, sorry.'

But then it's a grey area sometimes? Rules are great until you actually need them.

It's like I can see you are hot. I like the way you handle yourself. But all of that is just an idea in my head, a reflection. I don't really know you. So for me, sexual attraction hasn't had the chance to form.

So yeah I am often in a position where women get a lil 'frisky' and I'm not feeling it. I guess it's turning down in the moment, but it doesn't mean I am never going to feel it. If I have to, I explain that. Some take it better than others.

It's openness too. If it's just a bit of fun, both are aware it's a bit of fantasy, like this doesn't mean it's going to happen. You can't know without trying sometimes. And that can go either way.

There you go problem solved, cleared that all up for you.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Just say sexy talk isn’t for us if we aren’t feeling it.

We don’t really chit chat on here though - so it doesn’t really happen.

Don’t have time to mess about and keep people interested - they are either in the sexy chat bracket or not

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

They usually just tell me they are leaving the country for 6 months!

And put their trainers on and run!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"If you're the friendly type, message anyone kinda thing, then that other person starts getting a lil frisky. How do you turn them down without coming across a total dick?

Do men turn women down???

Obviously this isn't for me, I don't talk to people.

I turned down more offers than I've accepted on here usually because our definitions of chatting for "a while" are vastly different.

I'm always polite but if they persist I become less mannerly.

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over a year ago

"If you're the friendly type, message anyone kinda thing, then that other person starts getting a lil frisky. How do you turn them down without coming across a total dick?

Do men turn women down???

Obviously this isn't for me, I don't talk to people.

I just slow the conversation down between replies tbh.

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over a year ago

Not having had the opportunity to turn anyone down, that’s hard to say. Also, I tend to be the one getting occasionally frisky, although I try to keep it in check….

More than one woman of whom my aim was solely to get in her pants has evolved into just a chat buddy ……..

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge

"If you're the friendly type, message anyone kinda thing, then that other person starts getting a lil frisky. How do you turn them down without coming across a total dick?

Do men turn women down???

Obviously this isn't for me, I don't talk to people.

I couldn't possibly say. I've not had a woman get frisky with me for quite a while. I live in hope though!

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