FabSwingers.com forum: Connection

By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

How do you most often find people to connect with on here?

Are you a searcher? A chat room person? Do you mostly look at local updates? Or other methods?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much exclusively forum for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really search. Years on I still tend to stick to the forums and I've been lucky to connect and even meet some great people.

Some connections are fleeting and some keep me going back for more.

All are great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones I have connected with most found me. Not other way round, which is sort of flattering I guess

. They were able to make something tremble in my mind with easiness and the connection happened without overthinking. Just a joyous 'oh and ah' whilst stepping into each others desire closets.

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

"I don't really search. Years on I still tend to stick to the forums and I've been lucky to connect and even meet some great people.

Some connections are fleeting and some keep me going back for more.

All are great. "

I’ve been lucky with the forums too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t search for anyone, I just wait and hope for the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the forum. People will usually interact with us once they figure out our humour. And it's not very humorous so the other person but actually just be bored... Huh

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

"I don’t search for anyone, I just wait and hope for the best. "

I guess having tits helps!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you most often find people to connect with on here?

Are you a searcher? A chat room person? Do you mostly look at local updates? Or other methods?"

Mostly message, or receive them.

It's like waling through quicksand tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look for people through search, forums, chat, local updates etc. But I generally only successfully connect through forums. I’ve met people from other parts of the site like search or local updates and chat room but generally don’t get replies that way.

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

I only use the forums. There are some good people here who have become friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not just the forums! There are some hot guys out there.

I reckon I know straight off if they're my type.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Previously a mix of forums, socials, clubs and messages. So I guess we’ll see if that still stands.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Very occasionally i wink at someone, i said wink!!...but thats it. Never messaged anyone...not brave enough...my pics and bio are rubbish. But still get plenty in my box.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the forum a good filter for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never used the search thing, only clicked on the who's near to see if I recognise anyone

that's about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t search for anyone, I just wait and hope for the best.

I guess having tits helps! "

True.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I find the other weirdos in the forums, hi weirdos

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

The connections find me.

Some stay for longer, some don’t but I’m equally grateful for every single one of them.

They all teach me different things, and most importantly, I get to know myself better through them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never used the search thing, only clicked on the who's near to see if I recognise anyone

that's about it!"

I knew it was you in Morrisons the other week!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never used the search thing, only clicked on the who's near to see if I recognise anyone

that's about it!

I knew it was you in Morrisons the other week!!"

Knew there was a trail

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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

Mostly the forums, occasionally browse the "Nearby" feed.

But I tend to mostly converse with the same 10 friends or so .xx

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"How do you most often find people to connect with on here?

Are you a searcher? A chat room person? Do you mostly look at local updates? Or other methods?"

im trying my hardest to get kicked off this site

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Only use the forums for the forums and to chat to friends.

We swim in deeper waters for our play friends. There’s a whole world outside of the forums.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

If I'm actively looking, I'll happily search.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"I don’t search for anyone, I just wait and hope for the best. "

That is pretty much me, but being a man on fab, I think I disappear like a fart in the wind

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"I don’t search for anyone, I just wait and hope for the best. "

Same, usually when I go looking or make a first move they end up being dickheads or not as they appear (on the forums)

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

They message me because I've opened my filters.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"How do you most often find people to connect with on here?

Are you a searcher? A chat room person? Do you mostly look at local updates? Or other methods?

im trying my hardest to get kicked off this site "

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t search for anyone, I just wait and hope for the best.

That is pretty much me, but being a man on fab, I think I disappear like a fart in the wind"

It hasn’t been working out very well for me either so I wouldn’t worry

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"I don’t search for anyone, I just wait and hope for the best.

That is pretty much me, but being a man on fab, I think I disappear like a fart in the wind

It hasn’t been working out very well for me either so I wouldn’t worry

I’m just in the wind somewhere

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By *ankShandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

I liberally sprayed DMs via search before I found the forum.

As *SOON* as I found the forum I had a ... what are they called, when you're suddenly struck by something... not an apocalypse, the other one.

Well anyway, I had one of them, deleted all the DMs I'd sent, and from here on it's forum and socials for me.

That said, I do LOVE a good chat and when I do get my profile in public view if anyone ever wants a chat, please don't hesitate to DM me.

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By *ankShandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

"I liberally sprayed DMs via search before I found the forum.

As *SOON* as I found the forum I had a ... what are they called, when you're suddenly struck by something... not an apocalypse, the other one.

Well anyway, I had one of them, deleted all the DMs I'd sent, and from here on it's forum and socials for me.

That said, I do LOVE a good chat and when I do get my profile in public view if anyone ever wants a chat, please don't hesitate to DM me."

Epiphany.

I had an epiphany.

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Definitely not just the forums! There are some hot guys out there.

I reckon I know straight off if they're my type.

Love the new pic! There really needs to be a fire emoji

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They message me because I've opened my filters.

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oh I love filters

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By *avid 50Man
over a year ago

kendal

Mainly through the forums I find if you put effort in to chat and make comments other people on the site respond and the chat begins if you sit back and wait you get old

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By *ankShandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

"They message me because I've opened my filters.

Bad Nanna I want to look at your profile (it's your own fault. You challenged me by saying you doubted I would be interested in another forum chat

)

When I've had time to do/launch my own profile, please can I look at yours please?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I'm not a searcher.

I'm not a local updates 'gazer', unless I'm feeling languid and need to focus on the local absurdity for amusement.

I don't do chatrooms.

In the last 2½ years my connections have been made on the back of messages landing in my inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not just the forums! There are some hot guys out there.

I reckon I know straight off if they're my type.

I've told you many time the closest you're getting to me is with F, but we can still be "friends" (banter in the fora)

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