FabSwingers.com forum: Lamp-post pissing...

By *he Kat 666 OP Woman
over a year ago

Salisbury

Why?? *sad and grumpy face* why does this still happen?? Why do people do it?? Hayllllp me here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're hot

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By *entleman_of_pleasureMan
over a year ago

Manchester

How else are we to mark our territory?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not to one think this place has teached me leave the ego at the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we talking about street urination here or have I missed the point?

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By *he Kat 666 OP Woman
over a year ago

Salisbury

"Are we talking about street urination here or have I missed the point? "

People trying to mark their territory on others....

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"Are we talking about street urination here or have I missed the point?

People trying to mark their territory on others....

So women don't really forget or lose their earrings when they stay over? Is that what you're saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we talking about street urination here or have I missed the point?

People trying to mark their territory on others....

Is this a private life thing or forums in general. Sorry if I'm being a bit dense. I did Google it but got a story about a city centre street light being corroded by urine ffs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we talking about street urination here or have I missed the point?

People trying to mark their territory on others....

Is this a private life thing or forums in general. Sorry if I'm being a bit dense. I did Google it but got a story about a city centre street light being corroded by urine ffs. "

People maybe overly overtly flirting to let everyone know that the person is theirs! Happens Lots on here and mostly people care because it leads to drama or sometimes monogamous jealous thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thoughts are nobody is mine and I’m nobodies. So (not that they’ll want to) nobody can piss on me. I’m for the streets.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

It happens all the time. You can see just from reading the threads...who is almost staking their claim on who...or is it whom

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

The dog loves it when I take him for a walk....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone flirts with someone on the forums do you automatically assume they're doing it to mark their territory or do you you think they may actually just be flirting and only flirting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just see it as flirting, or god help me "banter".

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By *he Kat 666 OP Woman
over a year ago

Salisbury

It's more the "flirting with people and someone going full in and trying to claim their territory and making it a horrible situation" thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we talking about street urination here or have I missed the point?

People trying to mark their territory on others....

Is this a private life thing or forums in general. Sorry if I'm being a bit dense. I did Google it but got a story about a city centre street light being corroded by urine ffs.

People maybe overly overtly flirting to let everyone know that the person is theirs! Happens Lots on here and mostly people care because it leads to drama or sometimes monogamous jealous thoughts. "

Ohhhh, I get it now. Like when I tread is dry then a certain person posts on it and all of a sudden it springs to life with back and forth in jokes, Or have I missed the point again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It happens all the time. You can see just from reading the threads...who is almost staking their claim on who...or is it whom

I must be really thick as I've no idea who's doing who.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's more the "flirting with people and someone going full in and trying to claim their territory and making it a horrible situation" thing

Oh, I don't really see that.

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By *he Kat 666 OP Woman
over a year ago

Salisbury

"I just see it as flirting, or god help me "banter". "

Yassssss!!! Me too!!! But why do some people feel the need to 'claim'?? Someone and try bat anyone else off that may be interested???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It happens all the time. You can see just from reading the threads...who is almost staking their claim on who...or is it whom

I must be really thick as I've no idea who's doing who. "

I have a list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just see it as flirting, or god help me "banter". "

Me too.

And I'll forum flirt or 'banter' and think everyone else sees at as just that.

But clearly some don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not into watersports

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It happens all the time. You can see just from reading the threads...who is almost staking their claim on who...or is it whom

I must be really thick as I've no idea who's doing who.

I have a list."

Now I'm hearing "mambo number 5" in my head

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

"It happens all the time. You can see just from reading the threads...who is almost staking their claim on who...or is it whom

I must be really thick as I've no idea who's doing who. "

Oh nor me either...but some are a little more obvious than others

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Most of the time it's just flirting. Two people enjoying bouncing off each other's energy. Yeah sure, sometimes they're fucking each other. Sometimes they just enjoy the attention.

I don't mind it when it's like that. If it's someone giving strong "hands off, this person is mine" energy, fuck that.

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By *he Kat 666 OP Woman
over a year ago

Salisbury

"Most of the time it's just flirting. Two people enjoying bouncing off each other's energy. Yeah sure, sometimes they're fucking each other. Sometimes they just enjoy the attention.

I don't mind it when it's like that. If it's someone giving strong "hands off, this person is mine" energy, fuck that."

Exactly what I'm saying!!! Thankbyou for putting it into words! X

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By *entleman_of_pleasureMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Are we talking about street urination here or have I missed the point?

People trying to mark their territory on others....

Is this a private life thing or forums in general. Sorry if I'm being a bit dense. I did Google it but got a story about a city centre street light being corroded by urine ffs.

People maybe overly overtly flirting to let everyone know that the person is theirs! Happens Lots on here and mostly people care because it leads to drama or sometimes monogamous jealous thoughts.

Ohhhh, I get it now. Like when I tread is dry then a certain person posts on it and all of a sudden it springs to life with back and forth in jokes, Or have I missed the point again? "

Just to be clear, I was talking about pissing on street furniture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone had to point stuff out to me a few weeks back as I didn't twig on two people.

And the verifications said it all...but I just didn't think to go look as their flirting went straight over my head anyway.

I couldn't give a monkeys who's doing who, if people flirt or not, and so on. Can everyone just do their thing however they want to and not be judged or stopped by others????

If you listed all the words, terms people don't like, sentences used, things in profiles and pics, actions like flirting, and views and opinions the forums would be blank! There would be be no profiles. Fab wouldn't exist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never seen any claiming going on, just some harmless flirting. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

I can't say I have seen any particular lamp post pissing in terms of attempting to claim.

Other than me with Drama.

Otherwise it's just flirting and 99% of the flirting is just talk I imagine. Any actual flirting with intent will be done privately. At least with me it is.

Christ, as a man can you imagine the effort and bother it would be to try and "claim" one of the women on here...

good luck guys! You can have her if that's the case. Whomever she may be.

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By *he Kat 666 OP Woman
over a year ago

Salisbury

"I can't say I have seen any particular lamp post pissing in terms of attempting to claim.

Other than me with Drama.

Otherwise it's just flirting and 99% of the flirting is just talk I imagine. Any actual flirting with intent will be done privately. At least with me it is.

Christ, as a man can you imagine the effort and bother it would be to try and "claim" one of the women on here...

good luck guys! You can have her if that's the case. Whomever she may be. "

Not when it's actually come to ... *almost hate mail* due to you conversing with others and they're not involved? I dunno.... been on and off here 14 odd years and seen a lot, but first time it's happened personally and first time I've chosen to hide profile, due to the toxicity and the "heaviness" of the situation

we are all individuals, nobody owns anyone else, just seen it as quite saddening, really

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Happens alot here but hey ho! X

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

"I can't say I have seen any particular lamp post pissing in terms of attempting to claim.

Other than me with Drama.

Otherwise it's just flirting and 99% of the flirting is just talk I imagine. Any actual flirting with intent will be done privately. At least with me it is.

Christ, as a man can you imagine the effort and bother it would be to try and "claim" one of the women on here...

good luck guys! You can have her if that's the case. Whomever she may be.

we are all individuals, nobody owns anyone else, just seen it as quite saddening, really

I'm so sorry thats happened to you thats horrible. Just block and ignore them as best you can, I can understand it getting to you though, some people are just toxic.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I ignore it. If it means anything to me it'll come into my inbox. If it's not to do with me I don't care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FAF?

Anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like someone to piss on me….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flirting and banter happens all the time here. Yes, people make jokes about "lamppost pissing" but for most it's absolutely not that.

The whole verification thing is really just nonsense too. You can't take them seriously.

No one has any right to tell people who they can and can't meet.

Yes, sometimes it's obvious when people are friendly, have met, are fucking etc but so what?

The forums are a small pool of people so it's bound to happen!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"I can't say I have seen any particular lamp post pissing in terms of attempting to claim.

Other than me with Drama.

Otherwise it's just flirting and 99% of the flirting is just talk I imagine. Any actual flirting with intent will be done privately. At least with me it is.

Christ, as a man can you imagine the effort and bother it would be to try and "claim" one of the women on here...

good luck guys! You can have her if that's the case. Whomever she may be.

we are all individuals, nobody owns anyone else, just seen it as quite saddening, really

Lilith does thst to me, all over DF.

Seriously though, in private, that is even worse. But makes sense why not as many witness the kind of LPP you are talking about.

As a whole that shit will definitely not be shared as the way to go by the majority on here.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I can't say I have seen any particular lamp post pissing in terms of attempting to claim.

Other than me with Drama.

Otherwise it's just flirting and 99% of the flirting is just talk I imagine. Any actual flirting with intent will be done privately. At least with me it is.

Christ, as a man can you imagine the effort and bother it would be to try and "claim" one of the women on here...

good luck guys! You can have her if that's the case. Whomever she may be.

we are all individuals, nobody owns anyone else, just seen it as quite saddening, really

I'm sorry it's come to that. At least they're telling you that they're unworthy of your attention and you should block them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never seen any claiming going on, just some harmless flirting. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that. "

how do you ‘claim’ someone in swinging site?

It’s just flirting in public isn’t it?

If anyone has claimed me…please let me know!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never seen any claiming going on, just some harmless flirting. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that.

how do you ‘claim’ someone in swinging site?

It’s just flirting in public isn’t it?

If anyone has claimed me…please let me know!!

Can someone please claim all the lost baggage?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess the 'claiming' thing is someone really insecure, and possibly not cut out for this lifestyle? Gotten too attached?

On a different note, I've learned to keep veris hidden (when I was previously on here) as that can lead to meets having opinions they're really not entitled to share!

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"Why?? *sad and grumpy face* why does this still happen?? Why do people do it?? Hayllllp me here?

We'll talk about it later. During or very long facetime we've got planned for tonight. Everyone else forget about it, kat is mine. Mine I tell you.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don't consider any flirtatious behaviour on here to be lamp post pissing.

It's a sex site, I expect people to flirt.

Unless someone messages me and says hands off he's mine it won't get a reaction from me.

I'd possibly have a word with the man in question to see what is what, but I doubt I'll care much.

If a man who is interested in me is ignoring me whilst paying someone else attention I'll leave him to it and play Angry Birds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"FAF?

Anyone?

Mine

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

I always presume people are having a banter and it’s quite obvious who likes who at times due to the amount of traffic between them( and I haven’t been here to long). Don’t really see how people can be claimed on here though (please explain how) but aren’t we all here for a laugh and a bit of flirting with the added bonus of a meet if the stars align …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never seen any claiming going on, just some harmless flirting. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that.

how do you ‘claim’ someone in swinging site?

It’s just flirting in public isn’t it?

If anyone has claimed me…please let me know!!

Can someone please claim all the lost baggage?

… and be careful, my zip is broken and opens when you put your hands on me.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I can't say I have seen any particular lamp post pissing in terms of attempting to claim.

Other than me with Drama.

Otherwise it's just flirting and 99% of the flirting is just talk I imagine. Any actual flirting with intent will be done privately. At least with me it is.

Christ, as a man can you imagine the effort and bother it would be to try and "claim" one of the women on here...

good luck guys! You can have her if that's the case. Whomever she may be.

we are all individuals, nobody owns anyone else, just seen it as quite saddening, really

I'd be tempted to act immature and tell them to get a life.

What's his opinion on it all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't say I have seen any particular lamp post pissing in terms of attempting to claim.

Other than me with Drama.

Otherwise it's just flirting and 99% of the flirting is just talk I imagine. Any actual flirting with intent will be done privately. At least with me it is.

Christ, as a man can you imagine the effort and bother it would be to try and "claim" one of the women on here...

good luck guys! You can have her if that's the case. Whomever she may be.

we are all individuals, nobody owns anyone else, just seen it as quite saddening, really

I'd be tempted to act immature and tell them to get a life.

What's his opinion on it all?"

I may have acted just this way in the past!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"FAF?

Anyone?

Mine "

Umm no. Mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"FAF?

Anyone?

Mine "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"FAF?

Anyone?

Mine

Umm no. Mine"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"FAF?

Anyone?

Mine

Umm no. Mine"

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"It happens all the time. You can see just from reading the threads...who is almost staking their claim on who...or is it whom

I must be really thick as I've no idea who's doing who.

I have a list."

Am I on it?

Does anyone really want me

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"FAF?

Anyone?

Mine

Umm no. Mine"

Mine...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forum flirting is fun, but also when it starts to overtake the thread I need to remember the “reply privately” option and carry on in DMs

Just remind yourself that no one is allowed to make you feel like shit, and the block/report option is always there.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Happens all the while day in day out on thr forums, ppl pissing in the corner like they are on the Serengety. Warning their perceived rivals off with there pungent pheromone filled klaxon.

If you come past this threshold of piss im going to bum ya to death, leads to jealousy, resentment, drama and a while heap of bollocks..

Play nicely people I'll share with you. After all your on a swinging site, and thr core ethos of swinging is........you've guessed it sharing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"FAF?

Anyone?

Mine

Umm no. Mine

Mine..."

No mi....oh actually no you can have him.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I can't say I have seen any particular lamp post pissing in terms of attempting to claim.

Other than me with Drama.

Otherwise it's just flirting and 99% of the flirting is just talk I imagine. Any actual flirting with intent will be done privately. At least with me it is.

Christ, as a man can you imagine the effort and bother it would be to try and "claim" one of the women on here...

good luck guys! You can have her if that's the case. Whomever she may be.

we are all individuals, nobody owns anyone else, just seen it as quite saddening, really

I'd be tempted to act immature and tell them to get a life.

What's his opinion on it all?

I may have acted just this way in the past! "

I doubt I'll ever be involved in anything like that, but it wouldn't upset me. I'm a sharer, and if they aren't that's their problem.

If he would prefer their company, crack on.

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By *he Kat 666 OP Woman
over a year ago

Salisbury

I want to take you all, just bundle up in a huge furry, hormone fuelled pule and just do really bad things to you all....with my tongue...

If I have permission, that is

That's it!! Mass orgy in the making. Can I have Lileth to the front please? And a few others, in fact, fight the queue order, I'm 'avin' you all.... just someone get the water and baby wipes on tap, please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't say I have seen any particular lamp post pissing in terms of attempting to claim.

Other than me with Drama.

Otherwise it's just flirting and 99% of the flirting is just talk I imagine. Any actual flirting with intent will be done privately. At least with me it is.

Christ, as a man can you imagine the effort and bother it would be to try and "claim" one of the women on here...

good luck guys! You can have her if that's the case. Whomever she may be.

we are all individuals, nobody owns anyone else, just seen it as quite saddening, really

I'd be tempted to act immature and tell them to get a life.

What's his opinion on it all?

I may have acted just this way in the past!

I doubt I'll ever be involved in anything like that, but it wouldn't upset me. I'm a sharer, and if they aren't that's their problem.

If he would prefer their company, crack on."

It's good to share!!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"FAF?

Anyone?

Mine

Umm no. Mine

Mine...

No mi....oh actually no you can have him. "

What?? Fuck, I thought we were fighting over you

I retract my offer!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I’ve never seen any claiming going on, just some harmless flirting. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that.

how do you ‘claim’ someone in swinging site?

It’s just flirting in public isn’t it?

If anyone has claimed me…please let me know!!

Can someone please claim all the lost baggage?

There isn't a soul on earth who could deal with that much lost baggage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never seen any claiming going on, just some harmless flirting. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that.

how do you ‘claim’ someone in swinging site?

It’s just flirting in public isn’t it?

If anyone has claimed me…please let me know!!

They become overly attached, then get jealous when someone else tries to flirt with them. Resulting in the other person receiving abuse for it which is a really shitty thing to do.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Instead of the undateables, im like one of fabs unclaimables

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't call any of it LPP. Some people have inside jokes and they like to throw it around the forums. Some people like to just bug their victims.. Hello DF and Brucey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want to take you all, just bundle up in a huge furry, hormone fuelled pule and just do really bad things to you all....with my tongue...

If I have permission, that is

This escalated

Sounds hot, I’m in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never seen any claiming going on, just some harmless flirting. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that.

how do you ‘claim’ someone in swinging site?

It’s just flirting in public isn’t it?

If anyone has claimed me…please let me know!!

Can someone please claim all the lost baggage?

There isn't a soul on earth who could deal with that much lost baggage

Harsh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't call any of it LPP. Some people have inside jokes and they like to throw it around the forums. Some people like to just bug their victims.. Hello DF and Brucey

Die

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never seen any claiming going on, just some harmless flirting. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that.

how do you ‘claim’ someone in swinging site?

It’s just flirting in public isn’t it?

If anyone has claimed me…please let me know!!

They become overly attached, then get jealous when someone else tries to flirt with them. Resulting in the other person receiving abuse for it which is a really shitty thing to do. "

Absolutely. I’ve never been a victim.

But I do flirt on the forums, and I always thought that was what people referred to as LPP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we talking about street urination here or have I missed the point?

People trying to mark their territory on others....

So women don't really forget or lose their earrings when they stay over? Is that what you're saying"

I tried it with cardigans, and lost a lot of cardigans

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I think, excepting cases where it has been expressly expressed in public or private, sometimes people see lamppost pissing where there is just flirting. Sometimes not.

As long as it isn't intended to hurt anyone else, flirting is glorious, and I love to see it.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I’ve never seen any claiming going on, just some harmless flirting. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that.

how do you ‘claim’ someone in swinging site?

It’s just flirting in public isn’t it?

If anyone has claimed me…please let me know!!

Can someone please claim all the lost baggage?

There isn't a soul on earth who could deal with that much lost baggage

Harsh.

I didn't mean yours... you've barely a wallet full, darling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never seen any claiming going on, just some harmless flirting. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that.

how do you ‘claim’ someone in swinging site?

It’s just flirting in public isn’t it?

If anyone has claimed me…please let me know!!

Can someone please claim all the lost baggage?

There isn't a soul on earth who could deal with that much lost baggage

Harsh.

I didn't mean yours... you've barely a wallet full, darling

And no money to spend !..

*cries.

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over a year ago

"I’ve never seen any claiming going on, just some harmless flirting. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that.

how do you ‘claim’ someone in swinging site?

It’s just flirting in public isn’t it?

If anyone has claimed me…please let me know!!

They become overly attached, then get jealous when someone else tries to flirt with them. Resulting in the other person receiving abuse for it which is a really shitty thing to do.

Absolutely. I’ve never been a victim.

But I do flirt on the forums, and I always thought that was what people referred to as LPP

To be fair I thought that’s what it was too.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I’ve never seen any claiming going on, just some harmless flirting. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that.

how do you ‘claim’ someone in swinging site?

It’s just flirting in public isn’t it?

If anyone has claimed me…please let me know!!

Can someone please claim all the lost baggage?

There isn't a soul on earth who could deal with that much lost baggage

Harsh.

I didn't mean yours... you've barely a wallet full, darling

And no money to spend !..

*cries. "

I feel you, Woody. I feel you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think, excepting cases where it has been expressly expressed in public or private, sometimes people see lamppost pissing where there is just flirting. Sometimes not.

As long as it isn't intended to hurt anyone else, flirting is glorious, and I love to see it."

NO ONE is allowed to respond to this post than me? Ok?

I claim Posh and now own her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why?? *sad and grumpy face* why does this still happen?? Why do people do it?? Hayllllp me here?

I've never noticed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you heard of post lamp pissing? When one doesn't meet that person anymore but has still "claims"?

Tones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think, excepting cases where it has been expressly expressed in public or private, sometimes people see lamppost pissing where there is just flirting. Sometimes not.

As long as it isn't intended to hurt anyone else, flirting is glorious, and I love to see it.

NO ONE is allowed to respond to this post than me? Ok?

I claim Posh and now own her! "

And Woody.

Im claiming Woody too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you heard of post lamp pissing? When one doesn't meet that person anymore but has still "claims"?

Tones"

Too much pissing going on now.

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over a year ago

"Have you heard of post lamp pissing? When one doesn't meet that person anymore but has still "claims"?

Tones

Too much pissing going on now."

I need an umbrella pic. Thanks for being a muse

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I think, excepting cases where it has been expressly expressed in public or private, sometimes people see lamppost pissing where there is just flirting. Sometimes not.

As long as it isn't intended to hurt anyone else, flirting is glorious, and I love to see it.

NO ONE is allowed to respond to this post than me? Ok?

I claim Posh and now own her! "

Well... obvs.

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"Why?? *sad and grumpy face* why does this still happen?? Why do people do it?? Hayllllp me here?

I've never noticed it

I too am blissfully ignorant of this.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’ve only really noticed one really obvious case of lamppost pissing on here in all my years, and the lass who was doing the pissing was ridiculed mercilessly for it on the forum.

If I ever find myself doing that over a fella I’m going to sit myself down and have a serious word with myself.

Otherwise I think I’ve just witnessed flirting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you heard of post lamp pissing? When one doesn't meet that person anymore but has still "claims"?

Tones

Too much pissing going on now."

I wish ….

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Nobody ever does it over me!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Nobody ever does it over me!

You’d hate it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s also the ‘reverse’ lamp-posting; when someone marks themself by making it obvious who they’re having sex with, on the assumption that it boosts their own status somehow.

Miles

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"Nobody ever does it over me!

You’d hate it! "

No I wouldn't.

It's attention on me? Check!

The pissing is between too other people? Check!

I can sit back and not actually get involved without any effort on my part? Check!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TL;DR. Who wants claimed?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"TL;DR. Who wants claimed?"

You can have anyone except Drama, or me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"TL;DR. Who wants claimed?"

Ah go on then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody ever does it over me!

Mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you heard of post lamp pissing? When one doesn't meet that person anymore but has still "claims"?

Tones

Too much pissing going on now.

I wish ….

No woody..just no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There’s also the ‘reverse’ lamp-posting; when someone marks themself by making it obvious who they’re having sex with, on the assumption that it boosts their own status somehow.

Miles"

I had "dates" with two gents from the forums. Both left the site shortly afterwards. I still maintain it was coincidental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"TL;DR. Who wants claimed?

You can have anyone except Drama, or me. "

I’ll take all of them. I’ll be like Gru with loads of minions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"TL;DR. Who wants claimed?

Ah go on then."

Do you come with a receipt?

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By *cLovin2Man
over a year ago

Reading

"Why?? *sad and grumpy face* why does this still happen?? Why do people do it?? Hayllllp me here?

cos we're in the city and can't find a tree...

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"TL;DR. Who wants claimed?

You can have anyone except Drama, or me. "

Or me. I'm Jennie's

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"TL;DR. Who wants claimed?

Ah go on then.

Do you come with a receipt?"

No. Nobody wants her back after the first time!

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Mine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"TL;DR. Who wants claimed?

You can have anyone except Drama, or me.

Or me. I'm Jennie's"

What if Jennie is mine?

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By *cLovin2Man
over a year ago

Reading

"Are we talking about street urination here or have I missed the point?

People trying to mark their territory on others....

Is this a private life thing or forums in general. Sorry if I'm being a bit dense. I did Google it but got a story about a city centre street light being corroded by urine ffs. "

how did they manage to get the urine up that high? catapult?

either that or he's 10% man and 90% penis...

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over a year ago

"TL;DR. Who wants claimed?

Ah go on then.

Do you come with a receipt?

No. Nobody wants her back after the first time! "

I’d be happy to take her from the end of September and give her back in like March or something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the Fab way...

Free minded swingers arguing over genitals.

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over a year ago

"TL;DR. Who wants claimed?

Ah go on then.

Do you come with a receipt?

No. Nobody wants her back after the first time!

I’d be happy to take her from the end of September and give her back in like March or something."

Aww you get me at my best! Lucky you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"TL;DR. Who wants claimed?

Ah go on then.

Do you come with a receipt?

No. Nobody wants her back after the first time! "

Harsh but true.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

It’s not as bad as it was 8 years ago!!!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"TL;DR. Who wants claimed?

Ah go on then.

Do you come with a receipt?

No. Nobody wants her back after the first time!

I’d be happy to take her from the end of September and give her back in like March or something."

Like a time-share?

Part time custody seems too official. Though maybe more accurate.

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over a year ago

"TL;DR. Who wants claimed?

Ah go on then.

Do you come with a receipt?

No. Nobody wants her back after the first time!

I’d be happy to take her from the end of September and give her back in like March or something.

Aww you get me at my best! Lucky you."

Ghost walks and pube baubles. You have to shave your legs though.

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over a year ago

"TL;DR. Who wants claimed?

Ah go on then.

Do you come with a receipt?

No. Nobody wants her back after the first time!

I’d be happy to take her from the end of September and give her back in like March or something.

Like a time-share?

Part time custody seems too official. Though maybe more accurate. "

We can design an app that counts down until we get rid of her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"TL;DR. Who wants claimed?

You can have anyone except Drama, or me.

Or me. I'm Jennie's

What if Jennie is mine?"

Ooh that could create an interesting feedback loop!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Most of the time it's just flirting. Two people enjoying bouncing off each other's energy. Yeah sure, sometimes they're fucking each other. Sometimes they just enjoy the attention.

I don't mind it when it's like that. If it's someone giving strong "hands off, this person is mine" energy, fuck that.

Exactly what I'm saying!!! Thankbyou for putting it into words! X"

Ah any time, I hope you're doing okay OP, x

There's a marked difference to what you've sadly experienced and people just having a flirt and a laugh. If there could be less of the former, more of the latter that would be great but Fab isn't a Utopia, as much as it would be wonderful if it was.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"TL;DR. Who wants claimed?

Ah go on then.

Do you come with a receipt?

No. Nobody wants her back after the first time!

I’d be happy to take her from the end of September and give her back in like March or something.

Like a time-share?

Part time custody seems too official. Though maybe more accurate.

We can design an app that counts down until we get rid of her."

I like your thinking! It's like Christmas! But better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't call any of it LPP. Some people have inside jokes and they like to throw it around the forums. Some people like to just bug their victims.. Hello DF and Brucey

Die"

Once I've accomplished my dream.

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over a year ago

"TL;DR. Who wants claimed?

You can have anyone except Drama, or me.

Or me. I'm Jennie's

What if Jennie is mine?

Ooh that could create an interesting feedback loop! "

Consider your lamppost pissed on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"TL;DR. Who wants claimed?

Ah go on then.

Do you come with a receipt?

No. Nobody wants her back after the first time!

I’d be happy to take her from the end of September and give her back in like March or something.

Like a time-share?

Part time custody seems too official. Though maybe more accurate.

We can design an app that counts down until we get rid of her.

I like your thinking! It's like Christmas! But better. "

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

"It’s not as bad as it was 8 years ago!!! "

Thats when you two got together!

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over a year ago

"TL;DR. Who wants claimed?

Ah go on then.

Do you come with a receipt?

No. Nobody wants her back after the first time!

I’d be happy to take her from the end of September and give her back in like March or something.

Like a time-share?

Part time custody seems too official. Though maybe more accurate.

We can design an app that counts down until we get rid of her.

I like your thinking! It's like Christmas! But better.

Erm...

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By *cLovin2Man
over a year ago

Reading

"TL;DR. Who wants claimed?

Ah go on then.

Do you come with a receipt?

No. Nobody wants her back after the first time!

I’d be happy to take her from the end of September and give her back in like March or something.

Like a time-share?

Part time custody seems too official. Though maybe more accurate.

We can design an app that counts down until we get rid of her.

I like your thinking! It's like Christmas! But better.

Erm...

You've got a thing for santa? shame on you, at least don't wear him out the week before christmas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"TL;DR. Who wants claimed?

Ah go on then.

Do you come with a receipt?

No. Nobody wants her back after the first time!

I’d be happy to take her from the end of September and give her back in like March or something.

Like a time-share?

Part time custody seems too official. Though maybe more accurate.

We can design an app that counts down until we get rid of her.

I like your thinking! It's like Christmas! But better.

Erm...

We’ve made arrangement for the next year of your life. You’re welcome

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'll get me coat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll get me coat

You won't need it. It's warm out there

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I'll get me coat

You won't need it. It's warm out there

Phew.

Good job I have extra padding too.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I belong to everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I belong to everyone."

She’s for the streets

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"TL;DR. Who wants claimed?"

Eww no

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"TL;DR. Who wants claimed?

You can have anyone except Drama, or me.

Or me. I'm Jennie's

What if Jennie is mine?

Ooh that could create an interesting feedback loop!

Consider your lamppost pissed on

Ooh. Hang on. If I'm Jennie's and Jennie is yours... I'm kinda also yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because despite the idea that we're all open minded to fucking anyone we like, we're still human and have very real emotions that can get in the way of the old meaningless sex we're all here for. That leads to feelings for a person and jealousy when they meet or flirt with others as we can feel a genuine connection to them. It's tough, but it is what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"TL;DR. Who wants claimed?

Eww no"

Worth a try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"TL;DR. Who wants claimed?

You can have anyone except Drama, or me.

Or me. I'm Jennie's

What if Jennie is mine?

Ooh that could create an interesting feedback loop!

Consider your lamppost pissed on

Ooh. Hang on. If I'm Jennie's and Jennie is yours... I'm kinda also yours."

This thread is proving quite successful for me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"TL;DR. Who wants claimed?

Eww no

Worth a try

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"It’s not as bad as it was 8 years ago!!!

Thats when you two got together!

It was!! But you’ll remember just how bad the lamppost pissing was

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

It's pretty bad if it's got to being warned off in your private messages.

I can imagine the guy (I'm making that assumption) rolling his eyes. But maybe he's not set boundaries? You never know what's been said between them, any ideas of exclusivity.

Other than actual couples, there's only a few people (I can think of) who have made it blindingly obvious they're getting it on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There’s also the ‘reverse’ lamp-posting; when someone marks themself by making it obvious who they’re having sex with, on the assumption that it boosts their own status somehow.

Miles"

This is now becoming too complicated. Reminds me of a dream within a dream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of the time it's just flirting. Two people enjoying bouncing off each other's energy. Yeah sure, sometimes they're fucking each other. Sometimes they just enjoy the attention.

I don't mind it when it's like that. If it's someone giving strong "hands off, this person is mine" energy, fuck that."

Exactly this

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