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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Which ones have you managed to implement in your life? Hopefully sharing them might serve as an inspiration for others If you feel like elaborating- tell us why do you think they make a positive impact on your life?

One of those I find particularly helpful is evaluating a week. Trying to find things that made me smile, small or big victories and a space for reflecting over it all.

Or simply walking daily.

What's yours?

Tones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This one shouldn’t need to be sed but be kind to others and treat everyone with respect

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This one shouldn’t need to be sed but be kind to others and treat everyone with respect "

Truism indeed but most of those habits will probably sound somewhat like it. still our awareness doesn't mean we follow it.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I always try to look for silver linings

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always try to look for silver linings "

T.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Putting my keys in the same place. I used to be a nightmare for losing them.

J

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Putting my keys in the same place. I used to be a nightmare for losing them.

J"

Haha I got a master lock to keep a spare key outside as I was notorious for forgetting them.

Well done

T

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I like to find something to make me smile every single day. A cat video, a piece of music, a game on my phone. Anything really. But I actively look for something that will make me smile

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands


"Putting my keys in the same place. I used to be a nightmare for losing them.

J"

I am still trying to implent this in my life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This one shouldn’t need to be sed but be kind to others and treat everyone with respect

Truism indeed but most of those habits will probably sound somewhat like it. still our awareness doesn't mean we follow it. "

That is true but some do fallow it and it’s nice when you meet someone who dose

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Very recently cutting massively on my alcohol intake.

Drinking more water instead.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Very recently cutting massively on my alcohol intake.

Drinking more water instead."

Brilliant. You'll feel better for it I'm sure and what a great effect on one's skin as well.

T

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to find something to make me smile every single day. A cat video, a piece of music, a game on my phone. Anything really. But I actively look for something that will make me smile "

I would welcome some funky cat videos please.

Recently was chuckling over an owner making songs using his cat miaow sounds as an inspiration!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never run out of coffee or wine.

Keep wipes next to the bed.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"I like to find something to make me smile every single day. A cat video, a piece of music, a game on my phone. Anything really. But I actively look for something that will make me smile

I would welcome some funky cat videos please.

Recently was chuckling over an owner making songs using his cat miaow sounds as an inspiration! "

I’ll send you my favourite gorgeous

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

I’m pretty serious about getting my exercise.

A habit I’m trying to put in place now is to be less of a perfectionist - I find I get more done if I’m not judging myself so harshly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m pretty serious about getting my exercise.

A habit I’m trying to put in place now is to be less of a perfectionist - I find I get more done if I’m not judging myself so harshly."

Self compassion is a good habit too good going!

T.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never run out of coffee or wine.

Keep wipes next to the bed.

"

That's some self survival skills

T.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Started listening to podcasts that inspire me. Only a small change but it's making a difference

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

Eat properly, exercise a bit, forgive yourself and stay curious.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Asking for help, accepting help, and not struggling on alone, there is many potive functional ciloping stratgaies that I'm implemented into my life. By far the power of speech and working on myself are the two most beneficial

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Started listening to podcasts that inspire me. Only a small change but it's making a difference "

It's all about small habits to start with isn't it?

Ps. Beautifully paired dress and a belt.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"I’m pretty serious about getting my exercise.

A habit I’m trying to put in place now is to be less of a perfectionist - I find I get more done if I’m not judging myself so harshly."

Aiming for perfection will only release the inner critic as perfectionism is not attainable

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By *akedMechanicMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I try to give at least one act of kindness per day to someone.

Always be involved in sport/s to keep myself fit as I can't get into the gym it bores the life out of me

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By *ozapperMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

Live one day at a time and enjoy waking up in the morning whatever your mood ... because one day you won't.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Started listening to podcasts that inspire me. Only a small change but it's making a difference

It's all about small habits to start with isn't it?

Ps. Beautifully paired dress and a belt. "

Why thank you, not as splendid was your avatar dress though stunning

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Started listening to podcasts that inspire me. Only a small change but it's making a difference

It's all about small habits to start with isn't it?

Ps. Beautifully paired dress and a belt.

Why thank you, not as splendid was your avatar dress though stunning "

x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Live one day at a time and enjoy waking up in the morning whatever your mood ... because one day you won't."

And when it gets hard - survive a day at a time.

T

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I try to give at least one act of kindness per day to someone.

Always be involved in sport/s to keep myself fit as I can't get into the gym it bores the life out of me "

A good balance for body and soul

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Eat properly, exercise a bit, forgive yourself and stay curious."

Inspiring fusion!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Asking for help, accepting help, and not struggling on alone, there is many potive functional ciloping stratgaies that I'm implemented into my life. By far the power of speech and working on myself are the two most beneficial "

Fantastic effort. What do you mean by power of speech?

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

A 'to do' list. Anything planned goes on a text file which I view each morning.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Packing bags the night before and putting them ready to go in the car or on the back of the right person. Minimises stress in the mornings.

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By *akedMechanicMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I try to give at least one act of kindness per day to someone.

Always be involved in sport/s to keep myself fit as I can't get into the gym it bores the life out of me

A good balance for body and soul "

Got to keep them dopamine levels up haven't you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I try to give at least one act of kindness per day to someone.

Always be involved in sport/s to keep myself fit as I can't get into the gym it bores the life out of me

A good balance for body and soul

Got to keep them dopamine levels up haven't you "

Absolutely. And let's not forget oxytocin, serotonin.. all the feel good ones

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Packing bags the night before and putting them ready to go in the car or on the back of the right person. Minimises stress in the mornings. "

Miles is brilliant like that. Master organiser

I bow to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A 'to do' list. Anything planned goes on a text file which I view each morning."

Uh oh. I value those as well.

T

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Asking for help, accepting help, and not struggling on alone, there is many potive functional ciloping stratgaies that I'm implemented into my life. By far the power of speech and working on myself are the two most beneficial

Fantastic effort. What do you mean by power of speech?"

What I mean by the power of speech, sharing openly and honestly on a emotional level with another human being, being totally truthful and transparent with myself and others about what is going on for me.....allowing others to carry my burden with me not struggling alone with what I can carry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Asking for help, accepting help, and not struggling on alone, there is many potive functional ciloping stratgaies that I'm implemented into my life. By far the power of speech and working on myself are the two most beneficial

Fantastic effort. What do you mean by power of speech?

What I mean by the power of speech, sharing openly and honestly on a emotional level with another human being, being totally truthful and transparent with myself and others about what is going on for me.....allowing others to carry my burden with me not struggling alone with what I can carry "

I see. Problem divided feels less heavy for sure. And talking about solutions with someone or ways to move forward makes us more accountable for those words too. Thanks for elaborating

T

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Asking for help, accepting help, and not struggling on alone, there is many potive functional ciloping stratgaies that I'm implemented into my life. By far the power of speech and working on myself are the two most beneficial

Fantastic effort. What do you mean by power of speech?

What I mean by the power of speech, sharing openly and honestly on a emotional level with another human being, being totally truthful and transparent with myself and others about what is going on for me.....allowing others to carry my burden with me not struggling alone with what I can carry

I see. Problem divided feels less heavy for sure. And talking about solutions with someone or ways to move forward makes us more accountable for those words too. Thanks for elaborating

T"

Being accountable is so freeing, I'm involved in a solution focused programme it's bedrock being talking to people to get to that solution....we know thr problem let's get to the solution kind of thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tones is my daily good habit.

Miles

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tones is my daily good habit.

Miles"

Stop rimming my ego

* * *

Thanks for the good habits sharing all. Keep them up!

T

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

A couple I’ve managed that have been quite transformational.

Getting up as soon as I wake.

Engaging in mentoring , as a mentor and mentee. Satisficing the small stuff, always consulting on the the big stuff.

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