FabSwingers.com forum: Say something nice.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've just had a counseling session. It was hard. I feel numb. But I'm going to turn my day round, somehow. Judge me all you all want I don't care.

Say something nice on this thread. Not to me, though I'll take any niceness. But to everyone. Not one specific person in here, to everyone.

And if you can't think of something JCR to say don't say anything.

Or a quote...I like those. Give us quotes. They'll do.

Or.....

Be the jokers you all normally are and make us laugh...nicely though!

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"I've just had a counseling session. It was hard. I feel numb. But I'm going to turn my day round, somehow. Judge me all you all want I don't care.

Say something nice on this thread. Not to me, though I'll take any niceness. But to everyone. Not one specific person in here, to everyone.

And if you can't think of something JCR to say don't say anything.

Or a quote...I like those. Give us quotes. They'll do.

Or.....

Be the jokers you all normally are and make us laugh...nicely though!"

Keep smiling, you owe nobody.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No"

Such a meanie.

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By *he Kat 666Woman
over a year ago

Salisbury

I've got a great arse!!

Hope you feel good soon, OP. Sit, have hot chocolate, dip an éclair I to it and lay back. Be kind to yourself, you owe it to your body and mind

Much love xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's your best discovery? That I am enough as I am.

Don't measure how valuable you are by the way you are treated.

Always remember you matter, you're important and you are loved and you bring to this world things no one else can.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Imagine you are all a figment of my imagination, what a beautiful imagination I must have (though a little pervy)

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

To everyone? It's going to sound very pageantryesque, kind of warning people before they read it!

You don't have to know the answers to everything.

It's okay to sometimes feel meh, to not be Tiggering around in glee. Sometimes I think there can be pressure on people to constantly be happy. Be achieving. Know exactly what they want, how they're going to go about it.

You're still here and that's the important thing. You'll work things out in time.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We’ve had an amazing experience with a lovely hot gorgeous woman this week - 3 people all smiling for the rest of the week.

Go out and meet people - pass on a smile - smiles are infectious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love you all

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

You have a greater impact that you will ever know. Most people don’t know authentically how to tell you how much you mean to them, so they keep it to themselves

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"No

Such a meanie."

Can't have it being too positive!

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"What's your best discovery? That I am enough as I am.

Don't measure how valuable you are by the way you are treated.

Always remember you matter, you're important and you are loved and you bring to this world things no one else can. "

“Don’t measure how valuable you are by the way you are treated”

I love this. Seconded. (I also needed to hear it today!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay away from those people who try to disparage your ambitions. Small minds will always do that, but great minds will give you a feeling that you can become great too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No

Such a meanie.

Can't have it being too positive! "

Seconded

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"I've just had a counseling session. It was hard. I feel numb. But I'm going to turn my day round, somehow. Judge me all you all want I don't care.

Say something nice on this thread. Not to me, though I'll take any niceness. But to everyone. Not one specific person in here, to everyone.

And if you can't think of something JCR to say don't say anything.

Or a quote...I like those. Give us quotes. They'll do.

Or.....

Be the jokers you all normally are and make us laugh...nicely though!"

Just want to say that I always enjoy your posts. Even the serious ones

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

A life with no regrets is a life half-lived

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's your best discovery? That I am enough as I am.

Don't measure how valuable you are by the way you are treated.

Always remember you matter, you're important and you are loved and you bring to this world things no one else can. "

This is the exact opposite of me right now.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

It is better to be pissed on than pissed off

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I've got a great arse!!

Hope you feel good soon, OP. Sit, have hot chocolate, dip an éclair I to it and lay back. Be kind to yourself, you owe it to your body and mind

Much love xx"

I can confirm that you do have a great arse.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's your best discovery? That I am enough as I am.

Don't measure how valuable you are by the way you are treated.

Always remember you matter, you're important and you are loved and you bring to this world things no one else can.

This is the exact opposite of me right now. "

Unfortunately I know that feeling all too well

Sending hugs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We’ve had an amazing experience with a lovely hot gorgeous woman this week - 3 people all smiling for the rest of the week.

Go out and meet people - pass on a smile - smiles are infectious

Not quite the comment I had in mind. Not sure it's fitting for this thread.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Here is a dad joke for you

I recently joined a nudist colony :-I

The last few days where the hardest

Have an awesome day you Fab Fabbers x

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I'd treat you all to a weekend in the dam if I could.

Also you all have lovely right nipples

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Kittens exist. Puppies exist. They are all cute as buttons and they all love you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op your very thoughtful and kind and wonderful your posts are awesome

Also everyone else yous are beautiful wonderful stars never forget that never sell yourself short

Never think someone is to beautiful for you take your shot and see you never know they maybe sitting wondering the same about you

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Kittens exist. Puppies exist. They are all cute as buttons and they all love you.

Brucey this is just lovely

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Thank you all for a rich and terribly distracting forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just had a counseling session. It was hard. I feel numb. But I'm going to turn my day round, somehow. Judge me all you all want I don't care.

Say something nice on this thread. Not to me, though I'll take any niceness. But to everyone. Not one specific person in here, to everyone.

And if you can't think of something JCR to say don't say anything.

Or a quote...I like those. Give us quotes. They'll do.

Or.....

Be the jokers you all normally are and make us laugh...nicely though!"

If you were a clit for the day I'd find you, lick you into oblivion and make you grow twice your size

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By *reative-mindMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"I've just had a counseling session. It was hard. I feel numb. But I'm going to turn my day round, somehow. Judge me all you all want I don't care.

Say something nice on this thread. Not to me, though I'll take any niceness. But to everyone. Not one specific person in here, to everyone.

And if you can't think of something JCR to say don't say anything.

Or a quote...I like those. Give us quotes. They'll do.

Or.....

Be the jokers you all normally are and make us laugh...nicely though!"

This isn't my nice post as such but I hope the counciling goes ok, been there done and knows its not easy.

Keep smiling, tomorrow is a new day!

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By *reative-mindMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I've not got anything to say to one person just keep being true to yourself and take everyday as a new experience.

Personally feel a bit crap, low self esteem/confidence and such but it'll pass, all the shit always does in life.

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By *ighly SexedMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

We are often our own worst enemy. We spend hours criticising our own mistakes and perceived failings, judging ourselves way more harshly than we would others. Learn to accept that we are allowed those mistakes, learn from them and move past them. Learn to forgive and love ourselves and happiness will follow.

Love to you all x

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Most of us go through some kind of crisis in their lives.

Actually, I'll stick my neck out and say everyone does.

We aren't alone in our troubles and strife.

I remember that, and think of people who had had enough and left us.

I feel sad a lot of days, but I'm also grateful for the days I've had, and the ones I have left.

Is that a nice thing to say?

Anyway, let's be glad we're all here today to look at boobs and bums, cocks and thighs

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By *lay 4 your plessureMan
over a year ago

Wigan

Life is always full of ups and downs. Live for the moment in the good times and cherish them forever. In the bad times, remind yourself that you have survived every bad thing that has been thrown your way, you are stronger than you feel you are and will get through it again like you have done every other time before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remember you matter. You're important and your feelings are always valid. It's ok to hurt and to take time to process. That's what makes us human.

And never ever forget that someone somewhere is so glad they know you

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By *akedMechanicMan
over a year ago

Manchester

2 of my favourite quotes are as followed:

Every act of kindness is a piece of love we leave behind.

You don’t have to move mountains. Simply fall in love with life. Be a tornado of happiness, gratitude, and acceptance. You will change the world just by being a warm, kind-hearted human being.

Would love it if reading these helps anyone out who's struggling

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Not quite the comment I had in mind. Not sure it's fitting for this thread."

‘Say something nice on this thread. Not to me, though I'll take any niceness. But to everyone. Not one specific person in here, to everyone’

Saying to people to pass on a smile as they infectious is very fitting. It can change someone’s mood completely…

I smiled at someone today, as I’m in a good mood and they smiled back…maybe that caught on…

Sorry you’re not feeling good today - hope things improve for you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kittens exist. Puppies exist. They are all cute as buttons and they all love you.

Well not all, some kittens have attitude and some puppies are just dickheads.

Most though.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

You're so lovely you make me smile

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"Kittens exist. Puppies exist. They are all cute as buttons and they all love you.

Well not all, some kittens have attitude and some puppies are just dickheads.

Most though.

Kittens with attitude are sassy. I like sassy.

You're right about puppies though. Love their smell however so they can get away with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kittens exist. Puppies exist. They are all cute as buttons and they all love you.

Well not all, some kittens have attitude and some puppies are just dickheads.

Most though.

Kittens with attitude are sassy. I like sassy.

You're right about puppies though. Love their smell however so they can get away with it."

Brucey smells puppies.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"Kittens exist. Puppies exist. They are all cute as buttons and they all love you.

Well not all, some kittens have attitude and some puppies are just dickheads.

Most though.

Kittens with attitude are sassy. I like sassy.

You're right about puppies though. Love their smell however so they can get away with it.

Brucey smells puppies."

Have you never smelt a puppy? It's the smell of hope!

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By *abyblues2023Woman
over a year ago

Everywhere and Nowhere baby thats where im at

You can be a nice person and still say no

That's what my therapy is teaching me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You can be a nice person and still say no

That's what my therapy is teaching me "

I did this....I've lost so many people in the process.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"You can be a nice person and still say no

That's what my therapy is teaching me

I did this....I've lost so many people in the process."

That's what I did and you said meanie!

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By *abyblues2023Woman
over a year ago

Everywhere and Nowhere baby thats where im at

I've yet to try it

I can give advice but not take it

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By *lay 4 your plessureMan
over a year ago

Wigan

"You can be a nice person and still say no

That's what my therapy is teaching me

I did this....I've lost so many people in the process."

If you lost them because you asserted your own right to do what's good for you then that's a good thing. It says more about them then it does about you.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I like peeps on the forum. I’m even growing more tolerant towards serial thread starting.

I had a dark day yesterday. Even MORE bad news, it has been nonstop shit since my mother died in November. Seriously. I am devoid of any joy. But coming on to Fab, I know I will find something that will make me smile. Either a nice message lifting my mood/self esteem, a post that makes me laugh or an update that makes me

all in all, it’s a positive escape.

And that is created by all of you here. And for that I thank thee.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"It is better to be pissed on than pissed off

Only you

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By *lay 4 your plessureMan
over a year ago

Wigan

"I like peeps on the forum. I’m even growing more tolerant towards serial thread starting.

all in all, it’s a positive escape.

And that is created by all of you here. And for that I thank thee.

Think of it this way, there's only so much bad stuff that can happen in life, you're just getting a lot of it over and done with in a short space of time, once they're all out of the way there's only going to be mostly good things that are left to happen for a long time

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"It is better to be pissed on than pissed off

Only you

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By *apidaryMan
over a year ago

Chipping Norton

I love you all, each and every one of you, including those that don't deserve it, and including (but only at a distance) the less hygienic and the unwashed.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"I've just had a counseling session. It was hard. I feel numb. But I'm going to turn my day round, somehow. Judge me all you all want I don't care.

Say something nice on this thread. Not to me, though I'll take any niceness. But to everyone. Not one specific person in here, to everyone.

And if you can't think of something JCR to say don't say anything.

Or a quote...I like those. Give us quotes. They'll do.

Or.....

Be the jokers you all normally are and make us laugh...nicely though!"

A nice counselling cliche seems apt....

If we're always in the jar we never get to see the label....

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Go for a walk and observe the nature. Hope this helps op.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Jesus lives……..

In a one bedroom flat in Shepperton where he’s working on a much less ambitious project.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An open note to the forum.

I’ve got my issues, I’ve bled them out once, and you guys (or the majority ) showed compassion and some good advice. I’m not going to name them, but someone saved me from a dark place. Thanks for that tearful phone call.

OP! I hope you feel better soon. *hug

Everyone! You make me smile daily, and keep me logging in here because it’s better than Twitter.

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