FabSwingers.com forum: Tell me something deeper than the deep end of your local pool

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When did you last catch feelings for someone and how did it go?

When did you last have a good cry?

What do you think your purpose is on this earth?

Are you just struggling to cope.

Whatever you want. Tell me something deep. Get it out there then leave it alone. Get the weight off. A virtual hug from me to all that share

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Something deep - the amount of trouble I’m in if I can’t fix the stuff at work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a big cry last night.

Catching feelings often happens in those little moments you share with someone. It's not the bad thing people make it out to be, or at least it doesn't need to be. It's actually rather lovely. That wave of warmth. It's amazing when it's mutual.

It doesn't mean I'm about to fall in love with them or have greater expectations or demands. It's just a gorgeous thing to revel in for however long it lasts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Something deep - the amount of trouble I’m in if I can’t fix the stuff at work.

That sounds like a tough situation to be in.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Something deep - the amount of trouble I’m in if I can’t fix the stuff at work.

That sounds like a tough situation to be in. "

Thank you. The worst part is having to keep it bottled up and carry it everywhere. Sometimes that’s worse than acknowledging what’s happening.

Glad you were able to engage with your emotions, I hope it leads to happiness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keeping my son entertained during the Summer holiday is about as deep as I’m feeling at the moment.

I hope those coping with struggles and strife can see the light at the end of the tunnel soon. One step at a time, even small ones. Aim for small victories along the way if the big one seems out of reach just yet. Mostly, reach for help when you need it. Even the unlikeliest people can help when you least expect it.

Miles

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By *ellanbennyCouple
over a year ago

cambs

Sometimes trying to juggle everything I have to do is just so overwhelming that it feels impossible to even start and then I just let the pressure build up and procrastinate. It's a terrible infliction.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I can feel a deep desire for someone and not have it affect my life.

I feel it in the moment, and it makes sex better.

I don't obsess over people, which makes losing them easier.

I cried a few days ago after hearing a song while I was in the bath that someone had as a funeral song.

It made me think of all the people in my life who had died recently and reminded me of how much I miss my mum.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Our purpose on Earth is to keep the eco system alive.

We're not doing a great job of it.

I do wonder what mother nature was thinking when she made humans.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Recently

Last night

To create chaos

Sometimes

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Chorley, Eng

"When did you last catch feelings for someone and how did it go?

When did you last have a good cry?

What do you think your purpose is on this earth?

Are you just struggling to cope.

Whatever you want. Tell me something deep. Get it out there then leave it alone. Get the weight off. A virtual hug from me to all that share

Last year. We broke up. Amicably and are good friends.

Tuesday morning. It was an unusual cry. But I cry at least once a week.

To live and enjoy this wonderful accident.

Generally no. I am in great place mental health wise actually. But I need to do better at work. Could do with more exercise and to be healthier. Need to give more time to family and friends.

Something I want to get off my chest is, I am sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I envy my friends who have the depth of a puddle.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Your mom

Dammit Kenobi! Read the OP!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

A couple of years ago it didn't go well.

I haven't cried in months.

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By *uck-RogersMan
over a year ago

Oakhill

I shed a tear now and then for my younger brother. When alive was not the brightest star in the sky. And was shunned by all the family brothers and sisters alike, even by myself and his mother and father included.

If your looking over my shoulder brother. Sorry. I love you.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think I'm finally beginning to see my presence here as something other than an unfortunate accident and a drain on the earth's precious resources.

Someone wise - or feigning wisdom, I'm not sure - told me that I hide my light behind a bushel and that I'm not afraid because I am inadequate, but I am afraid of the power I truly possess.

I'm beginning to be afraid for both reasons. That I know what I am for and I feel woefully inadequate for the task.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still think about the last guy I dated. It was only for 4-5 months but it was so intense and I fell for him. We said we love each other, and now I just wish things had gone differently

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"I think I'm finally beginning to see my presence here as something other than an unfortunate accident and a drain on the earth's precious resources.

Someone wise - or feigning wisdom, I'm not sure - told me that I hide my light behind a bushel and that I'm not afraid because I am inadequate, but I am afraid of the power I truly possess.

I'm beginning to be afraid for both reasons. That I know what I am for and I feel woefully inadequate for the task."

You are a force, my lovely. You can't hide it. You are it.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time I cried...an hour ago.

I feel like I'm having my insides ripped out, like I'm laid bare on the table and all you can see is all the shit I've been through.

And the more he tells me it's a lot and it's horrible the more I cry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crisps always go outa date on a Saturday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last proper cry was telling a friend (who knew anyway) I had been in love with her since first knowing her 10 years previously. I was a wreck. She denied knowing but must have done. Her marriage was falling apart and I learned she was having an affair. Her fella nearly topped himself when he found out 6 months later. I barely speak to her now and the humiliation was horrendous. I don't have those feelings now but I felt utterly shattered by it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 years ago this was

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I think I'm finally beginning to see my presence here as something other than an unfortunate accident and a drain on the earth's precious resources.

Someone wise - or feigning wisdom, I'm not sure - told me that I hide my light behind a bushel and that I'm not afraid because I am inadequate, but I am afraid of the power I truly possess.

I'm beginning to be afraid for both reasons. That I know what I am for and I feel woefully inadequate for the task.

You are a force, my lovely. You can't hide it. You are it.

Mrs TMN x"

I've tried to hide it all my life and... that's changing. It's so scary I want to vomit. Also I need an adult and some idiot (me) put me in charge.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I cried hard a couple of weeks. Just in sheer relief of the good news I had. Thank goodness.

Crying is an excellent release for pressure i find darling

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"I think I'm finally beginning to see my presence here as something other than an unfortunate accident and a drain on the earth's precious resources.

Someone wise - or feigning wisdom, I'm not sure - told me that I hide my light behind a bushel and that I'm not afraid because I am inadequate, but I am afraid of the power I truly possess.

I'm beginning to be afraid for both reasons. That I know what I am for and I feel woefully inadequate for the task.

You are a force, my lovely. You can't hide it. You are it.

Mrs TMN x

I've tried to hide it all my life and... that's changing. It's so scary I want to vomit. Also I need an adult and some idiot (me) put me in charge."

Yeah being the adult in the situation is pretty bloody terrifying! X

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By *exySunshine83Woman
over a year ago

Livingston

I use sex as an escape. I'm terrified of catching feelings cos when I do I can fall hard.

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By *lsiePTV/TS
over a year ago

Gateshead

This lifestyle has helped me make friends and my confidence is soaring. Being able to express myself sexually has always been so important to me and now being in a position to do it so freely has been life-changing.

I finally love myself fully and wholly.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Look what you did Pickle. I hope you're proud

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Caught feelings for someone last year, it didn't work out for me and I spiralled into depression and thoughts of s#icide ... last had a damn good cry your heart out a few months not long after my dad had died....

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Last time I cried...an hour ago.

I feel like I'm having my insides ripped out, like I'm laid bare on the table and all you can see is all the shit I've been through.

And the more he tells me it's a lot and it's horrible the more I cry.

Oh sweetie I'm so sorry you are going through this.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"This lifestyle has helped me make friends and my confidence is soaring. Being able to express myself sexually has always been so important to me and now being in a position to do it so freely has been life-changing.

I finally love myself fully and wholly."

Wow that's huge.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Last time I cried...an hour ago.

I feel like I'm having my insides ripped out, like I'm laid bare on the table and all you can see is all the shit I've been through.

And the more he tells me it's a lot and it's horrible the more I cry.

Hugs xx

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By *ts the taking part thatMan
over a year ago

southampton

The under investment in mental health & the failure to instill discipline at home & school plus the unregulated social media has led to a uncontrolled level of mental illness, paranoia & herd mentality.

The huge increase in people thinking they are a different sex to their genitals is an indication of the above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have caught feelings in the past 2 weeks. And she likes me too - but our circumstances make it complicated and I have no idea where it ends.

I catch feelings too easily, and it will end in tears I’m sure. But for now, I have a very fun, very flirty new friend.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I bring to the table the finest cloths made from Egyptian Cotton, to wipe away your tears of joy and your emotions, to mop your brows and to polish the antique wood upon which you all converge to share your stories and soliloquies.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"I think I'm finally beginning to see my presence here as something other than an unfortunate accident and a drain on the earth's precious resources.

Someone wise - or feigning wisdom, I'm not sure - told me that I hide my light behind a bushel and that I'm not afraid because I am inadequate, but I am afraid of the power I truly possess.

I'm beginning to be afraid for both reasons. That I know what I am for and I feel woefully inadequate for the task."

Is it "behind a bushel" or ",under a bushel"? And indeed what is a bushel in this case, other than it being an outdated English measure for a weight of corn?

These and other questions are the type of thing that keeps me awake at night...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I think I'm finally beginning to see my presence here as something other than an unfortunate accident and a drain on the earth's precious resources.

Someone wise - or feigning wisdom, I'm not sure - told me that I hide my light behind a bushel and that I'm not afraid because I am inadequate, but I am afraid of the power I truly possess.

I'm beginning to be afraid for both reasons. That I know what I am for and I feel woefully inadequate for the task.

Is it "behind a bushel" or ",under a bushel"? And indeed what is a bushel in this case, other than it being an outdated English measure for a weight of corn?

These and other questions are the type of thing that keeps me awake at night..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"When did you last catch feelings for someone and how did it go?

When did you last have a good cry?

What do you think your purpose is on this earth?

Are you just struggling to cope.

Whatever you want. Tell me something deep. Get it out there then leave it alone. Get the weight off. A virtual hug from me to all that share

Oh Mr pickle you do make me laught if I told you the truth not even a virtual hug would make it better .but I'm old school stiff upper Lip. But apauld you offering your service to others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if you win the rat race, you're still a rat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Even if you win the rat race, you're still a rat. "

Never rat on your friends.

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By *uchasGMan
over a year ago

Northwest

My dad died when I was three...I don't remember his voice, I wish someone had a recording of him talking or singing just so I could hear what he sounded like and if somehow how I talk like him myself..

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"My dad died when I was three...I don't remember his voice, I wish someone had a recording of him talking or singing just so I could hear what he sounded like and if somehow how I talk like him myself.. "

Wow that deep there very strong chance that you do .every time I look into the bathroom mirror I see my father face looking back at me .

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By *uchasGMan
over a year ago

Northwest

Wow that deep there very strong chance that you do .every time I look into the bathroom mirror I see my father face looking back at me ."

when I was younger I looked like my dad, when I see photos of about the same age.

It's just one of those things, life, can't change it. Today everyone is on camera, if only back then. I'm not saying I've not had a good life, I have and I appreciate every minute of it, with my boys family and friends...soz bit tooooo deep haha x live you fab x

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By *uchasGMan
over a year ago

Northwest

Wow that deep there very strong chance that you do .every time I look into the bathroom mirror I see my father face looking back at me .

when I was younger I looked like my dad, when I see photos of about the same age.

Love you fab

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