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By *orthyhellboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Gravesend

Hey. Been here a few months now and thoroughly enjoying all the amazing uploads, pics and vids!

Anyway. The only thing is - a single male like myself seems to get lost amongst the shuffle.. too many single men.

You girls continue to have all the power.. don’t ya?! lol

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Single and straight. What a struggle urgh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah

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By *adore AnthonyMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Pussy power. It’s just life, as a man our job is to figure out how to stand out I guess. It’s all fun and games.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well according to your status update and very recent verification you seek to be doing ok my friend! I hope you continue to enjoy the site

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Best of luck finding what you're looking for.

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By *lay 4 your plessureMan
over a year ago

Wigan

Stop thinking about the destination and start enjoying the journey until you get there op!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

It can be hard as a single man yes,jack was one on here but did ok.

If you have a good profile/ pics ,join in the forums and get involved in socials ,you can do well on here .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't put all your eggs in one basket and you'll be much happier.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Don't put all your eggs in one basket and you'll be much happier."

He's happier spreading his seed around, he'll have a football team before he knows it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the power of Greyskull!!!!!!!!!!

Come in op…. You’re single? Surely not.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Yeah it's tough being me. Get accused of having shit tan lines. I think men look better tanned because they don't have the obvious boob white part as well but ya know, women are in charge!

Everything else is pretty sweet though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey. Been here a few months now and thoroughly enjoying all the amazing uploads, pics and vids!

Anyway. The only thing is - a single male like myself seems to get lost amongst the shuffle.. too many single men.

You girls continue to have all the power.. don’t ya?! lol "

You get lost in the shuffle because you don't stand out.

Others do just fine. Ask why. Or not, blame someone else, thats super attractive.

The girls don't have all the power, they unfortunately have the task of wading through the ample nonsense here to find the rare few.

Still, here's one less to figure out.

Oh and usual, it's easy innit, I gets all the girls...

Blah blah blah I'm so great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's see how many of our 100 people said "girls"

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Soooo, there is a huge imbalance of men to women on here. We have the 'power' of choice. Are you suggesting we should have sex with as many men who ask, because there are a lot of men wanting sex, to relinquish this 'power' ?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Soooo, there is a huge imbalance of men to women on here. We have the 'power' of choice. Are you suggesting we should have sex with as many men who ask, because there are a lot of men wanting sex, to relinquish this 'power' ?"

I'm down for that. It's not unreasonable, no need to make a big deal out of a simple request.

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By *orthyhellboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Gravesend

Hey, thanks man!.. I appreciate that.

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By *orthyhellboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Gravesend

Hey.. sorry darling, I don’t understand your comment.. what d’ya mean??

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By *orthyhellboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Gravesend

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands


"Hey.. sorry darling, I don’t understand your comment.. what d’ya mean?? "

None of the men on this thread are going to know who you are talking to, use the reply and quote button

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By *orthyhellboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Hey.. sorry darling, I don’t understand your comment.. what d’ya mean??

None of the men on this thread are going to know who you are talking to, use the reply and quote button "

Thank you, my lovely!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Hey. Been here a few months now and thoroughly enjoying all the amazing uploads, pics and vids!

Anyway. The only thing is - a single male like myself seems to get lost amongst the shuffle.. too many single men.

You girls continue to have all the power.. don’t ya?! lol "

Girls? Power? Please explain further.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"...The only thing is - a single male like myself seems to get lost amongst the shuffle.. too many single men..."

My dear OP - bring a map, a compass, a sextent and a GPS receiver. You'll be back on track in no time. Good luck. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aweeee.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Awesome bareback fucking pics mate! Although most of the ladies in here won't think so.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are a single M why is your profile pic a F?

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By *reative-mindMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"Soooo, there is a huge imbalance of men to women on here. We have the 'power' of choice. Are you suggesting we should have sex with as many men who ask, because there are a lot of men wanting sex, to relinquish this 'power' ?

I'm down for that. It's not unreasonable, no need to make a big deal out of a simple request."

I feel like this is a trap....

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Not really. If you are compatible the power is pretty even. You both want one another. Getting a message from somebody who is not a match is the same as getting no message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wtf is going on in here

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

In

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

You might have more luck if you stop using fake photos on your profile. It's very simple, click and hold a photo, "search with Google lens" and all copies of that photo and the website they appear on will be listed. Your upload from the 24th is fake as well as 4 others I checked. I'm not the only person who checks to see if photos are genuine. So yes, your profile is pretty pointless.

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over a year ago

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"You might have more luck if you stop using fake photos on your profile. It's very simple, click and hold a photo, "search with Google lens" and all copies of that photo and the website they appear on will be listed. Your upload from the 24th is fake as well as 4 others I checked. I'm not the only person who checks to see if photos are genuine. So yes, your profile is pretty pointless. "

Nice detective work there.

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"You might have more luck if you stop using fake photos on your profile. It's very simple, click and hold a photo, "search with Google lens" and all copies of that photo and the website they appear on will be listed. Your upload from the 24th is fake as well as 4 others I checked. I'm not the only person who checks to see if photos are genuine. So yes, your profile is pretty pointless.

Nice detective work there."

Just a habit now as I get the same cock photos sent to me by so many different guys and see the same pics on a lot of profiles, I always check now as it literally takes 5 seconds to do so.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

The only reason I shag so many hot burds off here is because i lie about the amount of hot burds I've shagged off here in truth it’s probably only half as many…. So 1 but the rest all want me - im just playing hard to get!!!

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Op you've been on 4 months had a meet 2 weeks, by alot of mens standards your actually smashing it

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Single guy, straight. Literally couldn’t give a hoot what happens, if it happens, it happens. If not, so be it.

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Hey. Been here a few months now and thoroughly enjoying all the amazing uploads, pics and vids!

Anyway. The only thing is - a single male like myself seems to get lost amongst the shuffle.. too many single men.

You girls continue to have all the power.. don’t ya?! lol "

With respect, you have been on here 4 months and have already had a meet. Some of us have been here for over a year and not got anywhere near a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You might have more luck if you stop using fake photos on your profile. It's very simple, click and hold a photo, "search with Google lens" and all copies of that photo and the website they appear on will be listed. Your upload from the 24th is fake as well as 4 others I checked. I'm not the only person who checks to see if photos are genuine. So yes, your profile is pretty pointless. "

And yet I read he’s getting to meet women this way…. ?….

*someone mentioned he’s got verifications

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"You might have more luck if you stop using fake photos on your profile. It's very simple, click and hold a photo, "search with Google lens" and all copies of that photo and the website they appear on will be listed. Your upload from the 24th is fake as well as 4 others I checked. I'm not the only person who checks to see if photos are genuine. So yes, your profile is pretty pointless.

And yet I read he’s getting to meet women this way…. ?….

*someone mentioned he’s got verifications "

Only one now. Maybe one left because of the fake pics?! Also veris can be faked easily by having two accounts or by asking a "friend" to verify.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poirot on the scene

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"You might have more luck if you stop using fake photos on your profile. It's very simple, click and hold a photo, "search with Google lens" and all copies of that photo and the website they appear on will be listed. Your upload from the 24th is fake as well as 4 others I checked. I'm not the only person who checks to see if photos are genuine. So yes, your profile is pretty pointless.

And yet I read he’s getting to meet women this way…. ?….

*someone mentioned he’s got verifications

Only one now. Maybe one left because of the fake pics?! Also veris can be faked easily by having two accounts or by asking a "friend" to verify. "

Op's getting called out, not going the way he thought

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I wouldn't describe it as power. Options maybe, but not power. It doesn't mean the options are any good though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well according to your status update and very recent verification you seek to be doing ok my friend! I hope you continue to enjoy the site "

For the record the status update has subsequently changed!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


" Poirot on the scene "

The little grey cells are fully employed, Hastings.

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By *oldShortsMan
over a year ago

St Helens

My big advice would be to go to local clubs, meet people. Not just try for a quick shag, but to meet other swingers on a social level too

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I thought you were a woman...

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"You might have more luck if you stop using fake photos on your profile. It's very simple, click and hold a photo, "search with Google lens" and all copies of that photo and the website they appear on will be listed. Your upload from the 24th is fake as well as 4 others I checked. I'm not the only person who checks to see if photos are genuine. So yes, your profile is pretty pointless. "

Well spotted

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By *oldShortsMan
over a year ago

St Helens


"You might have more luck if you stop using fake photos on your profile. It's very simple, click and hold a photo, "search with Google lens" and all copies of that photo and the website they appear on will be listed. Your upload from the 24th is fake as well as 4 others I checked. I'm not the only person who checks to see if photos are genuine. So yes, your profile is pretty pointless.

Well spotted "

To be fair, unless I’m using it wrong, it’s not 100% accurate - just tried it on some of my photos and adverts came up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You might have more luck if you stop using fake photos on your profile. It's very simple, click and hold a photo, "search with Google lens" and all copies of that photo and the website they appear on will be listed. Your upload from the 24th is fake as well as 4 others I checked. I'm not the only person who checks to see if photos are genuine. So yes, your profile is pretty pointless.

Well spotted

To be fair, unless I’m using it wrong, it’s not 100% accurate - just tried it on some of my photos and adverts came up"

It’s accurate. It will find adverts sometimes (clothing usually) but if the pic itself is elsewhere on the internet it will usually find it

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"You might have more luck if you stop using fake photos on your profile. It's very simple, click and hold a photo, "search with Google lens" and all copies of that photo and the website they appear on will be listed. Your upload from the 24th is fake as well as 4 others I checked. I'm not the only person who checks to see if photos are genuine. So yes, your profile is pretty pointless. "

And puff as if by magic the pic from the 24th has disappeared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awkward

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Shall I put a pic of a fucking huge cock on my profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awkward "

Maybe the other source on Google nicked the 24th pic from the OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shall I put a pic of a fucking huge cock on my profile?"

I thought you had?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shall I put a pic of a fucking huge cock on my profile?"

It's not Face Pic Friday yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awkward

Maybe the other source on Google nicked the 24th pic from the OP? "

In my friends only now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shall I put a pic of a fucking huge cock on my profile?

It's not Face Pic Friday yet."

ZING

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Shall I put a pic of a fucking huge cock on my profile?

It's not Face Pic Friday yet."

Hahaha you piece of shit

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

Guys totally don't feel sorry.Here we all have to really sell ourselves and work hard.Check bio look at pictures put new ones up.Read bios fully before messaging! Get out there go to socialises and events get to clubs.

Even for couples it's hard.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere


"Shall I put a pic of a fucking huge cock on my profile?"

No one has permission to use

My face pic!!!!!!!!!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I'm reminded of the song "Young, gifted and black," but this one's a bit more depressing.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere


"Shall I put a pic of a fucking huge cock on my profile?

No one has permission to use

My face pic!!!!!!!!! "

You lot type too fast!!

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Well according to your status update and very recent verification you seek to be doing ok my friend! I hope you continue to enjoy the site

For the record the status update has subsequently changed! "

I noticed that! The status about pulling a girl half her age and calling him daddy and taking it all... fucking ewwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember how many messages women must get. They would need a secretary to keep up with everything. Best thing to do is meet people at clubs or parties and come across as well. Women will remember you then

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Well according to your status update and very recent verification you seek to be doing ok my friend! I hope you continue to enjoy the site

For the record the status update has subsequently changed!

I noticed that! The status about pulling a girl half her age and calling him daddy and taking it all... fucking ewwww "

Leg end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my….ouch and ouch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Remember how many messages women must get. They would need a secretary to keep up with everything. Best thing to do is meet people at clubs or parties and come across as well. Women will remember you then "

Noted

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Remember how many messages women must get. They would need a secretary to keep up with everything. Best thing to do is meet people at clubs or parties and come across as well. Women will remember you then

Noted "

And make sure you wear stable shoes! Those places get slippery!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Remember how many messages women must get. They would need a secretary to keep up with everything. Best thing to do is meet people at clubs or parties and come across as well. Women will remember you then

Noted

And make sure you wear stable shoes! Those places get slippery! "

I just need to get a meet, and I've heard so many glorious things about the club seen. It's riveting.

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By *hostwolfMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

Being a single male that's closed minded wouldn't be great on here however I've had some success on here I've been a member for years thing is I'm in no rush and not desperate you need to find the people that match your preferences, they are here trust me be patient

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Remember how many messages women must get. They would need a secretary to keep up with everything. Best thing to do is meet people at clubs or parties and come across as well. Women will remember you then

Noted

And make sure you wear stable shoes! Those places get slippery!

I just need to get a meet, and I've heard so many glorious things about the club seen. It's riveting."

I heard all the women were after you?!

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Being a single male that's closed minded wouldn't be great on here however I've had some success on here I've been a member for years thing is I'm in no rush and not desperate you need to find the people that match your preferences, they are here trust me be patient "

Can I steal your username for my new band name?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Remember how many messages women must get. They would need a secretary to keep up with everything. Best thing to do is meet people at clubs or parties and come across as well. Women will remember you then

Noted

And make sure you wear stable shoes! Those places get slippery!

I just need to get a meet, and I've heard so many glorious things about the club seen. It's riveting.

I heard all the women were after you?! "

Only the ones on the 'who's near me'

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By *igeress66Woman
over a year ago

Oxford

Your post sounds rather bitter to me.

Everyone on here has put some effort in. Women may get tons of messages but how many of them are actually decent guys.

So many are pushy, want explicit pictures and then fail to show. So no wonder women are cautious on here.

As others have said go out and socialise, the best things often happen spontaneously.

If you want a quick shag, try a different site.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

I've met some great women through fabs. It's just not the "I'll send someone a message and be fucking them an hour later" scenario that an awful lot of men seem to expect.

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Well according to your status update and very recent verification you seek to be doing ok my friend! I hope you continue to enjoy the site

For the record the status update has subsequently changed!

I noticed that! The status about pulling a girl half her age and calling him daddy and taking it all... fucking ewwww "

Euww

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By *ankShandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands


"You might have more luck if you stop using fake photos on your profile. It's very simple, click and hold a photo, "search with Google lens" and all copies of that photo and the website they appear on will be listed. Your upload from the 24th is fake as well as 4 others I checked. I'm not the only person who checks to see if photos are genuine. So yes, your profile is pretty pointless. "

OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOH BUUURN SONNNN

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By *ankShandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

Women don't have an imbalance of power here. What you are experiencing is equity.

Kind of refreshing, no? To find a corner of the world where single men aren't able to dictate the terms.

I like it.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Women don't have an imbalance of power here. What you are experiencing is equity.

Kind of refreshing, no? To find a corner of the world where single men aren't able to dictate the terms.

I like it."

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Women don't have an imbalance of power here. What you are experiencing is equity.

Kind of refreshing, no? To find a corner of the world where single men aren't able to dictate the terms.

I like it."

Absofuckinglutely

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Yeah it's tough being me. Get accused of having shit tan lines. I think men look better tanned because they don't have the obvious boob white part as well but ya know, women are in charge!

Everything else is pretty sweet though "

Christ on a bike...rejected for tanlines?

I'm getting too old.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"...The only thing is - a single male like myself seems to get lost amongst the shuffle.. too many single men...

My dear OP - bring a map, a compass, a sextent and a GPS receiver. You'll be back on track in no time. Good luck. X "

Lol!

Darling Nero I do not think the OP knows what any of those things are....I'm not even sure he can find the clitoris.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"You might have more luck if you stop using fake photos on your profile. It's very simple, click and hold a photo, "search with Google lens" and all copies of that photo and the website they appear on will be listed. Your upload from the 24th is fake as well as 4 others I checked. I'm not the only person who checks to see if photos are genuine. So yes, your profile is pretty pointless.

OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOH BUUURN SONNNN

"

The plot and not the cock thickens.

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By *hostwolfMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Well according to your status update and very recent verification you seek to be doing ok my friend! I hope you continue to enjoy the site

For the record the status update has subsequently changed!

I noticed that! The status about pulling a girl half her age and calling him daddy and taking it all... fucking ewwww

Euww"

I'm happy to not be part of the Daddy scene....

I have Daddy issues but not that type.

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By *ankShandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands


"

The plot and not the cock thickens. "

The cock strickens

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Us people who are looking for men like different things and aQ

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Soooo, there is a huge imbalance of men to women on here. We have the 'power' of choice. Are you suggesting we should have sex with as many men who ask, because there are a lot of men wanting sex, to relinquish this 'power' ?"

Don't think he suggested the second bit at all.

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By *ouple-perthCouple
over a year ago

Perth


"You might have more luck if you stop using fake photos on your profile. It's very simple, click and hold a photo, "search with Google lens" and all copies of that photo and the website they appear on will be listed. Your upload from the 24th is fake as well as 4 others I checked. I'm not the only person who checks to see if photos are genuine. So yes, your profile is pretty pointless. "

Well said, We do this too, it's a shame more don't.

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By *orthyhellboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Gravesend


"If you are a single M why is your profile pic a F? "
It’s a picture of a female sitting across my legs - naked and looking great doing it!

Makes a nice profile picture. Sometimes however, I.. change it..

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By *orthyhellboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Well according to your status update and very recent verification you seek to be doing ok my friend! I hope you continue to enjoy the site

For the record the status update has subsequently changed!

I noticed that! The status about pulling a girl half her age and calling him daddy and taking it all... fucking ewwww "

Changing it has absolutely nothing to do with whatever it is the reason that’s in your head and nobody mentioned the term “daddy” in my previous status. Must be the Mandela effect kicking in.. (look it up)

As for half my age - yes she was 22.. I am 43. Shock horror.

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By *antric_lover77Woman
over a year ago

south east

Yes that's correct however it's a double ended sword as men just continue not to put in the effort with their profile or be genuine and actually want to meet, therefore we really struggle to find good meets. Do definitely works both ways here

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By *antric_lover77Woman
over a year ago

south east

I never understood why single men want to use women in their profile photos. I get confused what type of profile they want to display to the world. As a single woman, I'm definitely not interested in photos like that as doesn't really tell me anything about the guy apart he fucks but yes we all can so why do you need to display it? Someone enlighten me about this as I have never understood it myself?

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By *Bag69Man
over a year ago

Derby

If you think it's bad being male and single on here, you should try being fat AND ugly on top of that!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s tough being a single guy on here! But as long as you’re genuine and open minded you’ll get there. I was a single bloke on here before and did well but I went to clubs and socials a lot as well as this place

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never understood why single men want to use women in their profile photos. I get confused what type of profile they want to display to the world. As a single woman, I'm definitely not interested in photos like that as doesn't really tell me anything about the guy apart he fucks but yes we all can so why do you need to display it? Someone enlighten me about this as I have never understood it myself? "

I think there are some on here that use this site as a trophy cabinet or to show off their fuck game/score sheet to other men. From what I gather from many forum posts/comments is that women don't want to meet men with photos or videos in public of sex sessions. More so if its multiple bareback partners. Recently I've been receiving videos of sex in my inbox, almost like it's an attached resume. Do men think women will watch it and think "ooh, I wanna bitta that" ?

This is a response to the above comment and not a dig at the OP btw

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"If you think it's bad being male and single on here, you should try being fat AND ugly on top of that!"

It's quite hard to find bigger guys in this neck of the woods unfortunately

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By *Bag69Man
over a year ago

Derby


"If you think it's bad being male and single on here, you should try being fat AND ugly on top of that!

It's quite hard to find bigger guys in this neck of the woods unfortunately "

Well I'm just 225 miles away if you need me x

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By *orthyhellboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I never understood why single men want to use women in their profile photos. I get confused what type of profile they want to display to the world. As a single woman, I'm definitely not interested in photos like that as doesn't really tell me anything about the guy apart he fucks but yes we all can so why do you need to display it? Someone enlighten me about this as I have never understood it myself?

I think there are some on here that use this site as a trophy cabinet or to show off their fuck game/score sheet to other men. From what I gather from many forum posts/comments is that women don't want to meet men with photos or videos in public of sex sessions. More so if its multiple bareback partners. Recently I've been receiving videos of sex in my inbox, almost like it's an attached resume. Do men think women will watch it and think "ooh, I wanna bitta that" ?

This is a response to the above comment and not a dig at the OP btw

"

Hey, thanks for not digging at meeeeee!!!

As for a quick response to the question.. I think that since this is a sex site - us men like to upload sexual experiences and talk about sex.

We all have Facebook for that “community standards” bullshit.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I never understood why single men want to use women in their profile photos. I get confused what type of profile they want to display to the world. As a single woman, I'm definitely not interested in photos like that as doesn't really tell me anything about the guy apart he fucks but yes we all can so why do you need to display it? Someone enlighten me about this as I have never understood it myself? "

Boys just mature a lot later in life than girls , although to be honest , by 40 most have done and figured out how to interact with women. Clearly not all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never understood why single men want to use women in their profile photos. I get confused what type of profile they want to display to the world. As a single woman, I'm definitely not interested in photos like that as doesn't really tell me anything about the guy apart he fucks but yes we all can so why do you need to display it? Someone enlighten me about this as I have never understood it myself?

I think there are some on here that use this site as a trophy cabinet or to show off their fuck game/score sheet to other men. From what I gather from many forum posts/comments is that women don't want to meet men with photos or videos in public of sex sessions. More so if its multiple bareback partners. Recently I've been receiving videos of sex in my inbox, almost like it's an attached resume. Do men think women will watch it and think "ooh, I wanna bitta that" ?

This is a response to the above comment and not a dig at the OP btw

Hey, thanks for not digging at meeeeee!!!

As for a quick response to the question.. I think that since this is a sex site - us men like to upload sexual experiences and talk about sex.

We all have Facebook for that “community standards” bullshit.

"

It's a great site to showcase your talents in some respect but single men do run the risk of "cockblocking themselves by their own conquests" if they post graphic photos. Much the same for women I guess. There will be some happy to wank over photos but not willing going to meet a woman who's been cocked more times than John Wayne's gun. As time goes on I find less liberated thinkers in this liberated lifestyle x

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"If you are a single M why is your profile pic a F? It’s a picture of a female sitting across my legs - naked and looking great doing it!

Makes a nice profile picture. Sometimes however, I.. change it.. "

Majority of women don't want to see that though... It brings up the question of consent to have her image used and we don't think "ooh, he must be ok, he's done the sex thing with her" other men probably love it though

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"I never understood why single men want to use women in their profile photos. I get confused what type of profile they want to display to the world. As a single woman, I'm definitely not interested in photos like that as doesn't really tell me anything about the guy apart he fucks but yes we all can so why do you need to display it? Someone enlighten me about this as I have never understood it myself? "

It's a massive turn off for me. I don't need to see where you've been.

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

Op it's a womans world and we are just here trying to survive, but enjoying the ride, don't waste your time trying to figure it out, just enjoy

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By *orthyhellboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Gravesend


"If you are a single M why is your profile pic a F? It’s a picture of a female sitting across my legs - naked and looking great doing it!

Makes a nice profile picture. Sometimes however, I.. change it..

Majority of women don't want to see that though... It brings up the question of consent to have her image used and we don't think "ooh, he must be ok, he's done the sex thing with her" other men probably love it though"

Well nahhhh.. not everything’s gonna please everyone, is it?.. don’t really understand why people complain. There’s plenty of whatever it is that you & the majority of women like to see.. look further into those profiles. (Respectfully)

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By *orthyhellboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I never understood why single men want to use women in their profile photos. I get confused what type of profile they want to display to the world. As a single woman, I'm definitely not interested in photos like that as doesn't really tell me anything about the guy apart he fucks but yes we all can so why do you need to display it? Someone enlighten me about this as I have never understood it myself?

I hear you.

I think there are some on here that use this site as a trophy cabinet or to show off their fuck game/score sheet to other men. From what I gather from many forum posts/comments is that women don't want to meet men with photos or videos in public of sex sessions. More so if its multiple bareback partners. Recently I've been receiving videos of sex in my inbox, almost like it's an attached resume. Do men think women will watch it and think "ooh, I wanna bitta that" ?

This is a response to the above comment and not a dig at the OP btw

Hey, thanks for not digging at meeeeee!!!

As for a quick response to the question.. I think that since this is a sex site - us men like to upload sexual experiences and talk about sex.

We all have Facebook for that “community standards” bullshit.

It's a great site to showcase your talents in some respect but single men do run the risk of "cockblocking themselves by their own conquests" if they post graphic photos. Much the same for women I guess. There will be some happy to wank over photos but not willing going to meet a woman who's been cocked more times than John Wayne's gun. As time goes on I find less liberated thinkers in this liberated lifestyle x "

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"If you are a single M why is your profile pic a F? It’s a picture of a female sitting across my legs - naked and looking great doing it!

Makes a nice profile picture. Sometimes however, I.. change it..

Majority of women don't want to see that though... It brings up the question of consent to have her image used and we don't think "ooh, he must be ok, he's done the sex thing with her" other men probably love it though

Well nahhhh.. not everything’s gonna please everyone, is it?.. don’t really understand why people complain. There’s plenty of whatever it is that you & the majority of women like to see.. look further into those profiles. (Respectfully) "

But if you're looking to do better, then there's advice to be taken.

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By *orthyhellboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Op it's a womans world and we are just here trying to survive, but enjoying the ride, don't waste your time trying to figure it out, just enjoy "

You’re right. I am thoroughly enjoying the site and I was simply trying to get people talking and interacting in a positive a manner as possible..

Thanks for the feedback. I appreciate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't particularly like overtly sexually graphic images myself, or profiles regardless of gender. First impressions count but you won't please everyone anyway.

If your happy with how you come across then keep doing what you're doing. Men outnumber women on fab so it can be harder for some men to meet. They don't always help themselves though.

Good luck.

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By *orthyhellboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Gravesend


"If you are a single M why is your profile pic a F? It’s a picture of a female sitting across my legs - naked and looking great doing it!

Makes a nice profile picture. Sometimes however, I.. change it..

Majority of women don't want to see that though... It brings up the question of consent to have her image used and we don't think "ooh, he must be ok, he's done the sex thing with her" other men probably love it though

Well nahhhh.. not everything’s gonna please everyone, is it?.. don’t really understand why people complain. There’s plenty of whatever it is that you & the majority of women like to see.. look further into those profiles. (Respectfully)

But if you're looking to do better, then there's advice to be taken. "

Oh absolutely! I’ve been listening and learning ..

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By *orthyhellboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I don't particularly like overtly sexually graphic images myself, or profiles regardless of gender. First impressions count but you won't please everyone anyway.

If your happy with how you come across then keep doing what you're doing. Men outnumber women on fab so it can be harder for some men to meet. They don't always help themselves though.

Good luck."

Noted. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are a single M why is your profile pic a F? It’s a picture of a female sitting across my legs - naked and looking great doing it!

Makes a nice profile picture. Sometimes however, I.. change it..

Majority of women don't want to see that though... It brings up the question of consent to have her image used and we don't think "ooh, he must be ok, he's done the sex thing with her" other men probably love it though"

I just always assume consent was not given.

They usually claim it was an ex anyway. What woman would allow her ex to use her sex pics on a sex site.

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By *orthyhellboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Gravesend


"If you are a single M why is your profile pic a F? It’s a picture of a female sitting across my legs - naked and looking great doing it!

Makes a nice profile picture. Sometimes however, I.. change it..

Majority of women don't want to see that though... It brings up the question of consent to have her image used and we don't think "ooh, he must be ok, he's done the sex thing with her" other men probably love it though

I just always assume consent was not given.

They usually claim it was an ex anyway. What woman would allow her ex to use her sex pics on a sex site. "

Assume what you like, I don’t care.

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By *antric_lover77Woman
over a year ago

south east


"I never understood why single men want to use women in their profile photos. I get confused what type of profile they want to display to the world. As a single woman, I'm definitely not interested in photos like that as doesn't really tell me anything about the guy apart he fucks but yes we all can so why do you need to display it? Someone enlighten me about this as I have never understood it myself?

I think there are some on here that use this site as a trophy cabinet or to show off their fuck game/score sheet to other men. From what I gather from many forum posts/comments is that women don't want to meet men with photos or videos in public of sex sessions. More so if its multiple bareback partners. Recently I've been receiving videos of sex in my inbox, almost like it's an attached resume. Do men think women will watch it and think "ooh, I wanna bitta that" ?

This is a response to the above comment and not a dig at the OP btw

Hey, thanks for not digging at meeeeee!!!

As for a quick response to the question.. I think that since this is a sex site - us men like to upload sexual experiences and talk about sex.

We all have Facebook for that “community standards” bullshit.

"

But don't expect most women to find your profile attractive if you feel so liberated to show where you been with other women. For me it just displays arrogance and untrust so those profiles go in the block list.

Good luck op if you want to remain in finding it difficult to find a meet, then carry on as you are. The guys I know with many verifications are charming, down to earth, genuine and put the woman first. They know how to play the game. As for the rest of the non verified profiles I seen, totally clueless how to turn a woman on. There's plenty of women on here looking for NSA fun, including myself. But who wants a timewasting, clueless and arrogant man in their inbox, not me.

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By *antric_lover77Woman
over a year ago

south east


"If you are a single M why is your profile pic a F? It’s a picture of a female sitting across my legs - naked and looking great doing it!

Makes a nice profile picture. Sometimes however, I.. change it..

Majority of women don't want to see that though... It brings up the question of consent to have her image used and we don't think "ooh, he must be ok, he's done the sex thing with her" other men probably love it though

I just always assume consent was not given.

They usually claim it was an ex anyway. What woman would allow her ex to use her sex pics on a sex site. "

Some people claimed that photo is taken from a professional site as it doesn't really match with other photos in the album. I think it's pointless using fake photos as if they ever a get a meet, the truth come out then

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By *ankShandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands


"

I don’t care. "

^ That might be your biggest problem right there.

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By *awg-mo-thoinWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"

I don’t care.

^ That might be your biggest problem right there."

Doesn’t care but created a thread to complain. Explain that one to me

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By *ance_With_MeMan
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Hey. Been here a few months now and thoroughly enjoying all the amazing uploads, pics and vids!

Anyway. The only thing is - a single male like myself seems to get lost amongst the shuffle.. too many single men.

You girls continue to have all the power.. don’t ya?! lol "

Yeah same here mate. The struggle is real. Then when you ask in forums I’ve had all kinds of abuse. Just keep being you mate. Pickings are slim but enjoy what you can

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By *igforfun100Man
over a year ago

Magherafelt

I've been on and off fab for years. Approach it with few expectations and you will have no disappointments. Respect the people you admire and build relationships with them. It's a swinging site mate. Not a sex site.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"

Hey, thanks for not digging at meeeeee!!!

As for a quick response to the question.. I think that since this is a sex site - us men like to upload sexual experiences and talk about sex.

We all have Facebook for that “community standards” bullshit.

"

"us men" yes but then that's all you will attract...men....

You don't try to catch a pussy with a dog bone(r)

I understand that if I want to attract men then I can't talk to men about the things that women like generally. Unless he has a fetish for women's clothing, makeup and high heels, I find out what interests him specifically or what interests men generally.

I think it's vaguely called interpersonal effectiveness.. A meeting of minds....and bodies...

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Hey. Been here a few months now and thoroughly enjoying all the amazing uploads, pics and vids!

Anyway. The only thing is - a single male like myself seems to get lost amongst the shuffle.. too many single men.

You girls continue to have all the power.. don’t ya?! lol

Yeah same here mate. The struggle is real. Then when you ask in forums I’ve had all kinds of abuse. Just keep being you mate. Pickings are slim but enjoy what you can "

Slim pickings? but you have 20 meets...Why would you have to ask on the forums when you could ask any of your previous meets?

Unless you fell out with all of your previous 20 meets?

Speculation not abuse.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"I've been on and off fab for years. Approach it with few expectations and you will have no disappointments. Respect the people you admire and build relationships with them. It's a swinging site mate. Not a sex site.

"

Oh plenty treat it like a sex site and have no intention of building any kind of interpersonal relationship or respect or admiration.

They just want as many one-night stands as possible on their own time. They basically want a human blow-up doll that they don't actually have to deal with emotions and thoughts and needs and preferences.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Lovely vids op x

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Yeah it's tough being me. Get accused of having shit tan lines. I think men look better tanned because they don't have the obvious boob white part as well but ya know, women are in charge!

Everything else is pretty sweet though

Christ on a bike...rejected for tanlines?

I'm getting too old. "

No no no, rejected for being a dick WITH shit tan lines!

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By *orthyhellboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Lovely vids op x"

Thank you, darling.. yours are awesome too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are a single M why is your profile pic a F? "

OK so I wasn't miss-seeing cause I noticed this as well but couldn't see the pic clearly enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh damn I missed a fun thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of men actually saw the kind of messages women receive on here I doubt that they would throw this 'power' word around the way they do

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Hey. Been here a few months now and thoroughly enjoying all the amazing uploads, pics and vids!

Anyway. The only thing is - a single male like myself seems to get lost amongst the shuffle.. too many single men.

You girls continue to have all the power.. don’t ya?! lol "

It's about damn time ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of men actually saw the kind of messages women receive on here I doubt that they would throw this 'power' word around the way they do"

A good indicator of this is that men regularly prevent men from clogging up their inbox with messages. The quality of those messages is likely not any better than what women get. And ofc it’s fair to assume some women get worse, more abusive messages way more often too.

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over a year ago

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By *orthyhellboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Gravesend


"

I don’t care.

^ That might be your biggest problem right there.

Doesn’t care but created a thread to complain. Explain that one to me "

It’s not a complaint. It’s an observation and a topic that I wanted to explore other’s opinions on.. what’s wrong with that ??

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By *awg-mo-thoinWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"

I don’t care.

^ That might be your biggest problem right there.

Doesn’t care but created a thread to complain. Explain that one to me

It’s not a complaint. It’s an observation and a topic that I wanted to explore other’s opinions on.. what’s wrong with that ?? "

It doesn’t really seem that you’ve been open to exploring other’s opinions given that you’ve either argued with or ignored any that don’t align with yours. But whatever you say..

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By *ankShandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands


"It’s not a complaint. It’s an observation and a topic that I wanted to explore other’s opinions on.. what’s wrong with that ?? "

The title of the topic is "Single, male and Pointless"

Can you explain what the use of the word 'pointless' is in the context of the topic you wanted to explore please?

Genuine question.

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By *orthyhellboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Gravesend


"

I don’t care.

^ That might be your biggest problem right there.

Doesn’t care but created a thread to complain. Explain that one to me

It’s not a complaint. It’s an observation and a topic that I wanted to explore other’s opinions on.. what’s wrong with that ??

It doesn’t really seem that you’ve been open to exploring other’s opinions given that you’ve either argued with or ignored any that don’t align with yours. But whatever you say.."

I simply choose to ignore toxicity.

Also, I’m mostly interested in reading others opinions and comments. This is a forum for likeminded people to chat and discuss their thoughts amongst themselves.. I only got the ball rolling.. because it is true that single male members have the least chances of “scoring” any kind of success via a swingers group online.

I am certainly not complaining as some of you are keen to put across.. yeah it sucks. But in the grand scheme of things - I don’t care too much about it.

Only interested in posting my first forum topic and already - there are plenty who’ll try and bring you down.. maybe it makes them feel better. Good luck to them.

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By *orthyhellboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Gravesend


"It’s not a complaint. It’s an observation and a topic that I wanted to explore other’s opinions on.. what’s wrong with that ??

The title of the topic is "Single, male and Pointless"

Can you explain what the use of the word 'pointless' is in the context of the topic you wanted to explore please?

Genuine question."

Dude.

As for the subject line - I had to think of something, because it was a requirement. I knew what the topic would be, however I spent much less time thinking about the subject line. So yeah.. perhaps I could’ve worded that differently/better.. I can only apologise for my ignorance. It’s my very first time posting in this forum or any forum for that matter.

I hope this helps clarify things up for some of you.

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"

But don't expect most women to find your profile attractive if you feel so liberated to show where you been with other women. For me it just displays arrogance and untrust so those profiles go in the block list.

Good luck op if you want to remain in finding it difficult to find a meet, then carry on as you are. The guys I know with many verifications are charming, down to earth, genuine and put the woman first. They know how to play the game. As for the rest of the non verified profiles I seen, totally clueless how to turn a woman on. There's plenty of women on here looking for NSA fun, including myself. But who wants a timewasting, clueless and arrogant man in their inbox, not me. "

Well said

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By *ankShandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands


"It’s not a complaint. It’s an observation and a topic that I wanted to explore other’s opinions on.. what’s wrong with that ??

The title of the topic is "Single, male and Pointless"

Can you explain what the use of the word 'pointless' is in the context of the topic you wanted to explore please?

Genuine question.

Dude.

As for the subject line - I had to think of something, because it was a requirement. I knew what the topic would be, however I spent much less time thinking about the subject line. So yeah.. perhaps I could’ve worded that differently/better.. I can only apologise for my ignorance. It’s my very first time posting in this forum or any forum for that matter.

I hope this helps clarify things up for some of you. "

It seems you didn't think too much about the title then.

Oddly, for a flippant, spontaneous title, it seems to match the post below it very well.

It has the tone of the sulking boy who picks his football up and takes it home because nobody will let him score.

I don't want to labour the point, or to seem like I'm having a go at you... I'm here for a good time only. But I also don't feel I can stand by while you complain that you're not getting enough attention because the women here hold the power, and they are withholding their "favours" from you, and that it isn't fair.

It *all* smacks of entitlement in my mind. And I just can't pretend that's not happening.

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By *orthyhellboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Gravesend


"

But don't expect most women to find your profile attractive if you feel so liberated to show where you been with other women. For me it just displays arrogance and untrust so those profiles go in the block list.

Good luck op if you want to remain in finding it difficult to find a meet, then carry on as you are. The guys I know with many verifications are charming, down to earth, genuine and put the woman first. They know how to play the game. As for the rest of the non verified profiles I seen, totally clueless how to turn a woman on. There's plenty of women on here looking for NSA fun, including myself. But who wants a timewasting, clueless and arrogant man in their inbox, not me.

Well said"

Most single women have photos and videos of a verity of dicks inserted into various holes.

I don’t judge them based on where they’ve been with other men. This is a sex based site as far as I can tell. So I’ll save the photos of my charming side for Facebook, POF, Tinder etc..

Thanks for the advice though. I do appreciate it. And I’ll work on charming the knickers off those more open minded site members ..

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere


"

But don't expect most women to find your profile attractive if you feel so liberated to show where you been with other women. For me it just displays arrogance and untrust so those profiles go in the block list.

Good luck op if you want to remain in finding it difficult to find a meet, then carry on as you are. The guys I know with many verifications are charming, down to earth, genuine and put the woman first. They know how to play the game. As for the rest of the non verified profiles I seen, totally clueless how to turn a woman on. There's plenty of women on here looking for NSA fun, including myself. But who wants a timewasting, clueless and arrogant man in their inbox, not me.

Well said"

I know how to turn a woman on thankfully… polish the headlights….feed the horse…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we all tactfully ignoring the fake photo

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Been on 13 years and OP has more meets than me

Yet still complaining.

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By *orthyhellboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Gravesend


"It’s not a complaint. It’s an observation and a topic that I wanted to explore other’s opinions on.. what’s wrong with that ??

The title of the topic is "Single, male and Pointless"

Can you explain what the use of the word 'pointless' is in the context of the topic you wanted to explore please?

Genuine question.

Dude.

As for the subject line - I had to think of something, because it was a requirement. I knew what the topic would be, however I spent much less time thinking about the subject line. So yeah.. perhaps I could’ve worded that differently/better.. I can only apologise for my ignorance. It’s my very first time posting in this forum or any forum for that matter.

I hope this helps clarify things up for some of you.

It seems you didn't think too much about the title then.

Oddly, for a flippant, spontaneous title, it seems to match the post below it very well.

It has the tone of the sulking boy who picks his football up and takes it home because nobody will let him score.

I don't want to labour the point, or to seem like I'm having a go at you... I'm here for a good time only. But I also don't feel I can stand by while you complain that you're not getting enough attention because the women here hold the power, and they are withholding their "favours" from you, and that it isn't fair.

It *all* smacks of entitlement in my mind. And I just can't pretend that's not happening."

My post is lighthearted and no where near complaining. My point is that single male members find it very difficult to stand out from the crowd.

Some insights can help not only myself - but others.. my post is intended to be helpful and informative.. positively matters. You are focusing on the negative aspects of my post and admittedly misleading subject line.

Btw, I don’t necessarily feel that you’re having a go at me. It’s cool. I understand why you’re asking me these questions. It’s my own ignorance which is the problem I guess mate.

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By *orthyhellboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Been on 13 years and OP has more meets than me

Yet still complaining. "

Again - NOT COMPLAINING.

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By *orthyhellboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I've been on and off fab for years. Approach it with few expectations and you will have no disappointments. Respect the people you admire and build relationships with them. It's a swinging site mate. Not a sex site.

"

Noted. Thank you, mate.

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By *ankShandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands


"

My point is that single male members find it very difficult to stand out from the crowd

"

Stand out from the crowd.

Competitive advantage.

How can you gain a competitive advantage over all the other single males here... of which I am one.

You're not asking the couples and the single women here "what makes a good profile on here?" You're asking "how can I ensure that I get the most attention?".

I could be wrong about this but I don't see much competitiveness here.

So I am curious about why you have a desire to stand out from the crowd.

Maybe the secret to success is to simply be a part of the crowd?

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By *awg-mo-thoinWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Are we all tactfully ignoring the fake photo "

He certainly is anyway

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By *orthyhellboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Gravesend


"

My point is that single male members find it very difficult to stand out from the crowd

Stand out from the crowd.

Competitive advantage.

How can you gain a competitive advantage over all the other single males here... of which I am one.

You're not asking the couples and the single women here "what makes a good profile on here?" You're asking "how can I ensure that I get the most attention?".

I could be wrong about this but I don't see much competitiveness here.

So I am curious about why you have a desire to stand out from the crowd.

Maybe the secret to success is to simply be a part of the crowd?"

Hey. I don’t claim to be an expert. I am new here, so please forgive my ignorance.

Happy to take your advice. It’ll be nice to be noticed. Not after attention. Just to be noticed. D’ya understand?

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By *ankShandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Just to be noticed. D’ya understand? "

I do understand that, yes.

If you want to be noticed, be noticed for all the right reasons, not all the wrong ones.

But also, accept that for once single men are not the highest valued assets in here. You have very little capital here other than an ability to be a nice guy, respectful, worthy of some interest and attention.

If you do that you will maximise your potential for seeming attractive whilst also raising yourself to a point no higher than merely being a welcome member of the community.

Some people will take a shine to you, others won't. You can't cheat the chemistry.

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By *orthyhellboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Just to be noticed. D’ya understand?

I do understand that, yes.

If you want to be noticed, be noticed for all the right reasons, not all the wrong ones.

But also, accept that for once single men are not the highest valued assets in here. You have very little capital here other than an ability to be a nice guy, respectful, worthy of some interest and attention.

If you do that you will maximise your potential for seeming attractive whilst also raising yourself to a point no higher than merely being a welcome member of the community.

Some people will take a shine to you, others won't. You can't cheat the chemistry."

A welcome member is good enough for me, personally. Sage advice right there - so thank you.

Sincerely appreciate that. And so glad we’ve finally understood each other.

Top man.

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