FabSwingers.com forum: Cute?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is being told you have a cute face someones way of being polite instead of saying not for me thanks or are people attracted to a cute mug lol

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Not always! But yes.

Honestly trying to give a genuine compliment these days is a minefield. You never know if they will like it, or if it will feel fake.

I was talking to a friend earlier and she looked gorgeous as always, I held back from saying gorgeous. I meant it but it felt as if it would be just another bullshit compliment men give.

So I was going to say lovely, pretty, beautiful... Etc and they felt like they were just being polite.

In the end I just say she looked awesome.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"Is being told you have a cute face someones way of being polite instead of saying not for me thanks or are people attracted to a cute mug lol "

What a topic for me!

I've been called this so much! From what I gather, northerners seem to use it more like, hot. Southerners it is abit like...yeah you're good looking but not for me. That's what I've got from it anyway but everyone has different views.

If they say I'm cute and then carry on sexually it's a good sign. If they then ghost, it's not

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"Not always! But yes.

Honestly trying to give a genuine compliment these days is a minefield. You never know if they will like it, or if it will feel fake.

I was talking to a friend earlier and she looked gorgeous as always, I held back from saying gorgeous. I meant it but it felt as if it would be just another bullshit compliment men give.

So I was going to say lovely, pretty, beautiful... Etc and they felt like they were just being polite.

In the end I just say she looked awesome."

Ah just say it! That's my personality all over. If a woman's looking hot I will say she is (if I know her to some degree...actually one or two strangers too)

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Don't overthink it, you are very cute and both of us would also Rodger you senseless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they felt that if they sed you were beautiful or pritty something like that it would come across and blowing smoke so decided to go with something else instead

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Nic, there’s a Venn diagram of cute, pretty and hot. You’re right in the middle where the three circles overlap.

Happy to help.

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By *entleman Blue EyesMan
over a year ago

Saffron Walden

I'm with you Kaitonel, I've come a cropper with a misconstrued and mis taken compliment. Cute for me is one that should is defo a compliment with endearment behind it and not just a lust filled comment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is being told you have a cute face someones way of being polite instead of saying not for me thanks or are people attracted to a cute mug lol

What a topic for me!

If they say I'm cute and then carry on sexually it's a good sign. If they then ghost, it's not

Me too it seems to be the word i get most. I use it too i take it as a good thing but sometimes i do wonder is it aww your cute but no thanks or your cute id like to rip your clothes off lol

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington

"Is being told you have a cute face someones way of being polite instead of saying not for me thanks or are people attracted to a cute mug lol "
well i dont know who said it but i do agree with him,,, you do look cute and have a nice smile,,, the figure is very nice too,

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
over a year ago

Beverley

I think cute it complimentary. It can be a style, a noise or a look. It also is less suggestive than just ploughing in there with 'hot' which can only be taken one way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the end I just say she looked awesome."

Aww thats a great compliment!

Puppies and kittens are 'cute' maybe little kids too. But adults? Especially at my age!! And to be given to a man? Nah far better words to use!

As a side note I love it when I have my profile pics hidden and still get messages giving me compliments about my looks!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get called babyfaced way too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cute to me feels like another way of saying you’re good looking but not in a i’d have sex with you way.

I don’t know maybe it’s just me.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"Not always! But yes.

Honestly trying to give a genuine compliment these days is a minefield. You never know if they will like it, or if it will feel fake.

I was talking to a friend earlier and she looked gorgeous as always, I held back from saying gorgeous. I meant it but it felt as if it would be just another bullshit compliment men give.

So I was going to say lovely, pretty, beautiful... Etc and they felt like they were just being polite.

In the end I just say she looked awesome.

Ah just say it! That's my personality all over. If a woman's looking hot I will say she is (if I know her to some degree...actually one or two strangers too)"

Generally I do. But over using compliments dulls their effect and they just become words, meaningless to the person, or if you thrown it around at everyone all the time it's meaningless.

It can have a vibe of boy that called wolf eventually. Blowing smoke up someone's arse just isn't for me. Unless that is their kink, and I'll give it a try.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"Cute to me feels like another way of saying you’re good looking but not in a i’d have sex with you way.

I don’t know maybe it’s just me. "

Maybe it's just you being cute!

(I didn't mean it! Well I did but not really!)

Maybe it's just you being awesome...

Phew! Saved it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think cute is lovely.

Its not something I'm ever told.

It is absolutely a compliment.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"I get called babyfaced way too much "

Grow the beard! It helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cute is good IMO, probably means you make my heart flutter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cute to me feels like another way of saying you’re good looking but not in a i’d have sex with you way.

I don’t know maybe it’s just me.

Maybe it's just you being cute!

(I didn't mean it! Well I did but not really!)

Maybe it's just you being awesome...

Phew! Saved it. "

You think I’m cute? I’m done

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Cute is one the best worst compliments you can receive.

If a girl calls you cute you might as well go jump off a bridge

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Cute is a compliment that I dint hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cute is by far the most frequent comment I get on here. Is my stupid cute face cock blocking me?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"Cute to me feels like another way of saying you’re good looking but not in a i’d have sex with you way.

I don’t know maybe it’s just me.

Maybe it's just you being cute!

(I didn't mean it! Well I did but not really!)

Maybe it's just you being awesome...

Phew! Saved it.

You think I’m cute? I’m done

I didn't mean it!

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"Cute to me feels like another way of saying you’re good looking but not in a i’d have sex with you way.

I don’t know maybe it’s just me. "

If you ever call me cute I'm leaving fab again, for a week or so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cute to me feels like another way of saying you’re good looking but not in a i’d have sex with you way.

I don’t know maybe it’s just me.

If you ever call me cute I'm leaving fab again, for a week or so "

Brb.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nic, there’s a Venn diagram of cute, pretty and hot. You’re right in the middle where the three circles overlap.

Happy to help.

Lol charmer you

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Cute is safe. I think that's what it is, it's not bad. It's just safe.

Its not trying to be over familiar. Trying to be respectful etc without trying to turn it in to some kind of objectification compliment that may "offend" somebody.

Whom, when, and why you give compliments will different greatly. As will receiving them.

It is that fine line between genuine and smoke blowing simping, it's dangerous territory that can go either way.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

I know some people don’t see being called cute as a positive, but I use it in lots of ways, anything from fluffy bunnies, to attractive in a really wholesome pretty way, to drop dead, very fuckable gorgeous, it’s certainly very much in how I say it, but of course that doesn’t work well in text

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By *rincess-PeachWoman
over a year ago

irrelevant

I take and give cute as a compliment definitely. Is it a Northern thing ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cute is nice it's definitely a compliment. It can be a slightly ambiguous one though, hot isn't taken any other way than how it's meant same for sexy etc.

I tend to take compliments from people here with a pinch of salt unless I know them well.

From friends I'm always genuinely ecstatic by them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know some people don’t see being called cute as a positive, but I use it in lots of ways, anything from fluffy bunnies, to attractive in a really wholesome pretty way, to drop dead, very fuckable gorgeous, it’s certainly very much in how I say it, but of course that doesn’t work well in text "

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

Occasionally I get called cute. Perhaps that's just their myopic interpretation of me. I prefer "cute" because anything more can come across as overbearing.

I don't think I've ever called a woman "beautiful" when she's sent a photograph. I'm not very good with dishing out sycophantic 'faux flattery'. Instead I resort to words that are less ingratiating but more sincere.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

"Occasionally I get called cute. Perhaps that's just their myopic interpretation of me. I prefer "cute" because anything more can come across as overbearing.

But photos can be beautiful as can the people in them, saying it’s beautiful doesn’t need to be sycophantic or faux, or insincere

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By *lay 4 your plessureMan
over a year ago

Wigan

I've never thought of cute to be anything other than complimentary, it's surprising to me how many here think of it differently. I'm wondering if there's a generational and regional difference to how cute is used?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

don’t think telling people their value is in how they look to you is a good idea. It’s actually very selfish

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

I have called someones penis cute before...

Ie, awww how cuuute, its like a penis only smaller

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have called someones penis cute before...

Ie, awww how cuuute, its like a penis only smaller

Lol

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By *lfacatMan
over a year ago

Cumbria

Cute but sexy or sexy & cute are both complements.

It suggests a playful kind of sexy rather than a vampy kind of sexy!

And yes you’re ‘cute’!

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I don't mind being called cute, at least people don't think I'm hideous then lol

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

If someone is nice but not my type I'll say they're cute but no thanks.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I always feel mildly put out by being called cute.

How on earth is the oversized slutty goth cute exactly?

But it's common enough that I've come to accept it. It's not an insult at least.

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