FabSwingers.com forum: Men and our flaccid, floppy, fabsticks

By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

I couldn’t think of a word for penis beginning with F so fabstick had to do.

Guys who have dick pics on their profiles nearly always seem to be erect. Is there something about guys not wanting to post pics of their dick if it is not hard? I was thinking of renaissance statues and how non of them seem to have a erect/hard marble made member.

Part of me wonders if guys want to show their maximum size and as flaccid dicks are usually smaller than when hard and so they want to “show their best” so to speak? Guys would you feel uncomfortable/insecure with posting such a picture?

For the ladies, what are your thoughts on flaccid dick pics?

No particular reason I’m asking. I do like to look at pictures of dicks so there is that…

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

I have it on good authority that even the ladies that like dick picks don't particularly like flaccid ones, well at least the close-ups. There are exceptions but generally they just don't look good. I guess if we all had a penis and body to match like Michel Angelos' David and took tasteful pictures of flaccid cock attached to hot body all would be fine but we don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get what you mean OP, I guess it's just something guys on here have been conditioned to think. It's a sex site* and sex requires a hard dick. Any time I post a photo in boxers or just a hint of penis, it will mostly be flaccid and can definitely see the art side of it.

*Disclaimer for anyone saying "it'S a swInGeR'S SiTE"

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

My most fabbed pic is actually of my flaccid cock.

Well it’s got more of me than my cock but it’s there very not hard.

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By *azza72Man
over a year ago

Leeds

More than happy to show myself in a flaccid state, some pics on my profile

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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

"I have it on good authority that even the ladies that like dick picks don't particularly like flaccid ones, well at least the close-ups. There are exceptions but generally they just don't look good. I guess if we all had a penis and body to match like Michel Angelos' David and took tasteful pictures of flaccid cock attached to hot body all would be fine but we don't. "

Fair point!

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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

"I get what you mean OP, I guess it's just something guys on here have been conditioned to think. It's a sex site* and sex requires a hard dick. Any time I post a photo in boxers or just a hint of penis, it will mostly be flaccid and can definitely see the art side of it.

*Disclaimer for anyone saying "it'S a swInGeR'S SiTE" "

Yeah I get what you mean. In my mind that concept is there too! I also see the art side of it too which I’d like to see more of on here but doubt it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When its waking up but still floppy I like to see

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I’m a grower

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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

"My most fabbed pic is actually of my flaccid cock.

Well it’s got more of me than my cock but it’s there very not hard. "

Oh yes, I didn’t mean a zoomed in of soft cock only, but interestingly fab is flooded with zoomed in hard cock shots! You have a great body

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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

"I’m a grower

I’m certainly a grower which isn’t great to show off, but nice to see the surprise in peoples eyes when it grows

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"I couldn’t think of a word for penis beginning with F so fabstick had to do.

For the ladies, what are your thoughts on flaccid dick pics?

No particular reason I’m asking. I do like to look at pictures of dicks so there is that…"

I've got both

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

My dick is tiny when it's not hard though

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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

"When its waking up but still floppy I like to see"

Me too! There are a lot of slow-mo videos but not so many time-lapse videos. Maybe that could he a forum challenge, time-lapse video of getting a hard on!

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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

"My dick is tiny when it's not hard though

You’re absolutely stunning! What’s wrong with that though?!?

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

"I’m a grower

I’m certainly a grower which isn’t great to show off, but nice to see the surprise in peoples eyes when it grows

Best I can do is a semi

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By *littleextraWoman
over a year ago

Lisburn

I love seeing a man floppy…….really turns me on

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

mines just hanging as it should natural..

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

If the main focus of the picture is the dick, and it's flaccid and unexcited, that really doesn't do anything for me. It feels very low effort and fuck it which is absolutely fine in general, but in pictures I don't like to feel like people just can't be arsed.

If its a picture where the focus is elsewhere and the penis is visible but not the focus, that's okay.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Consider the pics that ladies post as an alternative, generally in suggestive poses, lingerie, make up, smiling, etc.

People always want to put out their best view because advertising works.

I know, there are still the odd few that pose with a deathly scowl dressed like Nora Batty, but generally the ones with the highest Fab count are the ones that "subjectively" try to look their best. Men are no different.

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By *littleextraWoman
over a year ago

Lisburn

I love playing with a flaccid one too

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I've met women who say they don't like a flaccid penis.

I've never met a straight woman who says she doesn't like an erect cock!

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By *littleextraWoman
over a year ago

Lisburn

Love watching a man go from sodt to hard just by me talking to him

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Someone just sent me 4 of them. With an added bush.

I did reply. I said “that dick is tiny. Looks like a sad little bird”.

He didn’t reply and removed them haha

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Errrrrrrrr

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"Someone just sent me 4 of them. With an added bush.

I did reply. I said “that dick is tiny. Looks like a sad little bird”.

He didn’t reply and removed them haha "

Ultimate irony would be when he gets hard it goes from 1 inch to 11 inch

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"Someone just sent me 4 of them. With an added bush.

I did reply. I said “that dick is tiny. Looks like a sad little bird”.

He didn’t reply and removed them haha "
.. made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually prefer them, they are less threatening and subconsciously tell me the man is comfortable that theres more to him than his dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really like floppy ones. They’re not trying to poke your eye out

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By *littleextraWoman
over a year ago

Lisburn

Floppy mmmmmmm

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

Ahem….

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

The only flaccid fabstick pic I have, posted.

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

"Ahem…."

Orderly queue please…. And only two at a time….

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I do have both on my profile though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem showing my flaccid 'fabstick'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a fan of flaccid pics

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

There is enough with erect pricks without having to see flaccid ones as well.

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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

Wasn’t expecting this thread to be revived

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Difficult to windmill with a hard on...

LvM

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

I think if it's not the main focus and the picture is tasteful then it can look really good actually.

Nobody has a horn all the time,it's more natural, focusing more on the person than just a penis with a name.

Em x

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By *ackandJill1Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm actually a lover if a flaccid penis pic as a swinger it's a part of a gent we don't get to see or experience often, it's a privilege to be allowed to see a gent in this relaxed and dare I say vulnerable state, a flaccid Penis is usually a private or partner situation only, a gent comfortable enough to be seen flaccid is attractive in his self confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are one or two hot forumites who have suggestive pics of just a little bit of cock showing! I have to admit that really does it for me!

But I admit, it's also nice to see what to expect also! So I guess my answer is I like to see both!

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

"When its waking up but still floppy I like to see

Me too! There are a lot of slow-mo videos but not so many time-lapse videos. Maybe that could he a forum challenge, time-lapse video of getting a hard on!"

What a cool idea

You got an art installation there somewhere.

I'm surprised at how accepting you are, surely you know how much pressure men are under re. penis size and hardness? Nobody wants to appear small on fabs unless they specifically get off on that instead!

For myself my fav to see is a semi, it's engorged so shows off the shape of it but still not entirely erect/in your face which can come across as a bit aggressive. A lot of the floppy dick pics posted are actually semis, it takes real balls to post pics showing a truly flaccid penis (which often actually a pic of balls

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By *wiggy2112Woman
over a year ago

some where in Yorkshire

I love seeing a soft willy on a profile… I actually find them sexy and I think It’s cos it’s not often I get to see one

X T X

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I love seeing a soft willy on a profile… I actually find them sexy and I think It’s cos it’s not often I get to see one

X T X "

My penis ain't gonna win a best in category award, having been operated on three times

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

"I love seeing a soft willy on a profile… I actually find them sexy and I think It’s cos it’s not often I get to see one

X T X

My penis ain't gonna win a best in category award, having been operated on three times

...and the award for "most operated on" goes to...!

xxx (kiss it better)

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I love seeing a soft willy on a profile… I actually find them sexy and I think It’s cos it’s not often I get to see one

X T X

My penis ain't gonna win a best in category award, having been operated on three times

...and the award for "most operated on" goes to...!

xxx (kiss it better)"

Madam, should you so wish

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By *ayHaych OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

"When its waking up but still floppy I like to see

Me too! There are a lot of slow-mo videos but not so many time-lapse videos. Maybe that could he a forum challenge, time-lapse video of getting a hard on!

What a cool idea

You got an art installation there somewhere.

) "

I meant the time-lapse as a joke but it could be done

Yeah of course I’m aware of the pressure for guys but it’s also interesting how it’s avoided as if it’s something that doesn’t exist and doesn’t get talked about.

As a grower I’m one third to one quarter of my erect size, when I’m flaccid. It would feel hard to be judged on that alone. At the same time, there is something freeing about just baring it all. I think I may be coming into my naturist phase.

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

"When its waking up but still floppy I like to see

Me too! There are a lot of slow-mo videos but not so many time-lapse videos. Maybe that could he a forum challenge, time-lapse video of getting a hard on!

What a cool idea

You got an art installation there somewhere.

)

I meant the time-lapse as a joke but it could be done

Yeah of course I’m aware of the pressure for guys but it’s also interesting how it’s avoided as if it’s something that doesn’t exist and doesn’t get talked about.

Oops humour fail, how typical of me!

You might be onto something there re. Naturism, it's a more laid back approach and more accepting of bodies whichever way they are. Which also makes it decidedly unsexy and therefore unsuitable for attracting attention here! Scan through any discussion about lingerie vs naked and you'll see what I mean!

Btw you mentioned renaissance statues and their miniscule penises - it's because of the ancient greek influence, when a raging hard-on in art symbolised unfettered desire, lack of restraint or discipline, typically seen on satyrs villains and fools; whereas in contrast the gods heroes and athletes had a dainty member to symbolise their power of intellect&virtue, literally in control of their animalistic urges.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I like to see a flaccid funrod

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Just for you then

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Just for you then

I wanna play too

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Just for you then

I wanna play too

Ok, just for you too. Or is it you two too.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Just for you then

I wanna play too

Ok, just for you too. Or is it you two too.

Yesss

Down with erections!!!

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

"Just for you then

I wanna play too

Ok, just for you too. Or is it you two too.

Yesss

Down with erections!!!"

Hey, come on lets not be hasty about this, erections have there place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When its waking up but still floppy I like to see

Me too! There are a lot of slow-mo videos but not so many time-lapse videos. Maybe that could he a forum challenge, time-lapse video of getting a hard on!

What a cool idea

You got an art installation there somewhere.

) "

Yeah, the reason for that is because it looks like a sad elephant

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Just for you then

I wanna play too

Ok, just for you too. Or is it you two too.

Yesss

Down with erections!!!

Hey, come on let’s not be hasty about this, erections have there place."

You’re of course referring to my particular beautiful erection and your equally beautiful vagina ?

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

"Just for you then

I wanna play too

Ok, just for you too. Or is it you two too.

Yesss

Down with erections!!!

Hey, come on let’s not be hasty about this, erections have there place.

You’re of course referring to my particular beautiful erection and your equally beautiful vagina ?

I was actually thinking of boing videos, but that is so eloquently put I'm going to say, of course thats what I was referring to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flopping in to see what the fuss is about...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Renaissance statues would always be flaccid and small intentionally as a large penis was seen negatively. I tend not to post flaccid penis pics because my penis isn't worth looking at in that state.

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By *avid 50Man
over a year ago

kendal

My flaccid pictures have been fab nearly as much as my erect ones, and after doing a couple of live tributes, I would agree some women love to see a cock rising to the occasion and one lady actually enjoyed seeing it returned to being relaxed

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I guess that depends on whether he thought showing his 1" soft cock, was arousing to a lady. Many seem to prefer the 5" erect version...

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"Just for you then

I wanna play too

Ok, just for you too. Or is it you two too.

Yesss

Down with erections!!!"

Get your softies out!!!!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"Just for you then

I wanna play too

Ok, just for you too. Or is it you two too.

Yesss

Down with erections!!!

Get your softies out!!!!"

But it looks sad!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Just for you then

I wanna play too

Ok, just for you too. Or is it you two too.

Yesss

Down with erections!!!

Get your softies out!!!!"

You can buy them at the shop

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

"Just for you then

I wanna play too

Ok, just for you too. Or is it you two too.

Yesss

Down with erections!!!

Get your softies out!!!!"

But it’s fleshy and shy

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Just for you then

I wanna play too

Ok, just for you too. Or is it you two too.

Yesss

Down with erections!!!

Get your softies out!!!!"

Owww

Daizy ruined mine.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

"Just for you then

I wanna play too

Ok, just for you too. Or is it you two too.

Yesss

Down with erections!!!

Get your softies out!!!!

Owww

Daizy ruined mine."

Soz about that

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By *uietguy689Man
over a year ago

Abingdon

Variety is the spice of life? Got a mixture of pics on my profile, but the one hard public pic is by far the most fabbed

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I’ve just published my ‘Rex Holes floppy to hard flip book’. Just flip through the pages and watch it grow.

It’s available in most good bookshops.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"When its waking up but still floppy I like to see"

Isn't that fetish called Boing?

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Aww come on guys, nothing fleshy, sad or shy about a flaccid flopper

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Aww come on guys, nothing fleshy, sad or shy about a flaccid flopper

Agreed. And let’s not neglect the lazy lob on. Magnificent in its alliterative almost-soft glory.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"Aww come on guys, nothing fleshy, sad or shy about a flaccid flopper

Agreed. And let’s not neglect the lazy lob on. Magnificent in its alliterative almost-soft glory."

Oh who could neglect the lazy lob on, or the sleeping sausage

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Aww come on guys, nothing fleshy, sad or shy about a flaccid flopper

Agreed. And let’s not neglect the lazy lob on. Magnificent in its alliterative almost-soft glory.

Oh who could neglect the lazy lob on, or the sleeping sausage

I’m now happily daydreaming about hearing you say exactly these things in that gorgeous accent of yours.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"Aww come on guys, nothing fleshy, sad or shy about a flaccid flopper

Agreed. And let’s not neglect the lazy lob on. Magnificent in its alliterative almost-soft glory.

Oh who could neglect the lazy lob on, or the sleeping sausage

I’m now happily daydreaming about hearing you say exactly these things in that gorgeous accent of yours.

You charmer you!

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I hate a flaccid dick pic. Why would I want to see a lifeless slug? I do however, love a hard cock photo, as sky pointing as possible! I would never imagine what it's like to bounce up and down on a soft sleepy dick, but a rock hard cock pointing right at me? YES!!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"I hate a flaccid dick pic. Why would I want to see a lifeless slug? I do however, love a hard cock photo, as sky pointing as possible! I would never imagine what it's like to bounce up and down on a soft sleepy dick, but a rock hard cock pointing right at me? YES!!"

I’m not going to argue with that amount of enthusiasm. Rock hard dick pics for this lady, as many as she likes!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

A cock is a cock…. Sometimes they’re even connected to a man

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"I couldn’t think of a word for penis beginning with F so fabstick had to do. "

I know it's not strictly an "F," but what about 'Phallic Friend'?

I haven't checked for a while, but I'm pretty sure we have some soft photos on our profile.

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By *nasuitMan
over a year ago

Ruislip

The flaccid members would be an excellent name for a punk band.

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I’m not going to argue with that amount of enthusiasm. Rock hard dick pics for this lady, as many as she likes!"

My inbox remains disappointingly empty

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"My inbox remains disappointingly empty

Well we can’t have that. I’ll pop something in your box.

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"My inbox remains disappointingly empty

Well we can’t have that. I’ll pop something in your box."

Wow, you certainly did. My screen misted up.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Believe me, there are plenty of photos of limp dicks on here.

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