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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol

Have always like to meet single guys but tend to prefer to find one guy that we bond with and stick with him rather than meet loads of different single guys. However, over the yeats have noticed that they only ever seem to last about a year before either finding a girlfriend or moving away etc .. as the current guy we meet with is coming up for the '1 year mark', Im wondering if anyone has any tips on how to avoid the dreaded '1 year curse' I seem to have. Please dont suggest locking him in the basement as Ive already ruled this out as completely impractical !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Line up another one 1 month before the year mark

That way you will never run out lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Have always like to meet single guys but tend to prefer to find one guy that we bond with and stick with him rather than meet loads of different single guys. However, over the yeats have noticed that they only ever seem to last about a year before either finding a girlfriend or moving away etc .. as the current guy we meet with is coming up for the '1 year mark', Im wondering if

anyone has any tips on how to avoid

the dreaded '1 year curse' I seem to

have. Please dont suggest locking him

in the basement as Ive already ruled

this out as completely impractical ! :-

p"

Tell him how much you like having sex with him and make each time you meet make him feel special and be inventive and different and then back to the same a few meets later and good luck and well done for finding such a successful regular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Line up another one 1 month before the year mark

That way you will never run out lol "

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"Tell him how much you like having sex with him and make each time you meet make him feel special"

Agree with this ^^ it's about making him feel “Special” but not the special one

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Have you mentioned this to your regular guy? If you want to keep him soley for yourselves do you save yourselves for him or is this a oneway street?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep a few on the go! It's what many others seem to do....

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"Have you mentioned this to your regular guy? If you want to keep him soley for yourselves do you save yourselves for him or is this a oneway street? "

dont want to keep him for ourselves .. hes a single fella and does meet other people which isnt an issue but we choose not to meet other single fellas as we like the familiarity that comes with a regular guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you ever thought he might want to be part of a couple himself?

I think a year is good going might be time to move him in the spare room or set him free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to find that my most regular single guys are the ones already married.. Thus avoiding the curse of them finding someone and moving on.. to be honest I find it a bit judgemental when I am with a single guy and he states there is no way that when he has a girl he would be sharing... yet expects others too..

But to be honest.. I don't let it worry me.. I take each meet as it comes..

but then I rarely now if ever meet one on one anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to bag yourself a new guy asap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

single

nuff said

although..

what does a single guy normally get from a cpl he meets regular...fun and sex..I'd get pretty bored of that as I'm a bit more worth than a cpls regular plaything...I have actual wants and desires that wouldnt involve them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not being funny but OP ur username is 'Freelove' lol

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Yes I can understand that and speaking for myself Id rather have just a select few or even one for that added spice. Tell your regular guy that if he meets someone youd still like to meet up for regular fun. If I had a lush body like yours to play with Id keep cumin. Unless the new gf/partner turned out to be the real deal. Has others have said just keep it exciting and fingers crossed this ones a stayer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Line up another one 1 month before the year mark

That way you will never run out lol "

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By *ldgentlejimboMan
over a year ago

gloucester

Take on an OAP and try not to wear him out to quick,he will stay till the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take on an OAP and try not to wear him out to quick,he will stay till the end "

careful how u phrase that..especially if ur a millionaire...

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol

oohhh yes .. we will use and abuse you !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think there is a way you can guarantee that a regular single guy won't find himself in a vanilla relationship in 6 months or a year, maybe have 2 or 3 single regular men that you meet, that way if one does decide that swinging is no longer for him, your already familiar with the other 2!!

Or lock them in the cellar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why lock him in the basement when you can just keep him tied to the bed

always their ready for using and a abusing.

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"why lock him in the basement when you can just keep him tied to the bed

always their ready for using and a abusing."

for ever practical rusty ... mwah !!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Could we have somewhere to store regular single men? Maybe have pictures and a description of them so we can choose which one to have and some simple method of contacting them?

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"Could we have somewhere to store regular single men? Maybe have pictures and a description of them so we can choose which one to have and some simple method of contacting them?"

can i send you a link to my hotlist !!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could we have somewhere to store regular single men? Maybe have pictures and a description of them so we can choose which one to have and some simple method of contacting them?"

That's what you'd all an escort agency

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"

That's what you'd all an escort agency "

no we dont wanna pay for your company but a speed dial button might suffice !

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Could we have somewhere to store regular single men? Maybe have pictures and a description of them so we can choose which one to have and some simple method of contacting them?"

Im offering to look after them while they're *resting*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

That's what you'd all an escort agency

No!! We don't want to pay for your company but a speed dial button would suffice! "

01** 696969

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Could we have somewhere to store regular single men? Maybe have pictures and a description of them so we can choose which one to have and some simple method of contacting them?

can i send you a link to my hotlist !!??"

If they come ready vetted then that would be lovely. I don't ever seem to have anyone terribly regularly. I have friends and I see them infrequently.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Could we have somewhere to store regular single men? Maybe have pictures and a description of them so we can choose which one to have and some simple method of contacting them?

Im offering to look after them while they're *resting* "

Does that mean I can wear them out first?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Could we have somewhere to store regular single men? Maybe have pictures and a description of them so we can choose which one to have and some simple method of contacting them?

Im offering to look after them while they're *resting*

Does that mean I can wear them out first?"

All at once? we need a bigger store

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Could we have somewhere to store regular single men? Maybe have pictures and a description of them so we can choose which one to have and some simple method of contacting them?

Im offering to look after them while they're *resting*

Does that mean I can wear them out first?

All at once? we need a bigger store "

On rotation perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do some match making and get him a lady girlfriend swinger the more the merrier x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well there is no way of keeping the same guy is there, they aren't possessions. I'd imagine that most of the single guys on here will be off when they start a relationship.

I don't have a regular single guy because swinging is not about familiarity for me, its about different experiences, different bodies, different techniques.

But I guess you just have to accept that each time you play with the guy it could potentially be the last, so its just a case of accepting and getting used to that

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