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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Do you have that prevent meets from being too romantic? Or are you open to romance?

Tell me you sexy beings x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to make our love on wasteland.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I have an odd concept of romance.

But I need to be into the people I fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I don't want meets to be romantic. Leave that shit at the door.

F

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Because I don't want meets to be romantic. Leave that shit at the door.

F"

But how do you do that Mrs TT. With all the therapy I give you while riding you like Alton towers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kick them out the bed afterwards. No thanks to all that cuddling stuff!

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I kick them out the bed afterwards. No thanks to all that cuddling stuff! "

I've been meaning to speak with you btw!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I don't want meets to be romantic. Leave that shit at the door.

F

But how do you do that Mrs TT. With all the therapy I give you while riding you like Alton towers?"

Mr has seen my vulva and vaginal canal after giving birth. We don't need to do the romantic stuff anymore. We're passed that stage

F

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I just turn up. That tends to knock any romantic notions on the head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m open to romance. I’m romantic. I like dates. My barrier is mostly that people don’t want to.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"I tend to make our love on wasteland."

Through the barricades?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I kick them out the bed afterwards. No thanks to all that cuddling stuff!

I've been meaning to speak with you btw!"

She isn’t in at the minute

Mr

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

My inability to not wipe my cock on their pillows to clean up

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"My inability to not wipe my cock on their pillows to clean up "

^^ truth

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

My one and only barrier is I’m not romantic at all, and I don’t want to be.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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If I'm ovulating, no. I don't want romance. I'd happily be fucked and milk you (not you Brucey, a general you) until you're a withered husk of a man. I'm happy to deepthroat until tears are running down my face, be spanked until my arse cheeks are bright red and feel you come deep inside of me, my cunt milking every last drop of you.

But romance? No.

Other times, I'm a bit more open to it. I like intimacy. I like feelings. I'm never going to run off into the sunset with you (unless you're Mads Mikkelsen) but I like that erotic romantic intimacy. The handholding during sex, or when I'm giving oral. The little soft kisses trailing across my neck. I like people who are comfortable expressing themselves without subscribing to this notion that romance means a Big Love. Who are open to intimacy and the softer eroticism it can bring.

*please note; the you is a general you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to make our love on wasteland.

Through the barricades? "

If that's what you're into.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

romance has nothing to do with what we are doing with others its about good clean sex ha

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"I tend to make our love on wasteland.

Through the barricades?

If that's what you're into."

It is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(not you Brucey, a general you)"

Utterly brutal.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"I tend to make our love on wasteland."

Tune !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mind and our mutual understanding…

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"If I'm ovulating, no. I don't want romance. I'd happily be fucked and milk you (not you Brucey, a general you) until you're a withered husk of a man. I'm happy to deepthroat until tears are running down my face, be spanked until my arse cheeks are bright red and feel you come deep inside of me, my cunt milking every last drop of you.

But romance? No.

Other times, I'm a bit more open to it. I like intimacy. I like feelings. I'm never going to run off into the sunset with you (unless you're Mads Mikkelsen) but I like that erotic romantic intimacy. The handholding during sex, or when I'm giving oral. The little soft kisses trailing across my neck. I like people who are comfortable expressing themselves without subscribing to this notion that romance means a Big Love. Who are open to intimacy and the softer eroticism it can bring.

*please note; the you is a general you."

You did envision me as you wrote that though didnt you?

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"My inability to not wipe my cock on their pillows to clean up

^^ truth "

Even pissing in the sink, im a filthy man

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"I tend to make our love on wasteland.

Through the barricades?

If that's what you're into.

It is "

Oh this is gold lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Open to it. But I don't believe I can be loved truly so that creates a barrier where I'll freeze and shut down.

Apparently I do do romantic things, but I don't then without thinking and only with certain people. I guess they need to be natural romantics too.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"(not you Brucey, a general you)

Utterly brutal."

You took all of my beautiful smut and reduced it down to make me look a complete dick. I'm rethinking a few things now.

(Ha you still read my smut though!)

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington

Yeah I don't think my idea of romance is the same as what most people consider it to be.

As for barriers...there is none. However it's a rare that I feel that need need to unleash my unique form romance on someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind an illusion of romance, but I dont go for the typical wine and roses romantic gestures anyway. If we aren't actually in love I will also be rather cynical about all attempts at romance that are just leads to get each other to bed. I will find it quite romantic if he comes in me though and he stays inside until he is all soft or he falls asleep

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I dont mind an illusion of romance, but I dont go for the typical wine and roses romantic gestures anyway. If we aren't actually in love I will also be rather cynical about all attempts at romance that are just leads to get each other to bed. I will find it quite romantic if he comes in me though and he stays inside until he is all soft or he falls asleep "

Ok now I wan a get romantic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(not you Brucey, a general you)

Utterly brutal.

You took all of my beautiful smut and reduced it down to make me look a complete dick. I'm rethinking a few things now.

(Ha you still read my smut though!)"

I did read it. It was a bit long so I've subbed it for you.

I don't want romance. I'd happily...milk you...Brucey...until.....tears are running down my face and.....my arse cheeks are.....a bit more open to it. I like feeling.....erotic....handholding....when I'm giving....Big Love.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No kissing for starters x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(not you Brucey, a general you)

Utterly brutal.

You took all of my beautiful smut and reduced it down to make me look a complete dick. I'm rethinking a few things now.

(Ha you still read my smut though!)

I did read it. It was a bit long so I've subbed it for you.

I don't want romance. I'd happily...milk you...Brucey...until.....tears are running down my face and.....my arse cheeks are.....a bit more open to it. I like feeling.....erotic....handholding....when I'm giving....Big Love."

It’s a proper mills n boom haha love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boon

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"(not you Brucey, a general you)

Utterly brutal.

You took all of my beautiful smut and reduced it down to make me look a complete dick. I'm rethinking a few things now.

(Ha you still read my smut though!)

I did read it. It was a bit long so I've subbed it for you.

I don't want romance. I'd happily...milk you...Brucey...until.....tears are running down my face and.....my arse cheeks are.....a bit more open to it. I like feeling.....erotic....handholding....when I'm giving....Big Love."

You're such a **** . Brilliant though but such a ****. I think this is my favourite forum post of the year.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands


"(not you Brucey, a general you)

Utterly brutal.

You took all of my beautiful smut and reduced it down to make me look a complete dick. I'm rethinking a few things now.

(Ha you still read my smut though!)

I did read it. It was a bit long so I've subbed it for you.

I don't want romance. I'd happily...milk you...Brucey...until.....tears are running down my face and.....my arse cheeks are.....a bit more open to it. I like feeling.....erotic....handholding....when I'm giving....Big Love.

You're such a **** . Brilliant though but such a ****. I think this is my favourite forum post of the year."

It's one of my favourite forum posts of yours to be fair Meli

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I'm not sure I even understand what romance means.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meli you've been misquoted!! Lol.

My opinion, I've moved from fuck & go. And now trying to connect more, if the spark is there. Like others have mentioned hand holding, kissing, holding eachother until it goes soft and slips out lol!

I have to say this way of doing meets is a bit of an emotional minefield! Fuck & go was definitely easier, but no where near as enjoyable an experience!

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By *asual_WandererWoman
over a year ago

A spot you want me

No to date nights, but so very yes to overnight snuggles.

I actually really like softness of it all as much as the heady sensory overwhelms. I'm not here to fall in love, but nout wrong with letting the world fall away for a few hours and getting lost in the touch of another.

I as with many things as my paths progressed wondered more on the constructs of things. I mean what is romance, does it need to mean the intention of life-long devotion, or can it just mean a beautiful tender moment mutually enjoyed?

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By *ore4fundevonCouple
over a year ago

West Devon

Good question that we've not give much thought too. I suppose we're very romantically invested with each other and kids and family life keep us together. So it is just a bit of naughty fun or social meets with like minded friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bahhh tried connection. Now I'm trying fuck and run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We sit on separate tables when I meet them, and knuckle bump when I say good bye.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

I do find being aromantic as a kind of stumbling block for being romantic, personally.

That's aro humour Brucey, it'll never catch on.

But then... whatcha deeming to be romantic here, because I actually used to do cuddle parties and stuff and people did sometimes remark that me doing that was oddly romantic.

Which I disagree with, because... s'a fuckin' cuddle, innit? Everyone needs that.

Tl;dr: I'm on the wrong thread, maybe start one about shooting ropes or whatever madness you've put up now

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

I like romance. Romance can be fun. But my kind of romance is taking a walk in the park to feed the ducks, snuggling up and watching a film, making sandwiches together to go and have a picnic, dancing together, etc. I don't need fancy things or places and I don't want gifts.

I have to really enjoy their company and feel totally comfortable with them though. And so long as the other person understands that romance means a lot of like but it doesn't have to mean monogamy and long term relationships,or that they are 'the one', then wonderful.

In reality at the beginning stages of meeting someone the wild fucking is likely to take precedence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like romance. Romance can be fun. But my kind of romance is taking a walk in the park to feed the ducks, snuggling up and watching a film, making sandwiches together to go and have a picnic, dancing together, etc. I don't need fancy things or places and I don't want gifts.

I have to really enjoy their company and feel totally comfortable with them though. And so long as the other person understands that romance means a lot of like but it doesn't have to mean monogamy and long term relationships,or that they are 'the one', then wonderful.

In reality at the beginning stages of meeting someone the wild fucking is likely to take precedence."

Hi.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Bahhh tried connection. Now I'm trying fuck and run "

Ditto... lol

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Bahhh tried connection. Now I'm trying fuck and run "

but I thought...

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Bahhh tried connection. Now I'm trying fuck and run

but I thought... "

Aww are you feeling sad? Need a booby hug? Lol

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Bahhh tried connection. Now I'm trying fuck and run

but I thought...

Aww are you feeling sad? Need a booby hug? Lol"

I wouldn't say no

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Bahhh tried connection. Now I'm trying fuck and run

but I thought...

Aww are you feeling sad? Need a booby hug? Lol

I wouldn't say no "

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By *ilBWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands


"If I'm ovulating, no. I don't want romance. I'd happily be fucked and milk you (not you Brucey, a general you) until you're a withered husk of a man. I'm happy to deepthroat until tears are running down my face, be spanked until my arse cheeks are bright red and feel you come deep inside of me, my cunt milking every last drop of you.

But romance? No.

Other times, I'm a bit more open to it. I like intimacy. I like feelings. I'm never going to run off into the sunset with you (unless you're Mads Mikkelsen) but I like that erotic romantic intimacy. The handholding during sex, or when I'm giving oral. The little soft kisses trailing across my neck. I like people who are comfortable expressing themselves without subscribing to this notion that romance means a Big Love. Who are open to intimacy and the softer eroticism it can bring.

*please note; the you is a general you."

You beautiful human....using two things I dream about in one post.

"my cunt milking every last drop of *Mads Mikkelsen* " YES PLEASE

Also, people see romance differently, I've had some of the most romantic fucks via fab, because of the setting, the build up, the fuckin' passion of it all.... But I certainly don't wanna love em, but I'll keep riding em.

Passion/Romance/Lust....it's just good sex but we might not talk for a week after.

P.s Kissing is not romantic, not kissing is just fuckin' weird

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"If I'm ovulating, no. I don't want romance. I'd happily be fucked and milk you (not you Brucey, a general you) until you're a withered husk of a man. I'm happy to deepthroat until tears are running down my face, be spanked until my arse cheeks are bright red and feel you come deep inside of me, my cunt milking every last drop of you.

But romance? No.

Other times, I'm a bit more open to it. I like intimacy. I like feelings. I'm never going to run off into the sunset with you (unless you're Mads Mikkelsen) but I like that erotic romantic intimacy. The handholding during sex, or when I'm giving oral. The little soft kisses trailing across my neck. I like people who are comfortable expressing themselves without subscribing to this notion that romance means a Big Love. Who are open to intimacy and the softer eroticism it can bring.

*please note; the you is a general you.

You beautiful human....using two things I dream about in one post.

"my cunt milking every last drop of *Mads Mikkelsen* " YES PLEASE

Also, people see romance differently, I've had some of the most romantic fucks via fab, because of the setting, the build up, the fuckin' passion of it all.... But I certainly don't wanna love em, but I'll keep riding em.

Passion/Romance/Lust....it's just good sex but we might not talk for a week after.

P.s Kissing is not romantic, not kissing is just fuckin' weird

"

Agree kissing has to be done. So are we saying that it's just a mindset and as long as you KNOW it isn't romantic, it can be as romantic at the time? Slow deep kisses, hand holding (behind her back obviously)

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