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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How does one become a dom or sub... What happens, who decides, how di you know??

Just curious :-/ xxx wonder what I am... Can you be neither?

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can be a Switch which is both...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yes, you can be neither, ie. Totally and utterly normal, like me. Or switch betwixt the two, called 'switch'

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Have a play at both sides and see which rocks your boat ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what I am. So I just accept that I am me and with certain people I become utterly submissive.

Cali

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'm sub, sometimes you just know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you like a challenge and lots of hard work be a dom. bliddy knacks ya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, be 50/50 and be a switch...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you like a challenge and lots of hard work be a dom. bliddy knacks ya!"

It's hard work being a sub too. I know that while I am an alpha female that I am submissive deep down but takes a very dominant male to trigger it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you'd just know. I know I'm not Domme as takin the lead fills me with dread and fear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys... X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im exactly that...neither.

I do whats On the meet that counts..Ive no interest in really labeling myself as one type of meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you like a challenge and lots of hard work be a dom. bliddy knacks ya!

It's hard work being a sub too. I know that while I am an alpha female that I am submissive deep down but takes a very dominant male to trigger it.

"
he he souns like me and I though I was just plain difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liking certain kinks/fetishes such as being tied up, blind-folded, sensory deprivation etc., would make one a sub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Liking certain kinks/fetishes such as being tied up, blind-folded, sensory deprivation etc., would make one a sub.

"

Not really. I enjoy them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them too, and no one would call me a sub in my vanilla life!

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

I have it....... come round here, I will put my 6inch heel thigh high boots on, dress in my latex body suit. Then, Ill make you kneel at my feet and begin licking, all the way up the boot, until you reach my wetness at which point i will stop you.

If you beg to carry on, you are sub

If you stand up and tell me to lie down and open up, you are Dom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm switch but only with one person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have it....... come round here, I will put my 6inch heel thigh high boots on, dress in my latex body suit. Then, Ill make you kneel at my feet and begin licking, all the way up the boot, until you reach my wetness at which point i will stop you.

If you beg to carry on, you are sub

If you stand up and tell me to lie down and open up, you are Dom.

"

Haha... I think, for experimental reasons we should Ho for it lol haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have it....... come round here, I will put my 6inch heel thigh high boots on, dress in my latex body suit. Then, Ill make you kneel at my feet and begin licking, all the way up the boot, until you reach my wetness at which point i will stop you.

If you beg to carry on, you are sub

If you stand up and tell me to lie down and open up, you are Dom.

"

round one, get on ur knees

round two, I'll do what u want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I am a switch too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you like a challenge and lots of hard work be a dom. bliddy knacks ya!

It's hard work being a sub too. I know that while I am an alpha female that I am submissive deep down but takes a very dominant male to trigger it.

he he souns like me and I though I was just plain difficult "

I got told I was bloody difficult on many an occasion by my dominant. But apparently worth while.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"I have it....... come round here, I will put my 6inch heel thigh high boots on, dress in my latex body suit. Then, Ill make you kneel at my feet and begin licking, all the way up the boot, until you reach my wetness at which point i will stop you.

If you beg to carry on, you are sub

If you stand up and tell me to lie down and open up, you are Dom.

round one, get on ur knees

round two, I'll do what u want"

Switch and greedy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always considered myself as more of a switch. I enjoy experiencing different sensations and enjoy giving others those same experiences.

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By *azzaahhWoman
over a year ago

north wales / chester

mainly dom here but theres time wheni need to be sub

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have it....... come round here, I will put my 6inch heel thigh high boots on, dress in my latex body suit. Then, Ill make you kneel at my feet and begin licking, all the way up the boot, until you reach my wetness at which point i will stop you.

If you beg to carry on, you are sub

If you stand up and tell me to lie down and open up, you are Dom.

round one, get on ur knees

round two, I'll do what u want

Switch and greedy lol "

Haha I think I'll classify myself as very greedy lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am greedy too then!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am greedy too then! "

Haha good... Greedy is always good lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def a Domme here.....can, and have, switched for a guy once or twice...but on the whole I like control and power over others when its been given to me.

A dom side has always been in me, only let her out a few years ago. Its been very interesting

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im n\tuallu sub in the bedrooom, this doesnt mean im into srton bdsm. Out the bedroom im back to y normal self

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'm sub in the bedroom only, but I know what I like and what I am looking for, hence why I have joined another site also, will see if anything comes from that though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm completely submissive to both men and women.

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I think it can depend on who your with I'm naturally stubborn and independant and a bit of a control freak but one particular guy I just am totally sub to!!

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