FabSwingers.com forum: Privacy

By *ensual temptress OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

how would you react to a person you have been talking with, letting their meet on to their profile to browse ? is it harmless or a deal breaker for you ? indiscreet or a way of net working?

i had this today and the person couldnt understand why i was no longer interested . my own opinion is i feel there is zero reason for anyone else (except for cpls )to be on your profile .even more so when the other person has their own profile here . just doesnt sit right with me and total deal breaker .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't understand this at all. You can read peoples profiles at leisure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean someone on your friend list showed someone who wasn't your private pics?

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By *ensual temptress OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

sorry i re phase it ... let someone else on your logged in account .

hope that makes it clearer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounded to me like giving them the password to your profile to let them have a peek??????

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Do you mean that someone you have met has met someone else and they have looked at your profile together?

If I have left a verification on their profile then I don't see the problem. If I haven't then I wouldn't be happy about my meet giving their meet my details to look up, especially if they have asked. That just makes me think they are bunny boilers.

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By *ensual temptress OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Do you mean someone on your friend list showed someone who wasn't your private pics?

no not on friends list so thank god no access to private pics .

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"sorry i re phase it ... let someone else on your logged in account .

hope that makes it clearer "

ahhh so, if you were frends with bob and he let barbara on his account but you didnt know barbara and now she can see al your hidden friends only things.

yeah i think thats bang out of order!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very poor of them. You shared your privacy with them, not them and whoever else they decide to show.

I hope you reported them.

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By *ensual temptress OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"sorry i re phase it ... let someone else on your logged in account .

hope that makes it clearer "

Dealbreaker. If someone I was friends with on here let anyone else look at my profile from their profile (private pics, messages etc) then bye bye...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm failling to see the issue? Or have they read your PM's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah I see. Me? I would block them - no muckin about.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I think I'm failling to see the issue? Or have they read your PM's?"

the issue is people who are not on your friends list seeing your friends only stuff

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By *ensual temptress OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"sorry i re phase it ... let someone else on your logged in account .

hope that makes it clearer

ahhh so, if you were frends with bob and he let barbara on his account but you didnt know barbara and now she can see al your hidden friends only things.

yeah i think thats bang out of order!!"

not met him and were talking . hes then let one of the women hes met on his profile to browse . no access to private pics of mine as very carefull who i add as friends but will seen who hes talking to and any messages sent o him ect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you mean someone on your friend list showed someone who wasn't your private pics?

no not on friends list so thank god no access to private pics . "

In that case I don't see your problem. Anyone over the age of 18 can join this site and _iew your profile. Someone showing a friend your profile is no different in my opinion.

They may have joined the site as a result.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

If you are not friends, what is there to see anyway?

Surely no different than looking from their own account ?

Can you explain a bit more what they actually did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I'm failling to see the issue? Or have they read your PM's?

the issue is people who are not on your friends list seeing your friends only stuff"

Apparently not!

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By *ensual temptress OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"I think I'm failling to see the issue? Or have they read your PM's?"

will of been freely able to see any messages sent to him. not on friends list so no access to private pics . but to me just seems very indiscreet allowing meets on to your looged in acct to do and _iew what they want

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I think I'm failling to see the issue? Or have they read your PM's?

Ah I understand what you mean now. The privacy issue is them seeing the pm's you have written to him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I'm failling to see the issue? Or have they read your PM's?

the issue is people who are not on your friends list seeing your friends only stuff"

But she's already said that it's not someone on their friends list:

no not on friends list so thank god no access to private pics . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, you may not have been on his friends list but he was giving access to others who were. Indiscrete and also foolish. Would have owt to do with mesel.

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By *ensual temptress OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"If you are not friends, what is there to see anyway?

Surely no different than looking from their own account ?

Can you explain a bit more what they actually did "

issue is woman had her own acct she can browse on . the guy i was talking to let her on his logged on acct and would be able to see exactly whos contacted him and messages sent

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"If you are not friends, what is there to see anyway?

Surely no different than looking from their own account ?

Can you explain a bit more what they actually did

issue is woman had her own acct she can browse on . the guy i was talking to let her on his logged on acct and would be able to see exactly whos contacted him and messages sent "

It's an odd thing to do.

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By *ensual temptress OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"I think I'm failling to see the issue? Or have they read your PM's?

Ah I understand what you mean now. The privacy issue is them seeing the pm's you have written to him. "

yes sorry i didnt exsplain it clearly . not only the pms but making it clear to see who hes in contacted with . last thing i want is a woman getting pissed at me and mailing me as shes seen im in contact with him.

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By *exki11enWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Nope, doesn't matter how many times you repeat yourself, I still fail to see why it would upset you so much.

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By *ensual temptress OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"If you are not friends, what is there to see anyway?

Surely no different than looking from their own account ?

Can you explain a bit more what they actually did

issue is woman had her own acct she can browse on . the guy i was talking to let her on his logged on acct and would be able to see exactly whos contacted him and messages sent

It's an odd thing to do."

exactly what i said and i fail to see any reason for her or anyone to have access on anothers logged in acct .

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By *ensual temptress OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Nope, doesn't matter how many times you repeat yourself, I still fail to see why it would upset you so much. "

just like my conversations kept private and not public .if i wanted anyone and everyone to see anything id post in forum or type in chatroom .

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I guess it depends on why they're showing their account to someone else. My fb used to look at my account when I was logged on and read some of my messages but usually with a _iew to see if anyone took his fancy for a mmf!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

people should declare on their profile that they give access to other members that they can read private messages and _iew friends private pics....

you may see a slimmer inbox or list of friends then

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Nope, doesn't matter how many times you repeat yourself, I still fail to see why it would upset you so much.

just like my conversations kept private and not public .if i wanted anyone and everyone to see anything id post in forum or type in chatroom . "
I get you - and I think that is is a strange thing to do. If anybody did that to me they would be blocked for breaching confidentiality/ privacy - something I would assume as given.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, doesn't matter how many times you repeat yourself, I still fail to see why it would upset you so much. "

it clear indicates that the person is a bit of a w*nker. simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

probably happens a lot only they dont tell you.

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By *ensual temptress OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Nope, doesn't matter how many times you repeat yourself, I still fail to see why it would upset you so much.

just like my conversations kept private and not public .if i wanted anyone and everyone to see anything id post in forum or type in chatroom . I get you - and I think that is is a strange thing to do. If anybody did that to me they would be blocked for breaching confidentiality/ privacy - something I would assume as given. "

nail on the head . its the lack of respect for the person your talking to . id no sooner hand over my mobile to a meet and let then have a nosey than i would let anyone else on my account here.

i have no issue if a person says "i know someone genuine who i think you might like. would you mind if i mention you to them and tell them to get in contact ?". it helps putting geniune folks together and but most importantly ive been given the respect of being asked what i wish to happen .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its sounding semi-clear OP...

Ive a feeling uve stumbled into a sorta fuckbuddy cpl

lots of women do this on here..the male halves often get jealous and delete my mails...shame eh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some Dommes request to look at their subs inboxes and read what they have been up to, especially if the subs are given free reign to meet others. But then he should be telling you if he is in a relationship with such a dynamic so you can decide how to tailor your mails to him.

In reality you are having a private conversation, and he is sharing it.

I would not be happy with either of them.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I think I'm failling to see the issue? Or have they read your PM's?

the issue is people who are not on your friends list seeing your friends only stuff

But she's already said that it's not someone on their friends list:

no not on friends list so thank god no access to private pics . "

Yeah I missed that bit, soz x x

Still understand why the op is upset if they could have read the messages sent etc

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By *ensual temptress OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Some Dommes request to look at their subs inboxes and read what they have been up to, especially if the subs are given free reign to meet others. But then he should be telling you if he is in a relationship with such a dynamic so you can decide how to tailor your mails to him.

In reality you are having a private conversation, and he is sharing it.

I would not be happy with either of them.

that i certainly wouldnt have issue with or a fuck buddy cpls ect. this wasnt either though . not a couple in any shape or form . the woman was mearly a meet he had for that night. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In reality you are having a private conversation, and he is sharing it.

I would not be happy with either of them.

that i certainly wouldnt have issue with or a fuck buddy cpls ect. this wasnt either though . not a couple in any shape or form . the woman was mearly a meet he had for that night. lol"

In that case I think I'd wait until I next had the pleasure of his company, tie him up with promises of seduction, then flog his balls for every word of every mail that was sent. Out of order, and I can see why you are pee'd off.

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