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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you give top or bottom energy? Or are you too shook to answer this question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does that mean? I'm straight, remember.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What does that mean? I'm straight, remember."

Switch.

I’d top you.

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By *adbod2godbodMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Not a clue. But I do get a lot of messages offering "a discreet hole"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m assuming this is all about who puts whose willy up whose bottom?

I’m not sure if people see me as one who puts their willy up another man’s bottom or one whose bottom is penetrated by another man’s willy.

That’s for the public to decide and I guess would be subjective.

In the meantime I’m deciding between having Shreddies for breakfast or toast. I think Shreddies will probably win

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Top.

Thing is, in the gay sex sense,, it's kind of obvious. But it's essentially another term for taking the dom role. I like to think of it as dom vibes but not actually dom. An almost vanilla version of it.

Its early, my brain is not fully functioning so that poor description will have to do.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

You tell me, big boy

LvM

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You tell me, big boy

LvM"

That’s my line, Zaddy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not a clue. But I do get a lot of messages offering "a discreet hole" "

Defo top

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m assuming this is all about who puts whose willy up whose bottom?

I’m not sure if people see me as one who puts their willy up another man’s bottom or one whose bottom is penetrated by another man’s willy.

That’s for the public to decide and I guess would be subjective.

In the meantime I’m deciding between having Shreddies for breakfast or toast. I think Shreddies will probably win

I can’t tell with you, Dan let’s see if the people can decide

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Top.

Its early, my brain is not fully functioning so that poor description will have to do. "

Yes you are

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

I am surprised how many men who describe themselves as straight want to be fucked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m assuming this is all about who puts whose willy up whose bottom?

I’m not sure if people see me as one who puts their willy up another man’s bottom or one whose bottom is penetrated by another man’s willy.

That’s for the public to decide and I guess would be subjective.

In the meantime I’m deciding between having Shreddies for breakfast or toast. I think Shreddies will probably win

I can’t tell with you, Dan let’s see if the people can decide"

I hope I’m perceived as one of those whose bottom is penetrated by other men’s willies, so I can write “fuck hole” in lipstick on my arse with an arrow to the tradesman’s entrance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Top.

Its early, my brain is not fully functioning so that poor description will have to do. "

No so. Some tops take a more sub role, bottoms can be dominant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am surprised how many men who describe themselves as straight want to be fucked "

Well I know plenty of straight guys that take the strap up the bum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m assuming this is all about who puts whose willy up whose bottom?

I’m not sure if people see me as one who puts their willy up another man’s bottom or one whose bottom is penetrated by another man’s willy.

That’s for the public to decide and I guess would be subjective.

In the meantime I’m deciding between having Shreddies for breakfast or toast. I think Shreddies will probably win

I can’t tell with you, Dan let’s see if the people can decide

I hope I’m perceived as one of those whose bottom is penetrated by other men’s willies, so I can write “fuck hole” in lipstick on my arse with an arrow to the tradesman’s entrance

Fucking hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m assuming this is all about who puts whose willy up whose bottom?

I’m not sure if people see me as one who puts their willy up another man’s bottom or one whose bottom is penetrated by another man’s willy.

That’s for the public to decide and I guess would be subjective.

In the meantime I’m deciding between having Shreddies for breakfast or toast. I think Shreddies will probably win

I can’t tell with you, Dan let’s see if the people can decide

I hope I’m perceived as one of those whose bottom is penetrated by other men’s willies, so I can write “fuck hole” in lipstick on my arse with an arrow to the tradesman’s entrance

Guess ya don’t need post it notes anymore then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m assuming this is all about who puts whose willy up whose bottom?

I’m not sure if people see me as one who puts their willy up another man’s bottom or one whose bottom is penetrated by another man’s willy.

That’s for the public to decide and I guess would be subjective.

In the meantime I’m deciding between having Shreddies for breakfast or toast. I think Shreddies will probably win

I can’t tell with you, Dan let’s see if the people can decide

I hope I’m perceived as one of those whose bottom is penetrated by other men’s willies, so I can write “fuck hole” in lipstick on my arse with an arrow to the tradesman’s entrance

Guess ya don’t need post it notes anymore then? "

The numbers in your post on the btm thread have fried me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am surprised how many men who describe themselves as straight want to be fucked "

Maybe I’ll change my profile to straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am surprised how many men who describe themselves as straight want to be fucked

Maybe I’ll change my profile to straight. "

That would be so ghey though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am surprised how many men who describe themselves as straight want to be fucked

Maybe I’ll change my profile to straight.

That would be so ghey though "

Can’t tell if you typed that with top or bottom energy.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"I am surprised how many men who describe themselves as straight want to be fucked

Well I know plenty of straight guys that take the strap up the bum. "

Indeed, or a finger. They might also like tasting semen kissing a lady after they have cum in her mouth. Still straight though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am surprised how many men who describe themselves as straight want to be fucked

Maybe I’ll change my profile to straight.

That would be so ghey though

Can’t tell if you typed that with top or bottom energy. "

I'm just here for the energy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am surprised how many men who describe themselves as straight want to be fucked

Maybe I’ll change my profile to straight.

That would be so ghey though

Can’t tell if you typed that with top or bottom energy.

I'm just here for the energy

(Soothing sounds) we’ll find you a hot man don’t get upset (after I find one)

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I'm going to say a don't put your junk anywhere near me vibe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me top yo! I wanna top dudes. Ivor Biggun!

(Working on my top energy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the options are bum or be bummed I’d definitely do the bumming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the options are bum or be bummed I’d definitely do the bumming."

‘Bum or be bummed. There is no KY’

Ghey Yoda.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the options are bum or be bummed I’d definitely do the bumming.

‘Bum or be bummed. There is no KY’

Ghey Yoda. "

Yoda is a creature of great wisdom but as the bummer, I need the lube. Poop doesn’t stick if it’s slippy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the options are bum or be bummed I’d definitely do the bumming.

‘Bum or be bummed. There is no KY’

Ghey Yoda.

Yoda is a creature of great wisdom but as the bummer, I need the lube. Poop doesn’t stick if it’s slippy."

You are wiser than Ghey Yoda.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Do you give top or bottom energy? Or are you too shook to answer this question? "

I’m guessing top, based on my near daily offers of “discreet cock suck, nothing expected in return” I receive……?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I think most men would enjoy anal sex if they could get over the whole "ghey" thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think most men would enjoy anal sex if they could get over the whole "ghey" thing."

I tried a finger up the bum once and just didn’t like it. I’ve also tried anal and it’s alright but nothing to write home about.

I like eating arse though. I’ll do that again

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I think most men would enjoy anal sex if they could get over the whole "ghey" thing."

I think all women would enjoy anal sex if they all enjoyed anal sex

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
over a year ago

Beverley

"Not a clue. But I do get a lot of messages offering "a discreet hole" "

ffs, grim

'I'll suck you dry, nothing in return

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Going by the people I meet and the messages I get I don’t think I give off any bottom energy.

Guys who message typically just want to be used or give me oral , I expect that’s very typical though and not me giving ‘top energy’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think most men would enjoy anal sex if they could get over the whole "ghey" thing."

I'm over that. As I've said multiple times. I'm pretty open to it. I like to open myself up completely (no crude pun intended) I think the best sex is when it becomes more instinctual (is that even a word) more wild. Animalistic. Passionate.

I also know from self exploration (he's an explorer

) when that sweet spot is hit.. woah. Just fucking woah!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think most men would enjoy anal sex if they could get over the whole "ghey" thing.

I think all women would enjoy anal sex if they all enjoyed anal sex"

I think all women would be good at sex if they stopped focusing on the bum

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I’m assuming this is all about who puts whose willy up whose bottom?

I’m not sure if people see me as one who puts their willy up another man’s bottom or one whose bottom is penetrated by another man’s willy.

That’s for the public to decide and I guess would be subjective.

In the meantime I’m deciding between having Shreddies for breakfast or toast. I think Shreddies will probably win

I can’t tell with you, Dan let’s see if the people can decide

I hope I’m perceived as one of those whose bottom is penetrated by other men’s willies, so I can write “fuck hole” in lipstick on my arse with an arrow to the tradesman’s entrance

That's my next wank sorted

Thanks Dan

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"I think most men would enjoy anal sex if they could get over the whole "ghey" thing.

I also know from self exploration (he's an explorer

) when that sweet spot is hit.. woah. Just fucking woah!!!"

Love this.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I think most men would enjoy anal sex if they could get over the whole "ghey" thing.

I think all women would enjoy anal sex if they all enjoyed anal sex

I think all women would be good at sex if they stopped focusing on the bum"

Yeah why are they obsessed with bums?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"I think most men would enjoy anal sex if they could get over the whole "ghey" thing."

I simply don't enjoy the feeling of my anal hole interacted with.

Man or woman being involved, or even myself. Doesn't matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also learned the topping from the bottom phrase recently.

I don’t t mike these phrases Switch/top/bottom and stuff, but I understand them. I just do sexy stuff with someone, and I roll with what’s going on. So when I’m in the mood of switching roles of leading, I hope she’s picking up in those babes and follows. It usually works out.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I think most men would enjoy anal sex if they could get over the whole "ghey" thing.

I also know from self exploration (he's an explorer

) when that sweet spot is hit.. woah. Just fucking woah!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going by the people I meet and the messages I get I don’t think I give off any bottom energy.

Guys who message typically just want to be used or give me oral , I expect that’s very typical though and not me giving ‘top energy’ "

I think straight men by default give off top energy. But that’s just my opinion,

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By *hirleyMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I think most men would enjoy anal sex if they could get over the whole "ghey" thing."

A lot of men aren't that good at sex, so I doubt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not ashamed to say I like butt stuff. I have been open to being pegged by a female, I am not gay and don't consider butt stuff to be gay. I am hedonistic so anything for pleasure I guess

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

"I think most men would enjoy anal sex if they could get over the whole "ghey" thing.

I tried a finger up the bum once and just didn’t like it. I’ve also tried anal and it’s alright but nothing to write home about.

I like eating arse though. I’ll do that again"

Pickle is braking the mold by throwing big side energy into the mix

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"I think most men would enjoy anal sex if they could get over the whole "ghey" thing.

I also know from self exploration (he's an explorer

) when that sweet spot is hit.. woah. Just fucking woah!!!"

I adore hitting that spot on someone. The reactions are just incredible.

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

"I think most men would enjoy anal sex if they could get over the whole "ghey" thing.

I tried a finger up the bum once and just didn’t like it. I’ve also tried anal and it’s alright but nothing to write home about.

I like eating arse though. I’ll do that again"

I respect your decisions.

Can I check which finger was it though?

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Do you give top or bottom energy? Or are you too shook to answer this question? "

I'm always confused by the "Top" and "Bottom" terms; does "Top" mean you'll do BJs? And "Bottom" mean you'll do Anal (give and/or receive)?

Anyway regardless of that, I must be giving of some bi energy as I'm always getting hit on by guys at parties and clubs.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Well I guess I'm not really straight

And I guess I give off bottom energy

I'm not the dom top alpha type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You tell me

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By *acca2020Man
over a year ago

Failsworth / Manchester

I do like sex with a so called straight man.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

If they’re in a dress / lingerie I’m on top, however me in the dress/ lingerie I’m waving my tush in the air.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

I think it's definitely time that we got over the labels and accepted what we enjoy.

Life is far too short to deny yourself sone pleasures.

I've lost friends very unexpectedly and far too young.

I just hope that they had as much fun as I try to have.

Live life as free of labels as you can...

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I think it's definitely time that we got over the labels and accepted what we enjoy.

Life is far too short to deny yourself sone pleasures.

I've lost friends very unexpectedly and far too young.

I just hope that they had as much fun as I try to have.

Live life as free of labels as you can..."

Nobody is denying themselves of something if they don't want it

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By *W_RedMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I think it's definitely time that we got over the labels and accepted what we enjoy.

Life is far too short to deny yourself sone pleasures.

I've lost friends very unexpectedly and far too young.

I just hope that they had as much fun as I try to have.

Live life as free of labels as you can..."

This!

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By *lay 4 your plessureMan
over a year ago

Wigan

Going off the messages I get from men I'm guessing I give off a top vibe, I usually get 2 types of generic messages along the lines of nice cock, I'd love you to fuck me with it, or nice cock, I'd love it deep down my throat. They all get either politely declined or ignored depending on how pushy the message is. I know I could filter single men out from messaging me but I choose not to as I'm happy to chat to other men in a friendly non sexual way, as long as they accept that I'm not going to meet them for sex or a bj, and that they're not going to "turn me eventually".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site might put me off men. I’ll be gy.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

(Mr)

Unsure, somedays I just give off an aura where people bend over and offer their butholes, other days I have the opposite and it feels like a line of horny guys are forming behind me.

Yes, I can switch, but the automatic assumption of which can flip on a coin x

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

"Going off the messages I get from men I'm guessing I give off a top vibe, I usually get 2 types of generic messages along the lines of nice cock, I'd love you to fuck me with it, or nice cock, I'd love it deep down my throat. They all get either politely declined or ignored depending on how pushy the message is. I know I could filter single men out from messaging me but I choose not to as I'm happy to chat to other men in a friendly non sexual way, as long as they accept that I'm not going to meet them for sex or a bj, and that they're not going to "turn me eventually".

That's great and hopefully theren't many pushy ones as that is not appropriate. When people chat to someone does not mean they have sexual desires on them and even if they do they would soon know if it is reciprocal or not. I chat to lots of great guys on here. What is amusing is when some guys seem to think that their masculinity could be dented by the shafow of another man in proximity, physcical or virtual. It's quite funny to observe sometimes

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

there are straight men on fab ...

I never knew that

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By *mateur100Man
over a year ago

nr faversham

I'm forever reading about straight guys who like cock

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"I'm forever reading about straight guys who like cock

its default mode on fab, once you join here everyone likes cock eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm forever reading about straight guys who like cock

This never caught on as a chant at Upton Park

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm forever reading about straight guys who like cock

This never caught on as a chant at Upton Park

FORESKINS ALWAYS HIDING

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm forever reading about straight guys who like cock

This never caught on as a chant at Upton Park

I understood this reference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm forever reading about straight guys who like cock

This never caught on as a chant at Upton Park

I understood this reference. "

Knew I'd find one that spanned the generation gap eventually.

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By *lay 4 your plessureMan
over a year ago

Wigan

That's one of the things I have a problem with on fab, the presumption (not by all) that people only talk to you because they want you. I treat people here like I would in the real world, as in I won't exclude anyone from talking to me because of their sexuality. And yes, seeing some people people afraid of having their masculinity dented can be funny, also it can be a little bit sad too. I'm more than happy to report to those people that I've been to a few gay weddings and also received lots of hugs from gay men and women and survived without catching their gayness if they need any reassurance

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"I'm forever reading about straight guys who like cock

This never caught on as a chant at Upton Park

FORESKINS ALWAYS HIDING "

Then like my dreams they fade and die.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was Bi or Gay, men would probably want to use me like a fleshlight

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

Id imagine i give off cant be arsed energy - but out if the 2 I won’t be receiving visitors!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I have no idea. Top hopefully, I think.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

"If I was Bi or Gay, men would probably want to use me like a fleshlight

V definitely.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you give top or bottom energy? Or are you too shook to answer this question? "

If someone offers to suck me until completion….what energy is that giving off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you give top or bottom energy? Or are you too shook to answer this question?

If someone offers to suck me until completion….what energy is that giving off? "

Utility company bill energy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The str8s are @ it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The str8s are @ it again"

*shakes angry, straight fist*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The str8s are @ it again

*shakes angry, straight fist*"

Stop bending your arm! That’s not how you bowl! Keep your arm straight!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The str8s are @ it again

*shakes angry, straight fist*

Stop bending your arm! That’s not how you bowl! Keep your arm straight!!"

I want to watch Kingpin now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The str8s are @ it again"

I KNEW it.

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