FabSwingers.com forum: Straight and Bi

By *ilf and old fart OP Couple
over a year ago

Between Ely and Mildenhall

It's interesting that on a lot of couples profiles they say that the the female is bi and the male is straight. This also applies to a lot of single males who say that they are straight.

Yet we get messages from (mainly) single guys who say that they like to suck a cock and want to meet us.

So our question is. Are the majority of men secretly bi and don't want to publish this on their profile or let their wife know but are happy to play with cocks in a meet, This also seems to happen in some meets with couples

So are most blokes secretly bi or are they really straight (ish)

Females are seemingly happy to state that they are bi, so why can't bi men be more forthcoming

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Some people that say they are straight are actually straight.

I know… crazy thought isn’t it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m straight and wouldn’t suck a cock. If I was in the throes of passion and you were sucking me and I had my eyes closed and it was a toe curler and opened my eyes and it was hubby….. would I tell him to stop……. That’s the ultimate question I suppose. Would I willingly…… no……. Would I stop if I was on the vinegar stroke…… hmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us personally hubby is straight and means he is straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Following. I've been waiting for this topic.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

"Some people that say they are straight are actually straight.

I know… crazy thought isn’t it."

What is crazy about it?

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Some people that say they are straight are actually straight.

I know… crazy thought isn’t it.

What is crazy about it?"

That they are not bi or gay.

It’s crazy.

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By *addad99Man
over a year ago

Rotherham /newquay

More likely they can't be honest with them self's so why trust them to tell you the truth.those that lie are just selfish twats edging there bets

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By *ilf and old fart OP Couple
over a year ago

Between Ely and Mildenhall

"Following. I've been waiting for this topic."

It's a topic long overdue

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Winds me up.

Met a couple that said the lady was bi but she was a pillow princess playing bi to keep her fella happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's interesting that on a lot of couples profiles they say that the the female is bi and the male is straight. This also applies to a lot of single males who say that they are straight.

Yet we get messages from (mainly) single guys who say that they like to suck a cock and want to meet us.

So are most blokes secretly bi or are they really straight (ish)

Females are seemingly happy to state that they are bi, so why can't bi men be more forthcoming "

Not the majority of men, but they claim straight until they actively seek it

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By *eff1961Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I'm definitely bi lol

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By *ave38ukMan
over a year ago

haverhill

"It's interesting that on a lot of couples profiles they say that the the female is bi and the male is straight. This also applies to a lot of single males who say that they are straight.

Yet we get messages from (mainly) single guys who say that they like to suck a cock and want to meet us.

So are most blokes secretly bi or are they really straight (ish)

Females are seemingly happy to state that they are bi, so why can't bi men be more forthcoming "

Im definitely bi and proud of it

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

I am bi but meet a lot of men for sex who describe themselves as straight . I think putting bi on your profile puts some people off & many men worry that it will put off a lot of potential partners, its difficult to know what is in peoples minds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men won’t say they’re bi because it’ll ruin their chances with women who don’t want to meet bi men. Some men are just straight.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Mostly men respond positively to a bi women as do obviously bi women. But I've heard straight women do not respond positively to bi men so men are scared to put that they are bi.

Part of this is fair as woman on woman sex is very low risk where man on man is higher. But as long as everyone is playing safe and getting regular testing this risk can be somewhat mitigated. Women should always assume any man may have had experiences with other men and act accordingly.

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By *onicZMan
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

I really don't see the need to lie.

As a bi man, I won't make advances on straight people, however why say you're straight if you're not? Might cause many missed opportunities...

There again, it seems more socially accepted for women to play than it does for men to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's interesting that on a lot of couples profiles they say that the the female is bi and the male is straight. This also applies to a lot of single males who say that they are straight.

Yet we get messages from (mainly) single guys who say that they like to suck a cock and want to meet us.

So are most blokes secretly bi or are they really straight (ish)

Females are seemingly happy to state that they are bi, so why can't bi men be more forthcoming "

It's not about them not being forthcoming, alot of bi men get homophobic/biphobic comments made towards them especially compared to bi women

I suspect some lie because they are in denial or something similar but it's probably because they don't want to deal with the grief/abuse that comes along with being openly bi

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

No ,not most men ,some are.

Some lie to increase their chances of meets with ladies and couples & write straight.Whilst others will say they're bi to get with the lady of a couple apparently.

There are bi people (men and women ) who don't seem to equate being bi unless they have a relationship with the same sex.

It can get confusing and maybe fab needs to update the options of straight /bi to include bi playful or hetero flexible etc.

Miss

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"I really don't see the need to lie.

As a bi man, I won't make advances on straight people, however why say you're straight if you're not? Might cause many missed opportunities...

There again, it seems more socially accepted for women to play than it does for men to play. "

I think that women are encouraged to play bi, because it's most men's fantasy to see women together.

Miss

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester

Some men get confused with straight and bi,bless their little cotton socks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of woman’s profiles say they won’t meet bi men so they hide the fact they are bi on their actual profile

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

"It's interesting that on a lot of couples profiles they say that the the female is bi and the male is straight. This also applies to a lot of single males who say that they are straight.

Yet we get messages from (mainly) single guys who say that they like to suck a cock and want to meet us.

So are most blokes secretly bi or are they really straight (ish)

Females are seemingly happy to state that they are bi, so why can't bi men be more forthcoming "

I think that lots hide that they are bi on fab ... if the messages that I get are anything to go by.

I'm certain that sone say that they are bi just to try to get near a woman and then show no interest in the actual meet though.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

"Mostly men respond positively to a bi women as do obviously bi women. But I've heard straight women do not respond positively to bi men so men are scared to put that they are bi.

Higher risk for what exactly?

Stds?

Everyone is at risk of many of them and they cannot be avoided if you are male or female.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

"It's interesting that on a lot of couples profiles they say that the the female is bi and the male is straight. This also applies to a lot of single males who say that they are straight.

Yet we get messages from (mainly) single guys who say that they like to suck a cock and want to meet us.

So are most blokes secretly bi or are they really straight (ish)

Females are seemingly happy to state that they are bi, so why can't bi men be more forthcoming "

i think some of those huys are orally bi.

but yeah i get messages from 'Straight' men.

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