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By *ack688 OP   Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

..the idea of being sexually objectified? Of having sex with someone who isn’t that interested in you as a person but very much likes some physical attribute about you, whether it’s your size, shape, colour, age, whatever.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex can be just sex. Sometimes the other stuff doesn’t matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens all the time...

I get over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's all I get,but I do wish it was different.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I dislike it. I think when younger I probably would have seen as a confidence boost but now it does the opposite.

There’s a difference between being told you’re a great lover vs your gorgeous or have a great cock, because great sex is mostly a choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not apposed to it if they upfront about it

No need to bs and lie to get in to my knickers

Being upfront is best

Then in my mind I can say it’s a case off they use me I use them fun night thanks

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By *amieLDN22Man
over a year ago

London

Oh yes. We all get objectified on daily basis - this starts from a very young age and basically a learned behaviour.

The holy grail is finding someone you click with who likes your faults/traits/personality; lets you be yourself and smashing in bed. We can all dream.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

At times it's all you need,if it works

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I'm OK with it in a group scenario. One to one, there's got to be more of a connection for me.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fine by me if they are a good fuck.

I get a good fuck and they fuck a minger.

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By *ack688 OP   Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

I’m certainly not opposed to the idea, if they were someone I thought it would be fun to have sex with then I would be ok with them saying they just wanted me for my body, haha, like that would ever happen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Standard practice innit

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Unsurprisingly it does zero for me.

I'm also a bit of a contrary so and so because sometimes I would like to be objectified (when I'm ovulating).

Just, on my terms.

I love being desired and I'd love for people to be less polite around me - you know, having someone who wants to fuck me constantly and doesn't particularly about what I have to say. I'd also not like that most of the time. My libido is complicated.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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*care.

Never again am I waking up at 5am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not too sure. I think if the attraction is there then I’m not really too bothered what it is they find attractive about me, whether physical or otherwise.

Mrs Villains on the other hand would hate that and just the thought of that being the case, she’d probably run a mile haha.

Mr

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

Anyone who objectifies me tends to land on my block list, especially when they send a first dm like it, consent is key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be a no from me.

I dont need deep and meaningful but I wont be a convenient oriface for someone, nor would I use someone that way. That's just a complicated wank.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell


"..the idea of being sexually objectified? Of having sex with someone who isn’t that interested in you as a person but very much likes some physical attribute about you, whether it’s your size, shape, colour, age, whatever. "

Really depends on who the other person is.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I'm OK with it but it wouldn't be my first choice. It's only ever happened to me once though. Luke

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

~~

Couldn’t think of anything worse

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

In

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's exactly what we want from this scene to be honest we don't want a connection just amazing sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *imber wolfMan
over a year ago

Aycliffe

Just depends sometimes that’s all I want, sometimes I want more.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

As much as I like to think men who show a desire to be sucked off by me give a shit about me, they don't.

I knew that when I first set out on my fuck men from the internet adventure.

I've met men in real life too who only wanted the sex, but made it into dates too, so they didn't feel dirty.

As the French say "C'est la vie!"

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney

Not a problem

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"..the idea of being sexually objectified? Of having sex with someone who isn’t that interested in you as a person but very much likes some physical attribute about you, whether it’s your size, shape, colour, age, whatever. "
what do they like about you to objectify you?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It all depends. It's going to be there, to some extent, in no strings sex, as you're mostly engaging with people who aren't looking for all-time love and engagement with you.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"..the idea of being sexually objectified? Of having sex with someone who isn’t that interested in you as a person but very much likes some physical attribute about you, whether it’s your size, shape, colour, age, whatever. "

I have a huge personality

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By *inballs99Man
over a year ago

Blackheath

If there is a disiarable attribute of yours that someone likes and you are happy with that being embraced and enjoyed,why not so long as you are not being just plain nasty with it !

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Nope, not for me.

Mrs

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