FabSwingers.com forum: Monogamy , Sex Frequency and Your expectations.

By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

How high on the list of needs is sex for you ?

Is it the first thing on your tick list when you are looking for a long term monogamous relationship ?

What would be the top five qualities you would look for in a person you intend to spend the rest or a good part of the rest of your life ?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Possibly 4th maybe 3rd along with general attraction. But would be in an open relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Personality

2. Cooking ability

3. Cleaning ability

4. Earns more than me

5. Sex

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"1. Personality

2. Cooking ability

3. Cleaning ability

4. Earns more than me

5. Sex"

You jest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s pretty high on the list but sense of humour comes before anything. I take the piss out of anything and everything so if someone can’t deal with that then I can’t deal with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger me would have sed it was high up on the priority list as I was looking for Monogis realship

Older me has figured out realships trancend sex so now it isn’t even real on the property list as now days I would be looking for a none Monogis realship

So that sex isn’t even a worry as it would be open both ways to both people so if one isn’t feeling like they want sex or say the old one isn’t getting anuff sex or what ever they free to go get that sex with someone else

To be truthful as I got older I have came to understand how much problems a closed relationship can cause that could be sorted just by opening it up

Obviously rules would be established

Ie safe only outside the realship

Must tell before or after

And no staying over the night must come home

Other than that it’s all fair game so to speak

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Its a combination of things that you need and not in any specific order but you have to like or love her personality and she yours, your hobbies have to be similar the outdoor life suits me and she has to be adventurous in everything she does, she has to have a great sense of humour and sex she has to like it, cleanliness is next to godliness too

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"It’s pretty high on the list but sense of humour comes before anything. I take the piss out of anything and everything so if someone can’t deal with that then I can’t deal with them."

And the other three ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s pretty high on the list but sense of humour comes before anything. I take the piss out of anything and everything so if someone can’t deal with that then I can’t deal with them.

And the other three ?"

Nice arse

Responsible (boring but I need it)

Positive attitude. I can’t deal with overly negative people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Monogamy. Ew.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think kindness is the most important think to look for in a partner. Any other issue can be worked out if you both treat each other with a kind heart.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

1. Sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. Personality

2. Cooking ability

3. Cleaning ability

4. Earns more than me

5. Sex"

You've been talking to F too much!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’m not yet but if I was looking for a long term monogamous relationship sex would be quite low, but with sone caveats

I think with the right partner you can always make the sex work, improve it etc but if they had no interest or a severe disability preventing us enjoying even occasional sex it would be a no

1. Loyalty

2. I find them attractive

2. tactile & enjoy physical touch

3. Sense of adventure

4. Good conversation

5. Peaceful / non shouty

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Monogamy. Ew. "

Yep this. So much this. I don't think I have a set amount of times I need sex nor it in a set time frame. Life happens doesn't it?

All that being said... Ideal world I'd have sex daily. Bar when I'm feeling like a black widow.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Oh and my top five qualities...

I don't think I have them. It's too reductive to first state them and then place them in importance to me. I'm far too fluid to be able to do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A long term partner, their general demeanour, how peaceful and calm they are.

Also, how they cope with slow Internet and they must like cats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A long term partner, their general demeanour, how peaceful and calm they are.

Also, how they cope with slow Internet and they must like cats."

Would be hard to cap out my internet ha ha I mean seriously I got like just over 1gb clock in at 1054mps

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Umm, I’m not looking for a single long term monogamous relationship, but either way sex needs to be an important part of any relationship I do embark upon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have to be able to fuck to my standards and number of times a day and be hot. Otherwise what use are they to me?

If they don't provide sex at the same frequency and quality they are binned. No matter what.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. Personality

2. Cooking ability

3. Cleaning ability

4. Earns more than me

5. Sex

You've been talking to F too much!

Yeah, she scarred me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Aloofness

2. Works away a lot

3. Non needy

4. Open to sex with randomers

5. V lines.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"1. Personality

2. Cooking ability

3. Cleaning ability

4. Earns more than me

5. Sex"

Well that's me out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. Personality

2. Cooking ability

3. Cleaning ability

4. Earns more than me

5. Sex

Well that's me out

I'll take number 3.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"They have to be able to fuck to my standards and number of times a day and be hot. Otherwise what use are they to me?

If they don't provide sex at the same frequency and quality they are binned. No matter what."

Yeah ...... Me too. What use at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How high on the list of needs is sex for you ?

Is it the first thing on your tick list when you are looking for a long term monogamous relationship ?

What would be the top five qualities you would look for in a person you intend to spend the rest or a good part of the rest of your life ?

Affection before sex. Touch with intent has such a greater meaning.

And no, it's not. It's up there, but it's about a compatibility of spirits, the look in the eye, the cheeky glint, the slight squint and raised eyebrow that gives way to a tiny smirk, before the entire face lights up with a smile that lifts your entire soul.

The shit that makes you feel like you just won everything all at once by getting them to smile. Usually through doing the most dopey ass shit imaginable.

It's everything.

As for qualities, integrity, kindness, compassion, communication and empathy.

Better add patience too.

It is me after all.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

I'll be honest yes

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

like everyone else I am looking for a rich nymphomanic with a pub but I cant even spell it!

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

Wait for the one who simply adores you.

The kind of person who brings out the best in you and makes you want to be a better person; the only person who will drop everything to be with you.

For the person who makes you smile like no one else ever has. Wait for the person who wants to show you off to the world because they are so proud of you.

And most of all, wait for the person who will make you a priority, because that's where you belong.

I think I’m just waiting for somebody to love me for the awesome disaster I am

Sorry didn’t really answer properly

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By *he Kat 666Woman
over a year ago

Salisbury

1. Loyalty

2. Honesty

3. Trust

4. Caring

5. Decent chest, bum, legs, winkle and tongue....!

The rest is a bonus!

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"1. Loyalty

2. Honesty

3. Trust

4. Caring

5. Decent chest, bum, legs, winkle and tongue....!

The rest is a bonus!"

Haha I agree with the tongue

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

1. Sex

5."

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This. ^

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

"1. Sex

5."

Don't forget SHOES & Gin

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

The sex is pretty important to me.

1 Loyalty

2 Humour

3 Sex

4 Compassion

5 communication

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sex is pretty important but it's much more about affection, I'm very tactile. I do need to be kissed often by someone who knows how. I need to feel wanted and desired. I need intamacy. Sex is obviously part of that.

I also need laughter.

For me the ideal is a best friend who can't keep their hands off me. Someone who can make me smile, make me laugh, make me feel safe, make me think and make me cum.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Big tits

Nice holes

Can cook

Doesn’t moan

Doesn’t mind taking the bins out once in a while

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP Woman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Big tits

Nice holes

Can cook

Doesn’t moan

Doesn’t mind taking the bins out once in a while"

I have one out of five .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The sex is pretty important but it's much more about affection, I'm very tactile. I do need to be kissed often by someone who knows how. I need to feel wanted and desired. I need intamacy. Sex is obviously part of that.

I also need laughter.

For me the ideal is a best friend who can't keep their hands off me. Someone who can make me smile, make me laugh, make me feel safe, make me think and make me cum.

This sounds like the absolute perfect relationship. Once you have the affection/intimacy the rest falls into place.

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