FabSwingers.com forum: What got you interested in swinging?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Tell us!

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"Tell us!

Seeing bodies like you're and hopefully having them underneath me basically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bored so was the excitement it brought. Then it felt liberating to be comfortable around lots of people while naked all enjoying without judgment all for our own pleasure. Mainly the amazing people. Mind blowing sex added bonus

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

The back and forth motion

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By *alty surpriseMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

I've just always had a very open mind towards sex...and like the fact that swinging is simply about enjoyment and pleasure

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By *ettercallsaul118Man
over a year ago

Funtown

A lovely cpl took advantage of me and introduced me to the swinging life never looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here as singles looking for a FWB. Years later after getting married we talked about exploring and then came on here to see what we like the look of and if there’s anything we’d both like to explore. And here we are

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Was introduced by a friend many years ago, wasn’t pro-active on here until a couple of years ago

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By *reative-mindMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I'm a very opened minded person, love meeting new people and well obviously enjoy sex.

Recently after a mental health illness its a way for me to become comfortable around people and within reason live outside of my comfort zone again in a safe way.

Attending my first club on Sunday and currently nervous as hell!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What? And cum in my pussy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What? And cum in my pussy?

Or anywhere you wanted it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was introduced to fab by a friend many years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was in an open relationship with my ex and fell in love with the idea of sharing intimate moments with others

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By *randMrsNorthernCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

We were around 20 years old at the time (approx 20 years ago) and were asked to house/dog sit for a couple we knew - couple we knew in a vanilla capacity I hasten to add.

As we didn’t live together we jumped at the opportunity to have a house (and bed!) to ourselves for a week. On the first night we found a a porno DVD at the side of the bed.

During some of the VERY many fucks (besides walk the dog and eat takeaways it was all we did) we watched that and spoke about threesomes (two women) and it got her in particular very horny. We talked about a FMF threesome a lot over the time that followed and watched porn etc.

A year or so later we drove to Cupids one night and sat outside for half an hour, watching people go in and come out. We didn’t have the guts to go in as we were only about 20 years old and in retrospect, this was a wise move as we probably weren’t ready to “do” or act on anything until a lot later when we were more emotionally ready.

Our first club visit was probably ten years later when we spontaneously visited a club. We still wouldn’t consider ourselves “swingers,” but the rest is history as they say…

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
over a year ago

Beverley

I'm cyclical on here but not actually into swinging per se. I just want to chat and meet the odd person with absolutely no strings, because I'm just not looking for anything more than that, hence not being on any actual dating websites.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

I got a job working for Sydney university

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gad a thr loved it

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a threesome and loved it xx I meant x

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Clubs. Needed info. This was the place to find it

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

For me it was when I got divorced around 14 years ago. I started on regular dating sites like POF etc, Realised after about 20 dates that I wasn't really ready for a full blown relationship, but still needed the physical side of being in a relationship, so I friend suggested trying out swinging, never done it before, and to be honest I was so nervous when I had my first meet, I needn't have worried, they where amazing, I've never looked back since . I enjoy the life style and it's nice to put my toe in from time to time, I've met some amazing people that to this day I can call them my friends

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"What? And cum in my pussy?

Yeah who's this too?! Because OBVIOUSLY

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Sex... And the possibility of more sex to come

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any sarcastic or abusive comments will get you blocked fyi

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I'm not a swinger being a single lady though i have joined couples so maybe I qualify. But strangely this site tends to attract intelligent and open minded people who get the enm lifestyle plus I am addicted to the forums now!

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By *ack and MiriCouple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

We have always had a good sex life and love to try new things I heard someone use the phrase dirty vanilla I think this describes us well.

Miri has a bi side and a few years ago she played with a friend of hers this planted a seed in my horny brain that grow into me wanting to see her with other people.

After a lot of talking some of it dirty we found some podcasts and that lead us to fab I'd still say we are dirty vanillas but intrigued dirty vanillas.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I wanted sex without commitment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We met on here as singles looking for a FWB. Years later after getting married we talked about exploring and then came on here to see what we like the look of and if there’s anything we’d both like to explore. And here we are

Similar for us. As a single, was recommended Fab by a friend, since I missed sex but not a relationship at that point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A complete accident for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More fun than the roundabout.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

A party invite over 30 years ago which led me to discover what swinging was all about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never been "vanilla" single parent from age 19. If I played I played away from home. A friend introduced me to cupids and I was hooked.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

A variety, variety is the spice of life

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I have never been "vanilla" single parent from age 19. If I played I played away from home. A friend introduced me to cupids and I was hooked."
nobody is vanilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We walked past a club in Tenerife and had a little childish giggle about it. A few drinks in the evening and Mrs started asking me questions about it so I suggested we go have a look. It was closed so we went to Pandora’s in Leeds when we got back.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

We were in Edinburgh and had a lovely night in a pub chatting to people and we overheard someone in another table talking about swinging

My former swinging partner suggested we tried a small club in Swansea that was a bit of a local gossip point, it was called Fanny’s. We got online and investigated it and ended up on Fab and as members of Chameleons in Darleston .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We walked past a club in Tenerife and had a little childish giggle about it. A few drinks in the evening and Mrs started asking me questions about it so I suggested we go have a look. It was closed so we went to Pandora’s in Leeds when we got back."

Club Mystique x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was faced with a choice - be with the woman of my dreams and join in the swinging - or walk away.

I joined in got hooked... but something wasn't right..

we eventually split up in Dec '22 - because it wasn't actually swinging she was into - it was full blown cheating with "old friends" and "work colleagues".

Initially I didn't think there was a difference! HOW WRONG CAN A GUY BE?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club Mystique x"

That’s the one. We were on our way to Burger King and there it was. I believe it’s moved now though.

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

"Tell us!

Same penis/vagina for life didn’t appeal

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Introduced by a guy I dated almost 20 years ago. I stayed for the social aspect as much as for the chance to experiment.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Similar for us. As a single, was recommended Fab by a friend, since I missed sex but not a relationship at that point.

I give sex?

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London

Two very naughty girls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club Mystique x

That’s the one. We were on our way to Burger King and there it was. I believe it’s moved now though."

It's been a while since I have travelled but now having flashbacks x

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I was scunnered with dating sites but still fancied the notion of sex occasionally

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By *rchitectMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

The first time I felt a strangers hand on my cock and realised it was the Male of the pair.

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By *omBukakeMan
over a year ago

maybe near you

When I was a kid my brothers always had porno mags hidden in their bedrooms. So I knew a fair bit before I was even 10. Not great I suppose but since that point I always seemed to be drawn to contact mags which was way before the internet. It was that while couple next door being naughty thought which started it for me.

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By *irtyKittenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

K wanted said she wanted a open relationship we did do it at first for first ten years together.

But it was always OK for us to play with others.

So one day K decided to go out and ended up having sex with someone else and on coming home, I had missed feelings but was really turned so she ended riding me night.

Then she joined fab then it all went from there.

We have played together and separately ever since.

The sex is amazing each time we have had sex with someone else when we have sex afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell us!

I ran a dating site and found lots of couples on it so I started a swinging one and then got the (ex) wife into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was stuck in Traffic on the M25, next to a pineapple juice delivery van. Googled pineapple juice and was mortified at the results.

Been in and out ever since

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

I started off on the slide, made my way up on to the roundabout and finally on to swinging.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Did a naturist/ swinger cruise Florida to Mexico realised swingers came in all shapes n sizes and all had different scenes going on .. the rest as they say .. “ is history “

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

My wild youthful years

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By *abyblues2023Woman
over a year ago

Everywhere and Nowhere baby thats where im at

I was curious about meeting a couple and joining in also group sex someone mentioned I should look up this site that was 14 years ago, I've been in and out like a nun in a cucumber patch tho

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By *am and johnCouple
over a year ago

york

Having sex with other people.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My then partner told me she’d been with a lady prior to me. At first it rang alarm bells but then it just opened a door within.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both my partner and I came from sexless marriages and we got together and decided to live our lives how we want and not how others want us to live. We made a couples profile and we have gone on from there. Now have our own singles profiles for added adventures

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Conversations with my wife about other people we fancied, started turning us both on.

Then there was a ping moment: why don't we do it? Fuck me that would be hot.

Both experimentalists, both enjoyed pushing the boundaries - fairly broad array of possibilities were explored.

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

We had our first child, then as usual sex life dwindled and stagnated because of parental and home life just what happens i suppose. We discussed it to spice our sex life back up and we decided try a club as two nervous newbies. 8 years later were both still here with a couples and singular profiles having a fab time

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By *heeks123Woman
over a year ago

North West

I had an ex who made me feel faulty and worthless. I'd always been curious about swinging and clubs so thought...I'll try it! I've so far had great fun and I've met some good people along the way

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

The variety of holes to stick my willy in

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Another place to go dressed up.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

The sex. Pretty much the sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was scunnered with dating sites but still fancied the notion of sex occasionally "

This

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By *ucktastic33Couple
over a year ago

North Wales &

She wanted more and we loved it

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By *ovelock4Man
over a year ago

Croydon

A desire for non-vanilla experiences and an exhibitionist streak a mile wide.

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By *ustmemyselfandi1Man
over a year ago

southampton

One of the mums when I was coaching my sons football team.

Her and her husband were cool and we went for drinks one weekend and they dropped it into conversation…….

Ended up as a great night, out of the blue (for me) and the rest, as they say, is history

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By *elsh.30Man
over a year ago

newport

About 10 years ago my best mate joined fabs and became swingers. He liked watching her get fucked. But they had a strict rule, no playing with friends! So I just used to hear all the horny stories! Then one night at their house, he told her to suck me off! It was very horny experience with her sucking my cock while he was watching! Then we both fucked her. That was my introduction to swinging

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By *uckwife69Woman
over a year ago

swansea

"A complete accident for us

A boyfriend years ago persuaded me a few times to let his male friends join us.. it happened on a number of occasions.. he was black and he said he was excited and proud of having such a sexy white girlfriend... yes I fell for it and remember it was in the early eighties......)

Wind on to when I was married and my husband knew my background and he nagged me to try it with him.... we did... and my husband has gone but I am still here... funny how life twists and turns eh?

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