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By *odgerMoore OP   Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

Is it acceptable to say - Im going now .. bit bored to be honest. Or is ‘you arrogant wanker - i hope you meet someone just like you!’ Better?

Anyone have any suggestions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On tander yesterday I ended with... "I'll let you be your clearly in a bad mood" and deleted her a few minutes later.

In all honesty deleting was a cowardly mood but I had things to do instead of arguing

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

If you think it's acceptable then what does it really matter?

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By *odgerMoore OP   Man
over a year ago

Carlisle


"On tander yesterday I ended with... "I'll let you be your clearly in a bad mood" and deleted her a few minutes later.

In all honesty deleting was a cowardly mood but I had things to do instead of arguing "

Seems a lot of that about at the moment… people sometimes don’t read between the lines ir sometimes just miss the humour.. not everyone gets it and they assume you’re being serious… mystifying sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually say, I can see we don't really connect and I don't want to waste your time. It was a nice chat, good luck

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast

I don't have texting sessions? I text a message when i have time, if it's a little back and forth, then so be it, but I don't ever "end" anything.

If I don't like what she said, I won't reply and delete the number. If I get annoyed by message after message, I just block. This is very rare, as I am a guy, but still happened.

Never did I say "I am going now".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On tander yesterday I ended with... "I'll let you be your clearly in a bad mood" and deleted her a few minutes later.

In all honesty deleting was a cowardly mood but I had things to do instead of arguing

Seems a lot of that about at the moment… people sometimes don’t read between the lines ir sometimes just miss the humour.. not everyone gets it and they assume you’re being serious… mystifying sometimes. "

Yes, well I do find sarcasm gets lost in text. Though in this case she was been rather rude and if we were face to face she'd have got told straight. I'm actually far too polite over text

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"On tander yesterday I ended with... "I'll let you be your clearly in a bad mood" and deleted her a few minutes later.

In all honesty deleting was a cowardly mood but I had things to do instead of arguing

Seems a lot of that about at the moment… people sometimes don’t read between the lines ir sometimes just miss the humour.. not everyone gets it and they assume you’re being serious… mystifying sometimes.

Yes, well I do find sarcasm gets lost in text. Though in this case she was been rather rude and if we were face to face she'd have got told straight. I'm actually far too polite over text"

Honestly? A message is only rude if you perceive it that way. If you let it be rude. I often find myself just accepting peoples bullshit, make jokes about it and laugh it off. Often softens the mood and they later apologise for having been rude. It's called framing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say - I love you, we should get married... If they hang around after it's a solid block

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast


"Say - I love you, we should get married... If they hang around after it's a solid block "

So you only want ot be around people who refuse your marriage proposal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say - I love you, we should get married... If they hang around after it's a solid block

So you only want ot be around people who refuse your marriage proposal? "

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly? A message is only rude if you perceive it that way. If you let it be rude. I often find myself just accepting peoples bullshit, make jokes about it and laugh it off. Often softens the mood and they later apologise for having been rude. It's called framing.

That seems to calculated and controlling. Got no time for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say - I love you, we should get married... If they hang around after it's a solid block

So you only want ot be around people who refuse your marriage proposal? "

Are you smoking crack in your first pic?

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By *odgerMoore OP   Man
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Say - I love you, we should get married... If they hang around after it's a solid block

So you only want ot be around people who refuse your marriage proposal?

Absolutely "

No marriage but id definitely bum you xx if thats allowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say - I love you, we should get married... If they hang around after it's a solid block

So you only want ot be around people who refuse your marriage proposal?

Absolutely

No marriage but id definitely bum you xx if thats allowed "

You just know I'd bum you right back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just become as boring as possible so the chat dies naturally!

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I tend to go with: 'Gotta go, ya mum's horny!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just become as boring as possible so the chat dies naturally!"

That's me every day of the week then

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By *odgerMoore OP   Man
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Say - I love you, we should get married... If they hang around after it's a solid block

So you only want ot be around people who refuse your marriage proposal?

Absolutely

No marriage but id definitely bum you xx if thats allowed

You just know I'd bum you right back "

Bumfight at the OK Corral!!

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"Is it acceptable to say - Im going now .. bit bored to be honest. Or is ‘you arrogant wanker - i hope you meet someone just like you!’ Better?

Anyone have any suggestions? "

None of the above is acceptable. To end a message can be anything meaning I don't think we quite connect but I wish you a fun and safe time here

Respect and manners cost nothing really

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By *odgerMoore OP   Man
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Is it acceptable to say - Im going now .. bit bored to be honest. Or is ‘you arrogant wanker - i hope you meet someone just like you!’ Better?

Anyone have any suggestions?

None of the above is acceptable. To end a message can be anything meaning I don't think we quite connect but I wish you a fun and safe time here

Respect and manners cost nothing really "

How about if i omitted ‘arrogant’?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean I just block

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By *odgerMoore OP   Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

In seriousness - if i think i have no connection or i don’t like something in their profile or the message - first message i’ll ignore - if we’ve been chatting - i’ll say - have to nip off - catch up later and probably not catch up. …

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"Is it acceptable to say - Im going now .. bit bored to be honest. Or is ‘you arrogant wanker - i hope you meet someone just like you!’ Better?

Anyone have any suggestions?

None of the above is acceptable. To end a message can be anything meaning I don't think we quite connect but I wish you a fun and safe time here

Respect and manners cost nothing really

How about if i omitted ‘arrogant’? "

I would still say its rude to ask a person if they're a wanker no one will say why yes I am loool

Only unless he says yeah I just had a wank

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"In seriousness - if i think i have no connection or i don’t like something in their profile or the message - first message i’ll ignore - if we’ve been chatting - i’ll say - have to nip off - catch up later and probably not catch up. …"

Then why not just say sorry I don't feel a connection here ?

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By *odgerMoore OP   Man
over a year ago

Carlisle


"In seriousness - if i think i have no connection or i don’t like something in their profile or the message - first message i’ll ignore - if we’ve been chatting - i’ll say - have to nip off - catch up later and probably not catch up. …

Then why not just say sorry I don't feel a connection here ?"

Because i did that once before and was called shallow, and some less flattering names because some people can’t believe they’re not irresistible and don’t take rejection well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here if I am saying no I end my message with happy swingeing if they don’t get the hint that conversation is over it’s a block

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

Just be polite and say:

"After careful consideration it is with deep regret that I will not be pursuing this opportunity any further. Although your profile and photos were exemplary I find that your competencies in chat and messaging fell below expectations and the level that I was looking for.

I wish you much success for the future, happy fab'ing.".

Always close off with the "happy fab'ing". I'm not sure why but that remark seems to be in fashion at the moment.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I just say we’re not compatible and I say why. Just be honest. I told someone recently I won’t meet her again because she struggles with eye contact and she’s not tactile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally just stop messaging, if I lose interest I can't even be arsed to type a message.

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By *he Kat 666Woman
over a year ago

Salisbury

I usually just send em a pic of my arse.... that seems to do the trick!!

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France


"I usually just send em a pic of my arse.... that seems to do the trick!!"

I think you have an amazing arse x

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

I normally just say, I need to go , let's chat later .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to go, I'm at the airport.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"In seriousness - if i think i have no connection or i don’t like something in their profile or the message - first message i’ll ignore - if we’ve been chatting - i’ll say - have to nip off - catch up later and probably not catch up. …

Then why not just say sorry I don't feel a connection here ?"

Why say sorry ? Just say you don’t feel a connection. Saying sorry gives false hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My messages are always open ended. Maybe the conversation will start up again.

I’ve never had to END a texting conversation.

Maybe, ‘hope to talk again soon’ if I think it’s not going anywhere..I dunno really.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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If you're that bored and you really don't want to talk to the person again, why not say something polite like "I don't think we're that compatible, happy fabbing ." Or let it fizzle. Most people will pick up on the fizzle. It's a great and easy way to go about it.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

What about the classic - what's that behind you! (Scarpers)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're that bored and you really don't want to talk to the person again, why not say something polite like "I don't think we're that compatible, happy fabbing ." Or let it fizzle. Most people will pick up on the fizzle. It's a great and easy way to go about it. "

The fizzle is always a good way to go

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"….. "I don't think we're that compatible, happy fabbing ." Or let it fizzle. Most people will pick up on the fizzle. ….."

Ive said, have a fab day!

Fizzle is always safe. It leaves it open to chat again.

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