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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Take selfies? Or pictures of yourself?

I find that as I’m learning to love myself for the way I look I’m becoming more confident and I’m taking more pics of myself. Not to send anything. But sometimes I like an outfit or I like the way I look and I’m going to do something nice, I’m getting pics now to look at and I’m not hating them so much and deleting straight away.

How often do you take selfies? Or have people take pics of yourself

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Every 3 seconds… without fail

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Every 3 seconds… without fail "

And yet I don’t get a notification every 3 seconds…

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Every 3 seconds… without fail

And yet I don’t get a notification every 3 seconds…"

I was joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cringe when I see my face on pictures I'm not photogenic for the old selfish!!

Stay on the confidence train though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took an absolute load of then this morning, and ended up with just a handful that I thought were ok.

I would love a professional photoshoot one day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never, I fucking hate taking photos of my face. Forcing a smile that looks half way decent, hoping the light caught it right only to realise that I really don't photograph well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can always send them to me

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I take them often, not to send to others but generally just for me. Have weird thing where I don't recognise my face as belonging to me for periods of time. Just come out of that so it's a bit of a novelty to acknowledge my own face. Though it's a total pain in the arse, as I've lost weight and have now gained extra wrinkles, life is a bitch sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naked ones? Quite often it seems.

Normal one, never.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Not very often.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

Rarely although I had a lovely one taken of me last night because I liked my outfit. I have more pics of my bum than I do my face.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I have a mirror if I need to see what I look like

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

At the moment very rarely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look weird on selfies. It’s weird because I don’t think I look too bad on photos that other people take of me.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm far too shy for that kinda thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that often, I only take them if I think I look particularly nice that day or I’m going out somewhere.

I take silly ones to send to my group chat with my friends quite a lot though. I’ve got to sift through them all on my phone to find a decent picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never, selfies are a fiasco, always grimacing, or squinting, or multiple chins due to the angle. Besides in my minds eye I am still 28, whilst the selfie adds 30 years to that (and who's the grey haired bloke in the image?)

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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

Hmmm once a month? Maybe at a push?

Generally hate taking my photo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it comes to sexy pictures, it's whenever I feel like posting one to Fab and want to impress someone/feel half decent/like my outfit etc but it isn't often I am reaching for the camera lately.

And as for solo face selfies, not that often. Maybe a few times a month if I'm having a good hair day or if my makeup looks nice.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm rubbish at selfies but they're good comedy value. Mr N often takes photos of me and I'm usually happy with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once in a blue moon

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng

More often these days. Much more often I take semi naked ones. You know. For fabs.

I hate myself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"More often these days. Much more often I take semi naked ones. You know. For fabs.

I hate myself. "

Relatable

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm rubbish at selfies but they're good comedy value. Mr N often takes photos of me and I'm usually happy with them "

We’re all happy with them.

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Of the face never. Take the odd physique shot mainly as reference to how looked when training on certain split ect and to measure progress

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm rubbish at selfies but they're good comedy value. Mr N often takes photos of me and I'm usually happy with them

We’re all happy with them. "

he takes 'normal ' photos of me too. You know the ones you can show your mum

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Not often I tend to have to be coaxed, coerced or bullied into it.

Which doesn't happen all that often so rarely.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I take ones of myself periodically, but always of the upper part of my body or I crop out the lower half, if it creeps in. I hate full length pics of myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm rubbish at selfies but they're good comedy value. Mr N often takes photos of me and I'm usually happy with them

We’re all happy with them.

he takes 'normal ' photos of me too. You know the ones you can show your mum "

Id like those as well.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Essentially never.

LvM

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Essentially never.

LvM"

Who takes the pics of your wet t-shirt'd torso and penis, Mr LvM?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Essentially never.

LvM

Who takes the pics of your wet t-shirt'd torso and penis, Mr LvM?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooo you know very rare do I take a picture at all

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Mostly not a fan of my own boat race, and my body looks like a bouncy castle, these days, so rarely.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mostly not a fan of my own boat race, and my body looks like a bouncy castle, these days, so rarely."

Take one for me now and I’ll send you one back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never, I fucking hate taking photos of my face. Forcing a smile that looks half way decent, hoping the light caught it right only to realise that I really don't photograph well."

Lies. You photograph just fine!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a mirror if I need to see what I look like "

I just-

Fair enough man. Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never, I fucking hate taking photos of my face. Forcing a smile that looks half way decent, hoping the light caught it right only to realise that I really don't photograph well.

Lies. You photograph just fine!! "

My body photographs fine. My face looks like when Chandler tries to smile for a photo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate pictures others take of me usually. I think it's a weird not being in control thing. I take a better selfie.

I'm now at a point where I do want to make memories and capture moments. Particularly with friends and family. So I guess I maybe take a few a week with them.

Ones of me vary.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

General solo selfies? Hardly ever. I very rarely look good in them, and also feel like a bit of a prat ever taking one in public. Will happily take a group selfie though.

But, generally speaking, I don't my photo being taken by others on holiday/nights out etc - I like to have pictures to remember things by.

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Mostly not a fan of my own boat race, and my body looks like a bouncy castle, these days, so rarely.

Take one for me now and I’ll send you one back "

Be real!

Not a chance, I look rough as fuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never ever unless I need to sell something.

Usually myself.

Frankly that needs hardly much work these days either.

Luckily, despite my over abundance of confidence, I'm weirdly not that self absorbed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"General solo selfies? Hardly ever. I very rarely look good in them, and also feel like a bit of a prat ever taking one in public. Will happily take a group selfie though.

But, generally speaking, I don't my photo being taken by others on holiday/nights out etc - I like to have pictures to remember things by."

You are way too good looking to say you rarely look good in them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never, I fucking hate taking photos of my face. Forcing a smile that looks half way decent, hoping the light caught it right only to realise that I really don't photograph well.

Lies. You photograph just fine!!

My body photographs fine. My face looks like when Chandler tries to smile for a photo "

I’ve seen your face on fpf and you look worse than Chandler

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Take selfies? Not very. If someone asks or I think, yeah you don't look too bad or I want to remember a moment I will. A few times a month?

Have others take photos of me? Well I'm trying to undo years of always hating and avoiding the camera. I'm not the most photogenic person, I'm not particularly attractive.

I'm also not getting any younger and I don't want to look back and think "gosh Meli, you shouldn't have disliked how you looked" so probably a couple of times a week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once"

And the rest is history

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once

And the rest is history "

I learned from my mistake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once

And the rest is history

I learned from my mistake. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took one the other day and sent it round to a few people. They've all blocked me now it seems. One person said "Is THAT what you look like when you're on top?!"

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I took one the other day and sent it round to a few people. They've all blocked me now it seems. One person said "Is THAT what you look like when you're on top?!"

F"

Sorry not sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I took one the other day and sent it round to a few people. They've all blocked me now it seems. One person said "Is THAT what you look like when you're on top?!"

F

Sorry not sorry."

F

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Very rare I take photos of myself unless special occasions xx

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Never

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,


"I hate pictures others take of me usually. I think it's a weird not being in control thing. I take a better selfie.

I'm now at a point where I do want to make memories and capture moments. Particularly with friends and family. So I guess I maybe take a few a week with them.

Ones of me vary. "

I am totally with you here. Absolute control freak and won’t let others take my pic.

But, I have a routine of pics I share with a friend each day.

Bed when I wake up

In the car

In the bath

Bed before I go to sleep

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By *c12Man
over a year ago

South East

Used to take a lot of gym pre/post workout pics.. but ultimately.. I don’t take a lot of photos of myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy taking pics of myself and the wife but I hate having my pic taken. I think it’s the height! If I’m not the one holding the camera all pics are me looking down

Mr

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Just actually looked at my photos on my phone. The vast majority of my selfies are with the people I love. So not as narcissistic as I thought

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Hardly ever I don't like pics of myself, I send the Mr the odd lingere pic if I'm feeling particularly confident.

I do try get pics with the kids it's good to have memories to look back on, but selfies on my own never.

Mrs

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

Never if I can help it

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon


"Take selfies? Or pictures of yourself?

I find that as I’m learning to love myself for the way I look I’m becoming more confident and I’m taking more pics of myself. Not to send anything. But sometimes I like an outfit or I like the way I look and I’m going to do something nice, I’m getting pics now to look at and I’m not hating them so much and deleting straight away.

How often do you take selfies? Or have people take pics of yourself "

Never….only for this site really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually very rarely take photos of myself for me. I tend to only bother to refresh pics on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never if I can help it"

Nice profile pic though

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Selfies… rare.

We do like to take regular pictures of each other though, it’s one of the best things about this site that you can display your body generally and play around with different styles and looks.

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