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Anyone looking for safe FWB?

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By *oghicks OP   Man
over a year ago

Brackley

Is anyone looking for a clean, discrete mature guy for regular unhurried meetings?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Probably quite a few people are looking for just that.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'm sure many people are. But there's a lot more to compatibility than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure many people are. But there's a lot more to compatibility than that "
haha and that's putting it lightly lol

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Does discreet mean married?

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Think I might just yawn....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't speak for the other ladies, but I do avoid the unsafe FWB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer those with a bit of an edge.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I want to feel the call of the wild.

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By *oghicks OP   Man
over a year ago

Brackley

Probably not very well written OP.

My question was more to do with people's attitude towards their personal health and whether meeting with just one regular FWB would be preferable to having multiple ones.

I'm not married, the reference to discretion was general as some people are less careful about who knows what they are doing.

Having tested clear of STIs I personally don't want to run the risk of catching an infection.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


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Having tested clear of STIs I personally don't want to run the risk of catching an infection. "

The safest way to avoid catching an infection is not to meet.

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

What if I want a danger meet? With some added risk?

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By *reative-mindMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"What if I want a danger meet? With some added risk? "

Adding some jump leads to metal bed frame, that sort of thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably not very well written OP.

My question was more to do with people's attitude towards their personal health and whether meeting with just one regular FWB would be preferable to having multiple ones.

I'm not married, the reference to discretion was general as some people are less careful about who knows what they are doing.

Having tested clear of STIs I personally don't want to run the risk of catching an infection. "

Most people have "safe sex" ticked but I'm reasonably sure that's BS given the number of bareback enthusiasts on the site. Having sex with fewer people will obviously lessen the risk of getting an sti. Getting tested regularly and asking for test results will also help. There's no guarantee.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Does having sex with one regular FWB count as swinging ?

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By *ilBWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Does having sex with one regular FWB count as swinging ?"

Guess it depends how many people are watching in the room....

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By *c12Man
over a year ago

South East

That hits the nail on the head

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island


"What if I want a danger meet? With some added risk?

Adding some jump leads to metal bed frame, that sort of thing? "

Why not? Certainly spices things up in the bedroom!*

*not withstanding torture charges and/or hospital visits

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

You might do better posting this in the meet requests forum.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Does having sex with one regular FWB count as swinging ?"

It is still classed as casual sex, no strings. No promises of committment and free to choose another sexual partner at any point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure many people are. But there's a lot more to compatibility than that "

Women are so up themselves! Got a cock, what more do they want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably not very well written OP.

My question was more to do with people's attitude towards their personal health and whether meeting with just one regular FWB would be preferable to having multiple ones.

I'm not married, the reference to discretion was general as some people are less careful about who knows what they are doing.

Having tested clear of STIs I personally don't want to run the risk of catching an infection.

Most people have "safe sex" ticked but I'm reasonably sure that's BS given the number of bareback enthusiasts on the site. Having sex with fewer people will obviously lessen the risk of getting an sti. Getting tested regularly and asking for test results will also help. There's no guarantee."

I have no STI's. Never been tested and neither have the 20,000 people I've barebacked.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Prefer dangerous & dirty myself.

Mrs

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By *oghicks OP   Man
over a year ago

Brackley

Some interesting replies, mixture of flippant and to the point. I guess to some extent it shows a willingness to accept risk.

Restricting to one partner or couple probably isn't swinging in the true sense but I wanted to gauge interest here.

My comments are based on experience of catching sti's, thankfully successfully treated but having been given the wake up call I'm changing my lifestyle accordingly.

None of the infections had any symptoms so regular testing was certainly the way to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like unsafe people on fab, they add the element of risk that we might sustain an injury along the way during a coffee social.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I would think a lot of people are here for multiple partners or a variety.

I mean I'd get a boyfriend if I only wanted to have sex with one person.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I like a few select regular lovers. Condoms and testing every 3 months is expected. But I do do oral without protection so I am running a small risk. So far haven't ever caught anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would think a lot of people are here for multiple partners or a variety.

I mean I'd get a boyfriend if I only wanted to have sex with one person. "

A single man on Fab isn't going to be fucking anyone else!

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