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By *asper1987 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Can you guys and ladies explain to me, what do you do to those who can’t accom, can’t travel, won’t go ti a sauna as it’s to sleazy but won’t share the costs of a hotel, who want a suck and go without a picture. I’m really not keen to bother with pocket tight/skint people. Why bother with typing and wasting time, it’s infuriating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has confused my brain

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they can’t do all that you said I move on by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pick them up and take them to yours

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I guess that leaves dogging as the only option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you guys and ladies explain to me, what do you do to those who can’t accom, can’t travel, won’t go ti a sauna as it’s to sleazy but won’t share the costs of a hotel, who want a suck and go without a picture. I’m really not keen to bother with pocket tight/skint people. Why bother with typing and wasting time, it’s infuriating. "

You are the time waster. If you can't be bothered, why are you messaging them? It's not infuriating at all. One touch of your finger and you can click off the profile.

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By *asper1987 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"This has confused my brain "

How can I help?

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

End of the day, it's each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you guys and ladies explain to me, what do you do to those who can’t accom, can’t travel, won’t go ti a sauna as it’s to sleazy but won’t share the costs of a hotel, who want a suck and go without a picture. I’m really not keen to bother with pocket tight/skint people. Why bother with typing and wasting time, it’s infuriating. "

Isn't the answer obvious?

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Did deep, undo the padlocks on your wallet, dust off the credit card, and then cry after they have taken everything that you have

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By *asper1987 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Can you guys and ladies explain to me, what do you do to those who can’t accom, can’t travel, won’t go ti a sauna as it’s to sleazy but won’t share the costs of a hotel, who want a suck and go without a picture. I’m really not keen to bother with pocket tight/skint people. Why bother with typing and wasting time, it’s infuriating.

You are the time waster. If you can't be bothered, why are you messaging them? It's not infuriating at all. One touch of your finger and you can click off the profile.

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I’m the one trying, coming up with options. And I can’t be arsed meeting people without a face picture. I know this is for quick fucks, but come on, a bit of common effort here and there.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Pick them up and take them to yours"

Yup though after a local social to make sure they don't off serial killer vibes

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By *asper1987 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Can you guys and ladies explain to me, what do you do to those who can’t accom, can’t travel, won’t go ti a sauna as it’s to sleazy but won’t share the costs of a hotel, who want a suck and go without a picture. I’m really not keen to bother with pocket tight/skint people. Why bother with typing and wasting time, it’s infuriating.

Isn't the answer obvious?

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Did deep, undo the padlocks on your wallet, dust off the credit card, and then cry after they have taken everything that you have "

Never thought of that, thank you for enlightening me. I shall start paying old male sex workers instead.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"Can you guys and ladies explain to me, what do you do to those who can’t accom, can’t travel, won’t go ti a sauna as it’s to sleazy but won’t share the costs of a hotel, who want a suck and go without a picture. I’m really not keen to bother with pocket tight/skint people. Why bother with typing and wasting time, it’s infuriating. "

We will do you

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By *asper1987 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Pick them up and take them to yours

Yup though after a local social to make sure they don't off serial killer vibes"

Won’t do that either, expecting you to invite them into your home and show them where you keep your valuables and a list of vulnerabilities…

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Can you guys and ladies explain to me, what do you do to those who can’t accom, can’t travel, won’t go ti a sauna as it’s to sleazy but won’t share the costs of a hotel, who want a suck and go without a picture. I’m really not keen to bother with pocket tight/skint people. Why bother with typing and wasting time, it’s infuriating.

You are the time waster. If you can't be bothered, why are you messaging them? It's not infuriating at all. One touch of your finger and you can click off the profile.

I’m the one trying, coming up with options. And I can’t be arsed meeting people without a face picture. I know this is for quick fucks, but come on, a bit of common effort here and there. "

It's not for quick fucks for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you guys and ladies explain to me, what do you do to those who can’t accom, can’t travel, won’t go ti a sauna as it’s to sleazy but won’t share the costs of a hotel, who want a suck and go without a picture. I’m really not keen to bother with pocket tight/skint people. Why bother with typing and wasting time, it’s infuriating.

You are the time waster. If you can't be bothered, why are you messaging them? It's not infuriating at all. One touch of your finger and you can click off the profile.

I’m the one trying, coming up with options. And I can’t be arsed meeting people without a face picture. I know this is for quick fucks, but come on, a bit of common effort here and there. "

Why though? You kinda answered your own question. Move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you guys and ladies explain to me, what do you do to those who can’t accom, can’t travel, won’t go ti a sauna as it’s to sleazy but won’t share the costs of a hotel, who want a suck and go without a picture. I’m really not keen to bother with pocket tight/skint people. Why bother with typing and wasting time, it’s infuriating.

You are the time waster. If you can't be bothered, why are you messaging them? It's not infuriating at all. One touch of your finger and you can click off the profile.

I’m the one trying, coming up with options. And I can’t be arsed meeting people without a face picture. I know this is for quick fucks, but come on, a bit of common effort here and there.

Why though? You kinda answered your own question. Move on."

But I want to fuck now!! You women are giving me blue balls!!

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands


"Can you guys and ladies explain to me, what do you do to those who can’t accom, can’t travel, won’t go ti a sauna as it’s to sleazy but won’t share the costs of a hotel, who want a suck and go without a picture. I’m really not keen to bother with pocket tight/skint people. Why bother with typing and wasting time, it’s infuriating.

You are the time waster. If you can't be bothered, why are you messaging them? It's not infuriating at all. One touch of your finger and you can click off the profile.

I’m the one trying, coming up with options. And I can’t be arsed meeting people without a face picture. I know this is for quick fucks, but come on, a bit of common effort here and there. "

Up to you OP, sounds like its a quickie or a face pic because you're not getting both by the sound of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pick them up and take them to yours

Yup though after a local social to make sure they don't off serial killer vibes

Won’t do that either, expecting you to invite them into your home and show them where you keep your valuables and a list of vulnerabilities… "

Why would you show them where your valuables are...

Stop being a wimp

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I don’t know about you but I only give my energy to those I’m compatible with.

It’s not infuriating if you do it that way but not for a quick fucks either.

There’s always an option to take a break if it becomes worryingly difficult, as you say.

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By *asper1987 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Can you guys and ladies explain to me, what do you do to those who can’t accom, can’t travel, won’t go ti a sauna as it’s to sleazy but won’t share the costs of a hotel, who want a suck and go without a picture. I’m really not keen to bother with pocket tight/skint people. Why bother with typing and wasting time, it’s infuriating.

You are the time waster. If you can't be bothered, why are you messaging them? It's not infuriating at all. One touch of your finger and you can click off the profile.

I’m the one trying, coming up with options. And I can’t be arsed meeting people without a face picture. I know this is for quick fucks, but come on, a bit of common effort here and there.

Up to you OP, sounds like its a quickie or a face pic because you're not getting both by the sound of it."

I must expect to much from people. Thank you all!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Find people who don't play games like these. Until you do, have a wank, the alternative isn't worth it.

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By *asper1987 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I don’t know about you but I only give my energy to those I’m compatible with.

It’s not infuriating if you do it that way but not for a quick fucks either.

There’s always an option to take a break if it becomes worryingly difficult, as you say."

I only asked as I don’t know if my approach is to impulsive or it’s something I don’t understand. I believe there’s a huge difference between anonymous and discreet. But insisting the only way to meet someone is at someone’s home when yourself can’t, it’s a bit selfish. Being ok with a suck swallow and go in a car but going to a sauna where you can shower and have a decent bed to f*ck is sleazy. Not sure what to think. I’m totally confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont be so cantankerous.

If it's people contacting you, check your filters, if you're contacting them, check yourself.

Coming here with a moaning thread about it wont help, it's just annoying you isnt it. So walk away, block said profiles and stop viewing here as a 'quick fuck'.

All the best

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By *asper1987 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Find people who don't play games like these. Until you do, have a wank, the alternative isn't worth it."

So you agree those people are fake and are just playing games.

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By *asper1987 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Dont be so cantankerous.

If it's people contacting you, check your filters, if you're contacting them, check yourself.

Coming here with a moaning thread about it wont help, it's just annoying you isnt it. So walk away, block said profiles and stop viewing here as a 'quick fuck'.

All the best "

You’re probably right about my attitude, however this website would be a better place if people would assume a bit their actions and take responsibility for what they desire.

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Perhaps it their way of rejecting someone without saying no!

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"Can you guys and ladies explain to me, what do you do to those who can’t accom, can’t travel, won’t go ti a sauna as it’s to sleazy but won’t share the costs of a hotel, who want a suck and go without a picture. I’m really not keen to bother with pocket tight/skint people. Why bother with typing and wasting time, it’s infuriating. "

Suck them round the back of Lidl.

Go and treat myself to an apple turnover.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

The new Meatloaf song sounds a bit shit

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By *asper1987 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Can you guys and ladies explain to me, what do you do to those who can’t accom, can’t travel, won’t go ti a sauna as it’s to sleazy but won’t share the costs of a hotel, who want a suck and go without a picture. I’m really not keen to bother with pocket tight/skint people. Why bother with typing and wasting time, it’s infuriating.

Suck them round the back of Lidl.

Go and treat myself to an apple turnover.

"

I’m afraid it’s to classy, Lidl…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dogging or play taxi?

To be honest if someone was giving that many obstacles I’d give up!

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"Can you guys and ladies explain to me, what do you do to those who can’t accom, can’t travel, won’t go ti a sauna as it’s to sleazy but won’t share the costs of a hotel, who want a suck and go without a picture. I’m really not keen to bother with pocket tight/skint people. Why bother with typing and wasting time, it’s infuriating.

Suck them round the back of Lidl.

Go and treat myself to an apple turnover.

I’m afraid it’s to classy, Lidl… "

I know what you mean, I did the Waitrose once and had to block them purely from socio-economic intimidation.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Personally, I'd say no thank you to those people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont be so cantankerous.

If it's people contacting you, check your filters, if you're contacting them, check yourself.

Coming here with a moaning thread about it wont help, it's just annoying you isnt it. So walk away, block said profiles and stop viewing here as a 'quick fuck'.

All the best

You’re probably right about my attitude, however this website would be a better place if people would assume a bit their actions and take responsibility for what they desire. "

If it's getting to you then step away for a bit. It will only lead to more frustration if you continue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t know about you but I only give my energy to those I’m compatible with.

It’s not infuriating if you do it that way but not for a quick fucks either.

There’s always an option to take a break if it becomes worryingly difficult, as you say.

I only asked as I don’t know if my approach is to impulsive or it’s something I don’t understand. I believe there’s a huge difference between anonymous and discreet. But insisting the only way to meet someone is at someone’s home when yourself can’t, it’s a bit selfish. Being ok with a suck swallow and go in a car but going to a sauna where you can shower and have a decent bed to f*ck is sleazy. Not sure what to think. I’m totally confused "

So if they have been upfront and said they can’t accommodate but you can what’s the issue?

They may not want to go to a sauna and risk being seen by others.

By the sounds of it they are not single so are lessening a risk of being caught. If you are looking to meet people who are not single then it does limit the places you can go, if that bothers you then don’t meet people who are with someone else

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"I don’t know about you but I only give my energy to those I’m compatible with.

It’s not infuriating if you do it that way but not for a quick fucks either.

There’s always an option to take a break if it becomes worryingly difficult, as you say.

I only asked as I don’t know if my approach is to impulsive or it’s something I don’t understand. I believe there’s a huge difference between anonymous and discreet. But insisting the only way to meet someone is at someone’s home when yourself can’t, it’s a bit selfish. Being ok with a suck swallow and go in a car but going to a sauna where you can shower and have a decent bed to f*ck is sleazy. Not sure what to think. I’m totally confused "

Nothing selfish at all. My daughter lives with me. I can't drive right now due to medical reasons. But hey I am absolutely fine with you not messaging me. I get to be here foot what I want, you get to be here for what you want. Its really not hard to understand.

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng


"Can you guys and ladies explain to me, what do you do to those who can’t accom, can’t travel, won’t go ti a sauna as it’s to sleazy but won’t share the costs of a hotel, who want a suck and go without a picture. I’m really not keen to bother with pocket tight/skint people. Why bother with typing and wasting time, it’s infuriating.

Suck them round the back of Lidl.

Go and treat myself to an apple turnover.

"

God damn it I want an apple turnover now. All warm and flaky.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"The new Meatloaf song sounds a bit shit "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people may not be here to meet op but to keep in touch with those that they meet and clubs and such

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ermmm….no thank you?

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Perhaps it their way of rejecting someone without saying no!"

Beats being kicked in the bollocks

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By *untimes wantedMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

If they have no face picture they have to meet me for a social first such as a coffee if they want to come to my house.

If i was booked into a hotel if no face pic they was told it was their risk i would say no when they turned up.

If they can't travel and i wanted to meet the guy i have picked them up in the past.

A lot put can't travel meaning they don't drive and mean they can only meet local using public transport.

Saunas i agree with them i hate the places.

If i was already staying in a hotel i would not expect them to pay anything and why would i need to book one when i can use my house because i can accom if i am at home.

meeting for a quick fuck or suck is not what i look for i prefer guys who can stay 4 or 5 hours or even overnight.

If any guy messaged me that ticked all of the box's your complaining about.

No face pic ,can not accom ,can not travel,would not meet for a social,expected me to book a hotel because he did not want to be seen comming to my house and only wanted a quick fuck or suck i would block them ,kind of figure thats why fab gave us that option to use.

Fab is what you make of it and gives you tools to use such as filters and advanced search.

If its getting to you think about how you use the site now and see what filters etc you can use to improve your experience here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find people who don't play games like these. Until you do, have a wank, the alternative isn't worth it.

So you agree those people are fake and are just playing games. "

How are they fake?

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