FabSwingers.com forum: Only post once

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think it was View (could be wrong) who asked this question before but i think its great and we have new users to the forums so will ask it again...

If you were asked a question in the Opening post but could only post ONCE.. would you reply with gut instinct? wait for others to reply and then re consider your answer? would you be naughty and post more than once? or would you wait til near the end to draw conclusions from bits of everything?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Think it was View (could be wrong) who asked this question before but i think its great and we have new users to the forums so will ask it again...

it was and there were some fantastic answers.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I would just post my own thoughts and go back to the thread to see how it was going

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm afraid I've dived in before and found lots of people have disagreed with me later on. Even my expert backtracking and disingenuous-ality

has made me look foolish. Dennis Thatcher once said 'better to be silent and be thought a fool, than speak and it be known' or something like that anyway.

Nice red hair btw.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

It would depend on the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like to read other people comments as there maybe something i hadnt thought of on the subject and then post something, i value other peoples point of _iew and opinions but i will make my own mind up

if any of that makes sense ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh hard one..If it's something that I feel strongly in then I want to say something, but then if someone disagrees I would find it hard not to go back and justify my opinion !

If it's a non-contentious issue then I'm happy to post once and then read others replies without needing to post again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually post with my own 'gut instinct'. However, if I was only allowed one post, I may just wait a while and read a few others first. I wouldn't cheat and post more than once though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It would depend on the question"

Think it would be relatively controversial and something that had many sides to it.

fox hunting, abortion, benefit system, death penalty ... those kind of 'big talking points' where people have strong _iews one way or the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually dive in to post my own _iews and opinions.

I may return to the thread later and see what else has been posted, and may add more if I see fit etc...

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

I try to see things from all angles, but if its something that really gets my back up then its in with both feet and both barrels.

Got to say tho, I love the humour in here, makes my day.

I have learned that sitting on the fence with a box of popcorn and can be the best entertainment ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt to be careful what I say

but still say what I like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I can’t type very fast the train of thought leading to my initial reaction usually changes as I’m writing it and comes out altogether different….!.

As for when and where I post in a thread….. That’s as random as the subjects that capture my interest….!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to say my point of _iew but also come across as a little piss taking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learnt to not post if something has made me angry/upset, I generally post on what I like when I like.... I am careful ( I hope ) in how I put my point across,

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"It would depend on the question

Think it would be relatively controversial and something that had many sides to it.

fox hunting, abortion, benefit system, death penalty ... those kind of 'big talking points' where people have strong _iews one way or the other "

In that case, if it was something I had personal experience/knowledge of then I would go with gut instinct and post on how the topic affected me.

Other topics I am not sure, again it would depend on the question as to how/if I would answer.

Hope that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would depend on the disussion topic, and the depth of the discussion that may follow.

One of the problems with the written word, and the format of a forum is that it can so easily be misunderstood, and lets face it, not many of us can get a point across in it's entirety and to include everything that informs our opinion in one hit.

Many a reply-post may include a caveat, "what if" or 'condition'...

and therefore further clarification might be needed (if the respoindant feels it's required.

Maybe the opening question should be questioned (in some instances) for clarity before a propper responce is formed?

It has to be said though, that forums in general are a mine field of misunderstanding.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I rarely think before I post so woukdnt make much difference to me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only post once? What planet are you on?

Like that's ever gonna happen!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends I think popcorn sofa and sit back watch then maybe post near the end. I seem to have a knack of killing threads lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But what if I wanted to reply/take the piss/argue/get grumpy?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I would (and I frequently do)post, following my instinct and later come back and read what others have said. Sometimes there are ideas that I may not have thought of and they might make me modify my original post. If I can only post once, clearly that would not be possible so consequently with only one pop at posting I would be less spontaneous and think longer about all the implications rather than following initial gut instinct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But what if I wanted to reply/take the piss/argue/get grumpy?"

my predicament exactly... at least in days gone by (other fora too)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But what if I wanted to reply/take the piss/argue/get grumpy?

my predicament exactly... at least in days gone by (other fora too)"

the joys of 'only posting once'.. u have to say your piece and just leave it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But what if I wanted to reply/take the piss/argue/get grumpy?

my predicament exactly... at least in days gone by (other fora too)

the joys of 'only posting once'.. u have to say your piece and just leave it... "

Haha even unhormonal ruby can't do that! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like to read how others feel about a certain subject before I dive in but sometimes when there's only a few posts its not possible.

Only post once , cute that would spoil the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I post what I think. It doesn't bother me if other people disagree. I think it's a bit daft to pretend you're something you're not, just to try and make other people like you.

I usually come back and read other posts. I am always willing to see both sides of an argument and sometimes I've changed my opinion on some things.

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