FabSwingers.com forum: Stood up - what to do instead?

By *issYeuxBleus OP Woman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.

What should I do or what would you do instead?

Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!”

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

If I lived nearer, I'd be round like a whippet

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.

What should I do or what would you do instead?

Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!”

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go to the party in the park play crazy golf get a hole in one and go crazy on sugar free drinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do a boudoir photo shoot and post the gorgeous pics of yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we had the option we’d head round and take some pics to send him saying “look what you could’ve been a part of today”

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.

What should I do or what would you do instead?

Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!”

Do you have a local club? Go have yourself some fun there.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.

What should I do or what would you do instead?

Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!”

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,,, twat his loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take yourself off for a coffee and a cake and forget him.

Or a zipwire and send him a middle finger pic

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Take yourself off for a coffee and a cake and forget him.

Or a zipwire and send him a middle finger pic

Ooo yes this^^^ cake

...known to cure all evils

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By *issYeuxBleus OP Woman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"If we had the option we’d head round and take some pics to send him saying “look what you could’ve been a part of today”

There’s still time

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By *issYeuxBleus OP Woman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"Take yourself off for a coffee and a cake and forget him.

Or a zipwire and send him a middle finger pic

Ooo yes this^^^ cake

...known to cure all evils

I do love cake. I’m going to have my cake and eat it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do a boudoir photo shoot and post the gorgeous pics of yourself. "

This is great idea

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By *issYeuxBleus OP Woman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"Do a boudoir photo shoot and post the gorgeous pics of yourself.

This is great idea

Even better with a willing participant

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Sit down?

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By *reative-mindMan
over a year ago

Exeter

After you have hunted them down and keyed that person's car, seems only fair!

Why don't you pamper yourself, coffee, cake, nap, spa stuff, massage (im trained), porn hub.... I've no idea how you pamper yourself but I tried to be helpful at the very the very least

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By *issYeuxBleus OP Woman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"Sit down?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps he's been in an accident or has family issues. Has he been online?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.

What should I do or what would you do instead?

Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!”

I'd probs use the time to go catch up with friends or try meet someone else for a social.

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By *issYeuxBleus OP Woman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"Perhaps he's been in an accident or has family issues. Has he been online? "

Yeah he’s about.

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By *issYeuxBleus OP Woman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"After you have hunted them down and keyed that person's car, seems only fair!

Why don't you pamper yourself, coffee, cake, nap, spa stuff, massage (im trained), porn hub.... I've no idea how you pamper yourself but I tried to be helpful at the very the very least

You had me at coffee and cake. I think cake is definitely in the running so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lunacy in my opinion.pure lunacy.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"Do a boudoir photo shoot and post the gorgeous pics of yourself. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps he's been in an accident or has family issues. Has he been online?

Yeah he’s about.

Does he use the forum?

I always have a back up plan. Use the free time to do something nice and forget about him. Sunday movie afternoon.

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By *reative-mindMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"After you have hunted them down and keyed that person's car, seems only fair!

Why don't you pamper yourself, coffee, cake, nap, spa stuff, massage (im trained), porn hub.... I've no idea how you pamper yourself but I tried to be helpful at the very the very least

You had me at coffee and cake. I think cake is definitely in the running so far. "

I've a nice sponge cake and flapjacks. Shame you're a bit far away haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs sorry to here you got stood up hopefully it dose not bother you too much beautiful x

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Sorry you got stood up gorgeous. Hope you put your lippy on and go and enjoy yourself with maybe a coffee, a cake and buy yourself something lovely. A bit of you time

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By *issYeuxBleus OP Woman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"Perhaps he's been in an accident or has family issues. Has he been online?

Yeah he’s about.

Does he use the forum?

I always have a back up plan. Use the free time to do something nice and forget about him. Sunday movie afternoon.

No unfortunately. Or fortunately. Not quite decided on that one.

This is a good idea. Im thinking I should have had a back up plan. But it’s a lush day so that’s a silver lining!

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By *issYeuxBleus OP Woman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"Hugs sorry to here you got stood up hopefully it dose not bother you too much beautiful x"

Aww thank you lovely. No he’s a little fish in a big pond, I don’t let anything like this bother me. I just need to get one up because I am petty like that

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By *issYeuxBleus OP Woman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"Sorry you got stood up gorgeous. Hope you put your lippy on and go and enjoy yourself with maybe a coffee, a cake and buy yourself something lovely. A bit of you time

Cake for the win. Thank you lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hugs sorry to here you got stood up hopefully it dose not bother you too much beautiful x

Aww thank you lovely. No he’s a little fish in a big pond, I don’t let anything like this bother me. I just need to get one up because I am petty like that

Your welcome anytime and yes he is the best way to get one up is to just don’t let it bother you x

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Move on and don’t look back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I should of been having sex today.....instead I'm doing housework and packing...yay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.

What should I do or what would you do instead?

Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!”

I wouldn't chew over it, or influence my actions to retaliate. Forget and move on

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

See how far you can squirt in your back garden and video it and post it on here.

Line a couple of gnomes up at different distances and see if you can knock them over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps he's been in an accident or has family issues. Has he been online?

Yeah he’s about.

Does he use the forum?

I always have a back up plan. Use the free time to do something nice and forget about him. Sunday movie afternoon.

No unfortunately. Or fortunately. Not quite decided on that one.

This is a good idea. Im thinking I should have had a back up plan. But it’s a lush day so that’s a silver lining!

Ok I don't feel sorry for you anymore, it's pissing it down here!

Sometimes I fancy the back up plan more than the meet.

(Plan B is always something to do, never a person.)

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.

What should I do or what would you do instead?

Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!”

,,, twat his loss"

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Why is it his loss?

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By *reative-mindMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.

What should I do or what would you do instead?

Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!”

,,, twat his loss

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Why is it his loss?"

Do you not tell yourself it's someone's loss if they turn you down or stand you up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.

What should I do or what would you do instead?

Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!”

Fuck his dad!!!

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

Barbenheimer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.

What should I do or what would you do instead?

Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!”

Fuck his dad!!!"

Tell your son not to let down the OP again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me on Friday (someone from a bar, not Fab).

Text me a few hours after we were supposed to meet and said she has to go out for her friends birthday instead but can get a taxi to mine after.

Nah, pass.

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By *issYeuxBleus OP Woman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"See how far you can squirt in your back garden and video it and post it on here.

Line a couple of gnomes up at different distances and see if you can knock them over

Ok this is definitely going down as an option. I don’t have gnomes, or a garden, but I do have loads of empty beer bottles and a passage!

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By *issYeuxBleus OP Woman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.

What should I do or what would you do instead?

Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!”

Fuck his dad!!!

Tell your son not to let down the OP again!

I mean, that is an excellent idea!

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

People can be shit can't they.

Cake, porn and a wank should fill 10 minutes.

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By *reative-mindMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"See how far you can squirt in your back garden and video it and post it on here.

Line a couple of gnomes up at different distances and see if you can knock them over

Ok this is definitely going down as an option. I don’t have gnomes, or a garden, but I do have loads of empty beer bottles and a passage! "

I think you have just inveted an Olympic sport!

See this day hasn't been all bad!

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By *reative-mindMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"People can be shit can't they.

Cake, porn and a wank should fill 10 minutes. "

Is that cake and porn

Or Cake porn?

Because I've got some questions on the latter one.

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

"After you have hunted them down and keyed that person's car, seems only fair!

Why don't you pamper yourself, coffee, cake, nap, spa stuff, massage (im trained), porn hub.... I've no idea how you pamper yourself but I tried to be helpful at the very the very least

You had me at coffee and cake. I think cake is definitely in the running so far. "

A boudoir shoot of you having coffee and cake?

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

OP, the best response is no response, just keep them guessing; quite often people do this sort of thing for a reaction so when you react, they have you dancing to their tune.

You could just simple post something like "Wow, that was unexpected but a whole lot of fun" on your status; I'm sure it drive them nuts trying to guess what you got up to today.

Another thought, maybe the wonderful folk on this forum could send yo a verification saying how brilliant your are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps he's been in an accident or has family issues. Has he been online? "

This is the kind of thing my daughter says, always thinking the best.

Personally, I think he is probably a douche bag and worth avoiding.

Time for a cake and then phone calls to friends and an evening of wine and banter.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"See how far you can squirt in your back garden and video it and post it on here.

Line a couple of gnomes up at different distances and see if you can knock them over

Ok this is definitely going down as an option. I don’t have gnomes, or a garden, but I do have loads of empty beer bottles and a passage! "

So what's this about your passage...

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By *tress toyWoman
over a year ago

leinster

"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.

What should I do or what would you do instead?

Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!”

Wish I was closer!

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By *he Kat 666Woman
over a year ago

Salisbury

"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.

What should I do or what would you do instead?

Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!”

Fuck his dad!!!"

I would!!

And when i was finished with his dad, I'd be sorting his brother out next....

And then his best mate....

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By *ardiffuncutMan
over a year ago

Tonyrefail

It's a sad day when someone can waste an opportunity to be in your company - only option he could pleas is insanity.

As for suggestions - I see cake is winning - so head out to a nice coffee shop - grab a cake and coffee and flirt like mad with all and sundry sometimes the tease is half the fun.

Above all have fun

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Do me obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sod the loser! Bet he was a shit shag anyway, bleedin chicken!!!

Let's all head round to yours and have a big party, then send him the pics!

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Take yourself out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to work instead of me. Start time 18:00, finishing at 06:30. Avonmouth based, free tea and coffee, free parking, showers available.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Oh if only I lived closer.... could have sent a pic of us enjoying every inch of each other and said ner look what I did instead

Tinder

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Pop over to Lincoln and we can make a film?

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What should I do or what would you do instead?"

Do what we do, message every profile in the area that is showing online. Be upfront you were stood up and you want to meet for a social. Anyone who is willing to meet for a last minute social will at least be interesting and you'll have a laugh, socials don't have to stay just socials....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did op choose to do today

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Always have a Benjamin Paul Ballance-Drew.....Plan B

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.

What should I do or what would you do instead?

Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!”

I'd be ordering my favourite takeaway

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"So, today I have been stood up/ghosted/let down, all of the above.

What should I do or what would you do instead?

Let’s make this fun because I’m not gonna let this arsehole win! I want to message him and say, “oh look what I did today instead of you!”

Post a veri on your profile from meeting me. That’ll make him think

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By *issYeuxBleus OP Woman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Ha I’ve had a giggle over these. Brilliant!

As to all the offers to come over and take pics with me, ummm, yes please!!!!

So in a nutshell,

Do his dad

Squirt up my passage

Eat fuck loads of cake

Coffee

Have a massive gang bang

Take pics and post them

Get verified

Order take away

Sounds like the perfect Sunday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But you have to do them all

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By *issYeuxBleus OP Woman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"But you have to do them all

Oh I was just giving you an update on what I’ve done

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Angry masturbation

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Ha I’ve had a giggle over these. Brilliant!

As to all the offers to come over and take pics with me, ummm, yes please!!!!

So in a nutshell,

Do his dad

Squirt up my passage

Eat fuck loads of cake

Coffee

Have a massive gang bang

Take pics and post them

Get verified

Order take away

Sounds like the perfect Sunday!

Brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But you have to do them all

Oh I was just giving you an update on what I’ve done

Well your comment made me smile - so hope that with the light hearted response it means that you have had a good day in the end, and that your evening is even better.

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

Forget about the twat. His loss. Your beautiful so I wouldn't them the satisfaction of replying to them block them, report and move on X

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By *reative-mindMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"Ha I’ve had a giggle over these. Brilliant!

As to all the offers to come over and take pics with me, ummm, yes please!!!!

So in a nutshell,

Do his dad

Squirt up my passage

Eat fuck loads of cake

Coffee

Have a massive gang bang

Take pics and post them

Get verified

Order take away

Sounds like the perfect Sunday!

If you don't add that to you're bio as you're ideal meet you're not doing fab correctly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flick the bean and have an early night.

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