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Younger guy. Mature women

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've always been more attracted to older women and that was one of the main reasons I joined fab. Does anyone have some advice about connecting with slightly older/more mature women Or from a women’s point of view how to go about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bump for the cougars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’re either at the bingo or in bed by now dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you say older, what sort of age do you mean op? Ps I'm not throwing my hat into the ring Op just incase you wondered x

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff


"They’re either at the bingo or in bed by now dude "

I'm neither...but i'm knitting in front of the fire with a cup of cocoa (with gin in it, obvs)

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

First thing to do is build a decent profile with a good selection of pics followed by sending well thought out messages to profiles who's age range includes your own. None of this will guarantee a meet but it won't do you any harm either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Same as the younger ones. Be nice, be respectful & keep your cock to yourself until invited.

(I’m not an older woman.)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you say older, what sort of age do you mean op? Ps I'm not throwing my hat into the ring Op just incase you wondered x"

Between 50-52. No I’d probably say late 30s and older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They’re either at the bingo or in bed by now dude "

How very cheeky MR

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha. Ok thanks for the advice

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales


"When you say older, what sort of age do you mean op? Ps I'm not throwing my hat into the ring Op just incase you wondered x

Between 50-52. No I’d probably say late 30s and older"

am I an older lady already?! I need a brandy!

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Old buggers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you say older, what sort of age do you mean op? Ps I'm not throwing my hat into the ring Op just incase you wondered x

Between 50-52. No I’d probably say late 30s and older

am I an older lady already?! I need a brandy!"

You’re not an “older lady” but you are a lady that’s older than me. It’s all relative i guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be decomposing

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Treat them like people. Connect with them on something in their profile that you have in common. Don't even mention their age

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

OP... calling women their 30s "older" is certainly not going to do you any favours, nor is calling more mature women cougars. Not all ladies willing to meet younger men want to be fetishised, which the cougar label can suggest.

Other than that, you need a better profile and good messages to the right ladies.

However, fab is not easy for single guys in general, especially younger ones.

The best option is probably to look for a cubs and cougars night at a club, or just go to a club as your age will be less of a barrier.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Noted thanks

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

You could stop thinking of them as different from other age groups and more as individuals and come to that you stop thinking that older women are all one type and so you could 'catch' one or all with the same line.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I must be decomposing "

It's that time of year. Time to put the daffs in soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could stop thinking of them as different from other age groups and more as individuals and come to that you stop thinking that older women are all one type and so you could 'catch' one or all with the same line."

Too early for sensible talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be decomposing

It's that time of year. Time to put the daffs in soon."

*looks for moisturiser*

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"You could stop thinking of them as different from other age groups and more as individuals and come to that you stop thinking that older women are all one type and so you could 'catch' one or all with the same line.

Too early for sensible talk. "

You are right.

Sprinkle steradent tablets from their door to yours O.P. They will find YOU

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would perhaps, stop referring to them as older women and cougars and just stick to women.

People want to be treated as individuals and valued as such, not a niche specific novelty item.

Good luck though. Maybe try hanging around the women's institute, sugar craft clubs, retirement communities?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would perhaps, stop referring to them as older women and cougars and just stick to women.

People want to be treated as individuals and valued as such, not a niche specific novelty item.

Well said

Good luck though. Maybe try hanging around the women's institute, sugar craft clubs, retirement communities?"

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Seems very popular thing here younger guys having thing for older ladies. As for your question I think simple hi and just treat them as you would anyone else xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I’ve been told it’s quite common for younger guys to like (I’m not sure the correct term anymore)

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