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By *ay78 OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester

I have recently found out one of my staff really fancies me.

She Now flirts with me a lot and we have a great banter going.

The chats are getting more sexual and yesterday she just came out and said she wants to sleep with me.

What should I Do.

I fancy her.

But it's the situation with the other staff I am bothered about. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would stay well clear. If anything bad happens its too easy to swing things in her favour at a tribunal.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Nope......don't Shit where you eat and all that jazz.....far too risky, internal politics, sexual harassment claims if you dump her, favouritism claims from other colleagues etc etc.

You might also want to check up on company policy regarding inter office relationships. Especially with direct reports.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No - due to all Evie posterd above!

But if she's cute I know a few people who could step in for you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, stay well clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd fuck her and worry about the consequences later. If any of your other employees give you grief you tell them to mind their own business or find another job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(fucking one's employees should be a perk of the job)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" You might also want to check up on company policy regarding inter office relationships. Especially with direct reports. "

Any company policy will be his own company policy. There is no law against having sex with someone in your employ.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


" You might also want to check up on company policy regarding inter office relationships. Especially with direct reports.

Any company policy will be his own company policy. There is no law against having sex with someone in your employ."

I know there isn't a law against it but some companies don't look favourably on it and so have policies around it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay well clear. There are no friends in business, and once you have shagged her she has a fierce hold over you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never mix business and pleasure is my advice mate

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

The only way I'd "do anything" with someone I work with was if and only after one of us had left: Not while we both worked there - the only way it ends well is if you both got married.

Please PLEASE do not get it mixed up with the "Shagged someone at work" fantasy stories people peddle - those are exactly that: fantasy! Even for those it happens to, it may seem fun at the time, but unless either party is a temp or intern that gets moved on, it ALWAYS ends messy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never, never ever do that. Just not worth the grief.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do it, if it all goes horribly wrong you still have to see them everyday at work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heres another take on it !

Three and a half years ago my marriage ended . A few months down the line I ended up in the same situation as the op , and went on a date with one of my employees .

The date went well , we slept together after a few more dates and started a relationship .

Eighteen months later we found about fab and took the relationship to another level .

Last august we got married and neither of us has ever been happier !!!

So from that , draw your own conclusions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After suffering sexual harassment by my former boss, the only answer I can give is absolutley no

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By *xpresMan
over a year ago

Elland

Sack her n fuck her later... evryones a winner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sack her n fuck her later... evryones a winner"

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By *appyTrancerMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Would I sleep with my boss? Hell no, he's a big geordie.

My wife's old boss - very much so! Not met her new one in a sober enough state to remember.

As for mixing work and fun - be very very careful. Sometimes it works, but more often than not it ends in strife of some sort. Good luck!

HT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I slept with one of my staff 25 years ago. I was the boss.

We went on to have two kids.

Then later she went on to have a relationship with a complete s**t, wrecked my business and bankrupted me.

So, in answer to your original question, as the boss is 'No, I would NEVER sleep with any of my staff' - and as my staff are now all over-weight, smelly 45+ blokes, that ain't gonna happen!!! Lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't help feeling that for these blokes who have slept with and then had relationships with an employee.. What were you thinking!!

Fuck 'em and leave 'em, but you don't bloody marry them! That's asking for trouble!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to disagree with all the hard and fast 'no' answers. That's too cautious. Weigh it up yourself. Why are you hesitant? Is it just because she works for you?

When I was in Oz, I had a few dirty sessions with one of my team. No consequences, no comeback, we just had a great time. If I'd discounted her just because I was her boss, I would have missed out on 3 months of superb shagging.

If you're both on the same page, get in. Do it. If you think it could go wrong, tread carefully.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Don't do it. Keep work and play separate. The fact that you're asking suggests you're unsure and have a gut instinct there could be problems. Go with that. Say thanks but no thanks....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there done it trust me its fun at the time but very very bad news........DON'T

Bob

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Never sleep with anyone at work..... always kick them out after the blow job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't help feeling that for these blokes who have slept with and then had relationships with an employee.. What were you thinking!!

Fuck 'em and leave 'em, but you don't bloody marry them! That's asking for trouble! "

There is no knowing how the future will pan out , but seriously we have never been happier and hope to be for many years to come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No aside from the fact that she is too young, married and a little large for my taste, I would never ever do anything with anyone at work, just think it leaves one wide open to abuse

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By *ay78 OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester

I have no policy on this in company rules.

She is cute and we both fancy each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol just fuck her brains out man!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol just fuck her brains out man!!! "

I think I agree. Not breaking any company rules, certainly not breaking any laws. Define your boundaries and shag away sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no policy on this in company rules.

She is cute and we both fancy each other.

"

There's your answer then, but get her to sign a non-disclosure agreement (better than a pre-nup as it's written in company law and not marital law)

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I have no policy on this in company rules.

She is cute and we both fancy each other.

"

Is it your company?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My boss has fake tan, blonde hair and fake boobies.... and for that reason, I am out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My boss has fake tan, blonde hair and fake boobies.... and for that reason, I am out!"

Are you sure she is not a he?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My boss has fake tan, blonde hair and fake boobies.... and for that reason, I am out!

Are you sure she is not a he? "

defo! She is very pretty, but fake tits and blonde hair do nothing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never, nor will I get involved with anyone from work.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

No! She may even have a hidden agenda - it's just not worth it, unprofessional to the nth degree - in my opinion. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it.

You might just enjoy each others company

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I have no policy on this in company rules.

She is cute and we both fancy each other.

"

If you want to do it and can handle any possible fall out then go ahead you're both adults. Think very carefully about any future situation you might find yourself in though for instance disciplinary procedures, appraisals, another employee having a grievance against her, if you need to make anyone redundant.

We met at work and are still together.32 years later but we weren't in an employee/employer situation which can add problems.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"No! She may even have a hidden agenda - it's just not worth it, unprofessional to the nth degree - in my opinion. Z"

I do also agree with this though it is extremely unprofessional and you are in a strange way more vulnerable and open to accusations of abuse of power.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no policy on this in company rules.

She is cute and we both fancy each other.

"

You've made up your mind, or more to the point, your dick has made up your mind, that you are going to have sex with this woman.

Nothing anyone says at this point will make the slightest bit of difference, all is futile.

Enjoy the experience and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if she goes all fatal attraction on you afterwards if you try and end it.... says she was under duress, felt sexually harassed....

Conversely what if she tries to end it, says she felt under duress to do as you say, felt sexually harassed....

Either way its tribunal time, whether there is a case or not, everyone will find out, your employees, your wife, your competition in the labour market.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no policy on this in company rules.

She is cute and we both fancy each other.

You've made up your mind, or more to the point, your dick has made up your mind, that you are going to have sex with this woman.

Nothing anyone says at this point will make the slightest bit of difference, all is futile.

Enjoy the experience and good luck "

Just make sure you keep all your texts, emails, the lot. If she accuses you of harassment later, which is actually against the law regardless of your company policy, be able to cover yourself and prove it wasnt.

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By *agna Cum LaudeMan
over a year ago

Laudable


"(fucking one's employees should be a perk of the job) "
Another pearl of wisdom!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"(fucking one's employees should be a perk of the job) Another pearl of wisdom!"

lol - you don't get tongue in cheek do you, or have you had a sense of humour by pass? Z

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

The fact you have to ask the question means that deep down you know its probably not a good thing. Taking advice from here will be the worst thing to do, you should just go with instinct, which I suspect has already answered it for you.

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By *adgeeMan
over a year ago

Sw Scotland


"I have recently found out one of my staff really fancies me.

She Now flirts with me a lot and we have a great banter going.

The chats are getting more sexual and yesterday she just came out and said she wants to sleep with me.

What should I Do.

I fancy her.

But it's the situation with the other staff I am bothered about. ...

"

She wants pumped! Are you a man or a mouse?

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees


"she went on to have a relationship with a complete s**t "

With a scot?!?! Oh that is just bang out of order!!!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

She wants pumped!

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By *adgeeMan
over a year ago

Sw Scotland


"She wants pumped! "

Just a wee Scottish colloquialism. I shall rephrase and say "fucked" if it helps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have fucked my employees before and it is risky. I think trust is the main key that has to be established before you even think about it. If there is any doubt in that trust walk away. If you have a good relationship no reason why you can't end it amicably.

We can't answer this as none of us know you or the other person involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no policy on this in company rules.

She is cute and we both fancy each other.

"

Either you find another job or she does but if you shag her and either of u stays it will end in tears trust me been there done that got the t shirt and the shagging. Think with your brain on this one not your dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just keep it as flirting. You should keep work and sex separate. Mixing the two is dangerous.

You're on Fab so you're obviously sexually open minded, people in the real world tend to be less so.

She may want more than a fuck then it will become awkward and messy.

Lady Jane x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myboss if the queen , in for a penny in for a pound , id hump her, might even get a pay rise for doing it

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"After suffering sexual harassment by my former boss, the only answer I can give is absolutley no "

Absolutely 100% agree - it is a big No from me

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By *ackandkateCouple
over a year ago

Truro

Our son starter a relationship with his manager. When it became evident that it was developing into a serious relationship our son requested a transfer citing the reasons above.

All turned out really well, his manager was promoted into a regional role and our son was promoted to assistant to the new manager. Their company doesn't like to employ partners in the same workplace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sleep with my boss .....

He's in his late fifties , a jock , and a serial womanizer , think he's on his fourth marriage lol.

No thanks that's one area I'd never go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why shouldnt you in all things it can go badly but all the same it could go great and you end up married with kids, life is too short to go around worrying what people think or is it right as long as legal and you both are consenting adults the why not.

But be safe and do as stated save emails and txts etc etc as for the workforce you could always offer them the same deal lol

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By *ay78 OP   Man
over a year ago

manchester

yes its my company and I dont have rules

about having affairs at work.

I am tempted to ask her to resign if she wants to get sexual with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have recently found out one of my staff really fancies me.

She Now flirts with me a lot and we have a great banter going.

The chats are getting more sexual and yesterday she just came out and said she wants to sleep with me.

What should I Do.

I fancy her.

But it's the situation with the other staff I am bothered about. ...

"

Most of the guys on this site are shagging behind their partner's back, so it is perhaps not the best place to discuss this. They will all say, yeah, go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh God no !!! No no no no no .

"He" is a rotund Yorkshireman , male half here .

God no .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always sleep with the boss, cause its me!

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By *ackandkateCouple
over a year ago

Truro


"I have recently found out one of my staff really fancies me.

She Now flirts with me a lot and we have a great banter going.

The chats are getting more sexual and yesterday she just came out and said she wants to sleep with me.

What should I Do.

I fancy her.

But it's the situation with the other staff I am bothered about. ...

Most of the guys on this site are shagging behind their partner's back, so it is perhaps not the best place to discuss this. They will all say, yeah, go for it."

are you shagging behind your partners back? I'm not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not cheating and i say yeah go for it,

its like saying it could be dangerous for our kids to walk to school in snow so lets shut schools down, accidents and stuff can happen, but we shouldnt be tip toeing around in life wondering or worrying what if.

go for it and time will tell if you made a mistake or not

good luck to you both we say

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By *exki11enWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"yes its my company and I dont have rules

about having affairs at work.

I am tempted to ask her to resign if she wants to get sexual with me."

Hahahaha, you think you're worth her quitting her job for? .

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By *ornieandhotCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Haha I do every night

D x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyhole is a goal , this life isnt a practice run , so , hell yes , get in there and bang it , cant do any harm

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"yes its my company and I dont have rules

about having affairs at work.

I am tempted to ask her to resign if she wants to get sexual with me."

Well I think that speaks volumes about your respect for her (or lack of)if she really thinks sex with you is worth her job in the current climate I hope you're worth it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have recently found out one of my staff really fancies me.

She Now flirts with me a lot and we have a great banter going.

The chats are getting more sexual and yesterday she just came out and said she wants to sleep with me.

What should I Do.

I fancy her.

But it's the situation with the other staff I am bothered about. ...

"

if your her boss id stay away, could turn out great but it could go the other way, once you have shagged her she could expect special favours and if you dont give them her who knows where it may lead, you'll never be able to fire her if she does anything wrong as she could take you for unfair dismissal because of your past sexual relationship

like i said could be a great thing but think of how else it could turn out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't sleep with her as she might snore, just shag her and go home to the wife.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"yes its my company and I dont have rules

about having affairs at work.

I am tempted to ask her to resign if she wants to get sexual with me."

hahahhahahhahahahahahahahahahhahahahhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhahahahahahahahahahahahaha brilliant! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I constantly sleep with my boss and he is so fucking good. But then I do work for myself

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"yes its my company and I dont have rules

about having affairs at work.

I am tempted to ask her to resign if she wants to get sexual with me.

Well I think that speaks volumes about your respect for her (or lack of)if she really thinks sex with you is worth her job in the current climate I hope you're worth it!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes its my company and I dont have rules

about having affairs at work.

I am tempted to ask her to resign if she wants to get sexual with me.

Well I think that speaks volumes about your respect for her (or lack of)if she really thinks sex with you is worth her job in the current climate I hope you're worth it!"

Even talking about 'her' here puts you at risk in employment law and you could be seen to have abused your position as employer if she says she was under duress, it was all you, and this is a late attempt to make yourself look clean. As an employer you are in a losition of power over your employees, who are thus vulnerable and protected.

She could resign herself and sue you for sexual harassment.

Like I said before. Co workers, family, wife (or gf) and competition will all know.

It just aint worth risking it for a quick pokeroo of your sizzle stick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes its my company and I dont have rules

about having affairs at work.

I am tempted to ask her to resign if she wants to get sexual with me.

Well I think that speaks volumes about your respect for her (or lack of)if she really thinks sex with you is worth her job in the current climate I hope you're worth it!

Even talking about 'her' here puts you at risk in employment law and you could be seen to have abused your position as employer if she says she was under duress, it was all you, and this is a late attempt to make yourself look clean. As an employer you are in a losition of power over your employees, who are thus vulnerable and protected.

She could resign herself and sue you for sexual harassment.

Like I said before. Co workers, family, wife (or gf) and competition will all know.

It just aint worth risking it for a quick pokeroo of your sizzle stick. "

I went through a tribunal recently and got pretty genned up on it. Its a bloody minefield and the employee can run rings round you over this sort of stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago (well nearly 8 years ago!) I had a relationship with my boss. He was my boss first, then my fuck buddy, then my boyfriend. We worked incredibly well as a team but had a phenomenally tempestuous relationship out of work. It only came into work once and we both vowed never again for that to happen. The relationship broke down and I left where I was working, the two were not mutually exclusive events and I had planned to leave the job earlier.

I wouldn't do it again but it wasn't something I regret.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I have a crush on someone at work however that is all that it will remain.... I have done the relationship at work and it did not work out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a crush on someone at work however that is all that it will remain.... I have done the relationship at work and it did not work out... "

Go for it J !!

Your work have fucked you good and proper recently - go get your own back!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"yes its my company and I dont have rules

about having affairs at work.

I am tempted to ask her to resign if she wants to get sexual with me."

You'd better have a better reason than that for asking her to resign. You are setting yourself up for a constructive dismissal case as well as sexual harassment. Your ego may also take a knock if she points out that a salary might be a tad more important than the chance of an orgasm.

Now, as a young, impressionable, horny woman I had sex with more than one of my bosses. I only regret one of those as with hindsight I saw that I was coerced (however mildly). It could have ended badly for all of us except that it was the 80s and it happened a lot back then. The world has changed and people are more litigious than those by-gone days.

If you trust her and you both genuinely want this to happen then all is fair. Just keep what happens sexually outside of the work realm. That means both of you being professional and adult at all times, before, during and after the relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't write off a person who may be good for you. I would take a trad approach though. Get to know her first, make sure she is not a head case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooo!

But I'm due a new boss soon, so we shall see!

Sereiously though:

No, too many problems lay that way

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Are you single? Is she single? If both answers are yes ....go for it everyone else can mind their own business

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Are you single? Is she single? If both answers are yes ....go for it everyone else can mind their own business "

if he wanted us to mind our own business he wouldn't have asked and I'm guessing he hasn't got the answers he wanted either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have recently found out one of my staff really fancies me.

She Now flirts with me a lot and we have a great banter going.

The chats are getting more sexual and yesterday she just came out and said she wants to sleep with me.

What should I Do.

I fancy her.

But it's the situation with the other staff I am bothered about. ...

"

There are a couple of sayings I personally lived by:

1) Don't dip your pin in company ink;

2) Don't get your meat where your bread is buttered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instead of treating her like meat and just fucking her, why not ask her out for dinner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only way I'd "do anything" with someone I work with was if and only after one of us had left: Not while we both worked there - the only way it ends well is if you both got married.

Please PLEASE do not get it mixed up with the "Shagged someone at work" fantasy stories people peddle - those are exactly that: fantasy! Even for those it happens to, it may seem fun at the time, but unless either party is a temp or intern that gets moved on, it ALWAYS ends messy!"

This is not totally true, I have a fb at work, been playing together 8 years, we know how to keep work and fun separate. We both know its nothing but fun and no relationship will ever come out of it. Other employees know, and aren't bothered about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope... Cos he's an ugly b'stard....

Now.... If my job depended on it.... I'd entertain his PA....

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"I have recently found out one of my staff really fancies me.

She Now flirts with me a lot and we have a great banter going.

The chats are getting more sexual and yesterday she just came out and said she wants to sleep with me.

What should I Do.

I fancy her.

But it's the situation with the other staff I am bothered about. ...

"

As most have said prob not good idea.

However it doesnt have to be bad.. i (mrs) was manager and a chap came for interview.. got the the job and ..mmm .. very nice.. i even arranged a leaving do for another member of staff to ensure we all went out together.. thankfully by the end of that evening its was clear he felt the same.. we now been together nearly 20 years.. its not always a bad outcome.. but attitudes have changed a bit so prob best to avoid.

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