FabSwingers.com forum: Just a lil pain...

By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

Anyone here like a lil pain in the bedroom? Into it at all? And if so, what's the act you like involving a little bit of pain?

Go fabbers

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

If their tit suction is at hoover levels. I like that.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I love a lot of a lil bit of pain.

The how's and what's are a discussion for lovers though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Staring into their eyes whilst I perform a Chinese burn on both wrists simultaneously

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By *lasgoguy69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Must admit. I do love my nipples being pinched/pulled teally hard

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'm actually being sensible and not going into this on the forums. I wouldn't say it's pain I enjoy. Just heightened sensations. Which pairs well with the type of sex I sometimes enjoy.

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

"Staring into their eyes whilst I perform a Chinese burn on both wrists simultaneously "

Your a harsh individual…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Staring into their eyes whilst I perform a Chinese burn on both wrists simultaneously

Your a harsh individual….."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Staring into their eyes whilst I perform a Chinese burn on both wrists simultaneously "

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

I like a lil bit..

Nails down the back/body(leaving marks but not draw blood)

Bit of spanking

Slight biting/nibbling

Grabbing leaving tiny spot bruising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Staring into their eyes whilst I perform a Chinese burn on both wrists simultaneously

In"

Let the pain train commence

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon

"I'm actually being sensible and not going into this on the forums. I wouldn't say it's pain I enjoy. Just heightened sensations. Which pairs well with the type of sex I sometimes enjoy.

Talk about dangling a carrott…….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love hot wax on cock

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Staring into their eyes whilst I perform a Chinese burn on both wrists simultaneously "

Now I see why she likes you

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I'm actually being sensible and not going into this on the forums. I wouldn't say it's pain I enjoy. Just heightened sensations. Which pairs well with the type of sex I sometimes enjoy.

What happened to you Meli? You used to be cool

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I'm actually being sensible and not going into this on the forums. I wouldn't say it's pain I enjoy. Just heightened sensations. Which pairs well with the type of sex I sometimes enjoy.

Talk about dangling a carrott……."

Ha! Not deliberately. Look, I talk quite openly about sex and things I adore on here. I'm just being... mindful for once and not going to write several paragraphs on why I like particular things and how sexy I find them. It's not so much about the pain for me it's more... different people bring out different responses in me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really but if they bite my shoulders I can't be held responsible for my actions

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Not really but if they bite my shoulders I can't be held responsible for my actions "

As in...good reactions or...

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I'm actually being sensible and not going into this on the forums. I wouldn't say it's pain I enjoy. Just heightened sensations. Which pairs well with the type of sex I sometimes enjoy.

What happened to you Meli? You used to be cool

I know Brucey, I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really but if they bite my shoulders I can't be held responsible for my actions

As in...good reactions or..."

Fun reactions

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Not really but if they bite my shoulders I can't be held responsible for my actions

As in...good reactions or...

Fun reactions

You know at a meet with consent and laughs (you'll be laughing let's face it) I'll be like, let me nibble your neck. And you'd let me right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m into it a little with certain people. They’ve got to know what they’re doing when using things like floggers etc.

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

Love a good spanking

But that’s about it

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford

We enjoy a lil bit... Okay fine quite a bit of pain.

Mr H

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I'm not a fan of pain myself, nails down my back is fine just don't try to draw blood

K likes a little bit, but she has the dilemma of loving bruises but doesn't love pain.

LvM

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By *oastal1968Man
over a year ago

London

The initial pain of anal

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Love a good spanking

But that’s about it "

Mine and Lilith's speciality

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

We both like it at different points.

"I'm actually being sensible and not going into this on the forums. I wouldn't say it's pain I enjoy. Just heightened sensations. Which pairs well with the type of sex I sometimes enjoy.

Ahh sensory play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little,I prefer to dish out the pain

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'm a happy little masochist looking forward to trying something new later on today

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

"Love a good spanking

But that’s about it

Mine and Lilith's speciality

Does she know about this…

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"We both like it at different points.

I'm actually being sensible and not going into this on the forums. I wouldn't say it's pain I enjoy. Just heightened sensations. Which pairs well with the type of sex I sometimes enjoy.

Ahh sensory play.

Love sensory play. No, I mean I don't always see pain as pain if that makes sense? Just a different sensation, a more intense one. It helps that I have a high pain threshold.

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

I love toying with a person who enjoys this. Getting their Sensory system into overload.

Me personally no though. Too much of a control freak!

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Love a good spanking

But that’s about it

Mine and Lilith's speciality

Does she know about this…"

Yes please see your other hit thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really but if they bite my shoulders I can't be held responsible for my actions

As in...good reactions or...

Fun reactions

You know at a meet with consent and laughs (you'll be laughing let's face it) I'll be like, let me nibble your neck. And you'd let me right?"

Aww Brucey I'm sure you could nibble whatever you like

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Not really but if they bite my shoulders I can't be held responsible for my actions

As in...good reactions or...

Fun reactions

You know at a meet with consent and laughs (you'll be laughing let's face it) I'll be like, let me nibble your neck. And you'd let me right?

Aww Brucey I'm sure you could nibble whatever you like "

Aww. I know. Bring on your reaction

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

"Love a good spanking

But that’s about it

Mine and Lilith's speciality

Does she know about this…

Yes please see your other hit thread!"

I’ve started another one just for you

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By *lways horny wirralMan
over a year ago

Birkenhead

Omg id love to hoover you x

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Anyone here like a lil pain in the bedroom? Into it at all? And if so, what's the act you like involving a little bit of pain?

Go fabbers"

A little bit of pain never hurt anyone...

Cal

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I enjoy pain in a variety of ways.

I enjoy the battle with my brain, I know I have a really high pain threshold (I didn't go into hospital even though I was severely ill and nearly died thinking I was ok, so it can be a right pain). But I enjoy the battle between my brain saying this is hurting and the actual reality where it doesn't as such. And as someone whose brain runs at a hundred miles per hour it's really really good grounding for me.

I enjoy the afterglow of pain that lasts into the following day. I enjoy the hypersensitivity of the skin following pain, the slightest touch is heightened so much.

And sometimes I just enjoy the primal aspect of it all.

So yeah I guess you could say I enjoy a bit of pain

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Just a little bit , a really hard massage or being bitten on chest , back & shoulders but I’m too much of a wimp for most the women on here

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I enjoy pain in a variety of ways.

I enjoy the afterglow of pain that lasts into the following day. I enjoy the hypersensitivity of the skin following pain, the slightest touch is heightened so much.

And sometimes I just enjoy the primal aspect of it all.

So yeah I guess you could say I enjoy a bit of pain "

That's it Frida! Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With someone who genuinely enjoys the pain, without the roleplay bullshit. Fucking love it.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"With someone who genuinely enjoys the pain, without the roleplay bullshit. Fucking love it.

Roleplay is far too much like hard work

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Love a good spanking

But that’s about it

Mine and Lilith's speciality

Does she know about this…

Yes please see your other hit thread!

I’ve started another one just for you "

Where?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With someone who genuinely enjoys the pain, without the roleplay bullshit. Fucking love it.

Roleplay is far too much like hard work "

Totally. I don't get the point of the ...pretend crimes you need punished for... just enjoy it for what it is...

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"With someone who genuinely enjoys the pain, without the roleplay bullshit. Fucking love it.

Roleplay is far too much like hard work

Totally. I don't get the point of the ...pretend crimes you need punished for... just enjoy it for what it is..."

Exactly. Especially as no one would ever believe I'd done anything

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"With someone who genuinely enjoys the pain, without the roleplay bullshit. Fucking love it.

Roleplay is far too much like hard work

Totally. I don't get the point of the ...pretend crimes you need punished for... just enjoy it for what it is..."

Not roleplay as such but I can wind the other up knowing where it will end because I have an itch to scratch. We find it fun

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun

I'm a giver not a receiver when it comes to pain in the bedroom, that said I quite like the odd spank lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With someone who genuinely enjoys the pain, without the roleplay bullshit. Fucking love it.

Roleplay is far too much like hard work

Totally. I don't get the point of the ...pretend crimes you need punished for... just enjoy it for what it is...

Not roleplay as such but I can wind the other up knowing where it will end because I have an itch to scratch. We find it fun

Oh I don't see that as roleplay...that's just feeding if each others energy. I'm totally with that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With someone who genuinely enjoys the pain, without the roleplay bullshit. Fucking love it.

Roleplay is far too much like hard work

Totally. I don't get the point of the ...pretend crimes you need punished for... just enjoy it for what it is...

Exactly. Especially as no one would ever believe I'd done anything

Hahahahahaha

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"With someone who genuinely enjoys the pain, without the roleplay bullshit. Fucking love it.

Roleplay is far too much like hard work

Totally. I don't get the point of the ...pretend crimes you need punished for... just enjoy it for what it is..."

Oh I don't know. Maybe people aren't confident enough to say yeah, I'd love for you to flog my breasts and spit in my face, calling me your slut as you do it. If it helps them feel comfortable enough to explore it, that's great. I'm not one for roleplay (bar one particular thing) but I get why people use it in relation to pain.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"With someone who genuinely enjoys the pain, without the roleplay bullshit. Fucking love it.

Roleplay is far too much like hard work

Totally. I don't get the point of the ...pretend crimes you need punished for... just enjoy it for what it is...

Not roleplay as such but I can wind the other up knowing where it will end because I have an itch to scratch. We find it fun

Oh I don't see that as roleplay...that's just feeding if each others energy. I'm totally with that..."

I think is a kind of roleplay. I wind him up acting all brattish. He then gives me a warning and if I don't quit it there will be consequences. I then decide to push the limits and then a scenario is laid out in front of us. Where I'm definitely a brat and he's the brat tamer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With someone who genuinely enjoys the pain, without the roleplay bullshit. Fucking love it.

Roleplay is far too much like hard work

Totally. I don't get the point of the ...pretend crimes you need punished for... just enjoy it for what it is...

I can see your point. If they need that then fair enough. But definitely not for me ...

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"With someone who genuinely enjoys the pain, without the roleplay bullshit. Fucking love it.

Roleplay is far too much like hard work

Totally. I don't get the point of the ...pretend crimes you need punished for... just enjoy it for what it is...

See you say things like this and then I really want to have sex with you

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"With someone who genuinely enjoys the pain, without the roleplay bullshit. Fucking love it.

Roleplay is far too much like hard work

Totally. I don't get the point of the ...pretend crimes you need punished for... just enjoy it for what it is...

See you say things like this and then I really want to have sex with you "

Oh Brucey. This is me being mindfully rather tame. :D

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"With someone who genuinely enjoys the pain, without the roleplay bullshit. Fucking love it.

Roleplay is far too much like hard work

Totally. I don't get the point of the ...pretend crimes you need punished for... just enjoy it for what it is...

See you say things like this and then I really want to have sex with you

Oh Brucey. This is me being mindfully rather tame. :D"

I know! Imagine the scenes when I'm with you! Crazy!

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By *lutsadieTV/TS
over a year ago

Hinckley

I kind of like nipple clamps if I'm bound up and gagged. I do like a cane accross my bottom or a paddle etc.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

I'm quite partial to having my chest bitten GENTLY

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

"We both like it at different points.

I'm actually being sensible and not going into this on the forums. I wouldn't say it's pain I enjoy. Just heightened sensations. Which pairs well with the type of sex I sometimes enjoy.

Ahh sensory play.

C"
beat us too it sensory play can be so much fun get the vampire gloves out for a good tease and test. pin wheels nails sharps nipple clamps heighten the senses before hot wax coverage mmmmmmm

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I like to have sex with dentists while they pull a tooth out .....

Don't you kink shame me!

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

"I like to have sex with dentists while they pull a tooth out .....

Don't you kink shame me!"

Lay back whilst I give you a filling and an extraction!

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Taking my bag off my head just as they are abiut to cum, seems to burn their retinas nicely

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