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I literally had the receipts and this guy tried to tell me I was mad(not in those words).
I'm aware plenty of catfishing goes on but have you ever experienced a catfish trying to gaslight you on here?
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"Was this from our exchanges this morning "*Family guy evil monkey meme* | |||
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"Was this from our exchanges this morning
*Family guy evil monkey meme*
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"This is the problem with lying. You end up having to double down on it. Even when caught out. And then you just make yourself look foolish. The guy’s clearly a waste of your time. Block, rant a bit, and forget about him. (Unless you feel like raging for a while. In which case bring it on. Let it all out. White-hot anger can be fun.)" I have done and feel better already 
It's not the catfishing or the lying,it's trying to mess with my head. Not today Satan I'm too smart and self assured for you  | |||
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"Was this from our exchanges this morning
*Family guy evil monkey meme*
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"Not catfishing gaslighting But have had guys stand me up before to try years later still with the same pics and when I say no because you stood me up before they try and tell me I am make things up must have been someone else " They really think we're stupid don't they  | |||
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"Not catfishing gaslighting But have had guys stand me up before to try years later still with the same pics and when I say no because you stood me up before they try and tell me I am make things up must have been someone else They really think we're stupid don't they "Yip they really do definitely is a eye roll moment when they try it | |||
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"Sorry to hear you had that experience, nothing constructive to add sadly... It's just 1 of a million ways people get attention/ waste others time. They aren't worth more of your energy, but I wish there was a way to report them to fab aot fab admin could investigate." I reported both the profiles (old one is still there as well) ,but he'll only make another one. It's a losing battle. I couldn't give two fiddler's about him,it's the behaviour that's wound me up | |||
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"Block and move on. He's really not worthy of your head space. "  | |||
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"Em, stick to us ladies
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"Em, stick to us ladies
F"Good plan. 
Can I watch pretty please..... 
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"Not going to lie Em, I think this is the most turned on I've ever been on fab, I could listen (read) to you rant all day "You're easily turned on | |||
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"And this is when you need women to stick together and look out for each other instead of the bitchy hostile crap that gets thrown around the forums at each other Shame really. Hope fab delete both profiles sharpish." Didn't she say it was on another platform? | |||
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"It's like Mos Eisley spaceport. You'll never find a more wretched hive of scum and villainy. Swerve that loser. Hop on board, you belong in the stars. "I love this | |||
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"And now to rage with you, I'm open to the following things; - drinking into a stupor and hurling abuse into the night sky - booking a smash room (highly recommend if you haven't done one before) That's all I've got at the minute. I'll let you know if I think of anything else. Keep your head up, waddle on Pingu "I did one of those creepy menacing laughs when I copped what was going on ,does that count? I'm gonna watch happy feet this weekend | |||
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"He's an arsehole. But you not only clocked him, you called him out on it. Which is pretty cool. "Thank you | |||
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"*For the record it WAS NOT me* "It was him^^^ Nah I'm joking it wasn't him  | |||
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"Firstly what the frig is catfishing? Secondly your pics make you look pretty damn decent so being out of his league is laughable and here’s a thirdly.. what in the world is CATFISHING " Google will explain better but it's a person with a fake profile,using someone else's pictures' | |||
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"*For the record it WAS NOT me*
It was him^^^
Nah I'm joking it wasn't him " you BITCH Em | |||
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"Chatted to plenty of catfish give credit they are very good talkers .passes an hour two but always too good to belive they in the end fuck off as they run out of steam . dont understand the gasslighting thing . Thought it was only men had that problem here ." They need to have a little chat with themselves, be yourself or don't bother  | |||
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"Firstly what the frig is catfishing? Secondly your pics make you look pretty damn decent so being out of his league is laughable and here’s a thirdly.. what in the world is CATFISHING " I will quickly second that I'm fairly sure there is no-one "out of your league", Em. But sorry about the gaslighting mo'fo. Rant away! | |||
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"And this is when you need women to stick together and look out for each other instead of the bitchy hostile crap that gets thrown around the forums at each other Shame really. Hope fab delete both profiles sharpish. Didn't she say it was on another platform?" I'll go re read the post. I thought she meat he had two profiles on fab but they had moved to chat on That. | |||
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"And this is when you need women to stick together and look out for each other instead of the bitchy hostile crap that gets thrown around the forums at each other Shame really. Hope fab delete both profiles sharpish." Exactly. It didn't hurt me in any way ,just annoyed me but it could really upset someone else. It's probably against the rules but if any of the women here want to know the name's so they can avoid DM me | |||
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"And this is when you need women to stick together and look out for each other instead of the bitchy hostile crap that gets thrown around the forums at each other Shame really. Hope fab delete both profiles sharpish. Didn't she say it was on another platform? I'll go re read the post. I thought she meat he had two profiles on fab but they had moved to chat on That." Yes he has two profiles on here, the chat started here(on both profiles )and moved to another app after. | |||
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"Sorry that's happened to you missus. Agree with Nat, I've guys bail on me chat goes great. Then a few months later new profile and we've never chatted, I'm confusing them with someone else. I know a profile of a guy I'veet twice from here. Nice looking guy, body and the rest etc. Has used pics of the Internet, why don't know. I called him out on it and he told me he'd lost weight since we last met. So I done the Google search and screen shotteded the real pic back to him. Told him this is why guys get a bad rep on her. He's still got both of them on his profile "These people must be very lonely  | |||
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"Em, stick to us ladies
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"Firstly what the frig is catfishing? Secondly your pics make you look pretty damn decent so being out of his league is laughable and here’s a thirdly.. what in the world is CATFISHING I will quickly second that I'm fairly sure there is no-one "out of your league", Em. But sorry about the gaslighting mo'fo. Rant away!" Beauty is in the eye of the beholder but thank you for saying that | |||
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Stick to the Gin-sipping urbane London gents. "Quite right, Nero. | |||
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"Not going to lie Em, I think this is the most turned on I've ever been on fab, I could listen (read) to you rant all day
You're easily turned on "Only with you..... Ohhhh see what I did there, SMOOOOOTH!
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"And this is when you need women to stick together and look out for each other instead of the bitchy hostile crap that gets thrown around the forums at each other Shame really. Hope fab delete both profiles sharpish. Exactly. It didn't hurt me in any way ,just annoyed me but it could really upset someone else. It's probably against the rules but if any of the women here want to know the name's so they can avoid DM me "Don't start a witch hunt | |||
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"And this is when you need women to stick together and look out for each other instead of the bitchy hostile crap that gets thrown around the forums at each other Shame really. Hope fab delete both profiles sharpish. Exactly. It didn't hurt me in any way ,just annoyed me but it could really upset someone else. It's probably against the rules but if any of the women here want to know the name's so they can avoid DM me
Don't start a witch hunt "Nobody is starting a witch hunt here | |||
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"And this is when you need women to stick together and look out for each other instead of the bitchy hostile crap that gets thrown around the forums at each other Shame really. Hope fab delete both profiles sharpish. Exactly. It didn't hurt me in any way ,just annoyed me but it could really upset someone else. It's probably against the rules but if any of the women here want to know the name's so they can avoid DM me "Unless he's bearded and has tattoos I'd probably ignore him anyway. | |||
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"And this is when you need women to stick together and look out for each other instead of the bitchy hostile crap that gets thrown around the forums at each other Shame really. Hope fab delete both profiles sharpish. Exactly. It didn't hurt me in any way ,just annoyed me but it could really upset someone else. It's probably against the rules but if any of the women here want to know the name's so they can avoid DM me
Unless he's bearded and has tattoos I'd probably ignore him anyway. "He is | |||
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"I'm a little bit wound up from a recent exchange here. If you don't want to read a rambling ,pissed off rant,look away now . Had a guy messaging a couple months ago. We moved the chat to another app,you know the one with a T? Anyway, the chat tapered off,which is fine. Then today I get a message from this new profile. It was photo verified and cam verified so I replied and chatted a little bit. This guy looked way out of my league but I couldn't help myself. I hotlisted him so I could see updates and up comes this status with his name on this texting app. Low and behold it's the same name as the guy from before. I called him out on it for catfishing and he tried his absolute best to convince me I imagined it
I literally had the receipts and this guy tried to tell me I was mad(not in those words).
I'm aware plenty of catfishing goes on but have you ever experienced a catfish trying to gaslight you on here?
Angry Em x"Far too many times as a single on here. They even sent the same opening message at times. Yet I was the one in the wrong to call them out. One thing I'm grateful for now is the inbox is a lot lot quieter now and rarely get it on this profile Tinder x | |||
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"And this is when you need women to stick together and look out for each other instead of the bitchy hostile crap that gets thrown around the forums at each other Shame really. Hope fab delete both profiles sharpish. Exactly. It didn't hurt me in any way ,just annoyed me but it could really upset someone else. It's probably against the rules but if any of the women here want to know the name's so they can avoid DM me
Unless he's bearded and has tattoos I'd probably ignore him anyway.
He is "Feel like I now need to caveat that it isn't me | |||
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"And this is when you need women to stick together and look out for each other instead of the bitchy hostile crap that gets thrown around the forums at each other Shame really. Hope fab delete both profiles sharpish. Exactly. It didn't hurt me in any way ,just annoyed me but it could really upset someone else. It's probably against the rules but if any of the women here want to know the name's so they can avoid DM me
Unless he's bearded and has tattoos I'd probably ignore him anyway.
He is "Oh FFS | |||
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"I did one of those creepy menacing laughs when I copped what was going on ,does that count? I'm gonna watch happy feet this weekend "That most certainly counts, channel your inner Bond villain 
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"You get some chancers on here! We have one who deletes their profile every other day, then messages us like we don’t know who he is "Same. A guy who was more local to us that he is now, turns up on the regular with a different profile but the same pics | |||
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"You get some chancers on here! We have one who deletes their profile every other day, then messages us like we don’t know who he is
Same. A guy who was more local to us that he is now, turns up on the regular with a different profile but the same pics "Yep! This person does exactly the same thing. It’s very strange  | |||
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"You get some chancers on here! We have one who deletes their profile every other day, then messages us like we don’t know who he is "Do you remember the dark haired, beared, tattooed guy? I still dream about him. | |||
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We posted that we were going to a club one night and they just happened to be there too. We just ignore it for the most part but it is really annoying. One of the few downsides to this place.
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"You get some chancers on here! We have one who deletes their profile every other day, then messages us like we don’t know who he is
Do you remember the dark haired, beared, tattooed guy? I still dream about him. "Yes!! That was so disappointing  | |||
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"And this is when you need women to stick together and look out for each other instead of the bitchy hostile crap that gets thrown around the forums at each other Shame really. Hope fab delete both profiles sharpish. Exactly. It didn't hurt me in any way ,just annoyed me but it could really upset someone else. It's probably against the rules but if any of the women here want to know the name's so they can avoid DM me
Unless he's bearded and has tattoos I'd probably ignore him anyway.
He is "Damn these beards and tattoos. *Resigned face* | |||
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"I'm a little bit wound up from a recent exchange here. If you don't want to read a rambling ,pissed off rant,look away now . Had a guy messaging a couple months ago. We moved the chat to another app,you know the one with a T? Anyway, the chat tapered off,which is fine. Then today I get a message from this new profile. It was photo verified and cam verified so I replied and chatted a little bit. This guy looked way out of my league but I couldn't help myself. I hotlisted him so I could see updates and up comes this status with his name on this texting app. Low and behold it's the same name as the guy from before. I called him out on it for catfishing and he tried his absolute best to convince me I imagined it
I literally had the receipts and this guy tried to tell me I was mad(not in those words).
I'm aware plenty of catfishing goes on but have you ever experienced a catfish trying to gaslight you on here?
Angry Em x
Far too many times as a single on here. They even sent the same opening message at times. Yet I was the one in the wrong to call them out. One thing I'm grateful for now is the inbox is a lot lot quieter now and rarely get it on this profile
Tinder x"I can't imagine how often it happens to single people on here | |||
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"You get some chancers on here! We have one who deletes their profile every other day, then messages us like we don’t know who he is "Ffs | |||
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"Woooow that’s pretty bad! We’ve unfortunately had someone we politely said no to, start new profiles over and over. We keep blocking and they keep springing up acting like we’ve never talked before
We posted that we were going to a club one night and they just happened to be there too. We just ignore it for the most part but it is really annoying. One of the few downsides to this place.
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"We were talking about catfishing last night "On the forum? I'm gonna go search it | |||
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"OP you found yourself a narcissist. Walk, no run, in the opposite direction. " Reported and blocked, I haven't got time for that shit | |||
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"He sounds like a stalker to me , definitely run " He's not even in this country....or is he | |||
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"Has a few persistently lately, then after blocking seem to be getting a lot of very new profiles messaging... it has got us on guard a bit tbh. Out your league?... hmmm... "You can't relax ,it makes you overly suspicious | |||
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"And this is when you need women to stick together and look out for each other instead of the bitchy hostile crap that gets thrown around the forums at each other Shame really. Hope fab delete both profiles sharpish. Exactly. It didn't hurt me in any way ,just annoyed me but it could really upset someone else. It's probably against the rules but if any of the women here want to know the name's so they can avoid DM me
Unless he's bearded and has tattoos I'd probably ignore him anyway.
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Damn these beards and tattoos.
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"*For the record it WAS NOT me* "Honestly… right at the start of this thread I thought it was | |||
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"Is gaslighting a new fad word? I hear it all the time these days Up until about 6 months ago I never knew it was a thing lol " Well the film Gaslight came out in 1944... | |||
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"*For the record it WAS NOT me*
Honestly… right at the start of this thread I thought it was "Cheers Em you mindless thug | |||
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"You get some chancers on here! We have one who deletes their profile every other day, then messages us like we don’t know who he is "Isn't that Lilith? | |||
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"Is gaslighting a new fad word? I hear it all the time these days Up until about 6 months ago I never knew it was a thing lol Well the film Gaslight came out in 1944..." Google’s gaslighting to find out what all the fuss is about lol | |||
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"You get some chancers on here! We have one who deletes their profile every other day, then messages us like we don’t know who he is
Isn't that Lilith? "Damn I was trying not to be so obvious. | |||
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"I'm a little bit wound up from a recent exchange here. If you don't want to read a rambling ,pissed off rant,look away now . Had a guy messaging a couple months ago. We moved the chat to another app,you know the one with a T? Anyway, the chat tapered off,which is fine. Then today I get a message from this new profile. It was photo verified and cam verified so I replied and chatted a little bit. This guy looked way out of my league but I couldn't help myself. I hotlisted him so I could see updates and up comes this status with his name on this texting app. Low and behold it's the same name as the guy from before. I called him out on it for catfishing and he tried his absolute best to convince me I imagined it
I literally had the receipts and this guy tried to tell me I was mad(not in those words).
I'm aware plenty of catfishing goes on but have you ever experienced a catfish trying to gaslight you on here?
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"Oh Em that's really rather bleurgh. Maybe up your filters for a bit, he'll soon tire of trying to get your attention. Sorry you've had such a crappy experience; x" Thank you Meli | |||
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"Is gaslighting a new fad word? I hear it all the time these days Up until about 6 months ago I never knew it was a thing lol " It’s been around for a long time but the word itself gets thrown around left right and centre when the reality is majority of the time it’s not gaslighting it’s just people being twats.. | |||
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"Been gasligthed on here and in real life by an ex who kept coming into my house, moving things slightly, letting one of the dogs out of her crate, messing with the light switches - I could go on. I honestly thought I was going mad until I had to come home early and caught him at it. I still, to this day, have no idea how he got a key." Now that is some freaky shit. Do you sleep at night? I doubt I'd ever sleep right after an experience like that. That's a real sleeping with the enemy type thing. | |||
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"Can understand you getting peeved by shady actions I don't get catfishing surely they will eventually be exposed as the trouble with a lie is it just gets bigger to stay hidden. But gaslighting is bad news if you don't realise you're being gaslighted you get drawn in and then destroyed and devastated when the controlling person drops a bombshell I know it's just been done to me (William) It's not a harmless game people get hurt and it's controlling and coercive behaviour." I've been there and learned to spot the signs thankfully. Sorry you had to too | |||
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Honestly… right at the start of this thread I thought it was
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"Been gasligthed on here and in real life by an ex who kept coming into my house, moving things slightly, letting one of the dogs out of her crate, messing with the light switches - I could go on. I honestly thought I was going mad until I had to come home early and caught him at it. I still, to this day, have no idea how he got a key." That is terrifying
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"Is gaslighting a new fad word? I hear it all the time these days Up until about 6 months ago I never knew it was a thing lol It’s been around for a long time but the word itself gets thrown around left right and centre when the reality is majority of the time it’s not gaslighting it’s just people being twats.." Or it's twats who gaslight people is it supposed to be allowed get to the point of damaging someone mentally before it's acknowledged as being what it is? | |||
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"We were talking about catfishing last night
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"Op! Op! Op! Want all of us forumites to pay him a visit, mafia style? " No thank you,it's not that deep. Although ye could all pay me a visit dressed as the mafia | |||
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"We were talking about catfishing last night
On the forum? I'm gonna go search it
Yeah! Can’t remember who’s thread it was but it was "Well he was/is a poster on the forum and was lurking today when he messaged | |||
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"Op! Op! Op! Want all of us forumites to pay him a visit, mafia style? No thank you,it's not that deep. Although ye could all pay me a visit dressed as the mafia "No. NO | |||
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"Op! Op! Op! Want all of us forumites to pay him a visit, mafia style? No thank you,it's not that deep. Although ye could all pay me a visit dressed as the mafia "New kinked unlocked! | |||
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"We were talking about catfishing last night
On the forum? I'm gonna go search it
Yeah! Can’t remember who’s thread it was but it was
Well he was/is a poster on the forum and was lurking today when he messaged "Oooo now we are talking.. get thw pitchfork out | |||
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"Op! Op! Op! Want all of us forumites to pay him a visit, mafia style? No thank you,it's not that deep. Although ye could all pay me a visit dressed as the mafia
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New kinked unlocked! "I'm here for it. Can anyone do a Boston accent? | |||
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"Op! Op! Op! Want all of us forumites to pay him a visit, mafia style? No thank you,it's not that deep. Although ye could all pay me a visit dressed as the mafia
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"We were talking about catfishing last night
On the forum? I'm gonna go search it
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Well he was/is a poster on the forum and was lurking today when he messaged
Oooo now we are talking.. get thw pitchfork out "No pitchforks necessary, I gave him a verbal kick in the arse | |||
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"Sorry can you unblock me now? " No | |||
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"We were talking about catfishing last night
On the forum? I'm gonna go search it
Yeah! Can’t remember who’s thread it was but it was
Well he was/is a poster on the forum and was lurking today when he messaged
Oooo now we are talking.. get thw pitchfork out
No pitchforks necessary, I gave him a verbal kick in the arse "I better putting back then and get torch put out | |||
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"We were talking about catfishing last night
On the forum? I'm gonna go search it
Yeah! Can’t remember who’s thread it was but it was
Well he was/is a poster on the forum and was lurking today when he messaged
Oooo now we are talking.. get thw pitchfork out
No pitchforks necessary, I gave him a verbal kick in the arse
I better putting back then and get torch put out "I'm small but mighty actually I'm not small but it works | |||
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"First thing I do now is use reverse search. For those on mobile devices just tap and hold on the image. A menu with several options will pop up. Scroll down till you find search image (says something like that) and select. If that finds nothing you can tap on a small icon to the right of the image and that'll perform a website search. I generally find most catfishers out via the websearch. Let's just say they never like being confronted with their own dishonesty." Thank you for this | |||
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"First thing I do now is use reverse search. For those on mobile devices just tap and hold on the image. A menu with several options will pop up. Scroll down till you find search image (says something like that) and select. If that finds nothing you can tap on a small icon to the right of the image and that'll perform a website search. I generally find most catfishers out via the websearch. Let's just say they never like being confronted with their own dishonesty. Thank you for this "I ve just caught one out half an hour ago sent me 2 completley different pics ones from last year on kik he had brown eyes hes just sent me pics now with bright blue eyes pulled him up on it and hes not replied and no it won't be just coloured contacts as his face is a completely different shape tried to reverse search from a screen shot but its not coming up with anything | |||
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"Firstly what the frig is catfishing? Secondly your pics make you look pretty damn decent so being out of his league is laughable and here’s a thirdly.. what in the world is CATFISHING " Have you heard of Google? | |||
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"I haven't read any of this thread but your original post doesn't say this guy did anything other than message?? " Unless I've missed something. I've had several glasses of wine | |||
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"I haven't read any of this thread but your original post doesn't say this guy did anything other than message?? Unless I've missed something. I've had several glasses of wine " Yes it was messaging | |||
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"I haven't read any of this thread but your original post doesn't say this guy did anything other than message?? Unless I've missed something. I've had several glasses of wine Yes it was messaging " But I still don't understand. Maybe because I haven't read the whole thing. Perhaps I should then it'll be clearer but I dont read anything bad from your post?? | |||
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"I haven't read any of this thread but your original post doesn't say this guy did anything other than message?? Unless I've missed something. I've had several glasses of wine Yes it was messaging But I still don't understand. Maybe because I haven't read the whole thing. Perhaps I should then it'll be clearer but I dont read anything bad from your post??" It's cool I just needed a rant,I'm good now | |||
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"I'm a little bit wound up from a recent exchange here. If you don't want to read a rambling ,pissed off rant,look away now . Had a guy messaging a couple months ago. We moved the chat to another app,you know the one with a T? Anyway, the chat tapered off,which is fine. Then today I get a message from this new profile. It was photo verified and cam verified so I replied and chatted a little bit. This guy looked way out of my league but I couldn't help myself. I hotlisted him so I could see updates and up comes this status with his name on this texting app. Low and behold it's the same name as the guy from before. I called him out on it for catfishing and he tried his absolute best to convince me I imagined it
I literally had the receipts and this guy tried to tell me I was mad(not in those words).
I'm aware plenty of catfishing goes on but have you ever experienced a catfish trying to gaslight you on here?
Angry Em x"I think the real question here is why did WE never move to T! I'm all real here babyyyy | |||
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"I'm a little bit wound up from a recent exchange here. If you don't want to read a rambling ,pissed off rant,look away now . Had a guy messaging a couple months ago. We moved the chat to another app,you know the one with a T? Anyway, the chat tapered off,which is fine. Then today I get a message from this new profile. It was photo verified and cam verified so I replied and chatted a little bit. This guy looked way out of my league but I couldn't help myself. I hotlisted him so I could see updates and up comes this status with his name on this texting app. Low and behold it's the same name as the guy from before. I called him out on it for catfishing and he tried his absolute best to convince me I imagined it
I literally had the receipts and this guy tried to tell me I was mad(not in those words).
I'm aware plenty of catfishing goes on but have you ever experienced a catfish trying to gaslight you on here?
Angry Em x
I think the real question here is why did WE never move to T! I'm all real here babyyyy"Where tf have you been brucey?! | |||
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"I'm a little bit wound up from a recent exchange here. If you don't want to read a rambling ,pissed off rant,look away now . Had a guy messaging a couple months ago. We moved the chat to another app,you know the one with a T? Anyway, the chat tapered off,which is fine. Then today I get a message from this new profile. It was photo verified and cam verified so I replied and chatted a little bit. This guy looked way out of my league but I couldn't help myself. I hotlisted him so I could see updates and up comes this status with his name on this texting app. Low and behold it's the same name as the guy from before. I called him out on it for catfishing and he tried his absolute best to convince me I imagined it
I literally had the receipts and this guy tried to tell me I was mad(not in those words).
I'm aware plenty of catfishing goes on but have you ever experienced a catfish trying to gaslight you on here?
Angry Em x
I think the real question here is why did WE never move to T! I'm all real here babyyyy
Where tf have you been brucey?! "Searching streets far and wide yelling chicken while beating my erection. Where have YOU been? | |||
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"I'm a little bit wound up from a recent exchange here. If you don't want to read a rambling ,pissed off rant,look away now . Had a guy messaging a couple months ago. We moved the chat to another app,you know the one with a T? Anyway, the chat tapered off,which is fine. Then today I get a message from this new profile. It was photo verified and cam verified so I replied and chatted a little bit. This guy looked way out of my league but I couldn't help myself. I hotlisted him so I could see updates and up comes this status with his name on this texting app. Low and behold it's the same name as the guy from before. I called him out on it for catfishing and he tried his absolute best to convince me I imagined it
I literally had the receipts and this guy tried to tell me I was mad(not in those words).
I'm aware plenty of catfishing goes on but have you ever experienced a catfish trying to gaslight you on here?
Angry Em x
I think the real question here is why did WE never move to T! I'm all real here babyyyy
Where tf have you been brucey?!
Searching streets far and wide yelling chicken while beating my erection.
Where have YOU been?"At work
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"I'm a little bit wound up from a recent exchange here. If you don't want to read a rambling ,pissed off rant,look away now . Had a guy messaging a couple months ago. We moved the chat to another app,you know the one with a T? Anyway, the chat tapered off,which is fine. Then today I get a message from this new profile. It was photo verified and cam verified so I replied and chatted a little bit. This guy looked way out of my league but I couldn't help myself. I hotlisted him so I could see updates and up comes this status with his name on this texting app. Low and behold it's the same name as the guy from before. I called him out on it for catfishing and he tried his absolute best to convince me I imagined it
I literally had the receipts and this guy tried to tell me I was mad(not in those words).
I'm aware plenty of catfishing goes on but have you ever experienced a catfish trying to gaslight you on here?
Angry Em x
I think the real question here is why did WE never move to T! I'm all real here babyyyy
Where tf have you been brucey?!
Searching streets far and wide yelling chicken while beating my erection.
Where have YOU been?
At work
Working "Not very sexy this chat | |||
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"I'm a little bit wound up from a recent exchange here. If you don't want to read a rambling ,pissed off rant,look away now . Had a guy messaging a couple months ago. We moved the chat to another app,you know the one with a T? Anyway, the chat tapered off,which is fine. Then today I get a message from this new profile. It was photo verified and cam verified so I replied and chatted a little bit. This guy looked way out of my league but I couldn't help myself. I hotlisted him so I could see updates and up comes this status with his name on this texting app. Low and behold it's the same name as the guy from before. I called him out on it for catfishing and he tried his absolute best to convince me I imagined it
I literally had the receipts and this guy tried to tell me I was mad(not in those words).
I'm aware plenty of catfishing goes on but have you ever experienced a catfish trying to gaslight you on here?
Angry Em x
I think the real question here is why did WE never move to T! I'm all real here babyyyy
Where tf have you been brucey?!
Searching streets far and wide yelling chicken while beating my erection.
Where have YOU been?
At work
Working
Not very sexy this chat "You’ve not seen my sexy work joggers | |||
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"I'm a little bit wound up from a recent exchange here. If you don't want to read a rambling ,pissed off rant,look away now . Had a guy messaging a couple months ago. We moved the chat to another app,you know the one with a T? Anyway, the chat tapered off,which is fine. Then today I get a message from this new profile. It was photo verified and cam verified so I replied and chatted a little bit. This guy looked way out of my league but I couldn't help myself. I hotlisted him so I could see updates and up comes this status with his name on this texting app. Low and behold it's the same name as the guy from before. I called him out on it for catfishing and he tried his absolute best to convince me I imagined it
I literally had the receipts and this guy tried to tell me I was mad(not in those words).
I'm aware plenty of catfishing goes on but have you ever experienced a catfish trying to gaslight you on here?
Angry Em x
I think the real question here is why did WE never move to T! I'm all real here babyyyy
Where tf have you been brucey?!
Searching streets far and wide yelling chicken while beating my erection.
Where have YOU been?
At work
Working
Not very sexy this chat
You’ve not seen my sexy work joggers "DM me BB xoxox | |||
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"Been gasligthed on here and in real life by an ex who kept coming into my house, moving things slightly, letting one of the dogs out of her crate, messing with the light switches - I could go on. I honestly thought I was going mad until I had to come home early and caught him at it. I still, to this day, have no idea how he got a key." They can be very clever and manipulative they usually have narcissistic traits but love is blind and you're not expecting to be taken advantage of | |||
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"Is gaslighting a new fad word? I hear it all the time these days Up until about 6 months ago I never knew it was a thing lol It’s been around for a long time but the word itself gets thrown around left right and centre when the reality is majority of the time it’s not gaslighting it’s just people being twats.." | |||
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"Been gasligthed on here and in real life by an ex who kept coming into my house, moving things slightly, letting one of the dogs out of her crate, messing with the light switches - I could go on. I honestly thought I was going mad until I had to come home early and caught him at it. I still, to this day, have no idea how he got a key." | |||
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"Is gaslighting a new fad word? I hear it all the time these days Up until about 6 months ago I never knew it was a thing lol It’s been around for a long time but the word itself gets thrown around left right and centre when the reality is majority of the time it’s not gaslighting it’s just people being twats.." It really is overused and so is catfishing. It pays to be aware but it's damaging to both parties to be over sensitive to events and make them out to be something they are not. | |||
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"Firstly what the frig is catfishing? Secondly your pics make you look pretty damn decent so being out of his league is laughable and here’s a thirdly.. what in the world is CATFISHING Have you heard of Google?" What in the world is Google ? | |||
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"Woooow that’s pretty bad! We’ve unfortunately had someone we politely said no to, start new profiles over and over. We keep blocking and they keep springing up acting like we’ve never talked before
We posted that we were going to a club one night and they just happened to be there too. We just ignore it for the most part but it is really annoying. One of the few downsides to this place.
Mr"I've noticed this a bit. Act dumb when you tell them you've spoken before and it was a no. To the op sorry this has happened to you and fair play to you calling it out. Liars hate being exposed. Dealing with something similar right now. | |||
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"Been gasligthed on here and in real life by an ex who kept coming into my house, moving things slightly, letting one of the dogs out of her crate, messing with the light switches - I could go on. I honestly thought I was going mad until I had to come home early and caught him at it. I still, to this day, have no idea how he got a key. Now that is some freaky shit. Do you sleep at night? I doubt I'd ever sleep right after an experience like that. That's a real sleeping with the enemy type thing. "It's q few years ago now. Honestly thought I was losing my mind. I remember standing at the bottom of my stairs and trying to work out how the switches were how they were (I'm OCD about how switches are) and having a real panic attack about it | |||
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"I'm a little bit wound up from a recent exchange here. If you don't want to read a rambling ,pissed off rant,look away now . Had a guy messaging a couple months ago. We moved the chat to another app,you know the one with a T? Anyway, the chat tapered off,which is fine. Then today I get a message from this new profile. It was photo verified and cam verified so I replied and chatted a little bit. This guy looked way out of my league but I couldn't help myself. I hotlisted him so I could see updates and up comes this status with his name on this texting app. Low and behold it's the same name as the guy from before. I called him out on it for catfishing and he tried his absolute best to convince me I imagined it
I literally had the receipts and this guy tried to tell me I was mad(not in those words).
I'm aware plenty of catfishing goes on but have you ever experienced a catfish trying to gaslight you on here?
Angry Em x"You got this Queen,adjust that crown of yours & keep your head & standards high | |||
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"Been gasligthed on here and in real life by an ex who kept coming into my house, moving things slightly, letting one of the dogs out of her crate, messing with the light switches - I could go on. I honestly thought I was going mad until I had to come home early and caught him at it. I still, to this day, have no idea how he got a key. They can be very clever and manipulative they usually have narcissistic traits but love is blind and you're not expecting to be taken advantage of " Oh, he's an out and out narcissist- 10 years plus later and he's still trying to mind fuxk me. This happened after we had split and after I'd moved - he never lived here and I'm still, years later, lost as to how he got a key (our child was too small to play that game with daddy and our "mutual" friends weren't so mutual! | |||
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