FabSwingers.com forum: Am I classed as attractive!

By *jay9092 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Always wondered if people actually find me physically attractive on here or if there's something thats trully really off-putting to people you try to connect with?

Rather than continuing to drive myself crazy thinking about what that could be, I want to ask the liberated people of Fab, the people who matter! what you really think? do you ever feel the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're mint

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By *ilBWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

Being honest, you look alright in 2019, that might be where you're going wrong.

It's 2023

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes your very attractive

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

To some you you will be, to some you won't. To the rest you are average. That goes for all of us, it really does.

To me, you have a great body. Is it an attractive physique? Yes of course.

Am I attracted personally? No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd shag ya

If you had boobs and a vagina...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To some you you will be, to some you won't. To the rest you are average. That goes for all of us, it really does.

To me, you have a great body. Is it an attractive physique? Yes of course.

Am I attracted personally? No"

What he said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Being honest, you look alright in 2019, that might be where you're going wrong.

It's 2023"

^^ this

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Nah, I know I wasn't beaten too hard with the ugly stick

I also know that nobody is attractive to everybody...I don't find every single person I come into contact with attractive, so why would I think that every person that lays eyes on me finds me attractive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you attractive? - No

Do I feel the same? - No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being honest, you look alright in 2019, that might be where you're going wrong.

It's 2023"

*gang crew gif mic drop*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always wondered if people actually find me physically attractive on here or if there's something thats trully really off-putting to people you try to connect with?

Rather than continuing to drive myself crazy thinking about what that could be, I want to ask the liberated people of Fab, the people who matter! what you really think? do you ever feel the same?

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sounds to me that you like to hear women say it to you or something like that! Bit of a strange question to ask at your age mate, because surely you know the answer to that at 41 years old?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I ever feel the same? I feel ugly sometimes for sure. But I’m not ugly and I know that deep down. I’m just not for the kind of people on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do I ever feel the same? I feel ugly sometimes for sure. But I’m not ugly and I know that deep down. I’m just not for the kind of people on fab. "

Bruvvvvvv, you are fire

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By *jay9092 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

That's obviously it then. I honestly thought I had more recent uploads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's 5 people in the world who I care what they think of me.

My parents and my kids.

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By *jay9092 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Thanks for the honesty!

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

"That's obviously it then. I honestly thought I had more recent uploads

It doesn't really matter how recent your uploads are...some will find you attractive, some won't...its what makes the world go around...everyone likes different things

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"Always wondered if people actually find me physically attractive on here or if there's something thats trully really off-putting to people you try to connect with?

Rather than continuing to drive myself crazy thinking about what that could be, I want to ask the liberated people of Fab, the people who matter! what you really think? do you ever feel the same?

Unfortunately people will blow smoke up your arse and tell you they think you're gorgeous etc.... when in reality they are talking shit....and have no intention of meeting... and yes I know that sounds cynical but it's my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always wondered if people actually find me physically attractive on here or if there's something thats trully really off-putting to people you try to connect with?

Rather than continuing to drive myself crazy thinking about what that could be, I want to ask the liberated people of Fab, the people who matter! what you really think? do you ever feel the same?

Is what's gonna be said here gonna make any difference ? ..the question you're asking is on par with the player who said to another player " you played brilliant...How did l play ? "..tbh l don't think any guy ..of any age .. should be asking that kind of question..but hey ..each to their own .

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"There's 5 people in the world who I care what they think of me.

My parents and my kids.

Ahem! I'm not calling you daddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's 5 people in the world who I care what they think of me.

My parents and my kids.

Ahem! I'm not calling you daddy

6 then

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Yes

Sorry automatic reaction

I dunno

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Yes. Also, yes.

LvM

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"To some you you will be, to some you won't. To the rest you are average. That goes for all of us, it really does.

To me, you have a great body. Is it an attractive physique? Yes of course.

Am I attracted personally? No

What he said."

What they both said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To some you you will be, to some you won't. To the rest you are average. That goes for all of us, it really does.

To me, you have a great body. Is it an attractive physique? Yes of course.

Am I attracted personally? No

What he said.

What they both said"

Tart

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"There's 5 people in the world who I care what they think of me.

My parents and my kids.

Ahem! I'm not calling you daddy

6 then"

Well fine

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By *jay9092 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I guess that depends then if the person answers truthfully. And that's what answers everyone wants. Honest ones

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"To some you you will be, to some you won't. To the rest you are average. That goes for all of us, it really does.

To me, you have a great body. Is it an attractive physique? Yes of course.

Am I attracted personally? No

What he said.

What they both said

Tart

Now... normally I'd take that... but I was being so untarty!!

Bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's 5 people in the world who I care what they think of me.

My parents and my kids.

Ahem! I'm not calling you daddy

6 then

Well fine

7 then

Fuck sake.

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By *jay9092 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do I ever feel the same? I feel ugly sometimes for sure. But I’m not ugly and I know that deep down. I’m just not for the kind of people on fab.

Bruvvvvvv, you are fire

Takes one to know one brudda

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Do I ever feel the same? I feel ugly sometimes for sure. But I’m not ugly and I know that deep down. I’m just not for the kind of people on fab. "

Ahem…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do I ever feel the same? I feel ugly sometimes for sure. But I’m not ugly and I know that deep down. I’m just not for the kind of people on fab.

Bruvvvvvv, you are fire

Takes one to know one brudda

Ohhh touche

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do I ever feel the same? I feel ugly sometimes for sure. But I’m not ugly and I know that deep down. I’m just not for the kind of people on fab. "

That's rubbish pickle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your all beautiful people to me. In one way or another. Does I mean I want to naked wrestle with you. No. Does it mean I want to practise the sex with you. No. Does it mean.... i don't know what it means. But I'm sure you all have at least 1 attractive abbribtue.

Unless one of you is Vlmadimir Putin he can suck a cactus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your all beautiful people to me. In one way or another. Does I mean I want to naked wrestle with you. No. Does it mean I want to practise the sex with you. No. Does it mean.... i don't know what it means. But I'm sure you all have at least 1 attractive abbribtue.

Unless one of you is Vlmadimir Putin he can suck a cactus."

I apologise now the absolute boat of gibberish I've written above. You get the point....

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By *jay9092 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Loving the feedback people!

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

ilkley

Some of us know that we are not attractive, especially in the way that we would like to be. Imagine every day looking in the mirror and it not even being the right person looking back.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The vast majority of people are attractive to someone.

It has bothered me in the past. Right this second I don't give a fuck whether I'm attractive or not, but my circumstances are pretty unique.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always wondered if people actually find me physically attractive on here or if there's something thats trully really off-putting to people you try to connect with?

Rather than continuing to drive myself crazy thinking about what that could be, I want to ask the liberated people of Fab, the people who matter! what you really think? do you ever feel the same?

Everyone has different variations on what they find Attractive (no matter how liberated). It's just the way it is and People "tastes" also change over time.

Newer Pics will help you find the ones who're attracted to You now!

Am I attractive? hell no, I'm just me

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Attractive is something different to everyone - you could be a 10 to someone and equally not on someone else’s scale at all - love the skin you’re in.

I find I am attracted to people with self confidence, who carry themselves well and have there own thing going on!

Those break the mold type of folks xx

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

You’ve got a great body, OP. So yes, you are attractive. I am personally attracted to men over 6’2” but it’s not a dealbreaker.

Would I be attracted to you? Visually yes, but I’d definitely need a conversation to define whether I am attracted *enough* to take things further.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

York

You’re a good looking guy but my immediate thought is wondering why you are asking…

If it’s a look at me thread then I’d have put more recent pics of yourself up…years old pics don’t show you now.

If it’s to genuinely ask, then you’ll get so many different answers you’d still wouldn’t know.

If it’s to get attention and start conversations then good luck

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By *jay9092 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I guess it comes down to what people find attractive on Fab by what kind of scenario they're looking for for.

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By *jay9092 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"I guess it comes down to what people find attractive on Fab by what kind of scenario they're looking for for.

I'm asking to get the sort of insight like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction is more than just looks. You could look good in a still photo but the way you move, talk and walk could make you a total

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By *jay9092 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Having hardly changed physically from my early photos is probally why didnt I think I updated them. I guess newly updated is needed

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By *jay9092 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"Attraction is more than just looks. You could look good in a still photo but the way you move, talk and walk could make you a total

Good point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having hardly changed physically from my early photos is probally why didnt I think I updated them. I guess newly updated is needed

Fresh new Pics will always be preferred over years old (unless it's a good shot)

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Having hardly changed physically from my early photos is probally why didnt I think I updated them. I guess newly updated is needed

From previous discussions that have happened in these forums, people might assume you've changed for the worse and are trying to hide it, if you don't update your pictures

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Being honest, you look alright in 2019, that might be where you're going wrong.

It's 2023"

I've not changed for about 20 years, apart from a bit of salt and pepper

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By *jay9092 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Think I'll take some butt shots starting tonight then!

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By *reative-mindMan
over a year ago

Exeter

You're not my type pal but have a good weekend none the less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just wanted us to look at your bum really.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Think I'll take some butt shots starting tonight then!

That will draw the guys in, wish you luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Title needs a ? not a !

Wait..is pedantry attractive?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Cant tell can't see your face? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could be one persons heaven and another’s hell. And why does it matter, as long as you like what you see when you look in the mirror it shouldn’t matter. But for the record, yes I’d say you are attractive, TO ME, I can only speak for myself. Your face in particular x (her)

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Honestly face wise yes you're a handsome man, body wise too muscular for my liking, but I'm sure there's absolutely loads that love a well taken care of physique.

Mrs

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

Do I think I'm attractive? No.

Do other people think I'm attractive? Occasionally.

I've learned that my opinion of myself isn't necessarily the same as what others think & if I kept critiquing myself, I'd go mad!! I just consider myself as ordinary & that's absolutely fine with me

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By *jay9092 OP Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"Do I think I'm attractive? No.

Do other people think I'm attractive? Occasionally.

I've learned that my opinion of myself isn't necessarily the same as what others think & if I kept critiquing myself, I'd go mad!! I just consider myself as ordinary & that's absolutely fine with me

Well said. Perhaps that's a perspective we should all take!

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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Fylde Coast

It really doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. Embrace yourself and don't worry about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you attractive? Yes, objectively speaking. For sure.

Do I think im attractive? Every third Tuesday, I do.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"Do I think I'm attractive? No.

Do other people think I'm attractive? Occasionally.

I've learned that my opinion of myself isn't necessarily the same as what others think & if I kept critiquing myself, I'd go mad!! I just consider myself as ordinary & that's absolutely fine with me

Well said. Perhaps that's a perspective we should all take!

I've got to an age where I don't give a shit about alot of stuff!! It's very liberating

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By *oyahandrussCouple
over a year ago

Nr Rugby

I suppose it's a difficult question to answer as in attraction is very individual.You look fit & attractive in pictures.Meet can change all the as in body language demeanor smell even your voice.

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