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Hard being a single male on here

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By *rustworthy honest guy OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Just looking for female and couples to chat with

I know I'm not the best looker out there but have a heart of gold and respect

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By *aughtyTimesBL5Man
over a year ago

bolton

I feel your pain.

It’s impossible for a single male on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try being a single woman here and then come back and tell me which is hardest

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Is not impossible. Lots of men get meets. They have great profiles and many use the forums to build connections.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth


"Just looking for female and couples to chat with

I know I'm not the best looker out there but have a heart of gold and respect "

I'd say you're not doing terribly for 6 weeks with 2 veris already.

Generally the advice though is to make sure your profile is optimal... detailed bio, a good selection of pics etc.

Then look for socials, clubs etc near you and get out and speak to people rather than just sitting on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m on Fab, and I find it hard too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try be a robot on here and then tell me if it's harder than being a man or woman.

Ain't no human women looking for robot cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m on fab and ummm ok it can be hard

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's difficult for all demographics in different ways. It does depend somewhat on the way you present yourself at first glance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel your pain.

It’s impossible for a single male on here "

Literally impossible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try be a robot on here and then tell me if it's harder than being a man or woman.

Ain't no human women looking for robot cock. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is not impossible. Lots of men get meets. They have great profiles and many use the forums to build connections. "

Name one man that gets meets from this site?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

It is as hard as you set for yourself. Your expectations.

It is no more difficult for men or women than the other. Just their "difficulty" is set in different ways.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I’m on Fab, and I find it hard too. "

I've found hard stuff on fab too

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Try be a robot on here and then tell me if it's harder than being a man or woman.

Ain't no human women looking for robot cock. "

Robot? Sign me the fuck up

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By *havennaturistsCouple
over a year ago

Banff

The number of single guys who ask us to verify them without even seeing them on a webcam or in a photograph, let alone in the flesh is staggering. Had one again yesterday, been on the site about 4 weeks.

It doesn't help the cause!

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By *eedsanewusernameMan
over a year ago

Mainly under the bed...


"I feel your pain.

It’s impossible for a single male on here "

It's not impossible.

Having a reasonable approach and outlook doesn't guarantee success.

I found it easier to visit a club (and managed to go with some people I'd chatted to first so I wasn't one of the creepy single guys just walking about wanking away!) as an ice breaker. I've met and played with a host of people who ordinarily would have binned off my reasonably eloquent messages in their "bulk delete cull" that is common when you're getting 200 dick pic/wanna fuck messages per day.

It's still a difficult proposition trying to be visible with people I've not met in clubs; but I now have a large circle of friends and acquaintances who have opened doors and introduced me to other people in the lifestyle.

All depends I suppose if you're just after a quick dip of your wick or are looking to play regularly with similar minded folk who appreciate some effort above and beyond "hi"!

I'd love to say you'll always get more out if you put more in. But it's not an equal balance nor that scientific.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel your pain.

It’s impossible for a single male on here

Literally impossible. "

I’m sure it’s not. Otherwise no one would bother. Right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t care, I’m having fun anyway. No one talks to me either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s difficult on here for me but maybe that’s because I’m picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel your pain.

It’s impossible for a single male on here

Literally impossible.

I’m sure it’s not. Otherwise no one would bother. Right? "

WRONG! Men are crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I feel your pain.

It’s impossible for a single male on here

Literally impossible.

I’m sure it’s not. Otherwise no one would bother. Right?

WRONG! Men are crazy "

Them's fighting words around here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is Difficult, but as some of the Ladies state, its worse for them. You just need to read Profiles, message accordingly, and don't send Dick pics unless asked. Politeness and Respect are greatly received but never get pushy.... And... Take rejection with a pinch of salt

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By *eardedwonder999Man
over a year ago

Worcester

It's harder than trying to sell ice to Eskimos... Good job I don't take it seriously and I'm only on her for the shits and giggles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Impossible if you don't want yo show your face in public pictures..ah well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel your pain.

It’s impossible for a single male on here

Literally impossible.

I’m sure it’s not. Otherwise no one would bother. Right?

WRONG! Men are crazy

Them's fighting words around here "

Oh shit. Was that misa- nvm

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Impossible if you don't want yo show your face in public pictures..ah well"

That's interesting, because almost no one I've met has their face out in public.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"I feel your pain.

It’s impossible for a single male on here

Literally impossible. "

Oh hush you. You do very well.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I feel your pain.

It’s impossible for a single male on here

Literally impossible.

I’m sure it’s not. Otherwise no one would bother. Right?

WRONG! Men are crazy

Them's fighting words around here

Oh shit. Was that misa- nvm "

Now you've done it

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"Try be a robot on here and then tell me if it's harder than being a man or woman.

Ain't no human women looking for robot cock. "

The only robot I'm interested in is Janelle Monae. Janelle, send me a PM if you see this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as hard as my cock gets...

Crude. Yes.

True. Yes.

Put yourself out there. There's plenty of people to talk to. No ones scrolling through here like auto trader.

Don't fall into the single guy trap of mass messaging dick pics to everyone you find hot (my inbox can't handle anymore!)

You need a unique selling point. My USP. Is that I absolutely do not care or apologise how much of a tit I make of myself. I'm here for fun and naked pictures (preferably female) but I won't lie I can challenge a wank over a man (so long as you have boobs, long hair and a firm looking arse) (please if you fit the above, and are male. Don't send me pictures!!!)

Just have fun. Don't take it seriously. *peace sign*

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By *inkyDom96Man
over a year ago

Yarmouth


"Try being a single woman here and then come back and tell me which is hardest

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I don’t see many posts about the struggles of being a single female being a single male is way more difficult, I would much rather be inundated with messages everyday and pick and choose who I meet where as us guys have to battle against 100s of other guys with a unique message that’s not a boring like “how are you” but can’t be to forward and to the point like “wanna fuck” it’s very difficult for a guy to stand out where as if a female messages a guy saying “wanna fuck” 99.999% of the time the guy will message back with a yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Impossible if you don't want yo show your face in public pictures..ah well

That's interesting, because almost no one I've met has their face out in public. "

We wear masks in public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel your pain.

It’s impossible for a single male on here

Literally impossible.

I’m sure it’s not. Otherwise no one would bother. Right?

WRONG! Men are crazy

Them's fighting words around here

Oh shit. Was that misa- nvm

Now you've done it "

Out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel your pain.

It’s impossible for a single male on here

Literally impossible.

Oh hush you. You do very well. "

Easy when you’re pretty like me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Try being a single woman here and then come back and tell me which is hardest

I don’t see many posts about the struggles of being a single female being a single male is way more difficult, I would much rather be inundated with messages everyday and pick and choose who I meet where as us guys have to battle against 100s of other guys with a unique message that’s not a boring like “how are you” but can’t be to forward and to the point like “wanna fuck” it’s very difficult for a guy to stand out where as if a female messages a guy saying “wanna fuck” 99.999% of the time the guy will message back with a yes"

Bless your heart.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Just looking for female and couples to chat with

I know I'm not the best looker out there but have a heart of gold and respect "

Seems like you are doing something right and better than most. Also see you go to house parties. If you are doing that sure will end up meeting lots. They are a great place to network and make friends.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Impossible if you don't want yo show your face in public pictures..ah well

That's interesting, because almost no one I've met has their face out in public.

We wear masks in public "

Now that's what I'm talking about

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By *eedsanewusernameMan
over a year ago

Mainly under the bed...


"Try being a single woman here and then come back and tell me which is hardest

I don’t see many posts about the struggles of being a single female being a single male is way more difficult, I would much rather be inundated with messages everyday and pick and choose who I meet where as us guys have to battle against 100s of other guys with a unique message that’s not a boring like “how are you” but can’t be to forward and to the point like “wanna fuck” it’s very difficult for a guy to stand out where as if a female messages a guy saying “wanna fuck” 99.999% of the time the guy will message back with a yes"

Bud, if you get the chance, have a listen to the absolute shit most guys send lassies on here.

Abusive messages.

Dick pics.

"Hi, wanna fuck?".

Now repeat that 200-300 times a day when a lassie posts an update pic or status update.

You wonder why they miss out "decent" lads when 80-90% are fucktards towards them?

Then don't forget the guys who get a meet and then ghost the lassie. Bet that inspires faith and confidence in single-mandome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no expectations on here. Some people see my name and think "oh god. What's he going to say now"

Others think

"Just fuck off will you"

Others think

"Does he really look like a jacket potato?"

It's all about perspective. Just be authentically you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You been on here for 6 weeks, had 2 meets in that time.. that pretty good going. Most men would give their right testicle to have your luck

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby


"Just looking for female and couples to chat with

I know I'm not the best looker out there but have a heart of gold and respect "

You've had 2 verified meets recently. You are doing so much better than the majority of single mailles on here.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Try being a single woman here and then come back and tell me which is hardest

I don’t see many posts about the struggles of being a single female being a single male is way more difficult, I would much rather be inundated with messages everyday and pick and choose who I meet where as us guys have to battle against 100s of other guys with a unique message that’s not a boring like “how are you” but can’t be to forward and to the point like “wanna fuck” it’s very difficult for a guy to stand out where as if a female messages a guy saying “wanna fuck” 99.999% of the time the guy will message back with a yes

Bud, if you get the chance, have a listen to the absolute shit most guys send lassies on here.

Abusive messages.

Dick pics.

"Hi, wanna fuck?".

Now repeat that 200-300 times a day when a lassie posts an update pic or status update.

You wonder why they miss out "decent" lads when 80-90% are fucktards towards them?

Then don't forget the guys who get a meet and then ghost the lassie. Bet that inspires faith and confidence in single-mandome!"

Then there are the messages where they get to illegal kinks before you know what hit you.

I learned quickly that a first message "can I ask you a question?" had a high correlation with second messages that would make my breakfast rebound on me.

No, I'm not going to be specific, because they're topics that are so bad they can't be discussed on the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol the weekly boohoo thread from single male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single straight men are starting to make my head wobble.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

All I see are high expectations and entitlement across all of the profile types male/female/tv/ts/couple none of these fuckers are immune from having difficulty nor causing difficulty for others.

Funny that, isn't it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All I see are high expectations and entitlement across all of the profile types male/female/tv/ts/couple none of these fuckers are immune from having difficulty nor causing difficulty for others.

Funny that, isn't it."

I find it soooo hard

I've stopped giving advice after this one. It narrows the pool down if everyone does the same. *shrugs*

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"All I see are high expectations and entitlement across all of the profile types male/female/tv/ts/couple none of these fuckers are immune from having difficulty nor causing difficulty for others.

Funny that, isn't it.

I find it soooo hard

I've stopped giving advice after this one. It narrows the pool down if everyone does the same. *shrugs*

"

Could I find you two hard please?

Not asking for a friend. Asking for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All I see are high expectations and entitlement across all of the profile types male/female/tv/ts/couple none of these fuckers are immune from having difficulty nor causing difficulty for others.

Funny that, isn't it.

I find it soooo hard

I've stopped giving advice after this one. It narrows the pool down if everyone does the same. *shrugs*

Could I find you two hard please?

Not asking for a friend. Asking for me. "

We're still on strike after yesterday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m on Fab, and I find it hard too.

I've found hard stuff on fab too "

A sexy woman definitely would find me hard.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"All I see are high expectations and entitlement across all of the profile types male/female/tv/ts/couple none of these fuckers are immune from having difficulty nor causing difficulty for others.

Funny that, isn't it.

I find it soooo hard

I've stopped giving advice after this one. It narrows the pool down if everyone does the same. *shrugs*

Could I find you two hard please?

Not asking for a friend. Asking for me.

We're still on strike after yesterday."

Yeah!

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford


"Just looking for female and couples to chat with

I know I'm not the best looker out there but have a heart of gold and respect "

If you're just looking to chat rather than meet (as your post suggests), you're going to find it hard. As most women and couples on here are looking to meet rather than just chat.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"All I see are high expectations and entitlement across all of the profile types male/female/tv/ts/couple none of these fuckers are immune from having difficulty nor causing difficulty for others.

Funny that, isn't it.

I find it soooo hard

I've stopped giving advice after this one. It narrows the pool down if everyone does the same. *shrugs*

Could I find you two hard please?

Not asking for a friend. Asking for me.

We're still on strike after yesterday.

Yeah! "

You two have changed since you got together. You used to like me

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I'm on fab and I touched myself just to be sure but I can confirm it's hard

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Ooh I like hard… it’s my favourite

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

It's not easy op ,but lots of single men do well here ,many in the forums.

Jack did ok as a single male before we got together.Theres no magic formulas ,but he attended clubs/socials and was friendly & polite to women + couples.

He also joined in on the forums ,which is where we met.so don't give up op.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's certainly hard trying to find a meet on here, I'm definitely very polite when messaging and not at all pushy but alas I've not had any luck at all

I've attended clubs and still not having any luck

I must be just either ugly or not attractive at all to anyone who I have messaged or spoken to in a club

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"Is not impossible. Lots of men get meets. They have great profiles and many use the forums to build connections.

Name one man that gets meets from this site?"

My name is..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is not impossible. Lots of men get meets. They have great profiles and many use the forums to build connections.

Name one man that gets meets from this site?

My name is.."

What?

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By *atty CoramWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon


"Try being a single woman here and then come back and tell me which is hardest

Now repeat that 200-300 times a day when a lassie posts an update pic or status update.

You wonder why they miss out "decent" lads when 80-90% are fucktards towards them?

Then don't forget the guys who get a meet and then ghost the lassie. Bet that inspires faith and confidence in single-mandome!

Then there are the messages where they get to illegal kinks before you know what hit you.

I learned quickly that a first message "can I ask you a question?" had a high correlation with second messages that would make my breakfast rebound on me.

No, I'm not going to be specific, because they're topics that are so bad they can't be discussed on the forum "

I dont reply/immediately block the can I ask you a question brigade because - technically theyve already asked a question and therefore the message is a ploy to get my attention.

Im petty like that.

Plus no good ever came from opening those floodgates.

No one who asks to ask a question ever has anything of substance to say.

In my opinion, the struggle is more painful for some men on here (the ones with the wrong expectations and outlook maybe). As a woman, I can block all messages; contact men myself; call the shots if you will. I can also log off altogether.

Sure, men can do the same but some cannot - it seems- turn off their sexual urges /cravings/expectations in the same way. I dont require or expect sex. If anything - being on here makes me want it less.

And perhaps therein lies the problem: Im on a *sex* site with my tits out (they are great tits) but I dont want sex... unless its on my terms and no one has the time to go into Ts and Cs do they? Its just not sexy.

disclaimer: my apostrophe/speech mark button is broken.. but in the words of Queen Bey you wont break my soul

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Is not impossible. Lots of men get meets. They have great profiles and many use the forums to build connections.

Name one man that gets meets from this site?

My name is..

What? "

All the men on my veris for a start!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

If a guy like me can get meets then anybody can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just looking for female and couples to chat with

I know I'm not the best looker out there but have a heart of gold and respect "

Dude, it’s honestly really not. I am as average as a cup of tea, my face is not made for tinder style dating and I do fine.

It’s more about the profile, the personality and, especially with couples, respecting both partners. With women, you wink or send a message, add some humour, link it to one of their photos or their profile. Do not cut and paste, do not send a dick photo and absolutely never ever say ‘panties’.

You won’t get to shag anyone tonight, but over time you will have success

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By *angerouslemaisonsMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Make some forum friends and visit a club stop thinking about getting your dick wet and focus on building real connections

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"If a guy like me can get meets then anybody can. "

•

Ah, but you are Peterborough's finest and a prince amongst men.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" "

Your playing that alot today fluff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a fat effeminate queer the wrong side of 49 can do ok then anyone can.

Actually that could be a good motivational meme.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"If a guy like me can get meets then anybody can.

•

Ah, but you are Peterborough's finest and a prince amongst men."

This is true.

I suppose being this awesome does have it's advantages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn that violin emoji!

And Boy of Wonders abs.

Yeah I’m average and haven’t had any meets…I’ve not tried that hard anyway, and I’ve probably sent a grand total of 5 messages out. I’m not bothered.

Just chill guys. Good things come in time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Your playing that alot today fluff."

It’s a rediscovered talent

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"

Your playing that alot today fluff.

It’s a rediscovered talent "

Your wrist action is fantastic.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Make some forum friends and visit a club stop thinking about getting your dick wet and focus on building real connections "

Or just write a message that has her snailing on her chair, uncurling in anticipation of a big hard cock. Sometimes it works

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"

Your playing that alot today fluff.

It’s a rediscovered talent "

Can you play that teeny tiny one too? I think this thread requires it

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Your playing that alot today fluff.

It’s a rediscovered talent

Can you play that teeny tiny one too? I think this thread requires it "

Lemme put my reading glasses on and go and find it

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"Is not impossible. Lots of men get meets. They have great profiles and many use the forums to build connections.

Name one man that gets meets from this site?

My name is..

What? "

Slim Shady and I’m drowning in eager clunge on this site. I have to ask not to be verified so that my Verification Odometer doesn’t exceed male slut mileage.

Market yourself better on your profile. Go to socials. Go to clubs.

Accommodate if you possibly can, there is huge number of women and couples where their very first requirement is you can provide somewhere to fuck.

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Ha! Even worse being a married man on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks "

Tbf I’m picky too. You have to be in this life.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Just looking for female and couples to chat with

I know I'm not the best looker out there but have a heart of gold and respect "
hey its life here

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I dont reply/immediately block the can I ask you a question brigade because - technically theyve already asked a question and therefore the message is a ploy to get my attention.

Im petty like that.

Plus no good ever came from opening those floodgates.

No one who asks to ask a question ever has anything of substance to say.

In my opinion, the struggle is more painful for some men on here (the ones with the wrong expectations and outlook maybe). As a woman, I can block all messages; contact men myself; call the shots if you will. I can also log off altogether.

Sure, men can do the same but some cannot - it seems- turn off their sexual urges /cravings/expectations in the same way. I dont require or expect sex. If anything - being on here makes me want it less.

And perhaps therein lies the problem: Im on a *sex* site with my tits out (they are great tits) but I dont want sex... unless its on my terms and no one has the time to go into Ts and Cs do they? Its just not sexy.

disclaimer: my apostrophe/speech mark button is broken.. but in the words of Queen Bey you wont break my soul"

Oh I've learned

But yes. I think there's an expectation mismatch. I didn't know much about these kinds of places when I first joined Fab, and thought "no one will be interested in me but I'll give it a month and see". The rest is history, etc.

I think some people - not just men, but more men than others - struggle to understand the complexity of motivations people have, and that their desire doesn't equate to mutual desire. Or, alternatively, that a woman saying "I want to have sex" doesn't mean "I want to have sex *with you*".

I've had days when I've been so horny I've been crawling up the walls, looked at the prospects, sighed, and gone to bed ignoring the horn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being a single woman here and then come back and tell me which is hardest

Now repeat that 200-300 times a day when a lassie posts an update pic or status update.

You wonder why they miss out "decent" lads when 80-90% are fucktards towards them?

Then don't forget the guys who get a meet and then ghost the lassie. Bet that inspires faith and confidence in single-mandome!

Then there are the messages where they get to illegal kinks before you know what hit you.

I learned quickly that a first message "can I ask you a question?" had a high correlation with second messages that would make my breakfast rebound on me.

No, I'm not going to be specific, because they're topics that are so bad they can't be discussed on the forum

I dont reply/immediately block the can I ask you a question brigade because - technically theyve already asked a question and therefore the message is a ploy to get my attention.

Im petty like that.

Plus no good ever came from opening those floodgates.

No one who asks to ask a question ever has anything of substance to say.

In my opinion, the struggle is more painful for some men on here (the ones with the wrong expectations and outlook maybe). As a woman, I can block all messages; contact men myself; call the shots if you will. I can also log off altogether.

Sure, men can do the same but some cannot - it seems- turn off their sexual urges /cravings/expectations in the same way. I dont require or expect sex. If anything - being on here makes me want it less.

And perhaps therein lies the problem: Im on a *sex* site with my tits out (they are great tits) but I dont want sex... unless its on my terms and no one has the time to go into Ts and Cs do they? Its just not sexy.

disclaimer: my apostrophe/speech mark button is broken.. but in the words of Queen Bey you wont break my soul"

Shout out to the queen

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"I dont reply/immediately block the can I ask you a question brigade because - technically theyve already asked a question and therefore the message is a ploy to get my attention.

Im petty like that.

Plus no good ever came from opening those floodgates.

No one who asks to ask a question ever has anything of substance to say.

In my opinion, the struggle is more painful for some men on here (the ones with the wrong expectations and outlook maybe). As a woman, I can block all messages; contact men myself; call the shots if you will. I can also log off altogether.

Sure, men can do the same but some cannot - it seems- turn off their sexual urges /cravings/expectations in the same way. I dont require or expect sex. If anything - being on here makes me want it less.

And perhaps therein lies the problem: Im on a *sex* site with my tits out (they are great tits) but I dont want sex... unless its on my terms and no one has the time to go into Ts and Cs do they? Its just not sexy.

disclaimer: my apostrophe/speech mark button is broken.. but in the words of Queen Bey you wont break my soul

Oh I've learned

But yes. I think there's an expectation mismatch. I didn't know much about these kinds of places when I first joined Fab, and thought "no one will be interested in me but I'll give it a month and see". The rest is history, etc.

I think some people - not just men, but more men than others - struggle to understand the complexity of motivations people have, and that their desire doesn't equate to mutual desire. Or, alternatively, that a woman saying "I want to have sex" doesn't mean "I want to have sex *with you*".

I've had days when I've been so horny I've been crawling up the walls, looked at the prospects, sighed, and gone to bed ignoring the horn."

Dann!

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Make some forum friends and visit a club stop thinking about getting your dick wet and focus on building real connections "

To be fair no sign OP is thinking about getting his dick wet and if you read his veris he seems to have attended more than one party.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks "

Ah, "picky". Yes I do want someone who doesn't creep me out, who isn't entitled, who bathes, who I get along with, who isn't hundreds of miles away.

"But you're in Manchester. You're drowning in cock! Stop being so picky!"

Lemme just climb out of the cave of crusty dick cheese and say, a meet with someone I don't want to meet is worse than no meet. My novel treats me right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

Ah, "picky". Yes I do want someone who doesn't creep me out, who isn't entitled, who bathes, who I get along with, who isn't hundreds of miles away.

"But you're in Manchester. You're drowning in cock! Stop being so picky!"

Lemme just climb out of the cave of crusty dick cheese and say, a meet with someone I don't want to meet is worse than no meet. My novel treats me right."

Swingy said it

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

Ah, "picky". Yes I do want someone who doesn't creep me out, who isn't entitled, who bathes, who I get along with, who isn't hundreds of miles away.

"But you're in Manchester. You're drowning in cock! Stop being so picky!"

Lemme just climb out of the cave of crusty dick cheese and say, a meet with someone I don't want to meet is worse than no meet. My novel treats me right."

And thats how some good men and women gets looked over

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Just looking for female and couples to chat with

I know I'm not the best looker out there but have a heart of gold and respect "

That's what they all say...

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

Ah, "picky". Yes I do want someone who doesn't creep me out, who isn't entitled, who bathes, who I get along with, who isn't hundreds of miles away.

"But you're in Manchester. You're drowning in cock! Stop being so picky!"

Lemme just climb out of the cave of crusty dick cheese and say, a meet with someone I don't want to meet is worse than no meet. My novel treats me right."

God that crusty dick cheese is horrendous isn’t it. I’m drowning in it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

Ah, "picky". Yes I do want someone who doesn't creep me out, who isn't entitled, who bathes, who I get along with, who isn't hundreds of miles away.

"But you're in Manchester. You're drowning in cock! Stop being so picky!"

Lemme just climb out of the cave of crusty dick cheese and say, a meet with someone I don't want to meet is worse than no meet. My novel treats me right.

And thats how some good men and women gets looked over "

Well. That's an interesting way to respond to the idea of minimal standards.

Which of these do you suggest I give up, and why would they enrich my life more than my novel?

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London


"Is not impossible. Lots of men get meets. They have great profiles and many use the forums to build connections. "

Absolutely true and how I met some. Lots of guys seem to think ladies will just want them without any effort. For me it’s how get on with person that is most important

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent

Try not relying on fabs as a meet’s option as many use it as a place to enjoy chatting, pictures and flirting. Try clubs and networking through parties and events….broaden one’s horizons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

Ah, "picky". Yes I do want someone who doesn't creep me out, who isn't entitled, who bathes, who I get along with, who isn't hundreds of miles away.

"But you're in Manchester. You're drowning in cock! Stop being so picky!"

Lemme just climb out of the cave of crusty dick cheese and say, a meet with someone I don't want to meet is worse than no meet. My novel treats me right.

And thats how some good men and women gets looked over "

But it’s not. If they meet the criteria set by the seeker, they get banged. If they don’t, they don’t. Simples. Doesn’t matter how good they are, no one owes anyone a shag just coz they’re ‘good’

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

Ah, "picky". Yes I do want someone who doesn't creep me out, who isn't entitled, who bathes, who I get along with, who isn't hundreds of miles away.

"But you're in Manchester. You're drowning in cock! Stop being so picky!"

Lemme just climb out of the cave of crusty dick cheese and say, a meet with someone I don't want to meet is worse than no meet. My novel treats me right.

God that crusty dick cheese is horrendous isn’t it. I’m drowning in it "

I no longer see it much, but when I first joined Fab a lot of local male profiles included the line "I know what soap is" like it was something to be proud of.

I know what a stethoscope is. I've never used one...

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"I feel your pain.

It’s impossible for a single male on here "

If that was true, I wouldn't be having any meets.... Because I only meet single males...

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

Ah, "picky". Yes I do want someone who doesn't creep me out, who isn't entitled, who bathes, who I get along with, who isn't hundreds of miles away.

"But you're in Manchester. You're drowning in cock! Stop being so picky!"

Lemme just climb out of the cave of crusty dick cheese and say, a meet with someone I don't want to meet is worse than no meet. My novel treats me right.

And thats how some good men and women gets looked over

Well. That's an interesting way to respond to the idea of minimal standards.

Which of these do you suggest I give up, and why would they enrich my life more than my novel? "

So the majority of men on here are creepy, don't bathe, live far away and have dick cheese ?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

Ah, "picky". Yes I do want someone who doesn't creep me out, who isn't entitled, who bathes, who I get along with, who isn't hundreds of miles away.

"But you're in Manchester. You're drowning in cock! Stop being so picky!"

Lemme just climb out of the cave of crusty dick cheese and say, a meet with someone I don't want to meet is worse than no meet. My novel treats me right.

And thats how some good men and women gets looked over

But it’s not. If they meet the criteria set by the seeker, they get banged. If they don’t, they don’t. Simples. Doesn’t matter how good they are, no one owes anyone a shag just coz they’re ‘good’ "

Also, Jesus, my listed criteria here are obscenely minimal. I didn't say bodybuilder rocket scientist. I said more like hygienic, pleasant and safe.

What good meet doesn't include hygiene, pleasantness, and safety?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

Ah, "picky". Yes I do want someone who doesn't creep me out, who isn't entitled, who bathes, who I get along with, who isn't hundreds of miles away.

"But you're in Manchester. You're drowning in cock! Stop being so picky!"

Lemme just climb out of the cave of crusty dick cheese and say, a meet with someone I don't want to meet is worse than no meet. My novel treats me right.

God that crusty dick cheese is horrendous isn’t it. I’m drowning in it

I no longer see it much, but when I first joined Fab a lot of local male profiles included the line "I know what soap is" like it was something to be proud of.

I know what a stethoscope is. I've never used one..."

They might know what soap is… they may choose not to use it and use Lynx Africa instead

Stethoscopes are fun by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

Ah, "picky". Yes I do want someone who doesn't creep me out, who isn't entitled, who bathes, who I get along with, who isn't hundreds of miles away.

"But you're in Manchester. You're drowning in cock! Stop being so picky!"

Lemme just climb out of the cave of crusty dick cheese and say, a meet with someone I don't want to meet is worse than no meet. My novel treats me right.

And thats how some good men and women gets looked over

But it’s not. If they meet the criteria set by the seeker, they get banged. If they don’t, they don’t. Simples. Doesn’t matter how good they are, no one owes anyone a shag just coz they’re ‘good’

Also, Jesus, my listed criteria here are obscenely minimal. I didn't say bodybuilder rocket scientist. I said more like hygienic, pleasant and safe.

What good meet doesn't include hygiene, pleasantness, and safety? "

Hey, if that’s unreasonable to the wanking dead than that’s on them

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

Ah, "picky". Yes I do want someone who doesn't creep me out, who isn't entitled, who bathes, who I get along with, who isn't hundreds of miles away.

"But you're in Manchester. You're drowning in cock! Stop being so picky!"

Lemme just climb out of the cave of crusty dick cheese and say, a meet with someone I don't want to meet is worse than no meet. My novel treats me right.

And thats how some good men and women gets looked over

Well. That's an interesting way to respond to the idea of minimal standards.

Which of these do you suggest I give up, and why would they enrich my life more than my novel?

So the majority of men on here are creepy, don't bathe, live far away and have dick cheese ? "

If I said that, you might have a point

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks "

And men are entitled... Who's the real problem?

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

And men are entitled... Who's the real problem? "

Unrealistic expectations

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

Ah, "picky". Yes I do want someone who doesn't creep me out, who isn't entitled, who bathes, who I get along with, who isn't hundreds of miles away.

"But you're in Manchester. You're drowning in cock! Stop being so picky!"

Lemme just climb out of the cave of crusty dick cheese and say, a meet with someone I don't want to meet is worse than no meet. My novel treats me right.

And thats how some good men and women gets looked over

Well. That's an interesting way to respond to the idea of minimal standards.

Which of these do you suggest I give up, and why would they enrich my life more than my novel?

So the majority of men on here are creepy, don't bathe, live far away and have dick cheese ?

If I said that, you might have a point "

More or less as these threads keep coming up

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Meanwhile.....

The weather is nice today.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

And men are entitled... Who's the real problem?

Unrealistic expectations "

Yes. People are wildly unrealistic in thinking that people should meet people they don't want to meet, or should have to justify their criteria to anyone

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

And men are entitled... Who's the real problem?

Unrealistic expectations "

Men definitely have those.

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

And men are entitled... Who's the real problem?

Unrealistic expectations

Yes. People are wildly unrealistic in thinking that people should meet people they don't want to meet, or should have to justify their criteria to anyone "

Did I say that, because I don't recall?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

Ah, "picky". Yes I do want someone who doesn't creep me out, who isn't entitled, who bathes, who I get along with, who isn't hundreds of miles away.

"But you're in Manchester. You're drowning in cock! Stop being so picky!"

Lemme just climb out of the cave of crusty dick cheese and say, a meet with someone I don't want to meet is worse than no meet. My novel treats me right.

And thats how some good men and women gets looked over

Well. That's an interesting way to respond to the idea of minimal standards.

Which of these do you suggest I give up, and why would they enrich my life more than my novel?

So the majority of men on here are creepy, don't bathe, live far away and have dick cheese ?

If I said that, you might have a point

More or less as these threads keep coming up"

Yes, it's a common theme.

People meet who they want to meet for any and all reasons.

They don't have to explain or justify themselves.

The fact that you don't understand doesn't mean they're wrong. Their body, their time, their lives.

Their novel which is more attractive than wasting their time.

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

And men are entitled... Who's the real problem?

Unrealistic expectations

Men definitely have those. "

And Women too

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London


"It’s difficult on here for me but maybe that’s because I’m picky "

Picky? I thought you were pickle?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

And men are entitled... Who's the real problem?

Unrealistic expectations

Yes. People are wildly unrealistic in thinking that people should meet people they don't want to meet, or should have to justify their criteria to anyone

Did I say that, because I don't recall? "

You said women who think it's hard think it's hard because they're picky.

Implying that to make life easier for themselves, they should change their standards, i.e. meet people who they currently do not want to meet. It's actually in the quote tree you've included

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

And men are entitled... Who's the real problem?

Unrealistic expectations

Men definitely have those. "

Some rather sweeping generalisations being thrown around this thread by people

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

Ah, "picky". Yes I do want someone who doesn't creep me out, who isn't entitled, who bathes, who I get along with, who isn't hundreds of miles away.

"But you're in Manchester. You're drowning in cock! Stop being so picky!"

Lemme just climb out of the cave of crusty dick cheese and say, a meet with someone I don't want to meet is worse than no meet. My novel treats me right.

And thats how some good men and women gets looked over

Well. That's an interesting way to respond to the idea of minimal standards.

Which of these do you suggest I give up, and why would they enrich my life more than my novel? "

Would love to know what your novel is about and your writing regimen

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

And men are entitled... Who's the real problem?

Unrealistic expectations

Men definitely have those.

And Women too "

Not their fault you don't meet them though is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not impossible but be realistic with your expectations... there are masses of guys vs couples/fems

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

Ah, "picky". Yes I do want someone who doesn't creep me out, who isn't entitled, who bathes, who I get along with, who isn't hundreds of miles away.

"But you're in Manchester. You're drowning in cock! Stop being so picky!"

Lemme just climb out of the cave of crusty dick cheese and say, a meet with someone I don't want to meet is worse than no meet. My novel treats me right.

And thats how some good men and women gets looked over

Well. That's an interesting way to respond to the idea of minimal standards.

Which of these do you suggest I give up, and why would they enrich my life more than my novel?

Would love to know what your novel is about and your writing regimen "

I meant a novel I'm reading, not writing. haha

Most of my writing is for work at the moment, but I've got a few ideas in my head about conspiracy thrillers.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

What?

Single men don't get meets?

Since when?

And I've put all that time and effort into recreating my profile now there's onky one of me and no cute, blonde bait any more.

I may as well join that convent ans become a nun after all.

They let dudes become nuns don't they?

A

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"What?

Single men don't get meets?

Since when?

And I've put all that time and effort into recreating my profile now there's onky one of me and no cute, blonde bait any more.

I may as well join that convent ans become a nun after all.

They let dudes become nuns don't they?

A"

You might struggle to make it (into) a habit

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

Ah, "picky". Yes I do want someone who doesn't creep me out, who isn't entitled, who bathes, who I get along with, who isn't hundreds of miles away.

"But you're in Manchester. You're drowning in cock! Stop being so picky!"

Lemme just climb out of the cave of crusty dick cheese and say, a meet with someone I don't want to meet is worse than no meet. My novel treats me right.

And thats how some good men and women gets looked over

Well. That's an interesting way to respond to the idea of minimal standards.

Which of these do you suggest I give up, and why would they enrich my life more than my novel?

So the majority of men on here are creepy, don't bathe, live far away and have dick cheese ? "

Are likely to…

How do women figure out from the thousands of male profiles which ones are most likely to have actually cleaned their teeth before turning up, not lied about being a stinky smoker, showered, trimmed fingernails, have manners, have a nasty groin rash that they aren’t seeking medication for, aren’t going to become stalkers, become violent…

It’s not about height or cock size or muscles…

Fuck sake man - a woman deciding on who she wants to meet is coming from a completely different mentality and prospect to a man, plus I doubt you prepare by shaving your legs, get pubes waxed, eyelashes, choose underwear, get hair done, schedule the right time of the month, organise child care.

From their profiles most Fab men look like they’re coming straight from work having sprayed a bit of Lynx under their pits from the ol lucky glovebox can…

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"What?

Single men don't get meets?

Since when?

And I've put all that time and effort into recreating my profile now there's onky one of me and no cute, blonde bait any more.

I may as well join that convent ans become a nun after all.

They let dudes become nuns don't they?

A

You might struggle to make it (into) a habit"

But think about it. The only guy surrounded by all those sexually frustrated women.

It would be like the opposite of (apparently given this thread) many a single guys experience of Fab.

I have a cunning plan.......

A

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

And men are entitled... Who's the real problem?

Unrealistic expectations

Men definitely have those.

Some rather sweeping generalisations being thrown around this thread by people "

I was just thinking that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are these posts meant to actually achieve?

Sympathy and a load of messages?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I don't find it hard at all i get out of it what i want

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

Ah, "picky". Yes I do want someone who doesn't creep me out, who isn't entitled, who bathes, who I get along with, who isn't hundreds of miles away.

"But you're in Manchester. You're drowning in cock! Stop being so picky!"

Lemme just climb out of the cave of crusty dick cheese and say, a meet with someone I don't want to meet is worse than no meet. My novel treats me right.

And thats how some good men and women gets looked over

Well. That's an interesting way to respond to the idea of minimal standards.

Which of these do you suggest I give up, and why would they enrich my life more than my novel?

So the majority of men on here are creepy, don't bathe, live far away and have dick cheese ?

Are likely to…

How do women figure out from the thousands of male profiles which ones are most likely to have actually cleaned their teeth before turning up, not lied about being a stinky smoker, showered, trimmed fingernails, have manners, have a nasty groin rash that they aren’t seeking medication for, aren’t going to become stalkers, become violent…

It’s not about height or cock size or muscles…

Fuck sake man - a woman deciding on who she wants to meet is coming from a completely different mentality and prospect to a man, plus I doubt you prepare by shaving your legs, get pubes waxed, eyelashes, choose underwear, get hair done, schedule the right time of the month, organise child care.

From their profiles most Fab men look like they’re coming straight from work having sprayed a bit of Lynx under their pits from the ol lucky glovebox can…"

Plus think about the way girls and boys are socialised. Rightly or wrongly, women have been socialised to worry a lot more about danger in these contexts.

I used to joke that a good Fab meet was one where I didn't have to visit the police, hospital, or morgue. And it is a joke because that has never happened to me, but it's also not funny because it is tinged in a level of truth. It is something that always occurs to me - there are a couple of safe people who check up on me, and I have a very low bar for "gives me the ick" not because I'm a spoiled princess, but because I want to minimise my chances of becoming a statistic.

And maybe I worry too much, but I think a lot of women have similar experiences to me - one toe out of line as a teenager and my parents would tell me my foolishness would lead to me being (word Fab won't let me write), (word Fab won't let me write), and murdered.

Am I missing out on great guys who have no idea how to communicate in written form? Probably. Is it worth it so I also miss out on the hypothetical guy who might be more sinister? Absolutely.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"What?

Single men don't get meets?

Since when?

And I've put all that time and effort into recreating my profile now there's onky one of me and no cute, blonde bait any more.

I may as well join that convent ans become a nun after all.

They let dudes become nuns don't they?

A

You might struggle to make it (into) a habit

But think about it. The only guy surrounded by all those sexually frustrated women.

It would be like the opposite of (apparently given this thread) many a single guys experience of Fab.

I have a cunning plan.......

A"

I think your plan belongs in the stories and fantasies section.

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

And men are entitled... Who's the real problem?

Unrealistic expectations

Yes. People are wildly unrealistic in thinking that people should meet people they don't want to meet, or should have to justify their criteria to anyone

Did I say that, because I don't recall?

You said women who think it's hard think it's hard because they're picky.

Implying that to make life easier for themselves, they should change their standards, i.e. meet people who they currently do not want to meet. It's actually in the quote tree you've included "

I know what i wrote and I know what I meant because I wrote it. You seem to be the one implying and implying quite a lot. It doesnt bother me i am not having the problem

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

The entitlement just drips off of some people as I said above.

Each side claiming it's harder for them than the other. Both claiming to be hard done by and disrespected within the nature of fab. It would be hilarious if it wasn't so sad and pathetic.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Try being a single woman here and then come back and tell me which is hardest

"

I'm with her! I couldn't do it.

Mrs

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By *awg-mo-thoinWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

I haven’t met anyone from here in months. Easy for women it is certainly not.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

And men are entitled... Who's the real problem?

Unrealistic expectations

Yes. People are wildly unrealistic in thinking that people should meet people they don't want to meet, or should have to justify their criteria to anyone

Did I say that, because I don't recall?

You said women who think it's hard think it's hard because they're picky.

Implying that to make life easier for themselves, they should change their standards, i.e. meet people who they currently do not want to meet. It's actually in the quote tree you've included

I know what i wrote and I know what I meant because I wrote it. You seem to be the one implying and implying quite a lot. It doesnt bother me i am not having the problem "

The art of writing is not just about what one says, but what might one reasonably infer.

It's odd that you're saying that you're not having a problem, because this quote tree is about "women who find it hard". By definition, you are not a woman who finds it hard. You are giving advice for women who finds it hard - whether misguided or not.

I'm also not finding it hard, although I am conveying my previous experiences. My filters are set to "fuck off". I get no unsolicited messages. It's delightful.

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By *aughtyPeepzMan
over a year ago

London

The common problem for most of us guys on here. It takes time

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Just looking for female and couples to chat with

I know I'm not the best looker out there but have a heart of gold and respect "

Op, if you relying on fab alone, be prepared to complete p0rnhub.

As a single man your best bet is to get along to organised socials and clubs, this will open up so many doors for you than fab alone....

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"What?

Single men don't get meets?

Since when?

And I've put all that time and effort into recreating my profile now there's onky one of me and no cute, blonde bait any more.

I may as well join that convent ans become a nun after all.

They let dudes become nuns don't they?

A

You might struggle to make it (into) a habit

But think about it. The only guy surrounded by all those sexually frustrated women.

It would be like the opposite of (apparently given this thread) many a single guys experience of Fab.

I have a cunning plan.......

A

I think your plan belongs in the stories and fantasies section. "

Don't kink shame me.

A

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"What?

Single men don't get meets?

Since when?

And I've put all that time and effort into recreating my profile now there's onky one of me and no cute, blonde bait any more.

I may as well join that convent ans become a nun after all.

They let dudes become nuns don't they?

A

You might struggle to make it (into) a habit

But think about it. The only guy surrounded by all those sexually frustrated women.

It would be like the opposite of (apparently given this thread) many a single guys experience of Fab.

I have a cunning plan.......

A

I think your plan belongs in the stories and fantasies section.

Don't kink shame me.

A"

Oh I'm not. I think it would be fun to write.

... although keeping up the appropriate rhythm might be interesting. No I don't mean in and out

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

And men are entitled... Who's the real problem?

Unrealistic expectations

Yes. People are wildly unrealistic in thinking that people should meet people they don't want to meet, or should have to justify their criteria to anyone

Did I say that, because I don't recall?

You said women who think it's hard think it's hard because they're picky.

Implying that to make life easier for themselves, they should change their standards, i.e. meet people who they currently do not want to meet. It's actually in the quote tree you've included

I know what i wrote and I know what I meant because I wrote it. You seem to be the one implying and implying quite a lot. It doesnt bother me i am not having the problem

The art of writing is not just about what one says, but what might one reasonably infer.

It's odd that you're saying that you're not having a problem, because this quote tree is about "women who find it hard". By definition, you are not a woman who finds it hard. You are giving advice for women who finds it hard - whether misguided or not.

I'm also not finding it hard, although I am conveying my previous experiences. My filters are set to "fuck off". I get no unsolicited messages. It's delightful."

Don't care about the art of writing you wasted time on that explanation.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Meanwhile.....

The weather is nice today. "

Good old men Vs women thread.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

And men are entitled... Who's the real problem?

Unrealistic expectations

Yes. People are wildly unrealistic in thinking that people should meet people they don't want to meet, or should have to justify their criteria to anyone

Did I say that, because I don't recall?

You said women who think it's hard think it's hard because they're picky.

Implying that to make life easier for themselves, they should change their standards, i.e. meet people who they currently do not want to meet. It's actually in the quote tree you've included

I know what i wrote and I know what I meant because I wrote it. You seem to be the one implying and implying quite a lot. It doesnt bother me i am not having the problem

The art of writing is not just about what one says, but what might one reasonably infer.

It's odd that you're saying that you're not having a problem, because this quote tree is about "women who find it hard". By definition, you are not a woman who finds it hard. You are giving advice for women who finds it hard - whether misguided or not.

I'm also not finding it hard, although I am conveying my previous experiences. My filters are set to "fuck off". I get no unsolicited messages. It's delightful.

Don't care about the art of writing you wasted time on that explanation. "

So you don't care about having your meaning understood?

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By *uckmonkeyMan
over a year ago

devon


"Try being a single woman here and then come back and tell me which is hardest

"

I always find it hard!!

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

And men are entitled... Who's the real problem?

Unrealistic expectations

Yes. People are wildly unrealistic in thinking that people should meet people they don't want to meet, or should have to justify their criteria to anyone

Did I say that, because I don't recall?

You said women who think it's hard think it's hard because they're picky.

Implying that to make life easier for themselves, they should change their standards, i.e. meet people who they currently do not want to meet. It's actually in the quote tree you've included

I know what i wrote and I know what I meant because I wrote it. You seem to be the one implying and implying quite a lot. It doesnt bother me i am not having the problem

The art of writing is not just about what one says, but what might one reasonably infer.

It's odd that you're saying that you're not having a problem, because this quote tree is about "women who find it hard". By definition, you are not a woman who finds it hard. You are giving advice for women who finds it hard - whether misguided or not.

I'm also not finding it hard, although I am conveying my previous experiences. My filters are set to "fuck off". I get no unsolicited messages. It's delightful.

Don't care about the art of writing you wasted time on that explanation.

So you don't care about having your meaning understood? "

If you don't understand what I've written that's on you. It's pretty clear

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"I feel your pain.

It’s impossible for a single male on here "

Apparently its all about personality not looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just looking for female and couples to chat with

I know I'm not the best looker out there but have a heart of gold and respect "

It is difficult OP and most Males will agree that it's a pain, Yeah, sending out Respectful Messages with comments to show you've read their profiles is better than "Hi, wanna sit on my cock?" but some Ladies/Couples get 100s of messages a day and it's difficult for them to sort the wheat from the chaff..

As has been pointed out, You've got Recent Veris (Mine are Historic from a Previous Profile - nothing new on those since I rejoined) and goto events.. You're doing it right, just have patience

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"I feel your pain.

It’s impossible for a single male on here

Apparently its all about personality not looks"

And dick cheese

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Meanwhile.....

The weather is nice today.

Good old men Vs women thread.

"

I've said "people" in several of my posts, and while some of my posts are specific to men, I could talk about women who demand you drop everything right now because they're a star on Fab, couples who think single women are inferior and are their playthings, and the same then bitching about picky people?

I've said several times that I've had more problems, proportionally, from women and couples.

Although men do seem to be extremely sensitive to any level of criticism.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Instead of people arguing n bickering about how bad fab is for anyone.

Here's an an idea, help each other out, in the prospect of improving everybody's fab experience. It's always so fucking negative wheres the postive experiences of fab that people have had

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks

And men are entitled... Who's the real problem?

Unrealistic expectations

Yes. People are wildly unrealistic in thinking that people should meet people they don't want to meet, or should have to justify their criteria to anyone

Did I say that, because I don't recall?

You said women who think it's hard think it's hard because they're picky.

Implying that to make life easier for themselves, they should change their standards, i.e. meet people who they currently do not want to meet. It's actually in the quote tree you've included

I know what i wrote and I know what I meant because I wrote it. You seem to be the one implying and implying quite a lot. It doesnt bother me i am not having the problem

The art of writing is not just about what one says, but what might one reasonably infer.

It's odd that you're saying that you're not having a problem, because this quote tree is about "women who find it hard". By definition, you are not a woman who finds it hard. You are giving advice for women who finds it hard - whether misguided or not.

I'm also not finding it hard, although I am conveying my previous experiences. My filters are set to "fuck off". I get no unsolicited messages. It's delightful.

Don't care about the art of writing you wasted time on that explanation.

So you don't care about having your meaning understood?

If you don't understand what I've written that's on you. It's pretty clear "

best of luck with all those picky women then

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"Try be a robot on here and then tell me if it's harder than being a man or woman.

Ain't no human women looking for robot cock.

Robot? Sign me the fuck up "

Ikr, wheres the sheet so I can put my name down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you advertise your self as:

Alright, in dave. Looking to meet birds, and couples. Must have pulse and vagina.

Opposed to:

Confident, attractive guy (so my mum tells me) seeks FWB for good times. Not looking for anything serious (unless you want seriously fucking) in which case I'm your guy.

I know who I'd rather meet from the perspective of the ladies (ok it'd be dave) but still that's my choice. I'm low on morals and dave knows he wants vagina. (Unfortunately I don't have a vagina) so the likely hood I'll ever meet dave (he's fictional you moron!!!) Is very slim....

And this is why I shouldn't post on forums.... because I end up talking with 3rd person Tallandathletic.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Meanwhile.....

The weather is nice today.

Good old men Vs women thread.

"

Innit.

If it was easy this site would have 32000 members.

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By *UFSWoman
over a year ago

belfast


"I feel your pain.

It’s impossible for a single male on here "

Hardly impossible now is it?

Considering you have 3 meet verifications

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By *reative-mindMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Well this is a great read....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Instead of people arguing n bickering about how bad fab is for anyone.

Here's an an idea, help each other out, in the prospect of improving everybody's fab experience. It's always so fucking negative wheres the postive experiences of fab that people have had "

I joined Fab on Day X. On day one I met a guy socially. On day four we were going to meet again. On day three I landed my stupid arse in the hospital, for some reason Kik was the only thing I could get reception for in my hospital bed. He kept me company when I was alone, in pain, and scared. He's still one of my best friends. (He still calls me a time waster - he said we should postpone the meet while I was sitting in A&E )

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If you advertise your self as:

Alright, in dave. Looking to meet birds, and couples. Must have pulse and vagina.

Opposed to:

Confident, attractive guy (so my mum tells me) seeks FWB for good times. Not looking for anything serious (unless you want seriously fucking) in which case I'm your guy.

I know who I'd rather meet from the perspective of the ladies (ok it'd be dave) but still that's my choice. I'm low on morals and dave knows he wants vagina. (Unfortunately I don't have a vagina) so the likely hood I'll ever meet dave (he's fictional you moron!!!) Is very slim....

And this is why I shouldn't post on forums.... because I end up talking with 3rd person Tallandathletic.

"

Swing agrees.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks "

Errrrrrr.... HELLO! He's right here... not there... here.

(See now that's quite arrogant of me. Confident, but arrogant at the same time. Some will hate it. Some will love it. But hopefully most see the humour, now I can't speak on behalf of woman kind. I'm a man. They're women, so how could I. But I can tell you now. The ones who see the humour. Will be the ones who click on my profile, because that is a glimmer of who I am)

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Give up now, spare yourself the pain

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington

Thought I'd not seen one of these for a week...and here it is. Just like clockwork.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just looking for female and couples to chat with

I know I'm not the best looker out there but have a heart of gold and respect "

I prefer single males,I think my age puts them off though

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

Been here since December and still aint got a meet

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By *esi_in_brusselsMan
over a year ago

Brussels, Belgium


"Just looking for female and couples to chat with

I know I'm not the best looker out there but have a heart of gold and respect

I prefer single males,I think my age puts them off though"
single male here , and looking at your beautiful pics I could say that age is just a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just looking for female and couples to chat with

I know I'm not the best looker out there but have a heart of gold and respect

I prefer single males,I think my age puts them off though single male here , and looking at your beautiful pics I could say that age is just a number"

Thank you

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Been here since December and still aint got a meet"

I'll.recant what I've said numerous times, get to socials and clubs. I've used fab as just fab dor years it was always graft. As soon as I took on a female friends advice to get myself out there, things changed for me on fab. Truth Is I rarely look on fab anymore I don't need to....

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"

The entitlement just drips off of some people as I said above.

Each side claiming it's harder for them than the other. Both claiming to be hard done by and disrespected within the nature of fab. It would be hilarious if it wasn't so sad and pathetic."

Not very friendly

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"

The entitlement just drips off of some people as I said above.

Each side claiming it's harder for them than the other. Both claiming to be hard done by and disrespected within the nature of fab. It would be hilarious if it wasn't so sad and pathetic.

Not very friendly "

It is not meant to be

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Meanwhile.....

The weather is nice today.

Good old men Vs women thread.

I've said "people" in several of my posts, and while some of my posts are specific to men, I could talk about women who demand you drop everything right now because they're a star on Fab, couples who think single women are inferior and are their playthings, and the same then bitching about picky people?

I've said several times that I've had more problems, proportionally, from women and couples.

Although men do seem to be extremely sensitive to any level of criticism."

When criticising men or women or couples I think SOME or MANY are good softening qualifying words. For example, some men to be extremely sensitive to any level of criticism. Or some ladies seem very bitter towards men after bad experiences Not you I should add

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Meanwhile.....

The weather is nice today.

Good old men Vs women thread.

I've said "people" in several of my posts, and while some of my posts are specific to men, I could talk about women who demand you drop everything right now because they're a star on Fab, couples who think single women are inferior and are their playthings, and the same then bitching about picky people?

I've said several times that I've had more problems, proportionally, from women and couples.

Although men do seem to be extremely sensitive to any level of criticism.

When criticising men or women or couples I think SOME or MANY are good softening qualifying words. For example, some men to be extremely sensitive to any level of criticism. Or some ladies seem very bitter towards men after bad experiences Not you I should add "

This is quite literally why the "not all men" hashtag exists though.

Maybe people should step back and ask whether it applies to them or not, rather than lashing out?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Women who say its hard, it's because your picky. Not every guy is 6'2, built like the hulk and in touch with his feminine side literally tripping over dicks "

I call bull on that.

It isn't being picky to stick to your preferences and not leap on any cock presented to you.

And not all women want 6'2" hulks who are in touch with their feminine side.

I'll take a 6'4" one though. Cocky fucker that he is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just looking for female and couples to chat with

I know I'm not the best looker out there but have a heart of gold and respect "

What we are looking for out of Fab is to meet genuine like minded people for regular fun. And perhaps the occasional random meet. Even last night at 11pm we got a message from a guy that basically said "wanna fuck now?" No hello, no politeness, nothing. We also had a message yesterday from a guy who seemed alright to begin with, we said we'd like to get to know him better to see how we got on. His reply was basically asking how soon we could meet. That was a bit pushy for us...

Single guys are absolutely on our list, however they def need to make an effort to make themselves stand out from the masses, which we know is a bit crap as we know not all guys are the same lol.

Mrs

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood

Depends on your expectations… conversation is easy as most blokes on here can’t read write or spell when testosterone blind. So women and cples welcome someone who can hold a conversation - then it’s all down to attraction but thats ultimately what here is about. You either want to get naked with each other or you don’t. With that in mind you can’t go far wrong i think.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Meanwhile.....

The weather is nice today.

Good old men Vs women thread.

I've said "people" in several of my posts, and while some of my posts are specific to men, I could talk about women who demand you drop everything right now because they're a star on Fab, couples who think single women are inferior and are their playthings, and the same then bitching about picky people?

I've said several times that I've had more problems, proportionally, from women and couples.

Although men do seem to be extremely sensitive to any level of criticism.

When criticising men or women or couples I think SOME or MANY are good softening qualifying words. For example, some men to be extremely sensitive to any level of criticism. Or some ladies seem very bitter towards men after bad experiences Not you I should add

This is quite literally why the "not all men" hashtag exists though.

Maybe people should step back and ask whether it applies to them or not, rather than lashing out?"

Agreed people shouldn't lash out especially not nastily. No harm in being a bit more precise with language though. No hashtags here And as you say get similar with ladies or couples when people make seemingly general comments.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Meanwhile.....

The weather is nice today.

Good old men Vs women thread.

I've said "people" in several of my posts, and while some of my posts are specific to men, I could talk about women who demand you drop everything right now because they're a star on Fab, couples who think single women are inferior and are their playthings, and the same then bitching about picky people?

I've said several times that I've had more problems, proportionally, from women and couples.

Although men do seem to be extremely sensitive to any level of criticism.

When criticising men or women or couples I think SOME or MANY are good softening qualifying words. For example, some men to be extremely sensitive to any level of criticism. Or some ladies seem very bitter towards men after bad experiences Not you I should add

This is quite literally why the "not all men" hashtag exists though.

Maybe people should step back and ask whether it applies to them or not, rather than lashing out?

Agreed people shouldn't lash out especially not nastily. No harm in being a bit more precise with language though. No hashtags here And as you say get similar with ladies or couples when people make seemingly general comments. "

Sure.

I do think it's a losing proposition, because I have tried. Even if you say something like "a tiny minority of men do this and most men are wonderful and they rock my world and are amazing and are much better than women and it's not all men"... you'll still get people getting mad because they're not like that. And eventually I feel like, why am I wasting my time placating people (not just men, even though I use men in this example) when the reasonable ones will already know I don't mean them, and the unreasonable ones will complain anyway?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Did it get a little heated in here?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Literally batting them off with a big shitty stick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard for men in relationships on here too. They have to be sneaky

F

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle


"Been here since December and still aint got a meet

I'll.recant what I've said numerous times, get to socials and clubs. I've used fab as just fab dor years it was always graft. As soon as I took on a female friends advice to get myself out there, things changed for me on fab. Truth Is I rarely look on fab anymore I don't need to.... "

This ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too long - didn’t read.

What was the conclusion in the end?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Thank fuck that's over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good hard being a single male on here, everyone

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