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"If it's a job you're not too keen on why as you interviewing for it. It will affect references as most employers (who ask for references) want one in connection with your current job." Little option really Previously was in the office but cut backs meant emptying bins, agrivating back knee and ankle injuries. An office based job has come up. It's either that or the dole as I can't keep doing current role any longer | |||
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"It won’t reflect on them. They will be asked if they think you can do the role and they will be asked if they would rehire you knowing what they know about you now. If they answer both of those questions ‘yes’, they won’t be held accountable if you don’t rise to the expectations of the new job " Thanks | |||
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"No. A reference covers work you did not what you do next. " Thanks | |||
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"No. A reference covers work you did not what you do next. " I think he means he scared he will boich the next job up and therefore get a bad reference for the job after that. | |||
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"No. A reference covers work you did not what you do next. I think he means he scared he will boich the next job up and therefore get a bad reference for the job after that." That too but don't want to get the people giving me a reference from my previous office work in a bad light seeing as they work for the same organisation that I'm applying for | |||
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"OP in my experience they rarely write bad references as they are scared it might come back on them plus they are generally so pleased to see the back of a bad employee that they dont jeopardise it. It sounds like you need this job charge for the sake of your health so go smash it!!" Thanks just was worried I'd get my references into trouble if I'm no good at he job seeing as they work for the same organisation I'm applying for | |||
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"Don’t worry about the references. Focus your energy on how you can succeed in the new role, what support and development you’ll need , be positive - sounds like a good opportunity given the situation " Thanks | |||
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"No. A reference covers work you did not what you do next. I think he means he scared he will boich the next job up and therefore get a bad reference for the job after that." Ok fair point. A few additions then: A bad reference is technically illegal. The worst you can expect is a minimum reference ( dates worked, position). Sone employers operate a minimum reference only policy regardless, for this reason. You won’t botch the job. Whomever assessed you as suitable for the new job did so in the basis they were capable to assess your capability. Trust that process, have faith in yourself. Most jobs have a probation period. Don’t punch the boss, watch porn at work, or burn the plsce down. You’ll pass. That’s why it’s there. It’s a new job, emphasis on new. You will learn new things, emphasis on learn. Don’t start expecting you should know everything before you start, or in 3 months. You won’t and aren’t expected to. That’s why it’s a new job. Good luck | |||
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"No. A reference covers work you did not what you do next. I think he means he scared he will boich the next job up and therefore get a bad reference for the job after that. Ok fair point. A few additions then: A bad reference is technically illegal. The worst you can expect is a minimum reference ( dates worked, position). Sone employers operate a minimum reference only policy regardless, for this reason. You won’t botch the job. Whomever assessed you as suitable for the new job did so in the basis they were capable to assess your capability. Trust that process, have faith in yourself. Most jobs have a probation period. Don’t punch the boss, watch porn at work, or burn the plsce down. You’ll pass. That’s why it’s there. It’s a new job, emphasis on new. You will learn new things, emphasis on learn. Don’t start expecting you should know everything before you start, or in 3 months. You won’t and aren’t expected to. That’s why it’s a new job. Good luck " Thanks . Was just concerned I may get my references into trouble if they say I'm great then if I get the job and rubbish at it. They work in the same organisation I'm applying for | |||
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"No. A reference covers work you did not what you do next. I think he means he scared he will boich the next job up and therefore get a bad reference for the job after that. Ok fair point. A few additions then: A bad reference is technically illegal. The worst you can expect is a minimum reference ( dates worked, position). Sone employers operate a minimum reference only policy regardless, for this reason. You won’t botch the job. Whomever assessed you as suitable for the new job did so in the basis they were capable to assess your capability. Trust that process, have faith in yourself. Most jobs have a probation period. Don’t punch the boss, watch porn at work, or burn the plsce down. You’ll pass. That’s why it’s there. It’s a new job, emphasis on new. You will learn new things, emphasis on learn. Don’t start expecting you should know everything before you start, or in 3 months. You won’t and aren’t expected to. That’s why it’s a new job. Good luck Thanks . Was just concerned I may get my references into trouble if they say I'm great then if I get the job and rubbish at it. They work in the same organisation I'm applying for " References are an opinion not a contract. Someone can be great at one job, not so in another and often for reasons outside capability eg team fit, culture etc. Easy to say but stop worrying. | |||
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"No. A reference covers work you did not what you do next. I think he means he scared he will boich the next job up and therefore get a bad reference for the job after that. Ok fair point. A few additions then: A bad reference is technically illegal. The worst you can expect is a minimum reference ( dates worked, position). Sone employers operate a minimum reference only policy regardless, for this reason. You won’t botch the job. Whomever assessed you as suitable for the new job did so in the basis they were capable to assess your capability. Trust that process, have faith in yourself. Most jobs have a probation period. Don’t punch the boss, watch porn at work, or burn the plsce down. You’ll pass. That’s why it’s there. It’s a new job, emphasis on new. You will learn new things, emphasis on learn. Don’t start expecting you should know everything before you start, or in 3 months. You won’t and aren’t expected to. That’s why it’s a new job. Good luck " Yeah I'll be asking about training for the job. Yeah lacking confidence is a long standing issue for me. | |||
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"No. A reference covers work you did not what you do next. I think he means he scared he will boich the next job up and therefore get a bad reference for the job after that. Ok fair point. A few additions then: A bad reference is technically illegal. The worst you can expect is a minimum reference ( dates worked, position). Sone employers operate a minimum reference only policy regardless, for this reason. You won’t botch the job. Whomever assessed you as suitable for the new job did so in the basis they were capable to assess your capability. Trust that process, have faith in yourself. Most jobs have a probation period. Don’t punch the boss, watch porn at work, or burn the plsce down. You’ll pass. That’s why it’s there. It’s a new job, emphasis on new. You will learn new things, emphasis on learn. Don’t start expecting you should know everything before you start, or in 3 months. You won’t and aren’t expected to. That’s why it’s a new job. Good luck Thanks . Was just concerned I may get my references into trouble if they say I'm great then if I get the job and rubbish at it. They work in the same organisation I'm applying for References are an opinion not a contract. Someone can be great at one job, not so in another and often for reasons outside capability eg team fit, culture etc. Easy to say but stop worrying. " Cheers your a very knowledgeable person.. your helps very much appreciated | |||
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