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"I like to send a new pic, it normally kills the conversation but that's the risk. " Ha! No pp, have faith in the joy of your private parts. I'm not really talking about randomly sending them, just to people where there's reciprocated desire. :D | |||
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"Well Meli, I’m glad you’ve asked. I have been fortunate enough to have received the occasional direct photo taken in the moment. Both nude and clothed and there is definitely that little bit more connection through it. I hope the pics that I have sent in a similar vein have been equally as well received. I hope this helps with your query. Fiddles x" Hello Fiddles This is a very sensible and flirt free reply from you, thank you for addressing my query. Direct photos taken in the moment are wonderful aren't they? They don't have to have everything wapped out, it's just that thought which is lovely. I'm certain your photos will have been very gratefully received. With thanks Meli | |||
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"Well Meli, I’m glad you’ve asked. I have been fortunate enough to have received the occasional direct photo taken in the moment. Both nude and clothed and there is definitely that little bit more connection through it. I hope the pics that I have sent in a similar vein have been equally as well received. I hope this helps with your query. Fiddles x Hello Fiddles This is a very sensible and flirt free reply from you, thank you for addressing my query. Direct photos taken in the moment are wonderful aren't they? They don't have to have everything wapped out, it's just that thought which is lovely. I'm certain your photos will have been very gratefully received. With thanks Meli" Fiddles will tell you I happily send live there n then pussy pictures | |||
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"I don't send nudes infact I don't send topless pics either,I like to keep something for the imagination, for me it would be like unwrapped Christmas presents where's the fun it that? Each to there own though" Oh the Christmas present analogy. I'm not going to get in to that because I'm very happy this morning. :D If it's not for you, that's fair enough. Not everyone does it. Nor should people do it if they don't want to. | |||
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"I guess it is different for women. I’ve never been asked for one so I’ve never had to think about it. Maybe I’d take a new one though" Ah I hadn't thought about that! Perhaps it is different for women. I rarely, very rarely ask for nudes. I like seeing faces or what someone is wearing/doing in the moment. Faces are a big thing for me. Hmmm... maybe I shouldn't have limited it to nudes. :D | |||
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"I guess it is different for women. I’ve never been asked for one so I’ve never had to think about it. Maybe I’d take a new one though Ah I hadn't thought about that! Perhaps it is different for women. I rarely, very rarely ask for nudes. I like seeing faces or what someone is wearing/doing in the moment. Faces are a big thing for me. Hmmm... maybe I shouldn't have limited it to nudes. :D" They all say that. And them bam. In drops my face pic and they go quiet. *thinking emoji* | |||
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"I guess it is different for women. I’ve never been asked for one so I’ve never had to think about it. Maybe I’d take a new one though Ah I hadn't thought about that! Perhaps it is different for women. I rarely, very rarely ask for nudes. I like seeing faces or what someone is wearing/doing in the moment. Faces are a big thing for me. Hmmm... maybe I shouldn't have limited it to nudes. :D They all say that. And them bam. In drops my face pic and they go quiet. *thinking emoji*" the ooof moment. all the air just sucked out of the room. | |||
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"That depends on serton things I taller make my picture for the person or profile ie If it’s a woman it would be different pics to if say it was a man same for couples or tv/ts For instance If it was a couple the nudes would be taller made for both If it’s for a woman the pictures would be taller made for her If it’s a guy it would be taller made for him but probably recycled as I have that much off a back log off pictures As my profile is more taller made for guys as that’s the easiest to meet so suit my profile to them If a woman wants stuff they need to passively ask for it because I don’t set my profile up to suit them Same with couples It’s set up for convenience ie men are just play toys for me It’s convenient to just meet guys while looking for woman and couples " Ah I see. I hadn't really thought about tailoring it based on it being for men/women/couples, more individual than that. Recycling from your point of view I can understand - if there's a wealth of material and you're happy to do that, why not? | |||
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"That depends on serton things I taller make my picture for the person or profile ie If it’s a woman it would be different pics to if say it was a man same for couples or tv/ts For instance If it was a couple the nudes would be taller made for both If it’s for a woman the pictures would be taller made for her If it’s a guy it would be taller made for him but probably recycled as I have that much off a back log off pictures As my profile is more taller made for guys as that’s the easiest to meet so suit my profile to them If a woman wants stuff they need to passively ask for it because I don’t set my profile up to suit them Same with couples It’s set up for convenience ie men are just play toys for me It’s convenient to just meet guys while looking for woman and couples Ah I see. I hadn't really thought about tailoring it based on it being for men/women/couples, more individual than that. Recycling from your point of view I can understand - if there's a wealth of material and you're happy to do that, why not? " I was more talking the style off the picture | |||
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"Mine are tailored to arrive smack bang in the middle of visits to Specsavers, between test and new glasses arrival, to give me the best chance of actually getting laid. " That made me lol, literally just booked eye test for today.. | |||
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"sending nudes. So, you're sending a nude. Or receiving one. Do you take one specifically for that person? Are you cool with recycling one? If you're receiving one (from a person you like) would you rather they took one just for you or not too fussed? What sort of photos give you a yes please feeling and what type give you a no thanks?" Ohh, wry good question! We really don’t throw nudes around, much less ones that are identifiably us. But, we don’t mind if they are recent or made for us. We only care that they are in context to the conversation and our tastes. We don’t like to see inside anyone, we’re not gynaecologists lol | |||
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"I'm mostly in the scud on my profile so there'd be no need for me to send nudes " Truuuuu | |||
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"Sending nudes... it's a lost årt for me. So much so that it's been relegated to the archives in some musty wood panelled vestibule... I don't send nudes because I don't have the body confidence for it, and indeed there really isn't much to look at. (Thankfully it does just fine for making love) There was only one time I sent a (partial) nude to a woman, years ago. She put me on the spot and I took ages trying to create the perfect composition and pose without it looking contrived. It looked contrived! Thankfully she wasn't shocked; I think she appreciated it. As for receiving - I don't think I have ever received a full nude photo and that's probably an indication of the calibre of women I engage with on here (I wouldn't be averse to it however). I have received shots of their breasts or quinny, tastefully taken without any indication of vulgarity. It never occurs to me if the photo/s they are sending are stock images recycled from their library or something they have taken for me exclusively. Either way I am appreciative... Appreciative because I have ·never· asked for a photo from anyone from Fab and it's a policy that serves me well: there was one couple who almost fell out with each other (and me) and caused me no end of upset, hurt and offence: the wife would occasionally send me nudes or risqué photos and it caused untold consternation and annoyance with the husband, with me caught in the middle of this unprompted drama. I walk on eggshells on here because they still actively roam the corridors of the fab fora. " Oh Nero you cad. :D I'm back now, not going to faint and while I hate replying to posts from hours ago, I did promise I'd read this. Calibre of women and not receiving full nudes... I like you so I shall not touch that. Ah, see I'm a bit odd about ones I receive. Especially if they're of a more intimate nature. If you've sent it to someone other than me? Don't bother sending it to me. I'm good. :D I like personalised ones, they don't have to be nude. Heck, I love seeing smiling faces. Ones that say they were thinking of me. As far as the final paragraph goes ... I've experienced similar. They don't use the fora but the male half was very keen and would frequently send me intimate photos. The female half, less so. Very obviously less so. I faded out that chat to avoid the awkwardness and drama. Never dim your light for another Nero, keep shining brightly x | |||
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" I have received shots of their breasts or quinny, tastefully taken without any indication of vulgarity." What's the discerning factor between tasteful and vulgar when it comes to breast and quinny pics | |||
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" I have received shots of their breasts or quinny, tastefully taken without any indication of vulgarity. What's the discerning factor between tasteful and vulgar when it comes to breast and quinny pics" • They don't have quarts of semen gushing out from a great height like the Angel Falls and they don't resemble yesterday's roadkill. | |||
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"sending nudes. So, you're sending a nude. Or receiving one. Do you take one specifically for that person? Are you cool with recycling one? If you're receiving one (from a person you like) would you rather they took one just for you or not too fussed? What sort of photos give you a yes please feeling and what type give you a no thanks?" So, I've only done the whole pics and vids thing with Mr...yes it took me until I was in my 40s to even go there lol. I tend to take pics at the time for him...so he's always getting something new. And out of these pics I will sometimes add one or two to Fab. Mrs | |||
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"We have both sent nudes, as individuals and as a couple. Some - to lovelies we really like engaging with - have been spontaneous and in the moment. Others are older photos we have taken for ourselves or each other, but are happy to share with extra people. Sending them as part of an ongoing conversation is an exciting thing to do, knowing they are appreciated. Receiving them is wonderful. It’s an expression of trust, of intimacy, of lust and desire. Taken in the moment, just for you, is even better. We have old friends we share pics with from time to time, but it’s been a long while since we got to know someone well enough to be spontaneous. As for dick pics, which I guess are a specific kind of nude, I’ve only sent these when requested. How do you feel about sending and receiving Meli? Xx" Hello George, I'm guessing it's you. It's an educated guess though, can't take all the credit. I love being sent photos. Love voice notes. Long waffling messages. Anything that says another person has thought of me which neatly brings me on to the next point. I don't really like recycled photos of a more intimate nature. Not if their intent is to create a flutter of arousal in me, to have a deeper intimacy. I can't help but think - this isn't for me. Not really. I'm at that age where random photos fired off to everyone in the hope someone bites? It won't be me. I don't really request nudes. If someone enjoys taking photos; I'll always ask for face or as you are in the moment ones. In terms of sending them? I don't really get asked for them often. I have a friend who'd ask to see a specific body part after our date because he loved seeing that. I was more than happy to send that. Sometimes I wish I could be objectified physically.:D | |||
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"I'm a simple man... I like pussy pics." I had no idea Lib; you've never mentioned that before. | |||
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" I have received shots of their breasts or quinny, tastefully taken without any indication of vulgarity. What's the discerning factor between tasteful and vulgar when it comes to breast and quinny pics • They don't have quarts of semen gushing out from a great height like the Angel Falls and they don't resemble yesterday's roadkill." And the breasts? | |||
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"Other than the ones on my account, I don't have any pics of me. So it would always be one I took specifically." So... that one... it was just for me? | |||
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"I'm a simple man... I like pussy pics. I had no idea Lib; you've never mentioned that before." | |||
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"Other than the ones on my account, I don't have any pics of me. So it would always be one I took specifically. So... that one... it was just for me? " Of course | |||
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"I’m lazy. Can’t I just add them and direct them to my friends only gallery? It’s filth in there " No. Don't be a wasteman. | |||
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"sending nudes. So, you're sending a nude. Or receiving one. Do you take one specifically for that person? Are you cool with recycling one? If you're receiving one (from a person you like) would you rather they took one just for you or not too fussed? What sort of photos give you a yes please feeling and what type give you a no thanks?" Not sure Meli- don't really get many...any chance of some examples of a recycled one and a bespoke on in my inbox and i'll let you know if they have any difference | |||
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"I don't send nudes infact I don't send topless pics either,I like to keep something for the imagination, for me it would be like unwrapped Christmas presents where's the fun it that? Each to there own though" I think one taken for the person has more impact and as a cousin to the above post, you can take a nude that excites the imagination, without revealing everything. Think Christine Keeler chair. | |||
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" I have received shots of their breasts or quinny, tastefully taken without any indication of vulgarity. What's the discerning factor between tasteful and vulgar when it comes to breast and quinny pics • They don't have quarts of semen gushing out from a great height like the Angel Falls and they don't resemble yesterday's roadkill. · And the breasts?" • If the nipples are long enough to resemble coat hooks for me to hang my shame, then it's all good. | |||
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" I have received shots of their breasts or quinny, tastefully taken without any indication of vulgarity. What's the discerning factor between tasteful and vulgar when it comes to breast and quinny pics • They don't have quarts of semen gushing out from a great height like the Angel Falls and they don't resemble yesterday's roadkill." How put out would you feel if you met the most charming delighful woman and you start getting to know each other in the biblical sense only to discover she had roadkill in her drawers all along | |||
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"I’m lazy. Can’t I just add them and direct them to my friends only gallery? It’s filth in there No. Don't be a wasteman." Bludclartttttttt. Snm Meli | |||
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