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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So you see someone you like on Fab. You open their profile, read the two lines to find out throttle fill it in later, or something… nice photos, even nicer tits/bum, chest/legs etc….

And then you check out the verifications.

Here’s the question - Do you think they just saw them once, or they’re at it all the time? How many other assumptions do we read into stuff that we don’t read?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's someone I like I avoid reading them as I can guarantee they'll put me off.

I reckon it's obvious on the forums who's doing who though.

Eh woody

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it's someone I like I avoid reading them as I can guarantee they'll put me off.

I reckon it's obvious on the forums who's doing who though.

Eh woody "

How many are you doing? …….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's someone I like I avoid reading them as I can guarantee they'll put me off.

I reckon it's obvious on the forums who's doing who though.

Eh woody

How many are you doing? …….

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Guess

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I don't assume. It's dangerous territory. I just presume. It's far safer.

Throttling is good too. Autoerotic asphyxiation in small doses however.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it's someone I like I avoid reading them as I can guarantee they'll put me off.

I reckon it's obvious on the forums who's doing who though.

Eh woody

How many are you doing? …….

Guess "

Is he a new site user?

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"If it's someone I like I avoid reading them as I can guarantee they'll put me off.

I reckon it's obvious on the forums who's doing who though.

Eh woody "

Oh this reminds me of a thread Meli did once pairing forumites off and giving her reasonings for the pairings! If you get a spare day Meli, that was a great thread...!

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I don't assume. It's dangerous territory. I just presume. It's far safer.

Throttling is good too. Autoerotic asphyxiation in small doses however."

Yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's someone I like I avoid reading them as I can guarantee they'll put me off.

I reckon it's obvious on the forums who's doing who though.

Eh woody

How many are you doing? …….

Guess

Is he a new site user? "

Rude

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't assume. It's dangerous territory. I just presume. It's far safer.

Throttling is good too. Autoerotic asphyxiation in small doses however."

Ahhh. Presuming. I like people being presumptuous about things that are incorrect, I let them run with it, it’s entertaining.

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

I just chat to them, and go from there.

Assumptions are often wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it's someone I like I avoid reading them as I can guarantee they'll put me off.

I reckon it's obvious on the forums who's doing who though.

Eh woody

How many are you doing? …….

Guess

Is he a new site user?

Rude"

Eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just chat to them, and go from there.

Assumptions are often wrong."

My assumptions are usually pretty spot on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I think it's fairly obvious who I'm doing and I'm OK with that but that doesn't mean others are off limits.

I'd hate to think it was putting people off either of us.

Verifications are really a bit of nonsense. Beyond something that says doesn't have 3 heads and looks kinda like their photos, they are subjective and pretty meaningless. You have to form your own opinion.

I admit though, I do get put off if everyone they meet is a size 8 model looking type as it tells me I really wouldn't be for them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it's someone I like I avoid reading them as I can guarantee they'll put me off.

I reckon it's obvious on the forums who's doing who though.

Eh woody

Oh this reminds me of a thread Meli did once pairing forumites off and giving her reasonings for the pairings! If you get a spare day Meli, that was a great thread...! "

But people flirt. If I was to pair people up from flirting, this place would be an orgy!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"I don't assume. It's dangerous territory. I just presume. It's far safer.

Throttling is good too. Autoerotic asphyxiation in small doses however.

·

Ahhh. Presuming. I like people being presumptuous about things that are incorrect, I let them run with it, it’s entertaining. "

•

But there is more assurdity in presuming because it's based upon loose facts, whereas assuming is just guesswork.

But it is entertaining...

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"I don't assume. It's dangerous territory. I just presume. It's far safer.

Throttling is good too. Autoerotic asphyxiation in small doses however.

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Yes please "

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Noted...for future reference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s in a veri?

A veri from any other person would mean the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I'm feeling very mischievous.

How many and who are they??? I bet you don't get them all!!!

Was it once twice or more?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"If it's someone I like I avoid reading them as I can guarantee they'll put me off.

I reckon it's obvious on the forums who's doing who though.

Eh woody

Oh this reminds me of a thread Meli did once pairing forumites off and giving her reasonings for the pairings! If you get a spare day Meli, that was a great thread...! "

Ha, I might do it next week. This week zero chance. I loved it. Good bottle of red, lockdown, pairing people based on profile/forum postings. It was a good laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's someone I like I avoid reading them as I can guarantee they'll put me off.

I reckon it's obvious on the forums who's doing who though.

Eh woody

How many are you doing? …….

Guess

Is he a new site user?

Rude

Eh? "

Oh i thought you were implying he'd have to not know me to meet me!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I assume everything. Mostly that the two people have shacked up and are churning out crotch goblins.

Which is complicated when it's two guys or two ladies, but that's just where my imagination takes me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I assume everything. Mostly that the two people have shacked up and are churning out crotch goblins.

Which is complicated when it's two guys or two ladies, but that's just where my imagination takes me..."

I'll keep ours hidden Posh

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Love checking out people verris just nosey me! Never assume anything though x

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I assume everything. Mostly that the two people have shacked up and are churning out crotch goblins.

Which is complicated when it's two guys or two ladies, but that's just where my imagination takes me...

I'll keep ours hidden Posh "

The verification or the crotch goblins?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I assume everything. Mostly that the two people have shacked up and are churning out crotch goblins.

Which is complicated when it's two guys or two ladies, but that's just where my imagination takes me...

I'll keep ours hidden Posh

The verification or the crotch goblins? "

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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As far as the OP goes, I don't really have the energy to make assumptions like that. If I'm feeling lazy, doing nothing and wanting a busman's holiday, it can be fun to put two and two together.

Generally, no. Veris reveal fuck all. I deliberately avoid posting veris that let others know. If you know? Either myself or the other person has told you. Or you've seen us together. I actively try and keep it more discreet on here. Sure, I'll post about going on dates etc but bar two people, the majority probably don't give a fuck or have a clue who with.

Yeah, sometimes I'm put off someone because of veris. Not because of negative reasons for the most part - it's generally when I can just feel that... there's something more there. And I don't want to be discussed as some sort of fluffer for what they really want.

Well there's a fuckton of waffle. Happy Tuesday everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TripAdvisor for sexual conquests.

I'm good but I'll pass on being validated by someone I've met once.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Not interested in veris they wouldn't change my opinion of anyone, I take them with a pinch of salt.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

If it's a verification from a woman I wouldn't assume anything.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"TripAdvisor for sexual conquests.

I'm good but I'll pass on being validated by someone I've met once."

But I'm really, really good at writing verifications! I can make a coffee sound like the greatest love story in history

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"If it's a verification from a woman I wouldn't assume anything."

*checks all her veris from women...*

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"TripAdvisor for sexual conquests.

I'm good but I'll pass on being validated by someone I've met once.

But I'm really, really good at writing verifications! I can make a coffee sound like the greatest love story in history "

Exactly this ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"TripAdvisor for sexual conquests.

I'm good but I'll pass on being validated by someone I've met once.

But I'm really, really good at writing verifications! I can make a coffee sound like the greatest love story in history "

I could write my own

"Complete let down yet amazing.

Body work of a sport car yet stamina of an asthmatic yak. Best feature is his humour, which merely passing the time as he fumbles to find one missing sock, whilst his ball bag hangs out of the bottom of his boxer shorts. Funny guy, best 2 minutes of my life"

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"TripAdvisor for sexual conquests.

I'm good but I'll pass on being validated by someone I've met once.

But I'm really, really good at writing verifications! I can make a coffee sound like the greatest love story in history

I could write my own

"Complete let down yet amazing.

Body work of a sport car yet stamina of an asthmatic yak. Best feature is his humour, which merely passing the time as he fumbles to find one missing sock, whilst his ball bag hangs out of the bottom of his boxer shorts. Funny guy, best 2 minutes of my life""

Just going to save that one for later...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"….

Just going to save that one for later..."

That’s one of my verifications!!!!

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

I love checking veris out. A mixture of bad porn and poor English...If I'm lucky

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