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I suppose much depends on the situation, the person, how turned on I actually am and how confident I'm feeling.
I'm pretty sure all of us have had things we thought we wouldn't be into and then you try when aroused(because in that moment it feels right) and suddenly realise you love it and want it again.
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"It's not going to be about sex. Well, not in the usual smutty writing style. Breathe a sigh of relief, it's okay. When you're aroused, do you find you're more likely to find things arousing that day to day would make you say "fuck no"? Do you ever do things/people when you're aroused and later think, oh dear? Or are you pretty much the same, just, you know, aroused?" In answer to your first question,sometimes yes, to my everlasting shame. Second question, yes post wank shame is a thing. When that lurid fantasy that flooded my mind and engorged my cock now fills me with more shame and revulsion. There was an episode of This American Life podcast about testosterone. It told of a woman that was getting testosterone injections while transitioning. She said she couldn't understand why she was suddenly getting aroused from the rumble of a car engine or watching the photocopier working. | |||
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Seriously though, yes that's happened many times. The more aroused I get, the less inhibitions I have.
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However, I've never actually acted on those thoughts in person with anyone. Yet (yes, she needs to put in that caveat in case PervePosh one day manages to get us into a situation where we have 2 cocks in the bum and a traffic cone in the fanangulator while sucking off a train of guys at a gloryhole).
Mostly it just tends to mean that if I am with someone who wants to get naked and sexy with me (and I them), I lose a lot of my inhibitions and end up having a spectacularly hot, sweaty, very wet time that leaves me with all the good aches and pains, him with scratches, me then with marks on my wrists where I've been restrained and on my arse where he has belted me, and a massive puddle on the bed (sofa, table, floor, car, wherever). Or it means he is a husk of a man where I've licked, sucked, stroked and milked the cum out of him over and over until he is empty and I'm full.
And then I want more.
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"So there's a couple (three, maybe four) of days in my cycle where I usually have the crazy raging superhorn. It's bad. Unstoppable. Takes over my entire brain and turns it into PervePosh. She's even more outrageous than regular Posh. And on those days I do tend to apologise to the forum as a whole. On those days, I can find myself aroused by almost anything, from specific people. And my brain goes off down the rabbit hole of all sorts of things that on an average day I'd think "hmm. Interesting but not wankworthy." I have, on occasion, on the following average day, then thought "oh Posh. Just no."
However, I've never actually acted on those thoughts in person with anyone. Yet (yes, she needs to put in that caveat in case PervePosh one day manages to get us into a situation where we have 2 cocks in the bum and a traffic cone in the fanangulator while sucking off a train of guys at a gloryhole).
Mostly it just tends to mean that if I am with someone who wants to get naked and sexy with me (and I them), I lose a lot of my inhibitions and end up having a spectacularly hot, sweaty, very wet time that leaves me with all the good aches and pains, him with scratches, me then with marks on my wrists where I've been restrained and on my arse where he has belted me, and a massive puddle on the bed (sofa, table, floor, car, wherever). Or it means he is a husk of a man where I've licked, sucked, stroked and milked the cum out of him over and over until he is empty and I'm full.
And then I want more.
I'm not even sure what the question was now. Did I answer?"Sounds like a dream I once had, lucky fellow.  | |||
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"So there's a couple (three, maybe four) of days in my cycle where I usually have the crazy raging superhorn. It's bad. Unstoppable. Takes over my entire brain and turns it into PervePosh. She's even more outrageous than regular Posh. And on those days I do tend to apologise to the forum as a whole. On those days, I can find myself aroused by almost anything, from specific people. And my brain goes off down the rabbit hole of all sorts of things that on an average day I'd think "hmm. Interesting but not wankworthy." I have, on occasion, on the following average day, then thought "oh Posh. Just no."
However, I've never actually acted on those thoughts in person with anyone. Yet (yes, she needs to put in that caveat in case PervePosh one day manages to get us into a situation where we have 2 cocks in the bum and a traffic cone in the fanangulator while sucking off a train of guys at a gloryhole).
Mostly it just tends to mean that if I am with someone who wants to get naked and sexy with me (and I them), I lose a lot of my inhibitions and end up having a spectacularly hot, sweaty, very wet time that leaves me with all the good aches and pains, him with scratches, me then with marks on my wrists where I've been restrained and on my arse where he has belted me, and a massive puddle on the bed (sofa, table, floor, car, wherever). Or it means he is a husk of a man where I've licked, sucked, stroked and milked the cum out of him over and over until he is empty and I'm full.
And then I want more.
I'm not even sure what the question was now. Did I answer?
Sounds like a dream I once had, lucky fellow. "Such a dreamer you are | |||
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"So there's a couple (three, maybe four) of days in my cycle where I usually have the crazy raging superhorn. It's bad. Unstoppable. Takes over my entire brain and turns it into PervePosh. She's even more outrageous than regular Posh. And on those days I do tend to apologise to the forum as a whole. On those days, I can find myself aroused by almost anything, from specific people. And my brain goes off down the rabbit hole of all sorts of things that on an average day I'd think "hmm. Interesting but not wankworthy." I have, on occasion, on the following average day, then thought "oh Posh. Just no."
However, I've never actually acted on those thoughts in person with anyone. Yet (yes, she needs to put in that caveat in case PervePosh one day manages to get us into a situation where we have 2 cocks in the bum and a traffic cone in the fanangulator while sucking off a train of guys at a gloryhole).
Mostly it just tends to mean that if I am with someone who wants to get naked and sexy with me (and I them), I lose a lot of my inhibitions and end up having a spectacularly hot, sweaty, very wet time that leaves me with all the good aches and pains, him with scratches, me then with marks on my wrists where I've been restrained and on my arse where he has belted me, and a massive puddle on the bed (sofa, table, floor, car, wherever). Or it means he is a husk of a man where I've licked, sucked, stroked and milked the cum out of him over and over until he is empty and I'm full.
And then I want more.
I'm not even sure what the question was now. Did I answer?
Sounds like a dream I once had, lucky fellow.
Such a dreamer you are "Life is but a dream | |||
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"So there's a couple (three, maybe four) of days in my cycle where I usually have the crazy raging superhorn. It's bad. Unstoppable. Takes over my entire brain and turns it into PervePosh. She's even more outrageous than regular Posh. And on those days I do tend to apologise to the forum as a whole. On those days, I can find myself aroused by almost anything, from specific people. And my brain goes off down the rabbit hole of all sorts of things that on an average day I'd think "hmm. Interesting but not wankworthy." I have, on occasion, on the following average day, then thought "oh Posh. Just no."
However, I've never actually acted on those thoughts in person with anyone. Yet (yes, she needs to put in that caveat in case PervePosh one day manages to get us into a situation where we have 2 cocks in the bum and a traffic cone in the fanangulator while sucking off a train of guys at a gloryhole).
Mostly it just tends to mean that if I am with someone who wants to get naked and sexy with me (and I them), I lose a lot of my inhibitions and end up having a spectacularly hot, sweaty, very wet time that leaves me with all the good aches and pains, him with scratches, me then with marks on my wrists where I've been restrained and on my arse where he has belted me, and a massive puddle on the bed (sofa, table, floor, car, wherever). Or it means he is a husk of a man where I've licked, sucked, stroked and milked the cum out of him over and over until he is empty and I'm full.
And then I want more.
I'm not even sure what the question was now. Did I answer?"Sounds very familiar!! D has said he braces himself for that bit of my cycle and bought a fucking machine for self preservation..  | |||
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"So there's a couple (three, maybe four) of days in my cycle where I usually have the crazy raging superhorn. It's bad. Unstoppable. Takes over my entire brain and turns it into PervePosh. She's even more outrageous than regular Posh. And on those days I do tend to apologise to the forum as a whole. On those days, I can find myself aroused by almost anything, from specific people. And my brain goes off down the rabbit hole of all sorts of things that on an average day I'd think "hmm. Interesting but not wankworthy." I have, on occasion, on the following average day, then thought "oh Posh. Just no."
However, I've never actually acted on those thoughts in person with anyone. Yet (yes, she needs to put in that caveat in case PervePosh one day manages to get us into a situation where we have 2 cocks in the bum and a traffic cone in the fanangulator while sucking off a train of guys at a gloryhole).
Mostly it just tends to mean that if I am with someone who wants to get naked and sexy with me (and I them), I lose a lot of my inhibitions and end up having a spectacularly hot, sweaty, very wet time that leaves me with all the good aches and pains, him with scratches, me then with marks on my wrists where I've been restrained and on my arse where he has belted me, and a massive puddle on the bed (sofa, table, floor, car, wherever). Or it means he is a husk of a man where I've licked, sucked, stroked and milked the cum out of him over and over until he is empty and I'm full.
And then I want more.
I'm not even sure what the question was now. Did I answer?
Sounds very familiar!! D has said he braces himself for that bit of my cycle and bought a fucking machine for self preservation.. "And this is absolutely the way forward | |||
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"Yes I am a gentle trusting soul who is easily corrupted in certain hands
Seriously though, yes that's happened many times. The more aroused I get, the less inhibitions I have.
I enjoy partners, where we learn each other and then push each others boundaries. "Sure you are, Hans  | |||
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"Permanent state of unarousal. Is that a word? " No. In the dictionary there is Aroused And then there is Lillith | |||
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"I think in the moment I might have done things in the past that looking back I don't know if I should be proud or ashamed of
I suppose much depends on the situation, the person, how turned on I actually am and how confident I'm feeling.
I'm pretty sure all of us have had things we thought we wouldn't be into and then you try when aroused(because in that moment it feels right) and suddenly realise you love it and want it again.
Does this make any sense? "4 hours later and I'm back. Yes it does make perfect sense. There's something I tried recently and normally it would be a hell no but in the moment it was one of the most erotic experiences of my life. It didn't involve penetration, any bits... it was so fucking sexy though. So yep, I get it. Don't be ashamed of it. As long as you had fun that's all that matters really. | |||
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"So there's a couple (three, maybe four) of days in my cycle where I usually have the crazy raging superhorn. It's bad. Unstoppable. Takes over my entire brain and turns it into PervePosh. She's even more outrageous than regular Posh. And on those days I do tend to apologise to the forum as a whole. On those days, I can find myself aroused by almost anything, from specific people. And my brain goes off down the rabbit hole of all sorts of things that on an average day I'd think "hmm. Interesting but not wankworthy." I have, on occasion, on the following average day, then thought "oh Posh. Just no."
However, I've never actually acted on those thoughts in person with anyone. Yet (yes, she needs to put in that caveat in case PervePosh one day manages to get us into a situation where we have 2 cocks in the bum and a traffic cone in the fanangulator while sucking off a train of guys at a gloryhole).
Mostly it just tends to mean that if I am with someone who wants to get naked and sexy with me (and I them), I lose a lot of my inhibitions and end up having a spectacularly hot, sweaty, very wet time that leaves me with all the good aches and pains, him with scratches, me then with marks on my wrists where I've been restrained and on my arse where he has belted me, and a massive puddle on the bed (sofa, table, floor, car, wherever). Or it means he is a husk of a man where I've licked, sucked, stroked and milked the cum out of him over and over until he is empty and I'm full.
And then I want more.
I'm not even sure what the question was now. Did I answer?
Sounds very familiar!! D has said he braces himself for that bit of my cycle and bought a fucking machine for self preservation..
And this is absolutely the way forward "  | |||
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"Ffs Meli! I saw this came in for a wank because you never fail to disappoint with your words. Yet here we are... Lack of words, which is going to make for a very challenging but not impossible wank. Pleased with your self? "Over the moon mate. Over. The. Moon. Can't always post horny musings, you'll become desensitised to it and then wanking would be nigh on impossible. See? I'm thinking of you. | |||
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"Yes I am a gentle trusting soul who is easily corrupted in certain hands
Seriously though, yes that's happened many times. The more aroused I get, the less inhibitions I have.
I enjoy partners, where we learn each other and then push each others boundaries.
Sure you are, Hans "I really am though, I'm a cuddly teddy bear. | |||
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"Ffs Meli! I saw this came in for a wank because you never fail to disappoint with your words. Yet here we are... Lack of words, which is going to make for a very challenging but not impossible wank. Pleased with your self?
Over the moon mate. Over. The. Moon. Can't always post horny musings, you'll become desensitised to it and then wanking would be nigh on impossible.
See? I'm thinking of you." you Mels! | |||
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"After the threads I've started today... I'll just stand outside. Feeling ashamed." You should. Tut tut. | |||
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"In answer to your first question,sometimes yes, to my everlasting shame. Second question, yes post wank shame is a thing. When that lurid fantasy that flooded my mind and engorged my cock now fills me with more shame and revulsion. There was an episode of This American Life podcast about testosterone. It told of a woman that was getting testosterone injections while transitioning. She said she couldn't understand why she was suddenly getting aroused from the rumble of a car engine or watching the photocopier working." Oh the post wank shame! It's now been a couple of months since I've watched any porn... the things I'd watch though. No idea how, don't want to look too closely into why they did.:D Yes, hormonal differences have such a big impact on your libido - I'm not going to go into it too much with this reply because another post talks about it but yes. They really can. | |||
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"Yes I am a gentle trusting soul who is easily corrupted in certain hands
Seriously though, yes that's happened many times. The more aroused I get, the less inhibitions I have.
I enjoy partners, where we learn each other and then push each others boundaries.
Sure you are, Hans
I really am though, I'm a cuddly teddy bear."With a plush unicorn. Ok.  | |||
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"So there's a couple (three, maybe four) of days in my cycle where I usually have the crazy raging superhorn. It's bad. Unstoppable. Takes over my entire brain and turns it into PervePosh. She's even more outrageous than regular Posh. And on those days I do tend to apologise to the forum as a whole. On those days, I can find myself aroused by almost anything, from specific people. And my brain goes off down the rabbit hole of all sorts of things that on an average day I'd think "hmm. Interesting but not wankworthy." I have, on occasion, on the following average day, then thought "oh Posh. Just no."
However, I've never actually acted on those thoughts in person with anyone. Yet (yes, she needs to put in that caveat in case PervePosh one day manages to get us into a situation where we have 2 cocks in the bum and a traffic cone in the fanangulator while sucking off a train of guys at a gloryhole).
Mostly it just tends to mean that if I am with someone who wants to get naked and sexy with me (and I them), I lose a lot of my inhibitions and end up having a spectacularly hot, sweaty, very wet time that leaves me with all the good aches and pains, him with scratches, me then with marks on my wrists where I've been restrained and on my arse where he has belted me, and a massive puddle on the bed (sofa, table, floor, car, wherever). Or it means he is a husk of a man where I've licked, sucked, stroked and milked the cum out of him over and over until he is empty and I'm full.
And then I want more.
I'm not even sure what the question was now. Did I answer?"Yes you did. Perfectly! Well perfectly because that's exactly how I am. I've dubbed it my feral stage because that's how it feels. I sympathise with PervePosh because yep. I do that. It's like a poorly suppressed libido that ends up spilling into my fora posts. I almost said yes to the most ridiculous idea earlier and then I remembered it's not good to listen to my hormones constantly. :D I've started apologising if I'm a bit flirtier with some friends as well. I love this stage. Others... possibly less so. I feel sorry for my fiancé mainly. :D | |||
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"Yes I am a gentle trusting soul who is easily corrupted in certain hands
Seriously though, yes that's happened many times. The more aroused I get, the less inhibitions I have.
I enjoy partners, where we learn each other and then push each others boundaries.
Sure you are, Hans
I really am though, I'm a cuddly teddy bear.
With a plush unicorn. Ok. "It's a long story, but we've bonded as a consequence. | |||
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"Yes I am a gentle trusting soul who is easily corrupted in certain hands
Seriously though, yes that's happened many times. The more aroused I get, the less inhibitions I have.
I enjoy partners, where we learn each other and then push each others boundaries.
Sure you are, Hans
I really am though, I'm a cuddly teddy bear.
With a plush unicorn. Ok.
It's a long story, but we've bonded as a consequence."Worrying | |||
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"Yes I am a gentle trusting soul who is easily corrupted in certain hands
Seriously though, yes that's happened many times. The more aroused I get, the less inhibitions I have.
I enjoy partners, where we learn each other and then push each others boundaries.
Sure you are, Hans
I really am though, I'm a cuddly teddy bear.
With a plush unicorn. Ok.
It's a long story, but we've bonded as a consequence."You're a damn fiend for a furrie | |||
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"When I am spontaneously aroused either through increased endocrine levels or following a tactile coffee date, I tend to remain on a heightened level of 'arousal alertness' for some time afterwards. However, whilst it's a glorious and lovely feeling it keeps me grounded. I don't feel that my arousal is further fuelled by anything that would otherwise put me off during moments of normal clarity." Ah that's fair enough. I don't think most people walk around acting recklessly because they're feeling a bit horny. :D Arousal alertness is a nifty term, I might borrow that. Thanks! | |||
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"When I am spontaneously aroused either through increased endocrine levels or following a tactile coffee date, I tend to remain on a heightened level of 'arousal alertness' for some time afterwards. However, whilst it's a glorious and lovely feeling it keeps me grounded. I don't feel that my arousal is further fuelled by anything that would otherwise put me off during moments of normal clarity. · Ah that's fair enough. I don't think most people walk around acting recklessly because they're feeling a bit horny. :D Arousal alertness is a nifty term, I might borrow that. Thanks!" • I really need to start copyrighting© some of my blag one liners (BLAs™) that you keep pilfering from me, ex-wife. | |||
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