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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Open question...

If you don't meet people who aren't verified, how do new people get verified?

Been on and off this site for a couple of years and never get to meet anyone. Yet on standard dating sites I get two dates a week.

It gets a little frustrating being here. Anyone else have this issue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club is the usual advice. Cam is ok but as a single guy not much use.

Begs the question if you’re getting 2 dates a week from other sites why even bother with fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most make their way to a club but we know that isn't practical or desirable for some.

Others attend the arranged socials around the UK and get verified by meet that way. Good luck OP.

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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Fylde Coast


"Open question...

If you don't meet people who aren't verified, how do new people get verified?

Been on and off this site for a couple of years and never get to meet anyone. Yet on standard dating sites I get two dates a week.

It gets a little frustrating being here. Anyone else have this issue? "

Stick with what's working for you

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Organise social events are an easy way to meet people and get verified in a no-pressure environment. Most of them accept people without verifications, and even if the guest list is full, there's always drop outs so it's worth being on a reserve list too.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I work Thursday to Sunday, including nights, there are no club activities on the other days. I'd love to be able to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh the coveted veris. Personally... I don't see the point myself. I can verify I am who I say I am without someone else telling you I am, me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'd love to meet some more openly sexual people, maybe explore some more kinks and group activities. These are harder to achieve through normal dating sites. Although, not impossible lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, need a verification before I can get all the cock.

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol/ Daventry

Just to add to what others have said. This is not a dating site. Think of veris as credence attributes. Those with a “proven” track record will largely get prioritised as most on here are time-poor and looking for fun not future. Good luck.

Xx

K

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep, need a verification before I can get all the cock. "

Frustrating isn't it

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Find a group social near you.

Always a good place to meet people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just to add to what others have said. This is not a dating site. Think of veris as credence attributes. Those with a “proven” track record will largely get prioritised as most on here are time-poor and looking for fun not future. Good luck.

Xx

Thats exactly my point. But if no one meets anyone new, how do you get verified. I'm not looking for a future, I'm looking for some fun

K"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can ask in one of the chat rooms if you get talking to people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Find a group social near you.

Always a good place to meet people. "

Yep, but there are none when I'm not working lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A veri is no guarantee they’ll turn up in person. It also doesn’t guarantee all the big dick energy talk translates into action if they do.

Frankly they are a bit overrated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a Social , book a Day off work and get along to it.. definitely the Place to meet if You can't get to a club or get anything from "Browsing"..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit like trip advisor for sex freaks. I don't have many visitors (

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I occasionally throw out coffee/verification offers if I'm avoiding the housework. You're not local though OP! Some coffees even lead to rude things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a bit like trip advisor for sex freaks. I don't have many visitors ("

I find that hard to believe (said in a completely non gay way)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I occasionally throw out coffee/verification offers if I'm avoiding the housework. You're not local though OP! Some coffees even lead to rude things "

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Find a Social , book a Day off work and get along to it.. definitely the Place to meet if You can't get to a club or get anything from "Browsing".."

Unfortunately, it's my business, I can't just take time off. My weekends are always work ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find a Social , book a Day off work and get along to it.. definitely the Place to meet if You can't get to a club or get anything from "Browsing"..

Unfortunately, it's my business, I can't just take time off. My weekends are always work ?? "

Aah I sympathise..

Put up a "Meet Now" for a Social and head into Plymouth (it's a bit limited in Tav IIRC)

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol/ Daventry

Totally agree with you. We’ve had group events with only verified people and only 2 have shown up. But something is better than nothing for nervous/new people. If it’s one-to ones/both of us it’s veried every time for some peace of mind that they’ll show.

We now include 2 new ones in a group event to give them a chance. I’ve even put a post up specifically for those looking for veris for a Greedy Girl event I’m at on Thursday. Let’s see how many actually register and go?

We now report no-shows using the report function. Not many people are aware of it.

Xx K

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I happily meet non verified people for a cuppa, if I'm free

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By *ob.42Man
over a year ago

Near Yarmouth


"Yep, need a verification before I can get all the cock. "

Well, according to your profile you have a vagina and a pulse. Apparently only one is a requirement for most men here. It's up to you to work out which...

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Once upon a time, a long time ago, I used to meet non verified people for a coffee quite often. There are people who will, OP, it's about finding them. And that's blinking hard, even in a major city where there are a lot more fabbers than we have in the south west.

I think that's something that a lot of people who throw out the "clubs and socials" line don't realise. When your nearest one is several hours away anyway, and there aren't that many of them, it is harder.

Verifications aren't the be and end all though. Everyone started somewhere after all.I don't get why men don't seem to want to get together for a social and verify each other if it is that important to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once upon a time, a long time ago, I used to meet non verified people for a coffee quite often. There are people who will, OP, it's about finding them. And that's blinking hard, even in a major city where there are a lot more fabbers than we have in the south west.

I think that's something that a lot of people who throw out the "clubs and socials" line don't realise. When your nearest one is several hours away anyway, and there aren't that many of them, it is harder.

Verifications aren't the be and end all though. Everyone started somewhere after all.I don't get why men don't seem to want to get together for a social and verify each other if it is that important to them.

"

Fancy a Mocha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I work Thursday to Sunday, including nights, there are no club activities on the other days. I'd love to be able to x"

You must get some hours off on those days though, either daytime hours or nightime. You could go to a club in your time off.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Once upon a time, a long time ago, I used to meet non verified people for a coffee quite often. There are people who will, OP, it's about finding them. And that's blinking hard, even in a major city where there are a lot more fabbers than we have in the south west.

I think that's something that a lot of people who throw out the "clubs and socials" line don't realise. When your nearest one is several hours away anyway, and there aren't that many of them, it is harder.

Verifications aren't the be and end all though. Everyone started somewhere after all.I don't get why men don't seem to want to get together for a social and verify each other if it is that important to them.

Fancy a Mocha "

I actually really do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once upon a time, a long time ago, I used to meet non verified people for a coffee quite often. There are people who will, OP, it's about finding them. And that's blinking hard, even in a major city where there are a lot more fabbers than we have in the south west.

I think that's something that a lot of people who throw out the "clubs and socials" line don't realise. When your nearest one is several hours away anyway, and there aren't that many of them, it is harder.

Verifications aren't the be and end all though. Everyone started somewhere after all.I don't get why men don't seem to want to get together for a social and verify each other if it is that important to them.

Fancy a Mocha

I actually really do "

Mount up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I work Thursday to Sunday, including nights, there are no club activities on the other days. I'd love to be able to x

You must get some hours off on those days though, either daytime hours or nightime. You could go to a club in your time off."

Thanks. Unfortunately, I run a pub and am working from 8am to nearly midnight all four days. And am knackered by the end of it. Hence why I though FAB might be a good place to find fun women during the week lol

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By *oob lover400Man
over a year ago

cleckheaton

Ive been on here a yr or so and had my first meet and verification just a few weeks or 2 back...

I did have a 2nd meet with same person but she didn't do a 2nd lol ( obviously didn't wow her haha...

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