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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Friday marks the 1 year anniversary of my little brothers death. I had big plans for a wild summer break last year but he was found dead on the first day of the summer holidays and wasn't cremated until the last. It was a whole summer of mourning.

So this year I need to kick things off in true "lil bruv" style.

I'm probably going to go to one of the capitals finest "pound in a pint glass" establishments, maybe get a curry, listen to some late 90s uk garage and drink like the lyrics of a chumbawamba song.

How do you remember/mark the passing of loved ones?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

That's so sad, my condolences.

We get together for my mum's passing anniversary as it's a family member's birthday.

We meet at my sibling's house or go to a park with a cafe.

We've never done anything for my dad as he died when we were all still quite young.

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

We lost our mum 5 years ago.

She used to love us all being together for family Sunday lunches - her favourite time. We don’t do it as frequently as we did, but when we do meet up for lunch now, we always set a place for her, and always raise a toast at the end … our little act of remembrance.

R x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My condolences

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's so sad, my condolences.

We get together for my mum's passing anniversary as it's a family member's birthday.

We meet at my sibling's house or go to a park with a cafe.

We've never done anything for my dad as he died when we were all still quite young.

"

That's nice that you have a gang of people to remember and turn it into a social event x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We lost our mum 5 years ago.

She used to love us all being together for family Sunday lunches - her favourite time. We don’t do it as frequently as we did, but when we do meet up for lunch now, we always set a place for her, and always raise a toast at the end … our little act of remembrance.

R x"

That's nice, sharing a meal with loved ones x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My condolences and enjoy your remembrance

Having recently lost dad not sure what if anything we will do going forward. Esp as siblings live in different countries. I know one of my siblings visited his grave on the first father's day, birthday and wedding anniversary.

At the moment we are all dealing with it in our own way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My condolences and enjoy your remembrance

Having recently lost dad not sure what if anything we will do going forward. Esp as siblings live in different countries. I know one of my siblings visited his grave on the first father's day, birthday and wedding anniversary.

At the moment we are all dealing with it in our own way. "

Sometimes your own way is the best way. I'll be doing it on my own as I've distanced myself from the family after his death.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I couldn’t do anything for a long time. Now I have the date in my diary and stop and remember positive things about them

and make an effort to let that live through me a little

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