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Is it wrong to be specific about your requirements

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By *ACKEDandJUICY OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Do people think that because you're on a hookup site like Fabswingers, that you can't be picky about who you want to fuck? A profile will list requirements and yet you get 99% useless responses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live for that 1%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all! Some profiles can be a bit over the top either their list of requirements but we prefer a profile that says what they do and don’t want in a potential meet.

Makes it a lot easier for all involved! The vast majority of messages we get are from people that clearly haven’t read our profile or what we’re looking for though

Mr

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

People don't read and think you owe them because you messaged them. Just pay them no mind and delete the messages that don't suit you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people think that because you're on a hookup site like Fabswingers, that you can't be picky about who you want to fuck? A profile will list requirements and yet you get 99% useless responses."

Unfortunately yes some people think that and just don't bother reading profiles

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Do people think that because you're on a hookup site like Fabswingers, that you can't be picky about who you want to fuck? A profile will list requirements and yet you get 99% useless responses."
nope as long as you're not too negative about it, you are in a position where you can be picky unfortunately due to the imbalance of this site guys aren't

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Do people think that because you're on a hookup site like Fabswingers, that you can't be picky about who you want to fuck? A profile will list requirements and yet you get 99% useless responses."

You could have a profile that said not replying to messages and still get messages, those who want to read it will and those who don't won't, it'll never change I'm afraid.

Most our messages are from men, we don't meet men.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people think that because you're on a hookup site like Fabswingers, that you can't be picky about who you want to fuck? A profile will list requirements and yet you get 99% useless responses.nope as long as you're not too negative about it, you are in a position where you can be picky unfortunately due to the imbalance of this site guys aren't "

Nah, I’m still picky! Don’t lower your requirements just to get yer dick wet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have your own preferences is perfect fine

Some will read some will not

Best corse if your getting to meny that don’t read throw up the filters and do your own hunting

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"Do people think that because you're on a hookup site like Fabswingers, that you can't be picky about who you want to fuck? A profile will list requirements and yet you get 99% useless responses."

Desperate men think this, the "any hole's a goal mentality"

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford

I have to disagree with the OP. I don't like referring to fab as a hookup site. Yes its here to allow meeting of likeminded people but not only for sex. We are very social and enjoy the discussion of sex as much as the act. But we don't want to fuck everyone we chat to, happy to have a chat and talk openly.

Luna

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By *reative-mindMan
over a year ago

Exeter

As long as you're open and honest with who and what you want then you can be as picky or selective as you like.

I'd be surprised if anyone reads my profile, intact the amount of people I message with and they are then surprised I'm Irish is staggering!

Imagine some of the ones looking for a quick hook up see my pictures that I'm not a gym freak/hung like a horse or want a social first and move on. Is what it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it isn't picky. It narrows the pool down significantly, but it isn't a bad thing.

I narrowed my pool down when I chose not to meet single blokes. I guess I could be having the time of my life every day, twice a day. But it isn't for me. That doesn't make it bad. It just turns my ocean into a drained paddling pool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My list is coded. No one can work out what I want despite the facts it's written into my profile

I just delete what doesn't match.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My list is coded. No one can work out what I want despite the facts it's written into my profile

I just delete what doesn't match. "

Profile not Available

Member has chosen to hide their profile....

Is the code "chosen"

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