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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it that being gay, trans or identifying as a kettle is openly celebrated in marches, flags and other events but swingers hide away.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Because its just a lifestyle?

Bring on the pineapples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging isn’t a sexual orientation that’s why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexuality isn't a choice.

Fucking filthy strangers is.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Because it'd be like the purge

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Identifying as a kettle?

WTF?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Why is it that being gay, trans or identifying as a kettle is openly celebrated in marches, flags and other events but swingers hide away.

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oh no we don't

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Because what people do for sexual thrills is not something most people want to know about each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because what people do for sexual thrills is not something most people want to know about each other. "

Really? I often go on marches in my "I like a finger up the bum" t-shirt.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Sexuality isn't a choice.

Fucking filthy strangers is. "

This! Emphasis on the filthy strangers part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Identifying as a kettle?

WTF? "

That’s why we still have marches and flags…

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"Why is it that being gay, trans or identifying as a kettle is openly celebrated in marches, flags and other events but swingers hide away.

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Kettles are so last century. I identify as a latte maker.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Identifying as a kettle?

WTF?

That’s why we still have marches and flags…"

Yes. We still have Pride because we still need it. Evidently.

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By *hGlobbitsMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Because as a general rule, nobody wants to hear people banging on about who they've been banging.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Why is it that being gay, trans or identifying as a kettle is openly celebrated in marches, flags and other events but swingers hide away.

Kettles are so last century. I identify as a latte maker."

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"Why is it that being gay, trans or identifying as a kettle is openly celebrated in marches, flags and other events but swingers hide away.

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Kettles are so last century. I identify as a latte maker."

If I want to let off a little steam I take my kettle with me on these marches.

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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Down the Rabbit Hole and Round the Corner

Because society isn't ready for us yet!

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Why is it that being gay, trans or identifying as a kettle is openly celebrated in marches, flags and other events but swingers hide away.

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Nobody is stopping you or any swinger from being out in the open and organising a march and getting a flag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not about hiding. It's the mystique of it clandestine if you will. The build up, the mystery the chance to be free with like minded people to fulfil a fantasy.

I like being under the radar.

My private life, my sex life is private to me.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"Why is it that being gay, trans or identifying as a kettle is openly celebrated in marches, flags and other events but swingers hide away.

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National Swingers March is next weekend. Venue is a lorry layby on the A43, event starts at just after midnight. Don't forget to take your DoggingBlanket™©®

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

The only reason we hid swinging was having kids.

That was just for them really, because some people are that judgy they would do things like stopping their kids be friends with other kids etc.

Usually the ones cheating on their monogamous partners, with their kids rugby coach.

I think it ruined people's drama and they felt upstaged or something, more than any moral position.

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

If you want to march down the street with a pineapple flag in lingerie- do!

I don't understand why you want to hide your lifestyle if you feel that strong about it.

Tbf your comparisons aren't exactly equal as others have suggested sexuality/gender aren't an equal comparison.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ENM and is variants is becominf more "public" ... But imo the nuclear family is such a strong norm we are still a bit tabboo.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Why is it that being gay, trans or identifying as a kettle is openly celebrated in marches, flags and other events but swingers hide away.

Nobody is stopping you or any swinger from being out in the open and organising a march and getting a flag. "

I’m thinking what colours the flag would be…

I think that brown would be very representative, it’s what you get when you mix all the colours together

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Why is it that being gay, trans or identifying as a kettle is openly celebrated in marches, flags and other events but swingers hide away.

Nobody is stopping you or any swinger from being out in the open and organising a march and getting a flag.

I’m thinking what colours the flag would be…

I think that brown would be very representative, it’s what you get when you mix all the colours together "

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Identifying as a kettle?

WTF? "

Because you're hot and steamy, and it's fun to fill you up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Identifying as a kettle?

WTF?

Because you're hot and steamy, and it's fun to fill you up "

Or you're known for your Smeg.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"

I’m thinking what colours the flag would be…

I think that brown would be very representative, it’s what you get when you mix all the colours together "

Plus it's what you get when you don't prepare properly for anal

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

NG 21

We wanted a pineapple at the weekend for cocktails etc. Off I dutifully trotted to do the shopping, dropped a pineapple in the trolley along with the rest. Thaught nothing of it till I noticed not once but twice, 2 other ladies giving me the knowing look and smile. Told hubby when I got back who promptly fell about laughing. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We wanted a pineapple at the weekend for cocktails etc. Off I dutifully trotted to do the shopping, dropped a pineapple in the trolley along with the rest. Thaught nothing of it till I noticed not once but twice, 2 other ladies giving me the knowing look and smile. Told hubby when I got back who promptly fell about laughing. Xx"

... And then you fucked them.....!

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Maybe because people see sexaul orientation as just something innate to the individuals personally but they relate swinging more with actual sexual activity than innate sexuallity. Because everyone has sexual orientation but not everyone expresses their sexual desires like swingers do or as freely as we do. Plus people are very aware of the risks in terms of employment and the law of openingly being critical of others sexual orientation. That's not a defence, I think we all wish to have less stigma around our life choices and desires.

However swinging is finding its self more and more explored in the media these days and attitudes are changing slowly. It's not a great secret we're swingers and we've not encountered anyone having a problem with it. Generally people want to know more and have brought people from curiosity into the lifestyle before.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I don't get why some people feel the need to tell everyone else about their sex life.

Sexual orientation isn't the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get why some people feel the need to tell everyone else about their sex life.

Sexual orientation isn't the same.

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What she said.

(Also I don't actually care about knowing people's gender identity/sexual orientation/level of kink)

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

NG 21


"We wanted a pineapple at the weekend for cocktails etc. Off I dutifully trotted to do the shopping, dropped a pineapple in the trolley along with the rest. Thaught nothing of it till I noticed not once but twice, 2 other ladies giving me the knowing look and smile. Told hubby when I got back who promptly fell about laughing. Xx

... And then you fucked them.....! "

Lol. Certainly would of one of them. But sadly not. Xx

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