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By *asty tatsy OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Do you feel to leave or take a break, when the convos dry up. When you don’t catch anyone’s attention or is it simply you feel like you haven’t got the energy. This isn’t a form of people to flood my inbox merely to see if it’s the break you need or to stay and get your mojo back

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I just popped back after a month of not logging in…I’ll be going again shortly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take Fab breaks frequently, from a few days to a few months.

Some people have unfriended me by the time I return, which makes me sad

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By *asty tatsy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"I just popped back after a month of not logging in…I’ll be going again shortly "

What is it that makes you take your breaks

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Brum

Only you can answer that.

It sounds like a shitty cliched response but ‘when the fun stops stop’ is a good rule of thumb

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By *anderingArtistMan
over a year ago

an abstract world

I don't have any expectations from the site so it doesn't bother me if there's no conversations. I do just like using the forums and if anything else happens then happy days.

I take a break if I run out of energy. I feel like I've got a pot of socialising energy and when the well runs dry it's time to retreat and recharge.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Holibobs

When real life is at the forefront of my attention, 4 days to go till hollibobs

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By *asty tatsy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"I take Fab breaks frequently, from a few days to a few months.

Some people have unfriended me by the time I return, which makes me sad "

Same question berks what’s the reason you take breaks, but of course only share if it’a something you don’t mind in sharing

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By *hitney NeilWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in a marmite jar near you.

I take lots of breaks

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

The first time we took an extended break it was because we were busy getting to know someone. The second time, we were made to feel unwelcome. Now we just pop in and out whenever we’re bored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take Fab breaks frequently, from a few days to a few months.

Some people have unfriended me by the time I return, which makes me sad "

I wouldn’t unfriend you.. your lovely to chat to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a couple of months break from the site just recently.

We seemed to be just getting nowhere with it.

Anyway, the break did us good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take Fab breaks frequently, from a few days to a few months.

Some people have unfriended me by the time I return, which makes me sad

Same question berks what’s the reason you take breaks, but of course only share if it’a something you don’t mind in sharing "

The novelty wears off, or I’ve got better things to do. The football season starts again soon, and I have a nice holiday, so shiny new things take precedence, until I get the urge again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never left site in a lot years but have had times of not logging in for weeks or months

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Just a balance between real life and social online then theirs no need to take a break

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito


"I just popped back after a month of not logging in…I’ll be going again shortly

What is it that makes you take your breaks "

The shit messages…and creepy weirdo’s but mostly just because life outside of here is more interesting

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By *asty tatsy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Only you can answer that.

It sounds like a shitty cliched response but ‘when the fun stops stop’ is a good rule of thumb "

This is a good rule to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think like any kinda social media...fab can be kinda addictive.

And it does some people good to take a break. I've never went a prolonged amount of time away...but few days..upto a week has happened fairly regularly.

For me its more about being disciplined and doing productive stuff...rather than mindless scrolling that this place can lend itself too.

The people on here who matter to me have other ways to contact me

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

I take a couple of days, weeks or months break from fab, usually because I've got something going on in my life, or because it just gets to me on here and I need time away from fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take Fab breaks frequently, from a few days to a few months.

Some people have unfriended me by the time I return, which makes me sad

Same question berks what’s the reason you take breaks, but of course only share if it’a something you don’t mind in sharing

The novelty wears off, or I’ve got better things to do. The football season starts again soon, and I have a nice holiday, so shiny new things take precedence, until I get the urge again. "

Faf before you go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When more people piss me off than turn me on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When more people piss me off than turn me on."

So, in about 2-3 weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take Fab breaks frequently, from a few days to a few months.

Some people have unfriended me by the time I return, which makes me sad "

*goes to friend you*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We take breaks now and again. Sometimes we're just not feeling it. Sometimes we're satisfied enough with the most recent meet we had . Sometimes we have things going on IRL that takes priority.

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

Any number of reasons. When I'm getting annoyed at people I don't know. When it becomes mindless or boring. When I have other things that need my focus

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I find I usually have to roam a little from time to time.

When things start to feel repetitive usually.

Or something else has grabbed my attention.

Not sure there's a rhyme or reason. I can make something up if you want me to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It usually takes me at least 6 months to even become mildly curious again.

There's so much more going on in the real world for a single person.

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By *asty tatsy OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"When more people piss me off than turn me on.

So, in about 2-3 weeks"

See you in 6 months then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh i should have scanned instead of creating a new thread

I'm debating UNLOS. I think I might be done.

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