FabSwingers.com forum: Signs the man/ woman you’re talking to is cheating

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

They ask you to add them on *Snapchat*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't that a sign they're under 25?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately can’t say my flag system as that could potentially give people away around it

But yes I have things I look for / ask for

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Isn't that a sign they're under 25? "
or cheating!

You actually listen to me though

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Always phones me on the work phone and when he's in the van or at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always phones me on the work phone and when he's in the van or at work

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haha thats me only time i ring anyone is in the van on the way to or from a job lol. But im single.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Can only chat /meet at certain times ie in the day.

Miss

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Do you mean on here or body language/signs while meeting face to face?

Because I’d say wedding ring (true story).

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"Can only chat /meet at certain times ie in the day.

Miss "

Also goes silent after 5pm and on weekends

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Can only chat /meet at certain times ie in the day.

Miss "

I can only chat/meet at certain times I'm a lone parent not a cheat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Disappearing messages on WhatsApp

Who even does that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're talking to me

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"Disappearing messages on WhatsApp

Who even does that"

Oh yeah the old delete messages Instantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's complicated"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’ve got pictures of their partner and kids all over their house.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Can only chat /meet at certain times ie in the day.

Miss

I can only chat/meet at certain times I'm a lone parent not a cheat "

You state you only meet at night ,I mean that many attached people can only do daytime meets .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their grandparents die a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Their grandparents die a lot "

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

They tell you they're married and on here without their partner's knowledge.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"Their grandparents die a lot "

Also true story.

I’m a magnet, apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They might avoid this thread

Kidding, of course lol

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

They only take photos in the car or bathroom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more vocal they are about how despicable cheaters are in the forums (to put themselves on a pedestal above them, obvs), then the more likely they are to be projecting their own infidelity.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I just assume they all are. That way I can be mildly surprised if they aren’t.

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By *urvelover87Man
over a year ago

London

If a very angry guy shows up at your house shouting "where is that whore?" while you were having some...bonding time.

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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

"I just assume they all are. That way I can be mildly surprised if they aren’t."

Surprise

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"I just assume they all are. That way I can be mildly surprised if they aren’t.

Surprise"

Waitaminute…didn’t you ask me for Snapchat before

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

They tell you

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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

"I just assume they all are. That way I can be mildly surprised if they aren’t.

Surprise

Waitaminute…didn’t you ask me for Snapchat before

Nope... too old for that, as my youngest would love to tell me.

Damn, let that bit slip... must be a cheat

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Can't do night time meets.

Have very rigid availability slots which tend to be quite short.

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

You can often tell by looking at the house behind them in their photos.

Especially if the dumb fucks have wedding and baby photos right behind them (it happens more often than it should).

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Bathroom selfies are usually very telling.

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By *egDaySkipperMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"You can often tell by looking at the house behind them in their photos.

Especially if the dumb fucks have wedding and baby photos right behind them (it happens more often than it should)."

I have a big figurine of Geralt fighting a Griffin in my bedroom. Don't think there's a bigger single sign

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spunk in 60 seconds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to the women on here, when you can't accommodate

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"According to the women on here, when you can't accommodate

Notallwomen

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

When you can’t accommodate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"According to the women on here, when you can't accommodate

Notallwomen

Sorry, according to *some* women on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you can’t accommodate."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I’m ticking a lot of boxes here

#mumwithkidathome

#dogstolookafter

#toooldtobeoutthatlate

#actuallyprefersleepinginmyownbed

#donthavetojustifymyselftorandomsaddosonline

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By *parklyNipsWoman
over a year ago

Denbighshire

I can't as I have nosey neighbours, I have a lodger and my adult child sometimes

I am definitely single

and that way it's staying for now anyway

I'm enjoying my single life too much

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Won’t do overnights.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"Won’t do overnights. "

That's a difficult one as some singles do just want to fuck, not stay overnight

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Won’t do overnights.

That's a difficult one as some singles do just want to fuck, not stay overnight "

But when they want to be in and out of the door within five minutes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Won’t do overnights.

That's a difficult one as some singles do just want to fuck, not stay overnight "

No spooning after? Not worth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can only meet on every other Tuesday between 1pm and 2pm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgets what name they gave you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Forgets what name they gave you. "

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

They suddenly can't accommodate and want a blow job in an alley somewhere along the Embankment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Won’t do overnights. "

If you snore, you're going home! I'm old, I need my sleep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^ she knows

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By *iss MaverickWoman
over a year ago

Porthcawl

WhatsApp messages don’t get delivered in the evening.

They don’t have signal..

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By *egDaySkipperMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"WhatsApp messages don’t get delivered in the evening.

They don’t have signal.. "

Last time you sent me a WhatsApp message was 4 years ago! Not my fault

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

When his wife doesn't message you before hand with a good luck message!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They suddenly can't accommodate and want a blow job in an alley somewhere along the Embankment. "

Or in a weatherspoons toilet

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Turkey on there toe nails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turkey on there toe nails"

What??

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

"Turkey on there toe nails

What??"
its similar to chicken on them only bigger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turkey on there toe nails

What??its similar to chicken on them only bigger"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I’m ticking a lot of boxes here

#mumwithkidathome

#dogstolookafter

#toooldtobeoutthatlate

#actuallyprefersleepinginmyownbed

#donthavetojustifymyselftorandomsaddosonline

Well said.

Fab isnt life for some of us and I for one wouldn't sacrifice time with my family for a shag!

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"They suddenly can't accommodate and want a blow job in an alley somewhere along the Embankment. "

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"According to the women on here, when you can't accommodate

No it's the other way around ... as they 'can accommodate'... in their car/work van, outdoors, at a hotel, at yours...

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"Won’t do overnights.

That's a difficult one as some singles do just want to fuck, not stay overnight

But when they want to be in and out of the door within five minutes..."

Yeah that would count, and scrub every trace of you off him

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"Disappearing messages on WhatsApp

Who even does that"

Er… I do lol! Yep, a 1hr delete timer and a system of codes!

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

When the first thing she says when arriving at the car is "'I've just snuck out of my in-laws house and got to be back within an hour"

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

When her vagina smells of wedding cake

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By *lickingFingersMan
over a year ago

Wilts

When she gets a call from him during the act.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The word "discreet" on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Phone faced down the entire time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Phone faced down the entire time"

I used to do that while I was dating someone and they got enraged.

The fact was the back side of the phone was curved and the front screen side was flat and it was so much more satisfying to rest it screen down on a surface.

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan
over a year ago

SPALDING

"They suddenly can't accommodate and want a blow job in an alley somewhere along the Embankment.

Or in a weatherspoons toilet

You mean people want to play in the toilets? That's a no from me. Just seems disgusting for my likings

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan
over a year ago

SPALDING

"When she gets a call from him during the act. "

Been there, married older lady and I couldn't help myself and absolutely went for it. She found it very difficult to talk lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you put the wrong boxers back on

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

When they accuse you of what they're doing. It's more than likely if they are accusing you, then its projection.

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